There is a trending Video of a woman who was deported with her three kids from Germany and some people are insisting that because she had the kids in Germany,she cannot be deported....says who?
First of all,two of the three kids were born in Italy and only one was born in Germany...None of her three Children are legally Germans!
The Lady reportedly had Italian Residency on Humanitarian grounds that expired,it can be renewed if one has been living in the Country of the permit but she was living in Germany,so the requirement was not met...
That woman was not aware of her rights living in another Country and she was not properly documented and evidence says she was collecting tax payers money and sending back to Nigeria.....
What I am trying to say is that this woman's case has just proved that most Nigerians are living abroad thinking that once they get pregnant and deliver in the Country they are in then they are covered...No you are not!...You need proper documentation and that you keep to certain rules as foreigner!!!
What Country are you in outside Nigeria and what are the steps for a Nigeria to take to get their papers to live there legally?or to get proper documentation aside from birthing every year thinking they are covered.....
This post might help someone,somewhere.........................
I hope i made sense?
Sdk you make sense well well.
ReplyDeleteThe craze to enter "abroad" don dey
turn to emergency madness.
Naija girls ha go amutakwanu ihe?
Ajuju ajuo.
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I have a green card in the US that I got from:
Deleteattending college here on F1 visa, got a job prior to graduation and filed for OPT 1 year work permit.
filed OPT extension for another 18 months or so due to STEM background.
work finally filed H1B visa which I used for 3 years.
transferred to another job using H1B transfer.
the new job filed LCA, i140, i485 (adjustment of status) - took about two years to get my greencard using EB3.
there is too much suffering abroad and I told my God that if he's not ready for me to get my greencard in a legal way then I would rather go back to Nigeria than marry for papers. I thank God he honored me. It's possible to get your residency through legal means and I encourage it.
I live in the UK, if you like naturalise yourself and have British passport, if you commit some offences or they realised you got it through fraud, they will collect it back and deport you if the offence is horrible hence they attach a letter saying it belongs to the secretary of state bla bla bla. They're millions of people living abroad with no knowledge of how the immigration works that's why you have the citizens advise bureau where you can go to for free advice and they can even get you a free immigration case worker.
DeleteVery useful SDK
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ReplyDelete1 child was born in Itaky, 2nd in Switzerland and the 3rd in Germany that's what I heard from the trending videos online. I also heard that she claimed tm3 fathers for the 3kids. Later said they had problems with the father of the kids....de torri long
DeleteHmmn. Nice post. Let our abroadians come and give us gist so we know what to do if this buhari 4x4 no favor us.
ReplyDeleteI think US and Canada give the kids citizenship y birth. Some others, the kids have to have lived there minimum 5 years after birth before applying for citizenship.
Before applying for residence permit. For UK I think it’s 7yrs now. But if one parent is British then the kids are automatically British by birth. Then the other non-British or Non-EU parent can be granted residency via the 10yrs family life route based on the fact that he or she is a single parent with sole or shared parental responsibility. The other route is via marriage to a British citizen but this application can only be done in your country of origin except in exceptional cases. Also marriage to an EU citizen can occur and application can be done in UK. There are other routes like EU dependent routes or carer routes for family adults who are seriously sick. But each case is based on individual circumstances and proper documentation. So see a good lawyer and get advise......xxbarbiexx
DeleteIs that what happened? Father Lord. I would like to relocate to USA,UK,or Canada but legally. Any tip?
ReplyDeleteIT(programming, UX design, Software architecture ) is full demand and there are jobs around Europe that will take care of your permits if you are good. There are so many tutorials online if you are interested in something like that.
DeleteJust a tip
Forget Uk, except you marry a british citizen OR som1 with the right to live legally in the uk, there is no way.
DeleteA lot of people used student visa back then but that has been blocked. After studying now and paying the staggering fees, you go back to your country.
A friend of mine came to the uk with visitor's visa 2 years ago, the suffering no be here. She keeps her money with me, to register with the NHS was war, somebody had to rent a room for her, she can't get a decent job. Always scared even mere seeing the police and they are minding their business.
It is now very tight and all the avenues people used to use to file then have been blocked. Some still use children and that child must been born in the uk, never been out and I think was they are or 10 years, they msy be eligible for citizenship but that is not automatic.
Even some hospitals will request your passport to carry out any surgery or treatment on you, they want to know if you are entitled to such treatment.
@Rob,I'm a nurse by profession. Any tip for nurses? Baba God pick up my call this year.
DeleteYou are right Rob but you know you can’t just stand up and go. On a normal day, most Nigerians are not eligible to migrate anyway. I don’t know about Canada but in USA, you can only be legal by marriage or investment. How many people have $500k for investment to become legal anyway?
DeleteYou can’t just export your skill and for you to enter and study, you need student visa or become documented first which we all know is a long process in USA. HB1 visa is easy but how many Nigerians qualify when our education is poor.
If you are so desperate, my advise is to find love on the internet. It’s not a bad thing to do if you will eventually love the person and oyibo is a hustler like you. You are richer than them sometimes so don’t think you are escaping poverty by marrying oyibo. You are only marrying into a good system.
Whatever you do sha, don’t travel to USA without having people that will back you up first. Many immigrants get raped, robbed, cheated and you won’t be able to do anything because of fear of being deported. Just know that one at the back of your mind.
Nurses are in high demand in the UK, USA and Canada
DeleteYes they are accepting nurses and doctors in the uk. I will check out some websites and post the links here. But the process is you must pass the English language test, pass all your nursing registration exams and get registered, then apply for a job in the uk. Get the job and the employers will act as your sponsor to the UK. Xxbarbiexx
DeleteNurse why not write the international exam and relocate to Dubin. She has moved to United state now after working in Dublin for a few years. She's a smart lady.
DeleteShe didn't even wait for the husband in Spain then to come pick her. She wrote exams and found her way to Dublin. Now she has moved to the US with her family. Most of her friends did the same.
Princess, nurses will have better opportunities in Canada than UK
DeleteGoogle express entry Canada. You will see all the info you need. It’s the best way in. Nurses are highly welcome in Canada. Good luck
DeletePlease experts get in here.
DeleteMy mum got her residence permit just a month after she passed away. But before then she had already started filing for me. Does it mean that now she is dead it is dead too or can my brother over there continue with the filing?
I hope I made sense.
Nurse, you have got prospects but you need to read and pass the exams.
DeleteAnonymous 16:39, what country was your mum in? Chances are very slim, dont want to spoil your mood and are you over 16years and what strong ties do you have with your bro, when last where you guys together and have you ever lived together with proof of pictures and did your mum claim you don't have anyone to stay with in Nigeria and is your brother old enough to cater for you if you relocate?
DeleteI live in the UK and there are so many many questions the Home Office will ask, UK is one of the toughest places to live in.
If your bro lives in the UK he can speak to the solicitor who was working on your mum's case to see if they can be of help.
It's a tough one though especially if ure over 16.
Wishing you all the best.
@ 16.39, which country? Is the application with them already? Has it been filed? In the uk, in cases of death they are often very lenient. If your mum has nothing unfavourable in her record and she already sent in your application before her death with the necessary evidence, you may get it.
DeleteNo she was in the US. Yes we have strong ties with my brother and there are evidences we are related. I am over 16yrs though. Lol
DeleteThank you anon 17:51 and 19:10. I really appreciate.
@Anon 19:44. Go to Uscis.gov and read up on the I-130 petition for alien relative. I believe your mum's petition for you will still be granted. You need to notify uscis of her death. I believe that issue is addressed on the (FAQ) on the page.
DeleteIf its US,then your blood relative that's a US citizen can continue with the application.You would have no problems at all
DeleteNice post. I'll be reading comments.
ReplyDeleteThere's nothing like being in a foreign company legally.
ReplyDeleteKai, u will move with grace. You will see police and greet.
You will work.
You will send invite and it will be granted 😁😁
Frankly, I'd rather remain in Nigeria jeje than to be an illegal in a foreign country
And who told you about the sending out invite and it being granted and the moving with grace: You sound like a pained person.
DeleteThere are so many British people "whites" that do not even old a British Passport because some of them don't see the need for it. Which one is you will see Police and greet, why talk like an illiterate 😏😏😏.
Eka Joy, better stay in your Nigeria my dear 🙄😏🤷🏾
In Sweden there are a few ways to get residency..
ReplyDelete1. Job
If you get a work permit(usually 2 years at a time) for a period of 4 years over the period of 7 years, you are eligible for a permanent stay. After around 2-3 years of permanency, you can apply for a passport. The only issue with work is that you have to make sure your employer pays all the needed insurance, that you earn at the least 13,000 SEK every month and you take out enough holidays. Many people have been deported for missing a few of these requirements(immigration will ask you to show all your payslips every time you want to renew).
2. Family ties
If you are together with someone who has a permanent residence or Swedish citizenship, you can get also get a permit. You get 2 years first and after that you can apply for a permanent residence. The requirements are that you will live in the same house, your partner has a source of income and your apartment/house meets certain conditions.
3. Born pikin for a Swedish citizen
If you have been deported sef they can reconsider if you and your partner are expecting a child. They have to consider the best for the child and most times they will allow give a permit so you can be with your child. Except you have a criminal record or something serious against you.
Those are some of the ways I know you can get a permit in Sweden.
Mr rob tell me about opportunities for nurses in Sweden or you can drop your email address with SDK lemme contact you. Thank you.
DeleteVery correct Ron,even though those Swedish immigration people can waste time in making decisions,you would wait for months to some cases years,even when your partner meets all requirements.its tough
DeleteVery correct Ron,even though those Swedish immigration people can waste time in making decisions,you would wait for months to some cases years,even when your partner meets all requirements.its tough
DeleteVery correct Ron,even though those Swedish immigration people can waste time in making decisions,you would wait for months to some cases years,even when your partner meets all requirements.its tough
DeleteUK is your best bet at the moment, but you should be prepared to study hard to pass all exams...xxbarbiexx
DeleteEdo/Benín people always try to abuse the system every where they reside within the EU. Yet they lack true understanding of how the system works. I’m sure she has failed asylum cases in Switzerland and Germany. I have lived in Europe for over 20 years(Sweden) went to University here and I contribute to the economy even with children. It has not been easy but i work hard to earn a living legally here, why can’t they do the same. When prostitution fails them they start breeding like rabbits.
ReplyDeletePlease please, don't start with tribalism on this post. Nigerians across board (perhaps with the exception of the Northerners) are EQUALLY guilty of abusing immigration systems.
DeleteI came to UK in year 2006 ...Gave birth and I had to wait until my child is 10yrs before I got my residence card...The journey was so difficult but in all I give God the glory
ReplyDeleteThank you Stella for this post.
ReplyDeleteI watched the story yesterday and I was gobsmacked.
Who does she want to sue?
Having children born in Europe doesn't automatically make them citizens.
She's trying to buy public view with the children, forgetting that she has broken immigration rules.
For eveye one claiming asylum, you get deported to your home country irrespective of the country you came in through.
I live in Canada, most Nigerians claiming asylum came in through the USA, most of them get rejected after a period of time and are sent back to Nigeria.
Please relocate thee legal way and stop disgracing Nigerians, whether you like it or not, the public is watching, and it makes it harder for the citizens who want to come in the right way
It is not just the public that is watching, the system is watching too.
DeleteThey see everything... Once your name and your passport number and social security number enters the system, they will find you and do whatever they want with you.
Nobody can ever outsmart the system. These Caucasian know how hard they labor and toil to build a functional system.
Nigerians are very smart but the system is smarter and way ahead of them.
Stella biko tell them, Most times Nigerians feel they are being smart but they are further destroying the reputation of the country. Last year alone over 29,000 Nigerians overstayed their US visa. Now they are rejecting everyone at the embassy even those who genuinely need to visit for important issues. Now they have stopped drop box. Plus Marley's outburst and all who support him. WHo suffers it?? All of us Nigerians. Now every Nigerian is viewed as a fraud and dishonest person because of the poor decisions of some.
ReplyDeleteNO BE YOUR FAULT, I GUESS YOU ARE ABROAD, THE REASON Y THRY OVERSTAY IS BEACAUSE THERE IS NO COUNTRY TO COME BACK
DeleteTobie is right and you know it. You don't have to be abroad to know fraud is fraud and crime is crime. By the time they completely wreck the Nigerian reputation and getting visa becomes more difficult than going through a camel's eye, na everyone go suffer am so let them continue and continue to support them. Rme.
Deleteanonymous you are a goat. i guess you are one of those illegals in US. we that are in the country should now go and kill ourselves abi. dont worry, they will be catching you ppl one by one and be deporting y'all with only your boxers. stay in your country and work smart, there are so many ppl doing legal business in Nigeria and cleaning out.
DeleteThat was also the reason why people started special centers, because even with their good results they couldn't gain admission. There's always a reason but two wrongs never make a right. guess what now? Special centers everywhere. Our graduates are half baked. Unqualified students are our future medical doctors. Healthcare is much worse than it ever was. Yahoo on the rise. All from let us outsmart the system. No one is against migration but migrate legally. The actions of a few puts everyone at risk. Now you get a job and there's heavy background check just because you are NIGERIAN.
DeleteI was also denied but, believe you me i didnt plan on returning without my green card.
DeleteAm living in the U.K. On tier 4 PBS route and the and to remain here costs me and my family of two kids about 60k GBP per year to remain
ReplyDeleteCan you put us through how you remained in the uk.Im on tier4 as well
DeleteIs Tier 4 not student visa? Tier 1 is the 60k own I guess.
DeleteTier 1 (Graduate Entrepreneur)
A new category comprised of those wishing to develop a business idea immediately upon graduating, and who have been identified by UK universities as having developed world-class innovative or entrepreneurial skills, but who are not at the time of their graduation ( and, presumably at the time of the expiry of their leave to remain as a Tier 4 (General Student ) in a position to meet the full requirements of the Tier 1 (Entrepreneur) route. Additionally from 6 April 2012 graduates from outside the European Area who have studied in UK educational institutions and who have been identified by their college as having ''world class innovative ideas'' are entitled to switch from Tier 4 into Tier 1.
Since ure in the UK, go on the website to read. I know it can be very difficult and u need someone who's done it to see you thru. Anonymous 15:30, if you can help Anonymous 18:09 out pls do
Even though my kids were born here
ReplyDeleteGiving birth in Italy doesn’t grant your. Hold automatic citizenship. The child has the same stay permit as the parents, ie temporary or permanent resident permit. He/she becomes a citizen only if either parent is a citizen or if he chooses Italy as his country of origin based on birthplace when he reaches the legal age.
ReplyDeleteIt's an obsession. And sorry to say most of push and fuss comes from the women....I've seen worse cases
ReplyDeleteEnter your comment...I enter Yankee 2013 via Mexico boarder though illegal runz.i quickly open a dating site after a Friend allow me to chill in his place then in Maryland.i met a matured woman who I dated.i happened to be one brilliant dude so I helped her out on data analysis and any mathematical related Jobs.we got married and I got a Green card .by 2018 ending,i got my blue palli.it was easy for me doesn't mean it works for others.my wife knew about it cos we planned the whole tin from the onset.
ReplyDeleteMexico border parole is becoming an issue with the Oga at the top in USA. It’s not even funny and it means you have no record of entry. 100s of thousands if not millions of kokoye are in USA undocumented and it’s hard to get documented now through that process. If you are not documented in USA, you will slave all your life! Just forget about American dream.
DeleteFake story.If you cross the border to enter Us illegaly.you would never have papers thats the law.if you like marry citizen they still wouldn't give you.The only way that can work is when you first entered legally then marriage to a citizen can then make you legal.You think US is europe.stop spreading falsehood.
DeleteThis days that the oyibos are pooing in their mouth is it not better for them to stay in their country and hawks pure or even sales girls than that nonsense in foreign lands
ReplyDeleteThis is a very good post Stella, and I hope people will be enlightened here and gained some ideas.
ReplyDeleteThis is the worse time in the history of immigrants in Europe (I only know little about the the United States)
Please, if you are coming to any country in Europe with visitor or tourist or even business visa, have it in the back of your mind that if you over stay your time and your visa expires, you might never be able to get residential permit...
All those also already living in Europe without legal papers please, stop moving to other countries to seek for asylum. They hardly grant asylum too Nigerians.
And those buying father and mother for their kids, just so their kids can have papers, stop it already, it will come back to bite y'all and even your kids in the nearest future.
Some people abandoned their papers and went to another European country and they are now stranded in that country because, everything is on the system. You can only cheat the system but for a while.
There are people that could actually do things legally without having to bypass the proper system, but, they have refused to have sense.
Those coming from Nigeria with the hope to come find someone to marry for papers, please be very careful because most of the people here (both blacks and Caucasians) can see through your vulnerability and the wicked ones can use it against you.
Some wicked ones have turned some girls to sex slave all because of papers.
If you are a student, you can apply for residential permit and if grace is on your side with all the proper documents, they will grant you one.
Following backyard to enter into the system usually have side effects and those effects are not usually a favorable one.
If you are in a relationship with someone in the abroad, do not be desperate, they might use it against you when the going gets tough.
May God grant all our good wishes.
Someone I know has spent over 10 grand on this arrangee still no way forward, there is no guarantee when you are in a country illegally.
DeleteI don't know about other countries, but one of the worst things that can happen to a person is to be in the UK illegally, you will see all your potentials wasting away, forever at the mercy of others, restricted and limited in a lot of ways, and even worse not being able to leave the country and see your loved ones for years. I don't recommend it to anyone. Life as a foreigner is tough enough not to add being an illegal one.
ReplyDeleteYou can use study visa to go to the UK and then change to another tier after school, if you have 50K pounds in your account to claim entrepreneurship. That was what my friend did. She borrowed money from family and friends and kept in her account. She just got her indefinite leave to remain after 54 years, she will be applying for red passport in a year's time.
ReplyDeleteHow many years or there's a mistake there?54 years?
DeleteJesus!
I came to the UK in 2004 to stay, though I earlier had my baby 2001 and went back to Nigeria. Only the baby I had in 2008 has recently been given her British Passport. We are still waiting for her elder sister's passport.Why? because I took her out of the UK after birth and myself not a resident at that time(I was on a visitors visa)we have gone through a lot.We were all eventually given limited leave to remain in 2015. UK is tougher now on migrants generally,not only Nigerians, but with a good lawyer, all I know is that they would normally not deport anyone with a child and a clean record(please correct me if I am wrong)
ReplyDeleteYour last paragraph though "incorrect my dear". The child you had in 2001 should have been issued a visa since you came back to the UK in 2004 which means she has lived in the UK for over 10years.
DeleteWishing you all the best.
What visa do you hold Anonymous 16:17, your first child will be granted leave to remain once she's 10 which she is already and since the home office does not expect you to seperate the children hopefully God will hear your prayers.
DeleteIf ure not legal in the UK now, you can file through your British child, adding all your first child's school documents etc from the UK..
Thanks guys.We now have limited leave which has been renewed recently. Just waiting for her passport as we have applied again since she is still under 18.
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ReplyDeleteI’m sure you’ll find someone. I’m based in the US and I’m looking for someone who’s visiting temporarily and wants to work few months as a nanny
DeleteI reside in Buenos Aires in Argentina.it is very easy here.you get your P.R In less than two years and if you marry their woman,you gat yor Argentina passport in short time.got there 2016 and my passport is ready now.with their passport,i hv access to several countries.tnx sdk for this.
ReplyDeleteSo do you speak Spanish? And what do you do there?
DeleteI must be the only one that is not abroad crazy in this country. Apart from maybe site seeing and holidaying, nothing about living abroad, especially US and the UK excites me.
ReplyDeleteThere are some people like that. I know quite a number.
DeleteAnon 17:33 hey soul sis/bro
DeleteMy Own is that if you are a woman seeking to marry a Nigerian man abroad, my sister ASK QUESTIONS to void stories that touch.
ReplyDeleteWhere he is in Europe, make sure you ask him /know how he got into Europe. If he was born there, you are safe. If he has his residency legally and very single, you are safe. If he has his papers but is divorced and you are 100% sure, you are also safe. If he has kids with another woman but not with her, and you are also sure, you are safe.
I say all these things because I have seen a lot of Nigerian women in Europe in very miserable marriages and regretting why and how they got deceived into marriage, or perhaps regretting why they never asked the important questions. Forget all the shakara that we show off on IG, life is damn difficult here for a black man, legally or illegally.. so much bills to pay and no savings. The last thing you want to do is to be with a wo/man who would compound your life for you.
If he is coming from Italy, Germany, UK or anywhere in Europe and asking for your hand in marriage, don’t get carried away – ASK THOSE QUESTIONS and mean it. Otherwise you will regret it when you find out the truth.
There is always a price to pay if you come abroad illegally.
If you are married in Nigeria and your husband decides to relocate to Europe to hustle on a visitor visa, please don’t agree.If you do, then prepare to be alone for another 10 yrs or more before you ever see him. And also be prepared to accept another woman in his life – Man must hustle.
If you are coming abroad as a student and plan o staying back, don’t make promises to whoever you are dating in Nigeria except you are coming back after graduation – most don’t come back anyways as there are no jobs in Nigeria. So while there as student, work very hard,get good grades and apply for scholarships for your masters and if possible Phd.It wil help you especially if you are in countries like Finland and Iceland. Forget UK, they have nothing to offer you.
Most of you flock there because they speak English and you have families there. Go to Scandinavia, Netherland, Germany, Belgiun and study there, and learn their language. Most schools are free there. Besides, you are a grown adult ..you can live anywhere. And you can find a decent man abroad too – he doesn’t have to come from Nigeria and he doesn’t have to be Kayode or Emeka. Fight for your life you’ve always wanted to live.
Avoid coming abroad illegally but if you happen to find yourself here and you are illegal, accept the reality and redirect your priorities.Marry who you fall in love with ,it doesn’t matter where she comes from. Love is love. You don’t expect to lie to a wo/man to marry the for papers,raise a family and hope to come back home to marry Nkechi. It will backfire on you.
As you are leaving naija for a new life in obodo oyibo, be honest to yourself and to whoever you are making promises to in Nigeria. It’s a difficult world out here for a black immigrant and WORSE if you are ILLEGAL.
Wow. This is quite a read!
DeleteThank you so much.
DeleteThank you so much, I needed this. I came to USA not too long and I don't plan to go back as this is my 2nd time coming here and nothing dey happen for Naija. I am married but I can't call that marriage as I have miserable for 8 years now. We have no child and himself and family are shit. I have found love here. Real love. I have never been treated this good by any man and I plan to keep it that way. Is there a way I can to divorce that wicked scum of a man and marry my love here? He is an American and he wants to marry me too. I just have to divorce that wicked soul and move on. I won't give up on love and happiness for anything else.
DeleteThank you Rockstar.
DeleteYour write up is easier to understand.
Thanks once again
Wow. Thanks for this insight
DeleteAnon 22:33 you can do your divorce right here in america,it doesn't matter if you married in naija,talk to a lawyer
DeleteRock 🌟 thanks for this clarification
DeleteT.R.U.T.H. nothing but the truth! 18years leaving abroad.
DeleteAunty Stella, this topic is long overdue to be treated. I remembered writing in the comment section for directions of moving from one EU country to another years ago, hmmm, but thank Baba God, He's done it in His own way.
Living abroad no be beans o and I even have families living here before I came here talkless of those who came il-legally. May God see you through and send helpers and give you your heart desires.
please is honorary citizen transferable? my father was given an honorary citizen before he died, I don't know if presenting the certificate can help any of his kids
ReplyDeleteGo and hustle like your papa.
DeleteHes late and I doubt it being transferable. How many years did your dad live in that country and was he paying tax and contributing to the country?
DeleteDoes he have investments in the country?
He has passed on, who do you want to go and stay with if you travel? They will think ure coming to their country to claim asylum or be a burden.
Am married to american citizen and we have been married for 7 years no child yet, my brother is overstayed with his family and wants me to adopt his kids so they can get green cards, how do i go about this? Anyone has ideas or experience with it.
ReplyDeleteAn immigration lawyer in the state where u reside will do. Good luck.
DeleteThe thing is some travel with the intention of defrauding the system. I knew of someone who was dating a guy online, he was dating others too and had been married before. But she carried herself to juju abi white garment and they saw for her, told her she will travel out. Next thing, guy proposed and invited her. She got visitor's visa with the intention of not getting pregnant as soon as she reached UK which she did. Fast forward to 10yrs later and how many children later, she is now homeless and a single mother. I don't know how it's possible but he never married her or filed for her. Yet, she was posting pictures and religious marital advice on Facebook. What is shocking to me is that in those 10yrs, she never went to school (even vocational college cos university isn't for everyone), took courses or upgraded herself in any way. So she can't contribute to the economy. Just sat down feeling she has arrived, looking down on single women and feeling like even shopgirls want to snatch a husband it turns out she's not even married to. They didn't even do registry marriage when she got to UK. And the time she went, immigration was a bit relaxed, not like now. She didn't even check out the man properly, she was blinded by greed and the desire to escape Nigeria. Apparently the guy threw her out in the night, changed the locks and moved house (I don't know how true this part is cos she lies a lot for sympathy).
ReplyDeleteWhen someone is determined to do the wrong thing, the devil will always give them a helping hand but won't tell them the cons. The place she went for them to see for her, they didn't tell her full story. "You will travel abroad" is not full gist, oh. Cos of the complexity of her matter, she will soon be back to Nigeria with nothing to show for all the time she spent abroad.
* visitors visa with the intention of getting pregnant as soon as she reached the UK
DeleteYou are evil anonymous 19:55 to wish her such ...She's better than you because those kids are British citizen...When a child is born here and stays here in UK till 10 automatically that child gets registered as a British and the mum files in....No child can sleep on the street in United Kingdom no matter the mum immigration status. Jealous Somebody.
DeleteAnonymous 19:55, at least she's better than you because her children by now would be UK citizens and in good schools. When your children stand next to hers in the future, her children will be better than yours.
DeleteUre such a wicked person and may the Almighty God punish you, why call her your friend if you can spite and be happy a fellow human being is going through such difficulty.
Women: Let's be careful the way we think and what we wish others🤷🏾♀️. If she's not working she would definitely have been given accommodation by the council and the council will also find her job to do at the job centre. Her kids will not be miserable like yours because they get weekly allowance from the government which Nigeria will never give yours.
Ure a bittered soul and may you reap bountiful harvests of bitterness. I hope you find a man to marry you. Eyan buruku ni eeee, 🧙♀️🦇🦇.
Geraout of here 😏😏😏
Stella,
ReplyDeleteThere is a generations of older and mature Nigerian men abroad who totally wasted, useless & highly horrific and disastrous in terms of family life with them and any woman for marriage. So, Nigerian women beware!!!
**You can not have kids with a gigolo & expect any good social or any beneficial economic support from him!
**You can not have child with a pimp and expect him to stand by you for any assurances of security & stability for your life!
**You can not have child with a drug dealer, yahoo boy, 419, jobless or broke & exploitative criminal man and then expect to be safe with your child(ren) with him!
They system abroad especially for Europe and America, Canada is made in a way that very quickly you arrive and start living over there, u become immediately identified by authorities (on record & in the system) permanently, tracked, weeded out automatically when you r up to no good!!! So there is not chance for any lazy person, criminal minded, devious, or twisted way life to succeed for entire without getting flagged and punished. Even if u r there family member, baby mama, girlfriend or wife... whatever, u may be roped in & suffer consequences.
It is time to start educating the young generation of Nigerian especially those from poor backgrounds who sees abroad husband as do or die thing, and way to escape their miserable existence back home, that many men or boys you see "living abroad" are either:
*ILLEGAL & UNDOCUMENTED
*MARRIED OR INVOLVED WITH ANOTHER WOMAN FOR PAPERS, MONEY, SURVIVAL THINGS ETC
*INVOLVED IN TERRIBLE CRIMES AND MAY HAVE CRIMINAL RECORDS.
*UNEMPLOYED OR UNDEREMPLOYED, BANKRUPT WITH NO GOOD CREDIT OR AVAILABILITY OF CASH TO SUSTAIN A PARTNER IN RELATIONSHIP
*GAYS, HOMOSEXUAL OR BISEXUAL & VERY DECEPTIVE.
THEY MAY BE SINGLE, DIVORCED, SEEMLY AVAILABLE TO THE ORDINARY EYES, BUT HAVE NO PLAN TO MARRY U WELL & TAKE RESPONSIBILITIES OR CARE FOR U.
*NOT RELIABLE, READY FOR ANY COMMITMENT, HAVE BAD INTENTIONS TO EITHER INVOLVE U IN THE SEX INDUSTRY, DRUG BUSINESS, FRAUD OR SOME OTHER MISCHIEF.
Simply, these men are only looking for "someone to come & suffer with with them" in Europe, America, or Canada.
If u r in the right frame of ur mind, WILL U HAVE CHILD(REN) UNDER THOSE CIRCUMSTANCES???
Pls if any one know someone who’s coming to the US with a visiting visa and wants to do nanny job for a few months to get money. Let me know.
ReplyDeleteI go read tomorrow
ReplyDeleteMy friend has a child with special needs and is looking for a country she could move so the daughter can receive all the help she needs. Can anyone offer suggestions on how she could do it legally. The daughter is 8 years old
ReplyDeletecanada express entry, or going for her masters/phd in the Netherlands, sweden, finland, Germany, Denmark or even the UK if shes from the life sciences background
DeleteUS i mean not the UK. You get up to 29months post graduation to look for a job.
DeleteYou better not try UK because they will put your friend back on a flight to Nigeria.
DeleteThank you everyone. She has started looking for admission to go for her masters in America.
DeleteLet me talk about Canada
ReplyDelete1. Student visa is fast and easy, you get at least 1year post graduate work permit. You can covert to PR immediately after that
2. Permanent residence, though costly but awesome. You can covert to citizenship after 3 years.
Your child becomes a citizen when you have them but they are not your guarantee to stay put