Hmmmm this is not a matter of drinking water and minding your business...
Things are happening o! Plenty plenty things, I want to shake a major table and please, before some of you begin to justify evil, I'm a married female and anyone that sees what is wrong should call it as it is.
Nobody deserves to be betrayed by someone they get married to, and although our society is more focused on men cheating. Today we shall tackle female infidelity.
A man will cheat and go his way, but women eh? They will cheat and some will carry some else's child and give another man.
My dear men, I say this with all authority, A LOT of men are fathering another man's child(ren)....
I no hide mouth talk am!
Two weeks ago, a family friend of mine found out his wife has been sleeping with her "Big Uncle", and guess what 2 out of his 3 kids are not his, to say I weak na understatement, her justification? He sleeps around and it was payback.....
I don't get how using a wrong to right another wrong is sensible.
Please I will state certain criteria here and if you as a man fall into any of these categories, tomorrow eh, just jeje take hair samples from all your kids and conduct a DNA test.
1) If you had to have a rushed wedding due to pregnancy, especially if she pressured you into it. Chances are she is trying to pin it on someone....
I know someone sitting on this table, she is a serving corps member and in that oil state...
Onku you are just about to take care of another corps members baby o!....
2)If your wife caught you cheating and was cool about it in a very inexplicable manner, chances are she has taken her own pound of flesh and e no pain am. Any pregnancy after then is very very suspect....
3)The obvious case of you know she is cheating, please conduct DNA on ALL your kids.....
4) If you read through this and your mind is doing you one kain, kindly satisfy your conscience and conduct the DNA tests o...issa sign right there.
5) Your wife left the love of her life to marry you for financial or other reasons, in which case..... Hmmmmmm
6) Your wife is the breadwinner and you do not know where the bread is being baked, onku most likely the head baker owns those children o....
You see this use a condom advice eh?, it goes both ways o! Both male and female cheat. No excuses for ones lack of decorum.
Women, sleeping around is no punishment for a man's bad behavior, if you cannot condone it leave, do not roll in the mud to show a pig his ways are dirty. Marry a man you love and not because you just had to get married or family pressure.
If you live in one of the States in the South -South and your wedding is next month, uncle your wife is carrying my cousins baby o!. He knows, she knows, they agreed to pin it on you cos he's broke.
Make I drink water and mind my business o...
Ndewo nu o!
The rate of infidelity and betrayal in matrimony these days is alarming.
ReplyDeletePoster shut the fuck up! What about men giving their mistresses Belle left right Centre and giving their wives all sorts of general diseases and emotional trauma? Sit down and shut up!
DeleteLemme drink very cold kunnu and mind my business😝😝😝😝
DeleteSeriously I don't always understand why people just rush to comment without really understanding the content of the message.
DeleteDo you see anywhere the poster support men impregnating there mistresses.
Do you even read to understand where she made a point that "our society focus on men cheating "
If you really understand that you won't spit that trash up there.
@Anon 14:20. You write like my wife.. no worry I know she is not my child!!!
DeleteLet me drink a big cup of water and mind my business. My cousin is sitting well on this table.
DeleteEVERY cheating man DESERVES NO2...Gbam! The women you leave your wife to cheat with also hang their pregnancy on another man...Abi you think sey na only you sabi bad thing...continue! When God says adultery is forbidden,the devil says who sai,Oga says he cannot eat only Egusi soup...be ready to chop the flies that follow dead meat. Every action begats a reaction...
DeleteAnonymous 14:20, The moment i read your comment, i felt like telling u u are mad. Even if some men cheat, must we all be enter into the same infidelity vehicle?
Delete14:20 adulterous alert + witch notification
DeleteAll of you hypocrites should get the fuck outta here...if a woman decides to square cos of her hubby's infidelity; its non of your biz wax...y'all just scared that she will sleep with your hubby and cannot bear the thoughts of your hubbies cheating on you... ntoorrr😝😝😝😝😝...he will cheat!!! N you can decide to leave or live with it, its your cup of beans! But don't you dare judge another woman in any mode she decides to handle her cheating hubby!!! Radarada...
DeleteLet's be factual here. When a man cheats and has a child outside his marriage it's bad. When a woman cheats and brings in a pregnancy to foster in her matrimonial home is worse. Why? Cos the child will suffer it most later. How would it feel for you to hear that the father u know and love isn't yours cos ur mother was paying your father back for cheating on her? So think of the kids in future. Was it on Jeremy Kyle show that nija man found out his 20 something year old son wasn't his? Let's think deep.
DeleteMarriage, prick matter, toto matter don taya me!, I just need answers to this question, who made a law, or theory that business must suffer during Ramadan??? I am confused! Do Muslims run the economy??
ReplyDeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)
It's good for the friend. I wish the 3 kids weren't his. Do you men know that women are humans with hearts? If she cheats you complain. Do you know the effect of you cheating on her?
DeleteNext time shake men's table. They made us like this ....ballistic
DeleteNo be small suffer oh,biz are just moving slowly.
DeleteAnon.14.23...u are the reason y they say women hv fish brains...how can u compare someone that deceives a man into thinking that that child is his to a woman hu her man has a child outside...u women are evil sha...so after the man provides , u do a stupid thing like that...any woman that tries that should b humiliated and disgraced to the highest level of life, whr she will b ashamed to come out in public
DeleteAnon.25:49 you are the one with a catfish brain. Listen to yourself,a woman should be humiliated and disgraced ten yen so what happens to the man who goes out to get someone pregnant from unrepentant cheating? We should pat him and say weldone sir abi.Any body that cheats deserves an even treatment nonsense
DeleteAnon 15:49 ehyaaaa! You say "any woman that tries that should b humiliated and disgraced to the highest level of life, whr she will b ashamed to come out in public" can't take what you men stupidly dish out?
DeleteYou just woke up to realize that nobody has any monopoly on cheating? The hunter is feeling the pains of the hunting? Nkita ara like you. Is it not men that they cheat with? Fellow men like you who also leave their wives to roll in the bed with another woman? Oh! You just realized that?
You've seen that you are the one with a fish brain abi? Women are evil? Then most men are the devil's incarnate! The pregnancy that they carry about was placed there by a useless man like you who then connived with her to put it on his fellow man. Can you see your foolishness and idiocy? If you don't gedifok thunder will fire you.
Anon 15:49😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣 mumu dey worry you!!! Nonsense...you don't want to square with your cheating hubby, its your cup of buns ooo. Others are handling their cheating hubby the way they can so get ready to handle yours ok...mumu thinking forming Mr or Mrs Smarto😂🤣🤣🤣
DeleteAnon 15:49😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣 mumu dey worry you!!! Nonsense...you don't want to square with your cheating hubby, its your cup of buns ooo. Others are handling their cheating hubby the way they can so get ready to handle yours ok...mumu thinking forming Mr or Mrs Smarto😂🤣🤣🤣
DeleteAnon 15:49 what exactly are you saying? After the man provides? Who is he providing for? Is it not his family, his children?
DeleteThe woman should be disgraced, embarrassed and ridiculed? And the man? He has provider immunity right?
Don't worry sweetie, with your kind of mentality, I God will bless you with your match. You will have four children in your home of which none would be yours and on your 70th birthday, your wife would break the news to you.
They'd all be married and settled by then though.
Poster that her brother's wife is pregnant, your family is wicked, no apologies... Why hide such info from her, and people will be accusing her that she is barren, not knowing the fault is from your brother... So you don't want her to carry her own child abi??
ReplyDeleteDamnit!! Can't just believe what I read yesterday....What if your brother is the father, God can still do miracle you know... I'm seriously feeling for the woman, wonder the kind of shame and sleepless night, she must have gone through all because of your wicked and heartless family.... Better go and pray for forgiveness..
I'm sad right now😡
Felt same way you feel after reading it yesterday. Told myself if I am the woman, either way I am leaving, i.e., if I cheated to have the baby, I am going and if the baby is the brother's baby, I'll still leave. What nonsense family!
DeleteMy dear it was this morning I read it and posted a venomous comment ladened with curses both on the poster, her mother, blokosless brother and the entire family. Bu just as I expected, Stella didn't post it.
DeleteAnyways the devilishness of that family can never be over emphasized...
Stella, have I angered you in any way that you have refused to post my comments?
DeletePlease I'm sorry if I have.
Are we good now?
Please shut the fuck up! Men have been doing this nonsense since tge beginning of time and all i can say is they deserve it and more sef!!see the way you've painted them as saints in this story.mtswwww
ReplyDeleteI just don't understand people shouting gender equality.
DeleteBut when it comes to issues like this na only men they carry am.
Listen and listen good, if you are a cheat, be you a man or woman, you do not deserve a faithful partner and will never get one. You deserve a cheat like you who will cheat on you very well. Why should your spouse be faithful to you? Why? You are both exposing each other to diseases, set backs and you both deserve each other. Poster if that your silly cousin cheats then serves him right, let him suck it up, shit happens.
DeleteAnon 15:44 ...you said it all...its both cheating partners' bees wax and not some holier than thou idiots to judge!!
Deletelet me also drink water, mind my business and walk away
ReplyDeletedumebi don go carry belle
ReplyDelete#GOAT™
Mind your business, busy body
ReplyDeleteYou did not mind your business because what you said will put many homes in trouble.
ReplyDeleteIf Satan mind his business, you won't be here talking amebo
Make me mind my business. Those who are clean need not tremble.
😂😂😂😂
DeleteAsiri gbaka Ute, shuuuuuu. Abeegi face your lane
ReplyDeleteHahahahaha. My mama language
DeleteWho DNA Test help? Ebe nwa is loo uwa ya Yiri. *HBP loading*
ReplyDeleteSo another true Nigerian woman is writing what I have been writing here since
ReplyDeleteokwa ya?
Ajuju
I talk am say, if them make DNA testing compulsory for school entrace
a lot of marriages go pack up.
Naija girls don dey fork every long thing even in marriage o.
One get 5 pikins and them win American Visa lottery some years ago.
DNA go follow now. Na so 4/5 no belong to husband o. Na so abroad waka scatter o, marriage scatter o.
War began for court. 😯😯😯😯And madam still dey chant say na oga (wey suppose dey on top) score all the goals o.
Some Married Naija girls wey dey read
this gists go dey sweat/tremble now; isn't it?
Ajuju ajuoo! 😯😯😯
Food is served.
DeleteAhhh this annon,i like your consistency😀😀😀😀😀😀😀
DeleteAs in some people are sweating seriously like this. But maka why?
DeleteANG I said lets be friends
DeleteI am surprised that Naija girls have not branded this poster "man?"😊😊😊😊😊
Delete@16:47
If you're a Naija girl,then we are friends😁😁😁😁
Anon 14:08 the said Naija girls are fucking themselves ryt?🙄🙄🙄🙄 radarada...
DeleteI'm a female o
DeleteLol you actually speak the truth even though it sounds annoying most times but yes it is the truth .
ODIEGWU!!!
ReplyDeleteThis table is shaking already
ReplyDeleteRight from the days of EVE and her betrayal to Adam by sleeping with the serpent...the kingdom of marraige suffereth violence
Deletetalk wetin u knw oh! which Eve slept with serpent?some of u can yarn rubbish.... mtcheewwwww
DeleteThis table is shaking already
ReplyDeleteTo loose weight nor just easy. Seem like ill need Aid. Dis exercise n diet is taking too long.
ReplyDeleteFeels gud to know am not alone in this oh! I want my body back after my last pregnancy.
DeleteThis table is shaking already
ReplyDeletehiiiaaa!!! make I drink water mind my business o
ReplyDeleteThe world is not fair to women.
ReplyDeleteOf course, refusing to father a bastard is unfairness to women. Only a woman could think like that.
DeleteBut women have been accepting and even mothering their husband's kids they have outside for centuries. Why Can't men do same ??????
DeleteDo the husbands sneak the children on claiming them to be their wives'?
DeleteDo all women accept their husband's love children? Do some men not accept their wives' love children?
After breaking the table u now want to mind ur business...Hmmm issoraite!
ReplyDeleteLike you said Poster,
ReplyDeleteMake I drink water and mind my buzziness...........
Na dem.
ReplyDeleteMe--this your daughter looks fine and different
Her--don't mind her, oyiri nne di m. She looks like my mother in law
Me--😕🤔😔
Not always true anon, some kids look like their maternal or paternal relations,it happens!
DeleteAnonymous 14:21, very true. Growing up, I looked like my cousins from my dads part of the family. So it does happen. Kids can look like their grandparents.
DeleteAnon, you're a pathetic numbskull
DeleteYeah some kids may look like their forefathers uncle or cousins but it is still an alert.
DeleteI use to say it and will always say it,cheating falls in both ways all married women are just good in hiding it.whether he was the first to do it and you had to balance the score cheating is cheating.
ReplyDeleteI have like 3 people relaxing on this table..
I'm going to send the link to one of them,no need sef he is a bv he go see am....I know after reading I will get a text from him on WhatsApp.
I go gist una tomorrow for SP
Lol.... #aprokoboy#mindingmybusiness#thingsisabouttofallapart.
Abeg no fail. Amebo dey sweet die😀😀😀
DeleteNo be you dey chat up another babe unto serious matter when u claimed you had a serious relationship. Is that not cheating?
DeleteWhen faithful people talk, shut up and take lessons
Anon 15:54 chatting with someone doesnt mean he asked her out, even the said lady never mentioned he did ask her out
DeleteThis is 2019 and any man who is not daft will have a DNA test carried out on any 'child' of his as soon as it is birthed.
ReplyDeleteThree years ago, there was an article that stated that 30% of firstborns didn't belong to their 'fathers'. Ever since then I no wan know o. Make His punish me if I no do DNA test for pikin wey woman claim say Na my own. I cannot stand the risk of finding out years later that I've been labouring for another man's child, not with the dying economy we have where even one naira is like gold.
Men, if una like make una hear word, if una like make una no hear. The rate at which married women play away match these days should make anybody wary. Even side guys done dey lace person wife with magun. Be at alert, brothers. The days are fully evil.
Haaaaha, already doubting your wife to be. Him who farms on another person's farm does not like Cutlass to pass his own farm. Keep ya prick and she keeps her tohtoh. Be faithful and attract same. I don't give shit so shit won't come to me.
DeleteTrust but verify. Avoid stories that touch. 40% of any phenomenon is regarded as widespread.
DeletePlease loud it anonymous..if you do me I do you! Women have been suffering since beginning of time. Let the men feel the heat.
Deleteit's not Everyman going through this that is guilty of cheating. have u forgotten the Bv that went for last minute action with her former lover week after her wedding and got pregnant? She even confessed her%husband doesnt cheat. How u want talk this one?
Delete@lovetoloveu which bv? Please which chronicle are you talking about.
DeleteBeen a while but it was her step sister that outed her. She was begging upandan. And l think they had a no sex courtship but she was catching her trips and forming holy for bros
DeleteWawu!!
ReplyDeleteMinding your business sure pass 😶🤐
ReplyDeleteThe way things are in this country now, ONLY a foolish man won't conduct test on the children a woman present to him ad his. ONLY A BIG FOOL. Before I open an account for any child or will one of my car tire to him, I will check to see that he's not a bastard. If my woman like, let her hang herself out of anger - onkpe
ReplyDeleteSee u, u don't even know if ur father is your biological father.
DeleteBaba bastard
DeleteTo marry sef dey do me one kain. I've seen enough to scare me from marriage, yet I want more children. Always dreamt of a happy family and being a good husband and father since I was a little boy, bit the kain oshozondi babes wey dey outside no give person assurance say hope dey sef.
DeleteI see married women actively looking for side action. If you see the kain greeting wey dem dey greet me when I go drop my boy for school ehn. No be small thing
Rambo shut up that your gutter mouth, because they are greeting you doesn't mean they want side action with you. Mtchewwwwwww
DeleteOK Anon 16:47
DeleteAnon16:47, you sound lonely. It's Friday, let's hook up.
DeleteLol!
DeleteThat's why I don't say hello to men imaging Rambo seeing ordinary greetings as toasting..
Deleteman can cheat but woman should not Dere it.only fools support women that cheat.
ReplyDeleteStella calm down. For some it's not that serious. Some may have suspected the wife, but they like their peace and love the kids as theirs biologically. Got 2 friends in this category who confided in me.
ReplyDeleteFor some men it is a mutual or a passive mutual understanding. The husband turns his head away, accepts the children because he cannot stand soceital and family pressure of say he is sterile. It is only him and his wife and doctor#
Some men will ask if I know now, what am I gaining, what good will it do? The kids are all in uni, grown, been there as their Dad & be responsible for them, what good will do?
I got male friends in this kind situation's and they carry on with their lives and are happy and fond of the kids.
Sorry ma, but that's no excuse. It's not always a case of been sterile, it's more of a case of been clever in bidding the away escapades. There's a pastor in the US that fathered 3 children but only 1 was biologically his. He divorced his wife and bloody system and wife pounded him with child support payments....
DeleteYou are correct. That's maturity on the man's side.
DeleteI know a couple of cases like that....HE knows or perhaps is a party to the arrangement but kept is quiet.Only a fool spills such to the world..easiest way to a man grave..trying to shame a woman for having another man's baby for you.If the man isn't tactful,he will suffer it the most as men aren't built to handle stuffs like this very well.We are WEAK when it comes to stuffs like this.
Actually,it has been more of men who have kids by other women, and that their 'wives usually don't care very much as long as the man didn't abandon his wife and their kids.
It is only when the man is tempted to leave his wife and kids for the other woman, that the wife really gets jealous.
Sad reality today...You can't be sure of what you sign up for in this marriage thing..but for the sake of your mental health and to not die before your death, just prepare your mind.Love with your body and soul but please look after your MENTAL HEALTH.
God help us.
Sadly happy
DeleteAnon 14:56. Ndi Ara yi kwa bia uwa, you no get car Tyre and calling a child bastard makes you Papa bastard Mr Foolish Man Numero uno
ReplyDeleteFor all those saying men deserve it, I pity u guys when men hv to mind and mk it compulsory to do a DNA on his kids...that's when ud know it easier to hv a child outside that to hv a fake one under his roof...
ReplyDeleteFunny thing is, how are you sure the outside one is really yours too? Hahahaha, cunny man die, cunny man bury am.
DeleteTruly you can't go cheating because your partner cheated on you.there is no justification for cheating.this cheating of a thing I really to feel for the women because when it backfires its worst for them due to preganancy becos then the society will crucify them.this table Na really big table shake and break even burn too.let me just mind my business also
ReplyDeleteYes, but what about that naija..Mbaise " married man" (with holland citizenship who was childless in his ow marriage to Anambra woman) that tricked a married woman.. from Imo state in Belgium to have his kid now in Belgium?
ReplyDeleteThe bastard breeder man promised the woman marriage & to take care of her & her kids, only for him to do about turn when then this "married woman" got pregnant from their clandestine affair? Saying her character is not good? ..saying he wont & cant marry her because She's not from rich family?
Now a bastard boy is born there in Belgium bearing the name of another man & his so called "real father" is acting like a coward, tricky & cunning like a typical mbaise man???
Nigerian married men & women nowadays...MAKE UNA FEAR GOD..OH!!!😱
Your left bress there!
DeleteAngry Bird Wetin Mbaise people do you ?
Face your lie lie lover jareeee...
Make we hear word!
I had this friend in school then, she can lie for Africa. She had different guys she was sleeping with but will never accept. After exams one semester,she travelled next day to meet her boyfriend in another state. I was wondering why the rush unlike her,she usually waits days before leaving. Well,before next semester she called to tell me she will be getting married soon and will not come back early. I just asked if she was pregnant,this one she is getting married fast. She said yes oo, that the very day she got to her guy's place they did something and she took in. I didn't believe her at all.
ReplyDeleteHer roommate later told me she was sleeping with different guys,and she actually told our coursemate she was pregnant for him. The guy said it's not possible. So she travelled quickly to pin the pregnancy on the guy she was dating in another state. When she delivered her baby she didn't tell us immediately,she waited like 3 weeks before telling us. But someone from her place told me she delivered since and was acting like she just delivered.
I remember then, her roommate got a guy to call her when she was still pregnant to threaten her to tell her husband or they will tell her hubby. I asked the roommate to stop,so she doesn't develop hbp as she was pregnant. Long story short,she is still married to her husband, they have 3 kids now. She changed her no and avoids me and others that may know her story. She is born again now,it's possible she has told her hubby the truth or she doesn't want to restitute.
All you've typed is merely speculations and not facts!
DeleteYoure not in her vagina so you know nothing, i didn't read where you called her and had a heart to heart with your so called "friend"
No! you were just so eager for her downfall thus matching imaginery Dots to match your sinister plot.
I can imagine you and the wicked friend that called to threaten a pregnant woman gossiping and back biting her.
Dark souls.
🎶My my my Delilah, why, why, why, Delilah...🎶
ReplyDeleteMen can't take 1/10th of the shit they dish out to women!
This gist dey pain men more!
ReplyDeleteLooool ntooooooooi
Women are SCUMS
ReplyDeleteThis table has been broken by stella
ReplyDeleteWhatever a cheating man gets is his cup of tea. Even if it’s another mans kid that’s on him. Idc...
ReplyDeleteWhat about cases of children that are changed by wicked nurses in the hospital without the knowledge of the parents concerned.
ReplyDeleteReading through comments I'm shocked at what some people are saying o....
ReplyDeletejjc
Deletena wah oh things are really Happening
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