So after all these explanations your brain still didnt tell you that this guy is a ''Yahoo yahoo''? or you didnt have an alert in your sixth sense faculty that he read you out a format?..OMG what kid of parents push their kids to get married?see what he is pushing you into?
Please look for a little apartment to move into or share with a friend and dont even tell me that you cant because you are old enough to stay on your own and it is better than falling into this situation you are about to enter....
Stay Woke!!
I didn't read! What's it about?
ReplyDelete...its about a radio she listens to in her dads house, the radio keeps talking big big things with no visual plans working, she only sees a big car, & shes considering marriage.
DeleteToo tiny abeg
DeleteMy eyes no fit
Classic with plenty laughs from me. This is the usual format , one story after the other. No job or means of earning a living but cruising around with a car maintained by one sugar mummy. Correct format from one smart guy to a desperate girl. Shine your eyes oh old sisi
DeleteYLE perfect summary
DeleteYaabaaaaa oooooo lolzzzzzzzz 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😝😝😝😝😝😝
DeleteSome people sha. This one the signboard is very large and clear. Yet you are asking Jamb question. And what's with the am 28yrs old? Who told you you cant get a good man to marry at even 40. Please relax with all the desperation. Get something doing,or learn a trade.
DeleteMe too dint read. Cant strain my eye.
DeleteYabaaaaa, you won't kill me
DeleteSo if you take rent money and get your own place they won’t rent an apartment to you except you attach yourself to a man as a wife as the closure that you are.
ReplyDeleteYou are not serious, someone isn’t ready to marry or at least not ready to marry you but because you’re tired of living with your parents and 28 years you want the man to marry you by force. This man isn’t even husband material if there is anything like that yet you’re worried he hasn’t made any marriage plans.
Go and buy that dog chain and hang it to his neck then drag him to do the right thing. Mkpi
Lmaooo at 'closure'😂😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteHow can one read this?😂
ReplyDeleteMy eyes are paining me
Same here..
DeleteYahoo.com
ReplyDeletePipi leee welcome back dear, hope you have been good???
DeleteReal or fake?
DeleteMadam you want to leave home? Why cant you just go and rent a place of your own. That guy will scam you and your family joined if you are not careful. Did they bury your placenta with that of Austin's? I will say you should reconsider that relationship asap. It doesn't seem like he wants you or want to marry now.
ReplyDeleteDo not let ur desperation push you into the arms of a dubious man. Transparency is so important in every relationship and if it doesn't exist, then trust cannot be built. Imagine a relationship without trust? It's clearly sitting on a time bomb.
DeleteYou can still make a meaningful step in the right direction without getting married to this guy because as far as I can see it, u see him as ur 'way out'.
Leave home if you want to, u are old enough. Make something out of life. Don't build your world round a guy you have no idea what his thinking, what he's doing or what his next move is. I bet u, u don't even know him for real.
Do not be in haste to get married, please. You are still quite young. I hope that you are engaged in something that is bringing in money for you, that is what you need for now-a source of income and a good one at that. Move out of your Dad's house , please.
DeleteForget that guy-man also.
Please, plan your future very well , you do not really need a man for now.
Austin? Are is she sure his name is really Austin?
DeleteYoung lady, if you had a job or at least a source of income you're minding, you would bother less about Austin and his big car...
Are you saying you can't live home unless you get married.
ReplyDeleteWhy not start a business or look for a job so as to distract you from this person.
This marriage isn't happening anytime soon so you could as well live and stop putting life on hold.
This reminds me of my ex Austin. So much similarities apart from the online dating/abroad thing. Such a time waster. God forbid bad thing. Came to see my parents and kept postponing wedding and complaining about money. Until I found out dude was married.
Poster RUN!
Stella why is the print so small?
ReplyDeleteStella did screenshots and watermarked it because some unscrupulous people were stealing the chronicles without giving her her due as the source. Let them come and steal this new format let's see.
DeleteStella,I can't read this chronicle the words are so tinny, please make it bold,thank you
ReplyDeleteToo tiny to read.stella pls help us magnify before posting pls
ReplyDeleteYou should even be happy his evil schemes have not manifested, you'd have jumped into marriage without knowing who he trully is... women are meant to have this strong intuition that works like the eyelid blinking the moment an object comes close, even b4 your brain interpretes what that object is... but you're still geared up heading for danger, whats wrong with you ladies? I just vexed for one in IHN, ive come here, another abroad thinker, there should be a seminar for young ladies & how to reformat their thinking
ReplyDeletePoster am more worried that u are planning seriously of marrying a person who says a thing and does another. A person who cannot communicate with u but prefers to avoid the subject of discus. A person who takes ur 'small cash' but does not seem like one who would return it. Those are the things u should worry about and not that marriage plans are on hold.Plz be wise.
ReplyDeleteOne chance.
ReplyDeleteYahoo.com on the loose.
DeleteDon't be in a hurry to leave home. Just be patient. Some guys respect ladies who are still at home. Besides you have it gives you security and checks.
ReplyDeleteDo what you need to do but don't be in a hurry to marry. If you rush to marry, you will rush out. You didn't say anything about your mum. If you still have her talk to her and be patient.
It's better she stays at home and learn tolerance,if she can't cope with her parents how would she cope with bad in laws.
DeleteMost careful men prefer women who live with family.
@pretty girl, pls I said some guys. Not all if you go back and read.
DeleteI waited a long time to marry. Each time I saved up to leave home something will happen. It was later my mum confessed she was praying against my moving. Then my husband prayed that he wanted someone who still lived at home. God saw ahead. I never said it was wrong for a lady to live on her own. I desired it. Only I never got it
Lady T what?! You people have started again. Don’t stay alone as a woman. Don’t buy a car as a woman or even if you do buy a small one so men won’t be intimidated. As a woman don’t buy land before you get married and when you eventually do, add your husband’s name so he won’t be intimidated. Rubbish!
DeleteMy advise to single girls who can afford it is to live alone for at least a year before getting married. Life is too short to not be independent and happy because you want to fit into societal stereotypes.
My wildest friend that had four abortions and was a postinol dispenser did all that under her father’s roof. She doesn’t even have ear piercing for religious reasons but has a tummy piercing and has done vaginoplasty. Go figure. Who will spoil will spoil. Who is corrupt will be corrupt. If you like chain a wild girl in a church or mosque she’ll still use the padlock as a dildo. Location means nothing. It’s the heart and mind that matter.
That a lady lives alone doesn’t mean anything negative. Ladies should even be scared to marry men that hold on to archaic believes like what LadyT is saying because such men are usually a mistake.
Chronicle poster. The discretion is yours but I’m not feeling this your fiancé at all. Look before you leap.
one lady at banana island lives with her parents and fell pregnant, some leave home in the name of school, vigil and go visit boy friends so, it doesn't really matter.
Delete@Lady T.. So in your mind it was your mom's prayers that worked? These pastors won't stop anytime soon... Why should any human being cope with bad in-laws? See the way you wrote it like it something normal. That you are coping doesn't mean every woman must cope.
Delete@Lady, so because some men likes women who lives with their parents means she should continue living with her parents. How about she moves out for herself? How about she does what pleases her ? She must not live her life for men, she must do what pleases her.
Deletehahahahaha, women n marriage. na wa
ReplyDeleteYou can leave home without being married
ReplyDeleteAll I see is "unhealthy reason for wanting to get married " despite seeing the handwriting on the wall.
ReplyDeleteSounds like a love scam is about to take place, I can bet d car is not his own, dude is a liar.
ReplyDeleteStella please revert to the former way of posting chronicles. This right here is not good for the eyes and one have to click to load to be able to read properly. Those stealing from u r up coming
ReplyDeletePoster get an apartment and move out of your father's house. You cannot marry that guy as he is not even ready to wife you. Let him be with is big ig lies, the guy is telling you things you want to hear and not reality. Why are you making him feel you are desperate o settle down? Is better your dad insult you as a single babe than being married and praying to be single again.
ReplyDeleteWhat makes the house only his dad's? Why are some of you like this? Cant u say parents?
DeleteScam alert!!! The person being scammed knows that she is about to fall a victim but, she doesn't have sense at all. Desperation has beclouded her judgment and very soon, she will join the long list of angry women.
ReplyDeleteI have never met a straight forward Austin. They are always having one k-leg or another.
ReplyDeleteThis right here is the fucking truth. 😂😂😂😂
DeleteI concur
DeleteTruth. I am a witness.
DeleteStella Nwanyioma this font is too tiny to read.
Hahahahahaha na laugh I laugh. I no talk anything.
DeleteAll this abroad men. pls forget them. Most of these so-called abroad men that come to look for wives in naija are bloody cheap yahoo guys.Dey are either illegal immigrants, broke,lazy, have a psychopatic or socialpatic behavior or even serial killers. Forget that crap of looking for a good wife in naija. Like I sed 'MOST', there are still a few good ones. Shine your eyes
ReplyDeletePlease poster Run I said run fast. Don't settle down with this your Austin he's a scammer run oooooo.
ReplyDeleteMeanwhile I just heard the shock of my life, my friend just narrated to me that her colleague was suspended because she advertised the product she's selling on her WhatsApp status. I'm much shocked, I thought WhatsApp status is ones private life and co , what concerns the company you work for with your WhatsApp status. Please has anyone experienced such.
This has similarities with my ex I dropped like bad habit. Biko run for your dear life! @28, you should be more worried about having a wonderful career and being comfortable so much that you can go on vacation abroad fully funded by you without blinking!
ReplyDeleteHave you thought about the type of ride you will love to acquire?
Have you checked out the interior design you will love to have in your home? (Either rented or built)
Stop worrying about getting married! Being married will not be the end of your worries as you think!!
Wake up and smell the coffee!! Live your life to the fullest!!!
Anon 16:09 I love your comment
Delete1000 likes for your comment. I wonder what her desperation is in this age and time. Such a young lady.
Deletethis is a scam baby girl, Austin is never going to marry you, all na lie. pls divert your attention to something else and if possible, stop talking to him. are your parents rich? do you look rich? if yes Austin is waiting for you people to dash him money. trust me he has no land to sell, all na make-believe to make you see him as rich, and trust him with your money, dont fall for hat shit
ReplyDeleteMy dear, you better run for your Life! Don't waste your time and energy waiting for someone who doesn't care about you! God will bring to you your rightful husband to you. Wait patiently in prayers!!!
ReplyDeleteBut all of you Naija girls wan marry abroad na?
ReplyDeleteAjuju
Haven't other men based in Naija been coming?
Ajuju n' ese okwu 😜😜
But all of una go dey press phones for night dey
hunt for abroadinas.
Ngwanu, dey write long chronicles, no be wetin we sign to dey
read here eh?
😜😜😜😜😜😜😜😜
Wait o .
ReplyDeleteYou are 28 and want to use marriage as a means to leave home?
Now that's a bomber.
Poster forget that age that's is bothering you...
Leave this man ,he is a time waster and an agent of delay in your life, you bringing it here means God is helping you..get out of that situation.
As regards your age forget it.
I dated a guy a for 6years from 23 to 29, the moment I decided to have sense I left him at 29 if I had agreed to be sensible I wont waste that much time . So it was partly my fault. The same dude that was dragging leg for 6years married another lady he claimed wasnt his chick 2 years after..in all I thank God ..my dear..I met someone else and got married at 31 and I am happy in short e remain small make I send my ex message saying thanks for everything Gods plan can never be changed. I am just waiting on God for the fruit of the womb.my dear, forget he is not for you.
Try being happy make peace with your dad and folks and see great changes..even the smile and happiness that will radiate from you will attract that special person.
Then work on yourself. Get a job, get busy
Stella, the narrative is so tiny.
ReplyDeleteDon’t you know any of his family members. Yes they may lie for him but you can start from there to get some information and compare to what he had told you
ReplyDeleteAnon 16:44 That is wasting of precious time on nonsense! ! She should keep it moving with a speed of light!!
Deletecan't read,you can still post the normal way...and at the same time mark it...was stressful reading that of IHN now all of us uses bigger screen phones.
ReplyDeleteStella please this is too difficult to read, kindly adjust it. Thank you
ReplyDeleteI hate this new way of posting chronicles jor
ReplyDeleteYou're spot on Stella. What kind of brains do girls have these days that they can't figure out obvious things, the guy would have been enjoying her cookie like he has married her, meanwhile when he is done he has harvested as much as is available from her he'll move on to the next dumb blonde.
ReplyDeleteStella have mercy on those of us using phones. I can’t find my glasses and I can’t read it.
ReplyDeletePoster, na dem O!!!!!!! Shine your eyes .
ReplyDeleteMaria ubaka come see what that small boy you kept in your house will do to you if you give him money he claim he will use to send your son abroad
ReplyDeleteStella this your question is funny, my parents still force their kids to marry. If I start to write, it will turn to a whole chronicle.
ReplyDeleteThis relationship is one chance. Poster shine your eyes and waka away.
ReplyDeleteAt 28 the last thing you should be stressed about is if a dubious man named Austin will marry you or not. Baby girl, you should be more worried about your career, your account balance, that next business deal, that professional certification, can you afford that shares, where and how to invest your money, that holiday trip to a sandy beach where you will sip drinks by the shore and ogle fine guys 😀.
ReplyDeleteA lot of things to fixate on rather than that scam artist. He doesn't have a job, there's no goods to clear, there's no land anywhere my dear. A hustler with honest intention would have turned that car of his to Uber and be making cool cash, split the proceeds and import wears and add it to his hustle but no he prefers to cruise around in an expensive car and collect money from you.
He's either a yahoo boy waiting for the next hit or a kept boy by a sugar mummy or probably he's married. Nothing good will come out of a man who is not transparent and is into shady stuffs also.
You are old enough to live on your own. If the stress at home is getting too much, move out and live life before someone pushes you into the fire. You're just 28! 40year old women still go out there and get it talk less of you.