Please note that the gistscafe is all about ''If you know,you know''..its not to spread hate or lies or to bully anyone..please if you want to take part,leave out last names..please.....
So...........................................
Marriages crash all the time for various reasons and it is no big deal at all.....RIGHT?????
It is only in Nigeria where commoners think it is OK for their Marriages to crash but turn it into big deal when celeb Marriages crash...They are also human beings,please note this!
It is this Judge Judy attitude that some people have that has made some Nigeria celebs who are currently no longer married to be hiding their current single status'.....This is not fair at all.
Not fair at all on the celebs who are tired of hiding their status' and want to break out free....Like the light skinned Nollywood actress whose marriage didnt last up to two years before the holes came....Well they are human and its OK to discover you are not suited for each other after a few years......Madam free yourself before the news gets out oh.....
What of the beautiful pregnant star who might fall into being denied if she carries her belle to the end and pops the patter of tiny feet....
There are three names being peddled as being as baby daddy and any other gist compared to this one is child's play....
The celebrity that lover girl is fingering as her baby daddy is telling all who care to know that he is not the one and that it might be the other celeb she gbenshed...Why do some men begin to reel out names when the woman gets pregnant?...Na wah...
Anyway the celeb baby will be birthed in 5 months and we pray that their supposed Marriage plans go ahead,otherwise the baby would have to identify from whose blokos he/she came out from.......
The best #fvckyou challenge cover?Give it to Comedian Basketmouth and Rapper Ruggedman...fvck you guys for doing a good job with preaching thru your covers!
#BRB #Ideycomeoh
Yayyyyy SDK is leading in the Blogger of the Year voting. Let's keep the votes coming. Love lives here..
ReplyDeletewhere is the link? SHare so we can go and vote
DeleteAnon this is the link below. She is leading wirh 53%. Lry's bring this home. Find the link below👇.
Deletehttps://couponcode.ng/awards/african-female-bloggers-award-2019/
Thanks for reminding us Duchess. Just voted.
DeleteComon Stella, Judge Judy is not a bad person nah haba!. She says it as it is and straightens some brains 🤷🏾♀️
DeleteJust voted SDK. Let’s keep the voting coming.
DeleteI lurve Judge Judy. She is a nonsense woman.
DeleteKoko, guess you meant no nonsense woman
DeleteJust voted,Stella is dusting other bloggers hands down sha
DeleteWill be right back.
ReplyDeleteTo find somebody that you can confidently say you can spend the rest of your life with him/her is not easy at all, thats one of the most difficult things to find on earth next to diamond. 80% of people just settle for the one they can manage, cus he/she ticked most of their boxes, the remaining 20% find that person but does the person love & agree with you? He/she might be settling for all we know.... shit is complicated i swear
Delete@14:43
DeleteYou're right most of these people
Settle for the most available
Alot of them arent even compatible and they go in with the hope that things would change .
Marriage is overrated. Happiness is Bea. I rather stay happy as a single mum than tango with unhappiness
DeleteThree men on tboss's pregnancy....o ga.
ReplyDeleteTheyre all joking jo.
DeleteMarriages these days though, some are just like weekends they don't last. Could that be madam radical for J or Tboss on that table
ReplyDeleteWeekends good na..... Phone Data.
DeleteIt's Tboss
Deletehahahahahahaha sdk i give up on u.
ReplyDeleteoya decoders come and do ur job.
I no understand this gist cafe o
ReplyDeleteThat was how my comment disappeared whilst typing 😭
DeleteUbi, Tboss and who else....smh
ReplyDeletethank you bv Martinez
ReplyDelete😊😁😂🔰🐭🐱🐩🐶💄👞👞👟🏠🏡🔛🔙🔝🏣🏢🔜😀😁😂🤣😉😆😅😄😃😊😋😎😍😘🙂☺😚😙😗🤗😇🤠🤡🤥😶😑😐🤔🤓🙄😏😣😥😮😴😫😪😯🤐😌😛😜😝🤤🙃😕😔😓😒🤕🤒😷😲🤑🤢🤧☹️🙁😖😭😢😤😟😞😦😧😨😩😬😡😵😳😱😰👺👹👿😈😠💀☠️👻👽👾😹😸😺💩🤖😿🙀😽😼😻👦🙊🙉🙈😾👧👨👩👴👵👳👲👮👱👶💂🤴👸⛑️👷🤵👰🤶🎅🕵👼💆💇🙍🙎🙋🤷💁🙆🙅🤦🙇🙌🙏🗣🏃🚶🤰👥👤👫🕴🕺💃👯👩👩👧👧👩👩👦👦👩👩👧👦👨👨👧👦👨👨👦👦👨👨👧👧👩👩👦👩👩👧👨👨👧👨👨👦👨👩👧👧👨👩👦👦👨👩👧👦👨👩👧👪👩❤️👩👨❤️👨💑👨👩👧👪👩❤️👩👨❤️👨💑👩❤️💋👩👨❤️💋👨💏👭👬
I'm tired, I'll continue later
Jehovah 😂😂😂😂
DeleteYaba left escapee where are you? Got someone "Anonymous 14:07" up here👆🏾for you 🙄🤔🤷🏾♀️
DeleteAnon 18:40 😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣😂
DeleteHe wants to overthrow yaba left
The Nigerian "celebrities" so called do not have shame. How persin go carry marriage matter and everything about marriage dey update for social mmebi eh?
ReplyDeleteYou wan tell ya "boo" say you love am, na for social mmebi you go tell am. Im fork you well, na for social mmebi e go show. Tohtoh expand (and contract), na social mmebi e go show eh?
Okay, na from there wahala go start.
Even when water don enter under the rug, them go pretend like say them dey heaven. Ngwanu, when marriage scatter, how you go hide am kwanu?
The fans go blow am all over internet and manufacture gist about all them forkery forkery.😯😯
Tufiakwa!
This is why I can't stand your comments, always bashing women, always blaming them. You are a very judgemental person. May your hate for women not kill you, mstchew.
DeleteStella give us medlin boss and Nimsdefabulous gist. Plus Annie and Naomi. I heard it's da bomb.
ReplyDeleteNa by force? We dont know them.
DeleteGive us the gist abeg and leave last name out of it of course
DeleteYou know it's not a crime if u bring the gist here urself
DeletePls gist us if you know, not everytime Stella Stella......
DeleteYou don kuku type under Anon, so abeg drop the jist as e dey hot if you get am. Especially Annie and Naomi. I don search every where for the gist. I know say e go be bombshell. Am about is not my calling ohhh🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Delete🍷
ReplyDeletechai...see hot gist.
ReplyDeletewill be back for comments.
Gist from my shop..😁😁😁
ReplyDeleteThere are some fine fine women in this our market ooo.. Like badass sexy crochettos.💕
Them no even wan gree say dem don marry.
There was one that came into the market, I was outside with a friend displaying my ankara. She packed her car beside my tent.
Was just side-eyeing her🙄🙄🙄 like say who be this yellow pawpaw like this..
I just jejely comot eyes face my market, then my friend said, omo see this woman ooo..😮😮
I just told him to lemme Jere, I never chop, no disturb me..
My mind was like advertise your ankara to her na😒😒😒😒
Omo sharp guy..😊😊
I went to her.. Greeted her, showed her some designs, showed her the ones on my phone.. Wow.. She liked them..😋😋😋
My friend was already doing somehow, I said oga, behave ooo..
Took her to my shop, as we were about entering, NEPA struck the light😏😏😏 awon weyrey. They didn't even allow her enter well..
Na so we enter ooo, siddon dey talk😁😁😁 we no no how we talk enter, 'Are you a virgin'?😂😂😂😂
I'm tired Jere, let me rest
Ola, complete this Gist o.
DeleteGist inside gist
Chaiii you be case
DeleteCome back here and finish this gist joor... Lazy Nigeria youth..lol
DeleteOla tiyawo 🙌🙌🙌🙌
DeleteDon't let them spoil you for Abuja oo
Ola, Ola...be careful o, make dem no use ikebe collect all your ankara o! Oga Ade...
DeleteOla Ola Ola 😄
DeleteEhn ehn and what now happen ? Ewo come and complete this gist ooo
DeleteOla, finish this gist jor
DeleteBia, Come and finish this gist! Wetin happen as una begin discuss virginity and co?
DeleteNa u dey ask Abi na she SDK u??..ola no use us play come here and complete d story
DeleteOla come back here and finish the gist biko
DeletePhool🤣🤣🤣🤣 come and complete your story
Delete🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃
DeleteUna too like gist..kwa.😒😒😒😒
Olaaaaaa,na lie jo.Talk true and shame the devil. I go patronise you soon.
DeleteOla, no let dem use you do money for Abuja ooooo. Atleast if she collect all your Ankara and use you do houseboy that one go better.
DeleteAfter 1 week, we no go miss you for blog again oooo. U better watch it 🙄🤣🤣😂🎊🤷🏾♀️
This one is hard. I will be back🚶🚶🚶🚶.
ReplyDeleteStellakoko! My fearless diva always saying it as it is....Hailings ma!
ReplyDeleteLemme read comments.
Many people are getting married out of convenience. No love and very low threshold for sacrifice and forgiveness. Never marry a man whose ego is bigger than him. Those are the worst beings ever. That being said, what's up with Gbenro and Osas? He doesn't follow her anymore but she does follow him (love that woman by the way she is way too mature).
ReplyDeleteLeave all these so called mature people oh, theyre keeping mute doesnt mean theyre so mature, its not always the loud ones that dont hide their feelings that are wrong.... minus Ubi sha
DeleteMaturity has to do with how you carry yourself outside. Not washing your dirty linen out in the open. I don't care, but I know there is more maturity in being silent than telling people what they do not really care about. They may like the drama but def don't want the best for you.
DeleteI came early. I'll be back.
ReplyDeleteOla you must come and complete this gist, how can you stop half way
DeleteWho knows that Mona Lisa painting?
ReplyDeleteIts a half-length portrait painting by the Italian Renaissance artist Leonardo da Vinci.
Stella has it.
DeleteLol... You bad gan!!!
DeleteHmmmm.... Monalisa is the actress?
So it's Monalisa Chinda. The actress that her marriage didn't last 2yrs?
DeleteI thought Same too!!!
DeleteHmmmmmm!!!, monalisa,it is well with you
Wow. Ehya,I feel for her sha.
DeleteOh Monalisa?I get it now.
DeleteWow even Monalisa's marriage has packed up,nawa oooo, what is really happening
Delete2nd marriage right?
DeleteIs Monalisa no more married ni? Haaaaaa, I remember she got married abroad "Not sure if it's France". And I was so happy for her, eya 😔.
DeleteO ga oooo, God have mercy 🙏🏾
So not true, she just posted a picture of herself with her husband, brother in-law and his wife two weeks ago. It’s not Mona Lisa
DeleteShe meant Tonto,not Mona.
DeleteTboss
ReplyDeleteWhose marriage didn't last up to 2years?
ReplyDelete👆👆
DeleteSwag, they'd soon break this your hand.
DeleteAmenbo don carry me comot o😂😂😂
ReplyDelete😂😂😂
DeleteHmmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteSee hot tea inside hot sun ooo
ReplyDeleteMine too will likely crash like this. The only difference is that me I already know before the marriage starts that this is how it is going to end but frustration won't let me back out.
ReplyDeleteI lost my job and had to move in with my fiancee. My fiancee is the most selfish, insensitive, mean, abusive and stingy person I have ever known. I am not excited about the thought of getting married to him but then I am limited in choices. The only reason I am still with him is because he is my only hope out of this country. I want to give my children a better life hence my willingness to endure the abuse I am experiencing from my fiancee. I am doing this for my children but then it's hard. It's really hard and sometimes I lose it. I do not wish what I am going through even on my enemies.
I hope he doesn't disappoint me too. After enduring all of this and he ends up changing his mind about the marriage because I know he can do it. I am sad and scared that this endurance and condoning of his shits doesn't end up being a wasted effort.
My self esteem is lost. No more confidence. No job.I am only stucked with a beast as a fiancee. Life is hard.
If you are fortunate to be married to a good man who treats you right and gives you peace, be grateful.
Please leave him ASAP!!!
Deletedon't make him your last resort please, get out fast and look for a job, you don't know what GOD have in store for you!
Thank GOD you haven't married him already
If you believe he is your only hope out of the country, then that is what will be. Why would you limit yourself like this?
DeleteIt is well
DeleteNawa o. So you want to live a life of pain and suffering just to give your unborn children a better life abroad.
DeleteIf you are referring to your future husband as a beast,hope you know he can also be a beast to those poor children you plan on having for him.
Why don't you try finding another job. Rent your own place and be patient enuf to find a man who will atleast treat you right.
Children that you don't have already is what you are suffering for? When children come, do you think you'll be able to leave him? You are allowing fear of the unknown control you. You know you deserve better but you are refusing to leave. Do You actually want to birth your children in a toxic environment? Not the way my darling. Please ask for direction and guidance from GOD, let him give you peace cus that's what you need. Let go of every False Evidence Appearing Real. You deserve Joy, laughter and love.
DeleteAll the best.
You guyz decided to have kids first when you're even describing him like this??. Or it's just madness dey do u
DeleteYou mumu sha.
DeleteBecause hes an american citizen or what?
He will shock you, you think he doesnt have his own plans abi?
You sound like you don't even have hope in God. If you put all your faith in a man then you will surely suffer. You can make it right there in Nigeria, as hard as the country is are there not ppl thriving beyond belief doing honest work and opening honest businesses that are extremely successful? This man is not your only hope at anything. Everything you need to be a success and give your children a good life is already in YOU!!!!
DeleteI can't pretend to understand what you are going through so i can only advise you based on experience garnered so far.
DeleteFirst, your success in life is not tied to that abusive man. Do you know that longer you spend with the wrong person, the smaller your chances of meeting the right person?
What if the right man comes along and you're already married to this guy?
Like a large number of Nigerian women, you seem to believe that you cannot make it without a man. I know life is hard and tough but you are stronger than you think. You should trust and believe in yourself.
A man who treats you poorly in a relationship will not treat you better in marriage, especially if he knows he is financially responsible for you.
Please leave that toxic relationship. You will meet someone better. Belive that! If you do not belive, pray it into existence.
I wish you the best!
I feel really sad for u.
DeleteIf only u can love yourself, believe in you and trust God. If only...
I pray you live to share your testimony.
Your peace first
DeleteWhy go through this torture,when you already know how's gonna end,he is not married to you yet and so much pain he is causing you,you believe your life depends on him,your future inclusive that's why you are not seeing that open door close to you,do you know that the missing link to a life of excellence is hopelessness,you need to believe in your self,God's ways are higher than our ways,seek God and forsake you thoughts and ways because as you think in your heart so you are, it's your thoughts that will determine your reality,and I bet you that man will disappoint you,dearest your faith will never rise above your knowledge of God's word,seek the face of God,John 15:7-8,your fiance is adding nothing to you, infact he is taking away everything with his negative and destructive words,all the best.
DeleteMarrying him for papers huh, then when you touch foreign soil, you press D button, hope ur plans dont backfire
DeleteMy dear Anon, that man is not your hope out of this country, he is not even the means to giving your unborn kids a better life outside of Naija. God is your only hope for whatsoever you are hoping for.
DeleteLet me tell you a little story, I got married to a German based guy, now I will not lie, I was hopeful that when it is time, he will take me and any child I will have with him out of the country thereby giving our kids a better life, but at the same time, I always my hope and trust should not be on any man. At the time of marriage, he told me that I should give him 5years to get his acts together and then take me and any child we have within that 5 years to Germany, we talked about other things that we were asking God to Grant us within same period which I told him that we will get in 3 years. One year after marriage, God blessed us with a baby girl, the coming of my baby girl opened great and might doors for us, at exactly 3 years, all prayer requests was granted by God, now I did not know that the major determinant of our moving to Germany has been granted, but Uncle started misbehaving immediately he got it, talking down on me, discussing my looks with his siblings, every form of ill treatment you can think of aside physical assault maybe because we were living apart, but every other ill treatment was given to me.
Me ooo, I refused to break and stood up to him, when he saw he was not breaking me as he wanted, he started talking about going our separate ways. I got to know about the major breakthrough through the elder sis when she wanted to find out from me what was causing her brother to ask for divorce, immediately I got to know, me I just kuku told him that me, I want to give him the divorce he was asking for, after prayerfully seeking God's face for my next direction. He couldn't believe what he was hearing from me that night. Anyways, long story short, less than one year, after the divorce, I left the country, came back 2 years after leaving, to take my child. She is here with me attending one of the best school in town and growing like iroko tree without any form of help from the Father. Did I tell you that less than 1 year after leaving the country, Uncle came back married one of his girlfriends, and 2 years into leaving the country, he was still harrasing me, texting and saying how he is very sure that I am still in Nigeria, living in one of the gettos in Lagos.
Well , I did not even bother with him cos my helps cometh from God and God alone. So my dear If it is his plans that you will leave the country and give your kids better life outside the country, he God will raise helpers and opens doors for you from places you never thought of.
God is your one and only hope. You don't have to accept any form of abuse from another human being because of what you want to get or think you are going to get from that person. Have you thought of how your low self-esteem and poor state of mind will rob off on your kids if you eventually have kids with this guy and in such environment. Nne biko, you need to take something away from that guy and reconsider your thoughts and who!what you trust in.
I wish you all the best in whatever decision you take at the end of the day.
May God bless you for sharing your experience. It is very inspiring.
DeleteAnon 14:50, trust in God and work out a way out of that situationship Asap. Good luck.
For the very first time someone used the word "lose" correctly....not "loose"...you are a smart woman....dump that dude..you deserve better...leave him for those that mistake loose for lose...😀😀😀
Delete"sometime"
Delete"Who!what"
Anon 21:24 God bless us all.
Guys Mofe Duncan and his wifes marriage has crashed in 3 years. he just put that on his page now and its on instablog9ja too. quite sad tho, only God knows what happened. the pregnant one is Tboss
ReplyDeleteCelebrity or not,marriage is difficult.
ReplyDeleteIf you see any couple celebrating 20, 30, years, there must have been a great level of tolerance, because what didn't break them could have broken another couple up.
Truth!
DeleteHonestly
DeleteThis is the truth about every marriage.
DeleteMy marriage will not be difficult.
DeleteMONALISA is sitting comfortably on that able of the marriage that didn't last 2 years
ReplyDeleteher marriage crash again? eeya
DeleteNigeria version of the America sweetheart
DeleteStella one of Alafin Oyo's wives don leave Baba and she's every where begging people for money. This is a real fact. Don't post if I'm not anonymous biko
ReplyDeletepalace snitch, household frenemy, which one?
DeleteWhy beg? She nor get savings from baba?
DeleteIbinabo nko?
ReplyDeleteChai!!!!!!!!!! we die here. Oya decoders, work don land
ReplyDeleteI also wanted to emphasise on the law of karma. Never hurt people you were with before getting married to another make sure you make things right with previous relationships before venturing into another. The prayers of a man/woman who is deeply hurt or jilted can't be overemphasised. Make things right with people please cause I do feel this is one of the issues we have round the world nowadays.
ReplyDeleteMost definitely be back to read more comments and contribute
ReplyDeletei still believe marriage is a beautiful thing
ReplyDeletefor me i will get married but in Nigeria where you clocking 30 and everybody has their eyes on you
yes am in a relationship with someone obviously know am on that ship alone but am still in it because am scared of starting or being alone 30 is close by oh
Same whatsapp group.
DeleteTo find a committed man is like gold.
please can you do yourself a favor and stop the bull shit of i cant be alone .... what if he tells you he is no longer interested wetin you go do ? which one be say i'm in the ship alone. why not sail away alone na today ynash dey for back shooo. please live life and dont hang on to someone who you clearly know doesnt give a shit about you.
DeleteIf you dont let go of the darkness
DeleteHow can you embrace the light?
Marriages just dey crash anyhow 😂. Maybe those that are in charge of the institution use inferior materials.
ReplyDeleteWho do we sue to court?
DeleteStella d stells....after u na u..❤️🏃🏃off to give my relatives, friends, colleagues infact every body I know ds link to go vote SDK,......best blogger of all times,..
ReplyDeleteI need the link to vote right away
DeleteCelebrity or not marriage is hardwork.
ReplyDeleteI am intrested in Naomi & Annie's gist.
ReplyDeleteI wonder what went wrong btw them, Annie's bday message to her was so cool compared with what she wrote for Alexekubo .
I am thinking it’s cos Annie didn’t bring money for Naomi as her manager, so immediately Naomi signed Alex, she started making millions of Naira and got more popular (even Medlinboss) and may be Annie felt being ignored and left her.
DeleteYou guys need to stop lying in the name of bringing gist, Monalisa Chinda is still very happily married and her husband adores her. We live in the same estate. Please stop spreading false, ill rumours its really unfair.
ReplyDeleteAnon 19.17, you live in the same estate is not the same house- nor are you living their lives. You don't know what goes on in their home- not saying they are troubled or not. Just that being in the same estate is no proof that you are the authority in their family matters,Only s/he who wears the shoe knows where it pinches- okaaayn!
DeleteThank you very much. Don’t mind them with the lies about Mona Lisa
DeleteFear BVs o. If you don't have concrete evidence that they are alright then read and pass. That's how they said ubi and lillian had issues. People would say it's a lie. Check old posts.... same with tchidi and ex wife.
DeleteYou all haven't noticed madam hot hot is launching things from a nail studio to expensive trips with her friend and driving the latest range rover and she is trying to code the range by always blurring it out in her pics. This is really her money year
ReplyDeleteANNOUNCEMENT ANNOUNCEMENT O!!!
ReplyDelete"Somebody" impregnates his staff, now expecting his 3rd child from the 3rd woman
Nigerian music executive and serial entrepreneur and former horseband to Ms hot hot who is also busy securing the bag is expecting a baby boy from a South African lady, Nicola xxxx, who insisted on keeping the pregnancy
Nicola got pregnant for him while working as the Head, Corporate Communications. She had her baby shower on the 30th of March, 2019, and should be delivered of the baby any moment from now.
SDK, you are awesome. You gave this as RHI🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌