STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
THE DEVIL GOES TO CHURCH
Please married women in the house, how can you help your hubby(a pastor) when you identify he has feelings for a girl in the church and he can't resist her.always looking for ways to be around her or talk to her......
how should this situation be handled without causing drama ..biko,I need help before things go bad.and the girl tries to get close to me but I have resisted her.
Respectfully call your husband to order please and at once!...
The Lady should look for another Church to attend...Please you need also have a soft confrontation with her...if she knows your husband likes her and she is encouraging it then you need to tell her off...whatever it is,block her number on his phone and delete it and seize her simcard........
Oh God! Not another pastor!
ReplyDeleteHow can i be this horny on a Monday afternoon? I didn't know this herb will be so effective and hubby wont be home until next week... Who send me message o!
DeletePoster,follow that red pen comment at your own risk.
DeleteDid he tell you he has feelings for her or how did you know?
Talk to your husband about it or pray and watch war room
Please don't confront the babe to avoid story that touch.
Stella why should d lady b confronted? Its d husband that's catching feelings and not the girl abi I nor read well? Poster uve nothing than to keep praying for ur husband so he doesn't fall into temptation. If it gets out of hand call a meeting with other elders in d church to intercede.
DeleteHow do you identify that kind of feeling. Just fueling nonexistent talk
DeleteIf i were in your shoes i would make fun of my husband. I would tease him about it constantly especially when ever he acts like mumu around her i will just burst into laughter.
DeleteSee, sometimes you give ppl the benefits of the doubt that he probably does not know he is misbehaving around the girl. When you call his attention to it he will pay attention and behave himself. If your hubby was a real cheat, trust me you wont notice. He would pretend well or even act like he hates her.
As for the girl who seems to be trying to get close to you, why are you pushing her away? Have u heard the saying "keep your friends close and your enemies closer"? The girl is not your enemy and i think letting her close to you might be a good idea. I am not saying you should go throw urself at her o. I am saying allow her draw close if she wants. Who knows, maybe she is trying to discourage ur husband by making him see she is close to you and shouldnt try shit. Dont confront her o!!! Biko.
Marriage of Deception, you spend way more than u earn because u think u can “Keep” a man , going on trips with ur big god and lying to hussy u r on work assignment. Ndi Christian, he is staying cod u r covering his shame as a man by spoiling him with gifts. Well news flash, husband or not, u r a hypocrite! He is tired of eating Egusi especially now u r in competition with, u know who....y did they sack u from ur previous work place again? That excuse is laughable, ur shyt is smelling and smelling bad, ur 1st child is not his blood and he knows. Keep deceiving yourself
DeleteStella the lady shouldn't be molested as by what I read she did no wrong. Besides, a church should be loving and therefore not treat people anyhow. So madam talk to your husband and pray for him. Maybe the lady admires you and you dislike her simply because you can tell your husband is attracted to her. It appears you don't trust your husband, which means it may be his habit and weakness. Abi you wan drive all the young ladies commot from ya church?
DeleteAgent of Lucifer sent from Marine. She has already quickened the pastors spirit na to strike remain.
Delete😀😀😀😀😀😀 ah ma'am Stella you got me laughing at that seize her sim card part. That's harsh o
ReplyDeleteStella is just too funny😒😒😒😒
Delete😂😂😂...
DeleteNa small pikin wey you go seize something from?
Lets assume its even possible to seize it, wont she retrieve it?
Meanwhile, poster, no matter what you do dont run her off that church, you'd need her around to observe the atmosphere around them, watch out for his body language & longer eye contacts.... if she changes church, you've lost the bait entirely, it'd take off like a plane from a runway, and theres nothing you can do about it but pray.
Very funny but it will not be easy to seize her SIM card...
DeleteI dislike men that don't have self control. When they see a beautiful lady whether their wives are present or not they become like dogs on heat.
DeleteI hope one day a relative won't come and stay with you and oga will still chasing her around the house.
For you to notice it means he looks at the girl lustfully.
Like my family friend, every young girl in church is his daughter. God will soon expose all of them. I won't talk what my eyes have seen...yet
DeleteWhy not? Talk small nau.....
Delete@beds & roses lmaooooooo @dogs on heat ..but beautiful women will always have that energy they ooze that strong men will surely fall under our spell, even the men that are pretending for u like they don't send. Men of all kind love beautiful women and always will
DeleteYour husband is a pastor, what has he done to resist this temptation and how are you sure he has feelings for the girl? Did he mention this to you or you concluded because your eyes caught his eyes lusting after her or staring at her for more than a minute.
ReplyDeleteThe girl probably doesn’t even know your husband has interest in her so your husband is the one you should be talking to and telling off. You don’t have any business with her because she hasn’t done anything to attract the attention your man has for her except existing. Even in the house or God, single women can’t breathe in peace. Na wa
Your head over correct joor no mind stella.
DeleteDoppel close mouth jare!
DeleteObviously someone has attacked you to leave her husband.
Women have this intuition, when their mans heart begins to beat outside, the object has been identified in the church, and you cant tell me that church member doesnt know the pastors eyes are fixed in her, women can smell an interssted man a mile away, so close ur mouth there!
This lady must be giving him church greenlight thats why the pastor is going further, id he saw red he'd have stopped since
I was going to a church here because of the way the pray. Pastor said I needed deliverance from spiritual husband, pastor's wife was always looking at me with anger and always shunning me when I greet her. One day she appeared in my dream and was making trouble with me. I just took my single sef out of the church before dem fight me for nothing.
DeleteMadam the lady may not have any motive but I dont know. It's your husband you need to watch.
I dated a Nigerian pastor back in Liverpool. This man could make me squirt till infinity! His tongue/lips, fingers and D game is A1. Even my husband can't measure up.... Ahhhhn i miss my single days!
DeleteMadam Pastor's wife, a beg chill, nobody holy pass o
More oil to your head dear,it is now a crime to be single even in the house of God.some people are telling you to seize her simcard and send her away from the church,madam how many church girls will you send away and seize their SIM cards?talk to your husband because he was the person who made a promise of fidelity to you.
DeleteCommon there's no way ones husband will have feelings for another woman that's close to you or around you that you won't know,so stop asking how his wife knew that the husband has feelings for the girl
DeleteLet's face it!!!Women instinct strong oo..
Tell your hubby you are not comfortable with the lady and find à way to leave that church. Monitor his phone as well.
ReplyDeleteWho should find a way to leave the church again? I thought horseband is a pastor so you want the wife to leave the church? Hmm or you want the girl to leave the church because of this man?
DeleteLol at seize her sim card.Na you buy the sim card?
ReplyDeleteAbeg have a discussion with your husband, talk to the girl if you want but she is not your major problem.
E tire me ooo,seize fire ni
DeleteI taya oo..is like Stells is not feeling well
DeleteSome of u r so FUCKING insecure😂😂😂, this was exactly what happened to me, am slow in getting wen someone is mking a pass. Infact I got to hear from an anonymous caller in d salon what the wife insinuated 😂😂😂😂.
DeleteAnyways woman, that lady maybe innocent and in total zero knowledge of what ur hubby’s intentions r. Calm down , talk to him , tell him how he is DISGRACING u simple!!
This made me realize the girl I was secretly admiring her pretty daughter wasn’t even happy in her marriage, I felt pity and bad for her, she attacked like a bulldog , behaved so ugly , I jeje backed out , wen me 2 don born pretty girl cos Na my wish(Omo her daughter fine ehen Na so I dey admire the angel dey pray Mk God give me mine).
Someone called and told me how she has observed over time but I shd know what my new acquaintance said abt me in d salon, to GOD in heaven who made me, I never, like never saw such and all her behavior 2wards me made sense suddenly
Nne how many pple will u take there phones from? D problem is ur hubby not the lady , if to say I b bad person I for scatter her marriage because of d way she behaved but y do such?
All this newly amateur married women u pple need some coded runs girl friends to school una o! Best of luck don’t go ugly on her she maybe a terrible person and decide to hurt u by messing with him. Take it easy biko
End time pastor, endtime church
ReplyDeleteSeize her simcard Stella says?
ReplyDeleteLemme sha drink sprite and read comments
As in,she wan make me carry the matter for head this afternoon
DeleteSeize her sim for what? The man should control himself. How many can you seize?
DeleteIf prick was detachable, angry women for don seize plenty oh.. when she wan travel, she'd unscrew it & put it her bag 😂😂.. if the man complains, she'd say what'd you need it for? You can piss thru ur anus till i return 😂😂
Delete@ yle, prick is spiritually detachable oh. Queen and boss go know this one, lol.
DeleteStella you cannot seize the girls sim card ooo because she is not your property, poster don't do that or else she will blow your husbands nonsense behavior open for all church members to hear.
ReplyDeletePoster face your husband squarely and warn him sternly that if he doesn't desist you will inform the council of elders and also the women church of his philandering way...NO pastor likes embarrassment and that will straighten him out.
LEP😛
She meant seize the husband's sim card aunty
DeleteHusband or side chick, it doesnt make sense
DeleteHahahahaha at seize her sim card.
ReplyDeleteNa she buy am?
Your husband is not born again. He doesn't need anyone to keep his feelings in check. If he can't control something as small as this?
How cab he help those God placed under him?
He needs a check up from Jesus. Contact him
Bless you o
DeleteDoes he even read his bible ?
The bible warns us to flee from all forms of iniquity... (he has lost in him ) he's the one that needs to be cautioned not any girl
Cos the bible tells us that in our weakness his strength is made perfect , so should ask God to strengthen him "I can do all things through christ that strengthens me "
He should read his bible.
Women re their own problem. Why seize her sim and not the husband's sim? Why shld the lady change church n not them? The issue has everything to do with the man n not the lady. The man exchanged vows with only u so deal with him only. What guarantee's that he wldnt move to another lady n another when u seize her sim? U ll continue to seize sim n ask the women he admires to change church untill u meet the one that will show u pepper. Never ever stoop low to address a side chic. Do not belittle urself that way. The problem is that ur man, doesnt respect u so uvneed to take it up with him. Find a way to address it with him.
ReplyDeleteLol!.. Haba Stella, you want her to sieze the girl's SIM card. Sorry, not possible.
ReplyDeleteSeize**
DeleteSeize her SimCard?
ReplyDeleteStella Kuku kill me😀🤣😂😂
I'm guessing stella wanted to say
DeleteSeize his sim card .
Seize her sim card ke?
ReplyDeleteI'm sure it was seize his sim card she intended to write .
DeleteWell make we wait for her to clarify
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This red pen comment na wah ooo!!!make them kukuma close the church nah because if she chase this babe comot another babe go still come again. The Bible says resist the devil and flee because temptation will definitely come our way. But u see say the guyman by himself dey near the girl intentionally.
ReplyDeleteNawa @Stella's comment, she should attend another church!?😂😂😂😂😂 it's like there won't be any ladies in that church oo because of this horseband calling himself a pastor.
ReplyDeleteAll those block her will not work. There are a lot of such girls in the church
ReplyDeleteand this is classic spiritual warfare.
If you send her away, they will have all the privacy to do their dirty acts.
Call your husband and tell him that there is an "agent of darkness" in the church
and you both need to fast and pray to unravel her. Once you start, you will notice
she will begin to feel uncomfortable. Along the line, ask your husband to involve the
whole church in the prayers etc. and watch what will happen.
Go to YouTube find messages by evang. Funmilayo let you husband listen to messages about heaven and righteousness. In the message he will hear abt girls sent to destroy the destinies of genuine men of God. Without much talk your husband will 'adjust'
DeleteThe girl is not the problem, your husband is. Being married does not mean you will no longer be attracted to anyone else. Who we are attracted to is out of our control, what we have control over is how we choose to deal with the attraction, ignore it or yield to it. I would actually speak to the girl to find out about her. You should also bring up the issue with your husband highlighting your observations and trying to find out his intentions towards the young lady. Pray that you both maintain integrity and moral strength in your duty to the people you serve.
ReplyDeleteThank you.
DeleteI was confused when she said she was shunning the girl’s effort to get close to her when she should be trying to get to know the girl and her intent.
The girl might have no idea your husband is interested in her, or she might know but doesn’t want to encourage it so she may think getting close to you will make your husband have small fear of God.
Pastor or not, being married does not mean one becomes blind and their emotions cease to exist. What makes a difference is how much you allow the Holy Spirit and your spouse help you handle these errant attractions.
Poster you don’t sound like your husband does this often so I pray that God helps you and your husband handle this with wisdom
Seize her sim card? If if I were I would slap the living daylight of you, if you did that. Did you buy the sim for me? How you go and tame your husband's wandering prick? I will continue going to that church and there is nothing anyone can do to me. Go sort your issue with your married pastor, who has no respect for the vows he took on the altar and for the bible he holds every Sunday.
ReplyDeleteStella did you say she should change her church?
ReplyDeleteStella give some strange advice at times. The man is the one with his demons yet somehow it is up to the girl to fix it. Ridiculous. Every time a girl comes to the church he has an attraction to she will have leave to spare him? The man needs to fix himself since the issue lies within him.
DeleteAsk him in plain language what he wants.
ReplyDeleteAsk him if he wants you to leave so u can marry the new lady. Ask him if you were the one lusting after a male church member, how would he feel? Ask him this thing he's doing, what does he think would be the effect on the church, his pastorship and his family( with the kids in view). Ask him all these in a serious tone, his reply will direct ur next line of action.
As for the young lady, since she's trying to come close to u, why not allow her? If u keep pushing her away, u don't know what she has mind, what if your hubby is harassing her and she is looking for a way to tell you?
Even if she is in line with your hubby and wants to be his mistress, haven't u heard the saying that it's good to keep your friends close but your enemies closer?
You have to be wise nwunye pastor.
👌👌👍 exactly.. Dear poster please take this advice
DeleteMeet the girl and jejely ask her to leave or stay away from ur husband... if there r intentions, e go vamoose! U gat to be violent to reclaim your mandate.
ReplyDeletehow many girls is she going to warn? If this one goes, how about the other ones he will develpe interest in? Go and tackle the root cause, your husband.
DeleteLol
DeleteNezz nezz...the violent taketh it by force...bible even talk am sef
You have no right to confront or seize the girl’s SIM card.
ReplyDeleteShe’s not your problem o.
Leave the poor girl and face your husband.
Seize my SIM card. Wo I’ll break all your fingers and your husband own join
ReplyDelete😂😂😂
DeletePhewwwwwww!
ReplyDeleteNaija (Pharisee) girl has entered your church?
If una no fast and pray for that church,
all of una go chop fork taya o... including
the ladies. You see she was already "approaching you?"
Ekwucha kwa m.🐤🐤🐤🐤🐤
ANG is this you ?
DeleteNa ANG na. Her smooth nyash don come as usual
DeleteI hope the devil in this case is your husband cos the girl is not the problem here.
ReplyDeletePastor that needs intervention, I wonder how he counsels his congregation. Hang in there, sis.
Madam,confront your husband
ReplyDeleteThe babe fit no even send am sef, so he should be the one you'll caution
Stellz, seize sim card ke? If she tries that with correct waffi babe, na better beating she go receive oh
Poster, talk to YOUR HUSBAND
Ah! Stella, seize her sim card? I don't get it! Or was it the husband's simcard you meant?
ReplyDeleteI just laughed reading this cos i felt like i was the one typing it. I noticed my hubby has been talking to a babe for sometime now and i was worried initially. But being an emotional blackmailer i felt he must have said shit about me to this lady and i became bold enough to talk to her. My instincts really didn't lie. When i told her my side of the story she was shocked. She being a lady decided to join me and fight my devil. He sends messages she screen grabs and sends to me. Someone that will say he doesnt have a dime at home is the one promising a babe dubai trip by september.His day of reckoning is quite close as the plans i have for his disgrace is soo huge. Babe if you are reading this i beg no vex that i am writing it here
ReplyDelete... e don reach time wey Dubai international airport should be screening passports before entry, if youre not man & wife and you land Dubai, oya U-turn 😂😂😂.. Nigerians are turning that place to their adult Disney land.
DeleteBetween Dubai and iPhone, i dont know which has caused girls to spread legs more.
Pray!!
DeleteYes,pray and pray. Pray without ceasing
DeleteAnd you are really sure she is helping you fight your devil without anything up her sleeves?dont be shocked when she moves in after you move out.I'm not saying you shouldnt out your cheating husband oh,I only have a problem with doing it together with a total stranger who your husband wants.How come she didnt tell your husband where to get off if she is truly helping you "fight your devil"instead,she is busy sending you screen shots of their chats.Face your husband all by yourself abeg,snoop on his phone to get your own evidence.Its better you guys part ways and he marries a neutral person than your new found friend.E go pain you die!
DeleteAm not sure is Stella that used that red pen there
ReplyDeleteNa Stella, she can be funny at times.
DeleteSeize her sim ke😂...
ReplyDeleteCall and talk to her,ask if shes aware that ur husband like her,explain the disadvantages of dating married men to her and how its wrong..u are doing this in case shes also nursing feelings for him.....then face ur husband seize his sim,tell him the devil want to build upstairs in his heart and he has started the foundation, that he should respect himself...use prayers,confrontation, insult threat.. Whatever that works..but how many girls will u confront?
Why? are you her mother?Why dont you have that conversation with your hubby wey his eye no dey one place.Nonsense!!!
Delete@16:08,is she not the pastor's wife?and she there to also be like a mentor to younger and married women
DeleteA mentor, not an accuser to what she has no proof of......
DeleteTalk to your husband. Let him know the dangers of what he is playing with if he has conscience. See how you can restrict the girl from getting close. She may not know that the man is lusting after him.
ReplyDeleteWhere is ANG
ReplyDeleteCome ooh.
Food is ready!!!!
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She don show 👆
DeleteThis one deep ooooo...Devil goes to church
ReplyDeleteStella why should the lady look for another church. Madam you have to be with your husband when he is alone or not alone.
ReplyDeleteThe girl has a mission which she must accomplished.
The problems with most men of God is that they believed they don't need prayers from their members. They don't know that is when the devil strikes.
If Apostle Paul can beg the Galatians to pray for him and other apostles because of temptations and these are clean men, what can we say about nowadays pstors that are not clean.
Better start shouting at the roof top if you want your husband. Your husband is a weak and spiritually lifeless. How can he be having feelings.
You too keep praying and get atrong members who wont talk to gossip to help you in this battle.
It is well a
she should be with the man, when he is alone , and when he is not alone?
DeleteReally!? Think about that statement again.
See advice. Women dey suffer o.
DeleteHe should be monitoring a man just because of girl?
SDK oooo, were you being sarcastic with your advice? Anyway, Poster you cannot seize the sim card. And you cannot ask her to stop attending your church.
ReplyDeleteAllow this lady get close to you. There are 2 sides to a coin. She may be trying to avoid your husband by getting close to you. Sometimes it works. And you can also use this chance to talk with her and be friends with her. It has worked for some people. So you have to play wise. This is not the time to be angry. Stay calm and get to the bottom of it.
I heard a lady once said that every time the ladies get close to her hubby. She befriends them. It may, or it may not work. It all depends on the lady. The said lady may not be interested. So give a benefit of the doubt.
This is very simple
ReplyDeleteCaution your husband and leave the girl out of this,
You both made a vow,
That's who you should be cautioning whether or not the girl is aware is immaterial,
Tackle this from its root and that root is your husband,
Cos whether or not you choose to stay away from the girl it doesn't kill the *LUST*
Your endtime pastor "husband " has for the girl.
Quote the scripture for him and pray with him.
@:Pastor's wife face your husband alone,caution him,let the girl be.
ReplyDeleteSorry is your name if your try to confront the girl or try to seize her SIM card.. ((Did you buy the SIM card for girl or did your husband did,forget the girl and deal with your husband))
Good luck
It is time for your husband poster, to restrict his flesh through fasting. You should join him as you are feeling the pain. The flesh is trying to take over. Talk to him.
DeleteWhat a pastor
ReplyDeleteReading comments just made me weak. How can you confront the girl in question please??? Don't do it madam, you'll loose your respect. Your husband should control himself, he's the one you should be talking to. I don't think Stella wrote that up there, I hate to believe it, change church ke?? Sieze sim card ke?? Lol
ReplyDeleteThere is this thing I don't understand. someone please educate me. Does it mean men can't control their emotions or feelings without the wife helping him. Do men also help their wives to resit other men who have feelings for them or married women don't have lustful men admirers. Does it mean single men control themselves more than married men these days. The way most women carry their husband matter for head like gala these days tire me when the said man does not give a dam about their feelings. If you are worried. Speak to your husband on the implications of his feelings on the lady. The said lady might be innocent of your assumptions. Allow the young lady to worship God in peace in your church. How many young ladies will you chase away from your church?. let me drink water and mind my business.
ReplyDeleteThank you jare. Don't mind those senseless wives trying to protect their useless husband's from girls, meanwhile those men do terrible things behind their backs.
DeleteThey only form victims when it's becoming obvious like in this case.
Imagine this poster had to even bring her husband's matter to d blog to be helped, as d helpless little child that he is..*side eyes*
Can't type much but I'm just angry.
Poster leave d girl alone and face ur ur husband who lacks self control.
Stop finding excuse for him.
Madam wifey, we don see u, yinmu.
I knw some ppl on this table
ReplyDeleteMaybe his downfall is here..I can bet he has been cheating, it takes one woman. To bring down a MOG...if u talk n it doesn't work, why not take a back seat n let him be disgraced?
ReplyDeleteA wife should take a back seat and let her husband be disgraced???
DeleteWonders shall never end.
Talk to your husband and pray. I don't know what seizing her SIM card is supposed to achieve. But if you're sure you're not just being an over-sensitive, insecure dragon of a pastor's wife, sisi has to find another church oh. Just don't lie against her cos God will punish you if he do. If Ifeoma Williams could be seen out of XXX church, it's not impossible. Nobody is saying the pastor of XXX church did anything, oh. But to prevent stories that touch. Leave all these people saying whatever. If yawa gas, you will also be on blogs, not just your husband and the girl. You know your husband, so do the needful. I'm a grown woman and the work I do, I love but whenever my husband tells me he's uncomfortable with a particular client, I'm firing the client. Now, the nature of my work is such that I work more with men than with women, so it's not a case of his being jealous if I work with any man. I love my husband and have never cheated, but time and experience have shown that whenever my husband is uncomfortable with any project I'm doing, there's a good reason. I'm very oblivious to the way I'm told I look, so I honestly don't notice when a male client is more impressed by my face. I always assume my portfolio and experience is what is attracting them. And I'm not ready to allow any client scatter my marriage abeg. Plus some of these girls, isn't that how we read on this blog about the one that was calling a married man in her church on Valentine's day, even after the man blocked her? Their ashawo spirit followed them into church.
ReplyDeleteWhat if the said "girl" resembles someone he knew from the past?
ReplyDeleteMaybe he dated a lady when he was younger, and the "girl" might be his daughter?
Not all "interests" are 'sexual' related.
Unless...of course you are super sure it is a sexual attraction.
End time pastor
ReplyDeleteYour hubby lacks discipline.pls and pls it is not your responsibility to stop the feeling.but to advice his decision.IT IS SOLELY HIS CHOICE.
ReplyDeletebefore it got here means u guys have had issues over it.
Which one is he does not know how to resist her????.
Really???so u as the mom will help him find a way to resist another woman??????
Madam, this Stella's advice will bring you nothing but insult, physical assault, police case and public reproach.
ReplyDeleteYou can't just go seizing people's simcard.
Its your husband that you should face here. Don't quarrel o. Wake him up in the midnight and tell him that you have observed his struggle, and that he is human but will be judged with a higher standard because he is a pastor. Tell him that you are watching him closely and will not hesitate to expose him if he steps out of line because you are a pastor's wife and cannot condone evil. Maybe when he thinks of you confessing publicly before the brethren he will have an incentive to zip it.
N.B- so marrying a spirikoko is not the solution. na wa ooo
It has shocked me to see what some spirikokos do in private. Some just wear the toga of Christianity, wolves in sheep clothing seeking whom to devour in private, but in public behaving like Christians when they are rotten inside. What shocks me is that it appears they do not fear God or see anything wrong with their evil pretence. Till one day God exposes them......
DeleteThis is the reason why men of God should have someone they are accountable to like another senior pastor in another church to help with lifting them up when they are down or weary or to be accountable to the counsel of elders. The man is being destroyed by the spirit of lust and the worst way to handle it is to be quiet about it. Most pastors' wives keep quiet too much until things get really bad. They should realize that most senior pastors have experienced this and would gladly teach younger ones how to go about it. Besides, when it's no longer a secret, the devil has lost his hold a bit. The woman should approach the pastor's mentor,spiritual father etc and get it sorted out. I don't blame the girl at all. If it isn't her, it would be some other girl.
ReplyDeleteStella...nope... Today it is this girl. Tomorow wat if it is some other girl?and the next?...
ReplyDeleteU have to talk with ur husband. Also u have to pray too...
See the way you're stressing yourself because your husband is about to cheat. I doubt you if do have good conversation with that your pastor husband before now.
ReplyDeleteWomen are suffering.
About to cheat or cheating already?
DeleteLeave her, let her develop high bp all bcos of her wayward husband.
Wife material, Christian mother, Mummy GO, we have seen u.
Don, not all women are suffering, only those like this poster who carry husbands on their heads. Imagine her running to d blog to save her husband who's in distress, husband wey dey enjoy himself..lolz
Poster u r a disgrace to women.
Talk to your husband and if that fails, inform his mentors so that they can guide him. Above all, do not cover this up, do not!!!
ReplyDeleteI forgot to add that the woman should have pity on the body of Christ and stop allowing her adulterous husband to desecrate the altar(because the Bible says if you look lusfully at a woman, you have already committed adultery with her in your heart). The husband prays for people and possibly lay hands on them. Poster, have mercy on them and stop covering for your husband. He needs to seek the face of a God,fast to discipline his flesh and open up to who he trusts. Let we wives of born again men open our mouths when the need arises please. A closed mouth is a closed destiny abeg
ReplyDeleteYour husband probably likes her because she’s helpful in church or fun to have around. You’re seeing the wrong thing. You should instead ask yourself why he’s happy to see her. Listen to their conversations a few times before you run her off. U may find she’s just smart and witty
ReplyDeleteAt least that’s why my pastor likes my single self. Plenty years on and nothing inappropriate has ever come close to happening. Wifey was nervous for a bit there but she calmed down
Y’all invite people to church and want the church to grow forgetting that means hubby will talk to other women and you’ll talk to men too. It’s the calling. If you’re not certain anything is happening,you better relax yourself and don’t offend God by offending the young lady. Good luck mummy GO
Poster, pls stop allowing your adulterous husband to desecrate the altar of God (because the Bible says whoever looks lustfully at a lady has already committed adultery with her). Have compassion on the body of Christ because your husband prays and lays hands on people when he's the one who needs these more. Let him open up to a mentor who would teach him how to address this kind of issue(probably because the mentor has been through this) also discipline the flesh through prayer and fasting and stop thinking he can handle this himself. He needs to get himself delivered by God from the spirit of lust. Don't keep quiet pls, you aren't helping him at all.
ReplyDeleteThe girl is possessed and sent from the pit of hell to destroy your husband. Be prayerful
ReplyDeleteStory...u people will never blame those useless men with raving eyeballs, d blame always has to be on d females.
DeleteMy friend get lost!
'Sieze her simcard' abi wetin I dey see so inside red pen?
ReplyDeleteStella how can she sieze the innocent girl's simcard? Like seriously? And you live in the abroad o. Can you try that in Germany? As in sieze someone's simcard.
Madam, tell the lady to look for another church that you don't want her in that church again, simple!
She might be an agent of darkness, sent from the evil kingdom to cause him shame.
Also keep praying for him.
Madam poster, pls talk to your pastor husband and keep praying for him. Pastors are still in flesh and blood and can get attracted by girls that's why they should be prayed for then always be by your husband's side as much as you can. Don't confront the young lady and the church is a house of God where sinners/saints meet not your private home so you don't have any right to stop anybody from going to chuch.
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DeleteAre u alright? Would he pray for her if d reverse is d case?
God have mercy! Poster do you know what? you and your husband are devils. A pastor that lust after his members is a devil.You gather pple with God forsaken sweet mouth to make yourselves because both of you were not called neither do you have holy spirit in you. Leave that girl alone
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DeleteWell, you could adopt the Baroness strategy in 'Sound of Music' hopefully it works better for you than it did for her...OK seriously now, its normal for people to get attracted to other people even when they are married. Its what they do about such attraction that become the issue. Please snoop, if it aint broke yet, don't fix it. Do let him know you know he gives special attention to this Queen B,and that nobody has a monopoly to cheat (not saying you'd cheat), just let him know!
DeleteHow's the poster a devil ni? We just open our mouth and say things to people
DeleteJust be the poster for one min and read what you wrote!!! It is not nice at all. Shes seeking for solution for crying out loud.
Do you know as a pastor's wife she can't share this with anybody? Do you know the weight of burden she's carrying.
I just vex for this your comment.
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ReplyDeleteLolzzz...bvs ooo...someone said it's like Stella is not feeling fine for telling d wife to break d girl's simcard.
ReplyDeleteI don laff taya....
But poster, to be sincere, there's nothing u can do if ur husband is in love with another woman., dts d bitter truth.
U too, start catching feelings for another man.
Simple solution, otherwise na high BP go dey rush u.
Stella is so funny !seize her sim card as per the girl is a toddler?What business does she have with the girl?
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