STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
ANXIOUS TO MARRY SECOND HUSBAND
I'm married with 2kids, I have everything, i mean everything, i met a new guy at my business place, he said hes being noticing me since 2016, he tried to move on but he cant, this guy is head over heels in love, single n very rich, based in the western world, comes around to check on his properties, he adores my kids, he's planning marriage, he doesn't know I'm married:::
I'm so torn, this is why men marry two wives, cos if I was a man, I would marry too, he has great plans for me, he initiated no sex, we've been dating for 5months now, I'm so so confused, I tried breaking up, he forced his way back, I'm planning to convince him lets do a secret wedding, I can marry two men, without them knowing, no bride price, no friends, just a judge, me n him, then when I go buy stuff for my biz, I stay with him, I'm so tired, confused.
This one is lost...
ReplyDeleteLooooooooooool.
DeleteI noticed that these days, most chronicle writers claim that there's no sex in their relationship, just to avoid criticism, who are y'all deceiving?!?
DeleteCorrect Tales by Moonlight.....
DeleteAnon 15:38
Deleteif you see my big yinmu when i read that part ehn. Lol
See you see yahoo guy. Who told youyhe doesn't know you're married. I pity you, they will soon use you for yahoo plus.
DeletePoster are you expecting to take fire in your bossom and not be burned?
DeletePoster greed is your problem.
DeleteLost is an understatement, I believe died and buried is the correct phrase here.
DeleteU b witch o.
Delete@Sucre well said
Delete@Sucre well said
DeleteThis foolish woman wants to fall for a yahoo yahoo guy.
ReplyDeleteHe will add your money to the one he already has and vamoos! Okpo
God bless you for this.lady is not smart.
DeleteKpuchie onu gi,🤐🤐🤐🤐 kpuchie ohu g osiso
DeletePharisee Herodian woman.
This one is the one 🐤🐤🐤 you get power yarn
Every other fork should go on okwa ya?
Ekwelem pia g itari kita kita! 😊😊😊😊
He adores your kids and doesn't know you are married? he hasn't asked of their father? you are not smart, which properties? oshisco! that guy has been monitoring you at your business place and must have asked around about you before coming to you.
DeleteDem go soon MMM her. Wonder why she thinks d guy haven't asked around about her.
DeleteI lied I am a single mother n that their Dad is married.
DeleteBut he's the one giving me money all these months, my biz is not a multi million naira biz, I sell Ankara, he pumped in cash n I upgraded to lace and sarees.
DeleteAnon 22:44 Smh he will use you for juju. And I actually pity him cos you've shown that it's counterfeit money your head will produce. You're a useless woman, wife and mother. I just pray he doesn't touch your innocent children. Just leave them for their father, let him marry a sane woman abeg. Look at you wanting to paint your husband bad - after saying you don't lack, you now say it's your lover that upgraded you from ankara to lace selling. Shior!
DeleteYour village people have finally wounded you😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteAnd your name is slut 😯😯😯
DeleteThis one is slut plus? 🤡🤡🤡
Na today? A woman in my village did it over 40 years ago. She kept one in Benin and another one in the village. They both knew of each other🤣🤣🤣
Delete😂😂😂😂 @Slutplus 🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️
DeleteGod forbid I believe this is not fabricated or imaginated.
Delete@ Poster, I think you are dreaming. Please, wake up and smell the coffee! Chai!
ReplyDeleteWell...if the tables were turned and a man falls in love with another woman while married he will go ahead and marry her as 2nd wife. The question is usually if he can take care of them both so they dont clash. If she can handle it, i will be happy to hear a woman did it.
DeleteIts called polyandry. If she can figure out how to handle it fine by me. Each man to his own space and alloted time. Good wife is scarce o. Men should start conditioning their mind to share.
Its a mans world.
DeleteNo matter how weak & helpless a man is, he wont share!
And good women are NOT scarce
Hmmm...anon 17.36. Lets have this conversation again in the next 10years.
DeleteIn your mind now you've said something profound? @saphire
DeleteCyclone, have you taken your time to listen to converstions of girls of ages 17 and below these days? If you have your will either fear or be glad of the massive shift that is cooking against the "its a mans wold" slogan we have today. Majority of them will not care about marriage and wont carry the "submissive" mind set we in this generation sitll manage to maintain. Only a matter of time and all these will deteriorate and no one will bath an eye if it were a man or a woman who did anything.
DeleteOmg!
ReplyDeleteYou are in this situation because you gave attention to what and who you should not have given attention to.
ReplyDeleteWhen a married man or married woman is giving undue attention to another man or woman, this is what happens.
The truth is you will regret marrying him at the end. Just tell him you are married already. Let him know you are a mother with 2 kids. Dont think of divorce because very soon you will see another man who is better than him and it means you might cross again.
So, enjoy your home. Be grateful to God and be content with what you have.
Dont end with 'Had I known'
Polyandry must feel the same way like polygamy does I believe but is it legal in this part of the world? LOL, why not take permission from your husband that you want to marry more men or another man and you may be surprised he’d welcome the idea. I know I sound crazy but hear me out, anything is possible right?
ReplyDeleteMadam, stop cheating ehn and trying to make what you’re doing sound right. If your husband was the one cheating or you suspected him of cheating, this your story would be long enough to fill up 100 pages. It’s selfish to claim to have everything you want and still want more, you might need mental evaluation too you know. Get help
What is it with Nigerian mothers? Every other day, I get cursed out for being single at my age(28), talking about my mates are married with kids, bla bla bla. Nothing I do is ever enough for my mum. Walking around egg shells in the house. I earn a decent living, give her monthly allowance and assist with some bills in the house but it’s never enough. The insults are too much. I’ve finally decided to move out and get my own place. At this point I need peace of mind. Told her about it but she said it’s irresponsible ladies that live alone. I prefer to be irresponsible than to be constantly abused. I had wanted to get my own place when I was done with NYSC but I was considering her. And now I hear Lagos landlords don’t give their houses to single ladies 😩
DeleteTorh! How does this relate to the matter at hand now abi you wan marry 2 husbands when you eventually decide?
DeleteEvery aboki with him own kettle.
Anon 15:40 try to get a safe place and move out for your sanity. But continue to do what you do for her, call and visit her when you move out. Things will change when you are happily married and given her some grandbabies to worry about.
DeleteAnon 15:40 Don't allow your mother frustrate you into a bad marriage, oh! If you choose to move, do so without telling her. Yes, I said it! Don't insult or verbally confront her. Send her money like you can through bank transfer but she doesn't have any business knowing where you live.
DeleteHahahahhahahaaahhaaa😂😂😂😂😂 Sister don plan everything finish! Abeg, follow ya mind.😂😂😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteAfterall, What a man can do, a woman can do much better!
Kolo mental
ReplyDeleteJehovah bu Eze! You say you want to do what? So this is what it looks like when someone's village people catch someone.
ReplyDeleteLol. Is this a joke? Caesar abeg come and carry your woman.
ReplyDeleteAbeg leave Ceasar oh, Woman or Shit, he'd choose shit instead.
DeleteYou are a witch,your witchcraft is disturbing you.
ReplyDeleteOmo!!!! The world has indeed turn upside down...... women not giving a damn anymore
ReplyDeletecorrect girl, then born pikins and pass it on to whomever, 3 Orobo zobo for you......men have kept secret families for years so no lele
ReplyDeleteMake I follow Stella open mouth.
ReplyDelete@ Poster receive sense
ReplyDeleteWhat type of decision is this
All that glitters are not gold..
Don't take or make decisions that will hurt you in the future...
Ovokooooo!!!!! What won't I see on SDK? I guess what a man can do,a woman will do better😂😂😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteAnd a woman does not know that there is a nine month course
Deletethe abroad man will give him and if she mess up, she will be
sued for bigamy and lose everything both in Nigeria and there?
Looks like your skulls are filled with saw dust? 📣📣📣
Anon15:35,your own skull is filled with feaces. Article of no commercial value.
DeletePrincess,I don't think the anon is referring to you. The comment is for the poster
DeleteSwag save fight ohhhh ......
Delete@Swag,that anon insulted princess and she truly got what she deserved. She has been trolling her non stop for days now.
DeleteWhat would I not read on this blog! I'm thinking this is a made up story!! Except you have been hypnotised!!
ReplyDeleteYou are really confused and silly. I do not have words for you. What about the man you are married to, the father of your kids? You have no feelings for him, you dont care how he would feel.
ReplyDeleteDo men care how women feel when they take second wives?
DeleteMen have been marrying more than one wife from the days of the bible and quran... God allowed and blessed them, are u saying he didnt care?
DeleteAre u fucking serious!!!women don dey get mind ooo,wow I raise hand for you
ReplyDeleteNO, THEY ARE NOT FOUCKING
DeleteYou're a Big Clown anon 16:55
Delete🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂🤣😂🤣😂
You people sha know how to make one's day
Tales by moonlight.
ReplyDeleteYou want to use us to catch trips this hot afternoon.
Meanwhile why is Lagos so hot. I now put on A.C. plus fan.
😀😁😂😀😁😂😀😁😂😀😁😂😀😁😂😀😁😂😀😁😂BADDEST
ReplyDeleteUhhhm I pity your life ,devil is about to collect all you have with your full knowledge and you are helping him ,good luck in your second marriage madam,you don't tell a man not to be leprose if he can stay alone in the busy,no problem....wishing you all the best in your polyandra
ReplyDeleteANG
ReplyDeleteCome.and read this 9ja babe o
Hurr
ReplyDeletePlease let someone re-write this chronicle for me in yoruba cos ayam not understanding
ReplyDeleteMadame don't try it ooo.Dont let the devil destroy your marriage.You might not know the real intention of this guy.Becareful
ReplyDeleteUhhhm I pity your life ,devil is about to collect all you have with your full knowledge and you are helping him ,good luck in your second marriage madam,you don't tell a man not to be leprose if he can stay alone in the busy,no problem....wishing you all the best in your polyandra
ReplyDeleteWhite walkers are matching to this ones door step already.
ReplyDelete😂😂😂😂.
DeleteNa real white walkers. It's like the Red woman abi witch has equally disappeared with her brain.
😂😂😂.. little finger did the connection
DeleteYour case needs deliverance
ReplyDeleteMen. Shey una don see wat you've thought women. Won't pity una one bit...wen women start, it's disastrous ...
ReplyDeleteWhat's this one saying? Taught women onto say wetin ? So it's her husband that taught him how to be a thief because what she's about to do is stealing by trick and a fornicator.
DeleteMadam your village people haff remembered you.
ReplyDeleteKolo mental
ReplyDeleteMake I read comments abeg
ReplyDeleteThis one Issa mental case.Darling wake up! If it feels too good to be true then it most likely is! The grass isnt greener on the other side o,better let him be and focus on your marriage(Husband and kids). These are the words I have for you: Wakeup and quit acting/thinking silly.
ReplyDeleteI hope you folks are seeing that I've been right tey tey?
ReplyDeleteOnce abroad/ATM shows up, Naija Pharisees girls forget that they are married.
Them go quickly offload the husband of convenience aka "Naira ATM"
Stella, abeg close that ya mouth, you aren't seen anything from naija girls.
Nothing dey confuse me anymore, them dey cause earthquake with them tohtoh.
This sisi no dey think say, when she "travel for business" come chop belleful from the
abroad ATM, wetin she go yarn her "first husband?" You see as bastards are multiplying?
Okay, she no sabi say double marriage na bigamy wey suppose land am for jail
for that western world?
Look all the folks wey dey send thunder to my smooth nyansh and threaten to
lock me up in hell with their hell spare keys,🤐🤐🤐🤐 I don't care. I go dey yarn my
truthful yarns.
All the girls chanting ekwensu above will do same if abroad/ATM dude shows up
Them go even rape am join! 🤢🤢🤢👀👀
I was waiting for this 😂🤣😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteWelcome
Anonymous 15:28 must be YLE's sibling or cousin. 😂😂
DeleteWhy are you confused? Ned Nwoko is taking wife number 6 and he's not confused. Ask him for tips.
ReplyDeleteI thought some people said it's not a MAN'S WORLD?
Na wa ooooo. Madam poster, are you sure you are ok? May God help you oo
ReplyDeleteU say wetin? U think u can pull this off?
ReplyDeleteNo be ya bed breaking disciple be this?
DeletePharisee herodian abracadabra! 😂😂😂
I honestly don't know if I can.
DeleteBlood of God, some people get Mind
ReplyDeleteDo you know that marrying before a judge requires you to swear or sign that you're not married to anyone else? I feel sorry for your husband who thinks he's married to a human being and has children with her. You're a verrrrry silly woman.
ReplyDeleteCesar, your food is ready, come chop.
I can lie.
DeleteThere must be 2 or more witnesses too, plus before marriage you have to get a letter from your home affairs stating that you are not married.
DeleteYou can lie abi??? See you see destruction
DeleteOf course you can lie. You've been lying to your husband and yourself for months. What's one more series of lies? Go and do what you've already decided to do
DeleteCeaser will comment his thought in tomorrow's SP.
DeleteNormal levels. Wait for it.
Someone is mad here and need a brain reset
ReplyDeleteThe end is near
ReplyDeleteMadam you have everything planned out already so you don't need our opinion I guess.
ReplyDeleteANG go tell you the rest
Just negodi,let's assume u were nt married n u met this guy..within a period of 5 months u will just jump in to marriage.. If u were nt married,I for say na frustration abi desperation
ReplyDeleteSince his very rich,hope he has bought aircraft for u.mtchweeeeeeeee
ReplyDeleteHa Ha Poster, it's women like you that makes other women look bad. Let that innocent man, know your true relationship status, before it all boomerang on you.
ReplyDeleteNo nau! This story can't be real 😮
ReplyDeleteVery real.
DeleteHmmmmmmmmm women ohhhh countiine you see hey....that drum you want to beat,I hope you can dance to it very well. hiss.
ReplyDeleteHahahahaha Stella why you and your meme open mouths. Abeg close before sunfly enters.
ReplyDeleteMadam carry go, you are old enough to do as you like.
No advice. Just enjoy and pay later
🤦🏾♀️ Let us know how it goes.
ReplyDeletePoster , YOU DON CHOP BELLEFULL, YOU COME BEGIN FIND WETIN GO TEAR/BURST YOUR STOMACH! Eh hen! Na dis one gangan go tear your stomach. Congratulations in advance! Your shame will not have part 2. Just buy sniper and keep under your pillow. You will need it.
ReplyDeleteThunder fire anybody that says you should not marry your second husband.
I won't take sniper dear.highest I would cry n another will wipe my tears, I believe if I lose both men, another will fall for me, its just my rotten luck. He's not d first man to fall for me, but I happen to love this one back hence d chronicle.
DeleteYou are such an idiot poster who is anon 18:48. Like read how daft you sound. The biggest losers are your kids. Because reading the your comments, I am very sure your daft genes are dominant and you have passed it on to them. You are actually somebody's mother?? Gosh! "Another would fall for me" like really? Are you 9? This is why women should be banned from getting married till they are properly educated. The men that fall for you must be equally daft and obviously foolish, so I feel no pity for them. Two or is it three idiots should endeavour to stick together. So many lines in your story points to your retardation. You have everything, yet you love another person who is rich but you have just known for 5 months and in those 5months you have been able to ascertain that he "adores" your kids but he doesn't know you are married and yet never asked of the children's father. In the 5 month's you and your kids have been able to interact with him to the extent of bonding yet he isn't aware of their father. He wants you to manage his estates because he doesn't have estate managers and this person is supposed to be very rich. You are suffering from the worse form of mental retardation and you are here replying comments. People who would actually give you advise are also not okay. I don't pity your husband, he must be as retarded to marry you in the first place. He deserves all he gets. Stella post my comments o. Do not use it to cook!
DeleteWith some of your comments that i have read here so far. Poster, you're sick. You need a mental evaluation. Your background need to be checked to know your history..
DeleteWait woman you must be dreaming and confused! what is wrong with you? Are you not married to someone? Are you thinking at all? Ask God to help you or you think this is a blog were you just pour your imaginations abi? Besides if you have it all mapped out why are you here? SMH To that man you married may God be with him.
ReplyDeletePoster please don't use ur handsto destroy this golden table dat God designed for you. U said u have everything, y not fall in love with ur children and forget this destiny destroyer.
ReplyDeleteSometimes having everything makes some people self destructive. Humans are truly insatiable. That is why there is need for self control and a moral compass.
DeleteMadam your village people are using your brain to play ludo. If this fire you are to ignite catches o pls don't come back here with your sorry tells.
ReplyDeleteChronicle loading.........., just do her a favor by typing your reply on her upcoming chronicle and save it till when its needed.
DeleteMadam your village people are using your brain to play ludo. If this fire you are to ignite catches o pls don't come back here with your sorry tells.
ReplyDeleteWake up from your lust and day dream.
ReplyDeleteYou led another man on sotey he wants to marry you? You even dated him for 6 months and you are married?
Your greed and self centredness has no part two.
Just so you know, you are about to loose everything. I mean EVERYTHING. including your children.
Break off from that relationship now and spill or leave your husband and home to chase your daydream?.
You can't have it all dear. Pick a struggle.
On a second thought, free your husband abeg. Let him too look for a better person.
I pray this 'angel' you have found, remain an Angel.
It was on this blog some years ago that I think a man told the story of how he met a woman on SnM and was planning to marry her, having sex, taking her out and she was playing house with him and cooking for him. But to his utter shock he discovered she was a married woman. He really loved the woman.
DeleteOh wow
DeleteWhat's the world turning into ?
Sincerely I used to believe strongly that married women don't cheat .
What a shame the world is really coming to an end.
My dear your heart strayed away.ols bring it back.
ReplyDeleteThere are some things u dream of;u wish for!you year for amd u hubb is not giving u.
Since he does not know u are married walk away cos he will have that distrust if u marry him
Hahahahahahaha
ReplyDeleteLaugh wan kill me oo
So u want to open your eyes wide and commit bigamy? Do u know u can go to jail for that? Please leave that guy alone and share his number here so our sisters can do justice with it.
Inukwa marry 2 husbands, what happens when he tells u to recolate fully to the abroad?
Or I convince him let's be partners, the guy is smitten, he's not yahoo, my mind is so divided, I wish I can have them both, its painful, I deliberately accused him of cheating n attempted to stop d affair , he gave my number to his aunt n uncle, they called me, I almost changed my number after d call, he wants me to be in charge of his estates here, my God, I want to escape this, I wish I could turn back time n turn down his advances, he practically begged me to date him, true true, my village people have remembered me.
DeletePlease remember to send your Chronicle when things go wrong
DeleteWe would be here to celebrate with you
@ Poster 18:40
Poster, I know a married woman that a man living abroad got entangled with. The man is stinking rich. He doles out dollars. Begging and pleading that the woman should marry him and was ready to dopt the son.
DeleteAlot of things he was ready to do for this Wan but she has to tell herself the truth. God is not an author of confusion. He can not send a man to marry you when you're married.
This wonderful package is not from God. You need grace to break free from this temptation. You have to let go. Ask God for the grace and be firm. It might alluring and appalling now, but you don't know the end.
End that relationship and face your home.
Haba! You are just a greedy human being. Does it mean you don’t love your husband anymore?
ReplyDeleteI don't even remember him sometimes, n he's always doing lovey dovey n it makes me guilty.
DeleteThis world sha.... person wey get cap nor get head and person wey get head nor get cap....
DeleteMARRY HIM WOMAN, I LOVE YOU ALREADY. WOMEN SHOULD START EATING THEIR CAKE AND HAVING IT. WHAT IS GOOD FOR THE GOOSE IS GOOD FOR THE GANDER
ReplyDeleteAs long as you are neither the goose nor the gander.
DeleteYou have everything so why falling for him?.... Fake story.
ReplyDeleteMadam, you seriously need help cos this isn't normal atall.... May ur helper(s) locate you soon before it's too late!!🚶♀️🚶🚶
ReplyDeleteNa so. Ndi o no na di acho di.
ReplyDeletecome out clean to both men, if this I just read is true, then...... as in am lost for words,
ReplyDeleteI can't come clean to my husband.
DeleteAre you sure you are the poster ??? 18:42
DeleteHey you @ poster, come under the comment section and swear this is a real story because I cannot waste my precious time advising you on an imaginary story.
ReplyDeleteBut, I have just ONE advise for you (if this is a real story) and others that may want to photocopy you. My dear, go to the studio with your kids to take one last picture with them, please don't forget to enlarge the picture o. The picture will be your companion for life when kasala burst. My friend forget all the sayings that women of our generation get custody of their kids when they separate from husband. See the honest truth is that even your family will not fight for your kids with you on the ground of performing polyandry. Most people in the world (not just Nigeria) are not is support of such action. So go ahead to suit yourself but remember OYO is your case. Congratulations on your 2nd wedding and adieu to you in advance. Radaradacious
Sometimes, women get custody. But that will never happen in this case. There's no judge in the world who will hear this and allow her near children
DeleteIts real, but none of them can find out, my heart is very heavy.
Deleteoh yes, I quiet agree that women of our generation gets custody like I mentioned earlier but not in the case of polyandry. To even make matter worse, her children are girls, omo the whole family / judge will believe they will end of like her so its a no no case.
DeleteGosh, I don die o, you mean this story is real, as in for real real. Omo you are the most foolish human being on earth. Please there's no need for game playing here, since you have another husband on the way, jejely free your husband and go your on damn way. There are lots of single women looking for just any man to be their husband. please I use God beg una look around your neighbor for any single, responsible and God fearing lady and introduce her to your husband. Failure to do this and believe you can eat your cake and have it, is the only reason why my God will punish and shame you very soon o. Again, pass him onto another lady and waka go una o before I send amadioha to you. Shameless slut
Deletewww.AreYouMad.com.....dont try it!
ReplyDeleteMadam,what you are is a selfish,deceitful,narcissistic whore!If your husband was half as devious of you,you will call your entire village to cry that he has done you wrong.You want to deceive both men because of greed,and you have kids!You need help.Jezebel
ReplyDeleteIts not greed, its just a hopeless love.
DeletePoster I disagree. This is not love. You are greedy. And you don't love your husband. You sound really calm though. Which means you could be deadly, but laslas if you don't receive sense na yaself you go destroy. Please keep us updated, inugo?
DeletePoster I pray u carry out your plans in Jesus name. The last thing way me go do b to tell u no. That spirit way make u c dis new man e go make ur husband c new wife, how u c am?
ReplyDeleteIf u want play man game do am openly so dat ur husband go know, all d men wey b ur role model at least some of their friends dey know.
Anybody way dey advise dis waka Waka poster just dey waste time mehn. May God expose all ur evil plans to ur husband in Jesus name. Stellastic mama post my comment oooooooo.
Chai! It would be providence for her husband to meet and hopelessly fall for another woman.
Delete...Say what? Kweke!
ReplyDeleteYou don’t have problem. Remember to send pictures of you, him and the judge here. Impossible chronicle. 🚶🚶🚶🚶
ReplyDeleteFirst of all do your research to make sure that polyandry will not end you up in jail. To be honest I like hearing stories like these from women, after all, what is good for the goose is good for the gander but if you have the fear of God I would advise you not to do it just so your conscience can be clear.
ReplyDeletemadam pls inbox me your husband's name, social media handle before running off with your lover
ReplyDelete