MONDAY IHN

Hello!!!!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY JOSEPHINE
Good day Stella, today march 18th is my birthday and I'm so thankful to God Almighty for another year. I fall, i raise, i make mistakes, i live, i learn, I've been hurt, but I'm alive, I'm human, I'm not perfect but I'm
thankful. Happy birthday to me.




Happy birthday to you babe geh!!!!







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CARDIAC ISSUES

BVs you people should help me out..I have a Fiance who is suffering from Cardiac.. Its not d cardiac arrest that kills but he said if it develops to d cardiac arrest that death is d next...But he said he is safe and taking medications to clear it..He lives in US and his doctor told him if he wants it to be cured completely that he should come for surgery but the chances of survival is 50/50..But he refused to go for d surgery .

He is taking his drugs and it will take long before it heals completely.. 

My worries are that I am afraid of him having cardiac arrest one day and dying .I love him already and wants to marry him but what will happen tomorrow? Will he live longer till 100yrs? I want him to live longer..

He is in his 40s now..I am so afraid of being a widow...He is a widower too..I am afraid of loosing a husband in future.. 

Pls doctors should educate me on dis cardiac..Should I marry or walk away?



*Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa,one chance o!!!...If you know you just want to enter America then you are on course otherwise hmmmm,dont do it oooooh...Will be able to withstand the stress that comes with Marital life?The various emotions?hmmmm make you think am well before you chook leg...

Wait i dont understand it,if you look at it whichever way it stands,his chances are 50/50 whether he does the Surgery or not,so why doesnt he just do it if he is saying the truth?Hmmmm check well ooooooooooo make you no go born pikin with genetic generational disease!




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COMMENT SECTION -NA WAH OOOOOOOOO



Hi guys. Im just in so much pains and it just feels like I'm alone in this world.

 The only man I love has been acting up for some time now and this is after a 6 years relationship. He has been nice and provides my every single need. But now I'm reading the signs and he just wants to frustrate me out of the relationship. 

Different girls on phone he even tells some he is single. Right now I'm so depressed, I was actually staring at a knife today. I feel so hurt and heart broken. Haven't been able to even bath since morning. Oh God I'm so tired, I just wish I can be happy again, I'm losing myself.

 If he doesn't call me, my fine won't ring for a whole day. I'm so tired, I just feel like leaving, this pain is too much for only me



*You feel like leaving where?Hisssssssssssssssssssss...BECAUSE OF MAN YOU FEEL LIKE LEAVING?where is your brain located?in your head or in your pants?

My friend get busy and get on with your life,the best revenge is success at all you set out to do...They always come back to beg when they see you can live without them.....Wake up and take that long walk haba!!!




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COMMENT SECTION -AGED AND WORN OUT LOOK

Pls,my bvs,I am a housewife and I work my as off as per house chores. When my friends saw me at a friends wedding,they said I look aged and worn out.

Recently,I dont sleep because my children were so ill and I wont sleep more than 2 hours in wee hours..........(in fact,I raise hand for women and mothers O ooo,I now appreciate my mother).

 My main problem is that we have another wedding next month,how can I look chubby,clean and young back. Sometimes,I will be so hungry but no food will interest me to eat until I have ulcer. Someone recommended malt and milk,eat a little no matter what and multivitamin. What else can I add?



Retired slay chick and all the fashionistas in the house,up to una oh,una sabi say i no sabi this part..hehehehehehehehe

One thing i can say though is that you should not worry,you will soon begin to enjoy motherhood ok?





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A TESTIMONY OF THANKFULNESS


I know its the wrong post but help me post Stella, I am so so happy, never believed this could happen to me, after 8 yrs of my ordeal with fibroid, I am finally preggy💃💃💃💃. Who said natural herbs aint the best. I had an operation and it kept growing back, just one month on natural medicine. God I will forever bless your holy name. Join me in praising God my fellow bvees




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Emotionally Unavailable Persons! (Part 2)



Understand that not everyone in a relationship is looking for love; It would save you a whole lot of heartaches if you can keep this in mind. Don't be deceived, an emotionally unavailable person (let's call them E.U.P) is very capable of doing the romantic chase. In the beginning, you may not have been interested because let's say they're married or they initially ignore you or act like they hate you. Then they suddenly have eyes for only you go out of their way to impress you, wine and dine you, show unwavering attention, for as long as it would take, they will court you. When you finally say yes, the drama begins.



 Perhaps it was you who did all of the above because you found their eccentric nature attractive. Well either way, the relationship is officially just kick starting and you are already beginning to experience the frustration of “what happened to us?" It’s not like they've fallen out of love for you, (not like they were in love with you earlier most of the times anyway) it’s just like we said earlier, deep seated issues, broken people, hurt people hurting other people consciously or unconsciously.

If you are with category 1, these ones will punish you for loving them. They start quarrels over irrelevant issues, usually verbally abusive, could switch you off for weeks, either not calling or picking your calls, not visiting only to appear after weeks, like nothing happened with no explanations and no remorse. When you get tired of the circle and want to pull away, then they show you great affection, you fall deeper in love, they withdraw it again and leave you feeling guilty, wanting to win them back. Category 2, gets bored of people quickly or are afraid to be loved. These people can show you genuine love, love like you've never ever seen. The problem begins when you begin to reciprocate that love. These people actually desire to be loved, but cannot stand it if it eventually comes. 



You tell them "I love you". They wonder why or how anybody could love them, so they interpret it to mean falsehood. They start to withdraw from you. Of course category 3 are sadists. Sadists cannot give or receive love. They thrive on other people’s pain or suffering. If you are with category 1 or 2 there is hope for you. If you are with category 3 ABORT SHIP!!!!! I know you watched 50 shades of Grey and 50 shades darker, where Christian Grey told Anastasia that he's a sadist. However he fell in love with Anastasia and 'the love 'changed' him. My darling the percentage of sadists falling in love and changing is 1 in 1000. Well you say you can be the one in one thousand, well good luck then.


How can you identify an E.U.P? E.U.Ps come in different styles and shades, they may come in the form of a narcissistic partner or even a parent. Sweet pea, a narcissist will drive you crazy. In their own eyes, they are perfection personified....let's not digress into this personality disorder please. Alright, there are actually 5 signs, if you tick all these five signs in one person…


Number One: Too good to be true. Sweetie don't get me wrong, there are people who we meet in life who are almost close to perfection. Normal good people but when you meet an E.U.P. its waaaaaaay different. You see E.U.Ps take their time to select their "prey". Oh they would charm you off your pants. (Literally and figuratively). They usually have a mystery aura surrounding them that would get your attention. Don't be fooled, they can charm you so easily most likely because they've been observing you for a very long time without your knowledge. Don't let it freak you when they know the perfect things to say, the things you like, the people you hang out with, where you school or work. Thanks to social media, they can tell quite a lot about you. They will focus all attention on you, you'd feel flattered. WARNING!!!! If it feels too good to be true, it sometimes is actually too good to be true. Wise up! Stay woke!



Number two: Manipulation. Do not underestimate E.U.Ps, they are masters of the manipulation game. They'd leave you doubting your better judgment. Sooner than later, they call all the shots and make all your decisions for you. Some subtly others more pronounced. They choose who you relate with, where you go, what you eat, what you wear, who you are......... They do this so adeptly, that you don't even know when you are changing. Others can see it and warn you, but you are usually the last to know.



Number three Emotional dependency. Have you ever seen the yam plant when its growing, it curls itself round anything within its reach in a bid to get more sunlight. That's the picture. These ones can cling and make you feel they can't do anything without you. Bollocks!!. Yet they'd never reciprocate in action what they say in words. Remember Kerry Hilson (lord that girl can sing), there's this song 'Energy' by her. “this love is taking all of my energy"

Loving these people will take up all of your energy. They use the weapon of tears (Justin Timberlake caught up fast, you know, remember 'cry me a river?), threats of suicide, withdrawal of material gifts, blackmail and a lot of stuffs to keep you manipulated.


Number four: Passive Aggressive. When you hear the word aggressive, you quickly picture violent behavior, physical fights, smashing your windscreen, painting 'f**k you' in red on all your walls, and all of those stuffs. Well passive aggression is a different type of aggression. An aggression more destructive than the physical form. This one has to do with subtly punishing people by hurting them mentally and emotionally. Not everyone who is passive aggressive falls into E.U.P. Generally people who do not like confrontations, are usually good in passive aggressive behaviour. This post is not on passive aggression (some other time), Some E.U.Ps greatest tool is passive aggressive behaviours. You do not need to do anything for them to throw you the cold shoulder. Oh lord, you can live together in the same house, share the same bed and they'd stop talking to you just after you made love. No reasons, no explanation and this can go on for weeks. The mental torture it puts you through gives them satisfaction and keeps you wanting to please them.


Number five and the last: Unrealistic expectations. You remember that friend you had, who kept whining about how fat she looked even though she was as slender as spaghetti, or that brother who had no savings because his girlfriend wanted more designer outfits. Great! I once had a friend who was in a situationship with this dude. See my friend is petite in structure, always has and always will be petite! So this dude saw her in a party, did the chase for months, before they finally became an item. Guess what? Dude began to complain that baby girl was too short, excuse you! What exactly was he expecting, that she bury herself in fertilizer and grow? Funny thing was that baby girl was already in love and was getting depressed. He would admire taller girls in her presence and tell her how much tall girls were so attractive. Okay break up with her, nope, he wouldn't. Others it could be the colour of their skin, ' oh if only you were fairer,' or 'oh if only you were darker'. 


Seriously! You really should not be with anyone who makes you feel small and who holds unrealistic expectations about you. Cheers.




This is so interesting!!!!...If you think i should make this into a post another day please indicate.......but if you can please read this..

Madam PA please forward me the part one and this part two....



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TEEJAYS CORNER
ARE CURSES REAL?... PART 1.

Curse, is a negative proclamation resulting to a painful  occurrence and happenings in the life of an individual or group of people. As old as nature itself, curses have been in existence but so unfortunately some people are yet to agree that it does.

In Genesis 12:3, God said to Abraham;  "I will bless those who bless you and I will CURSE them that curse thee." If there is no such thing as curse, God wouldn't have used such words.

Cain, was one among the casualties of God's wrath. After killing his brother Abel, a curse was placed on him by God, he became a wanderer. Don't forget Adam, Eve and the serpent weren't spare either, as they all had their own share of curse as a result of their actions.

Furthermore, the biblical story of Balak and Balaam also proved the notion about the effectiveness of a curse word. God said to Balaam, “Do not go with them. You must not put a curse on those people, because they are blessed.”

A curse could be seen as a bondage or spell that hold one down from been successful in life, and keeps them on the negative side of event. Curses could be hereditary, self inflicted or even cast upon as a spell.

Make no mistake about this, that evil deed go unpunished. Some called it nemesis, another  called it karma. One thing is certain and very clear when the bible admonished us that God is not mocked, for whatsoever a man soweth, that he shall reap.

Having established the fact that curses abide, in my next writing I will elaborate on curses either by hereditary, self infliction and enchantment through spell. More also, I will write about the possibility of breaking out.




Please let us concentrate on positive write ups that will Bless the soul,this your write up is kinda Freaky please....





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