You become breaking News and this friend is right by your side providing a shoulder when they are the ones who broadcast your ish in the first place........
We all have people like this around us or we are even the ones who do this to others....................
Have you ever been Breaking News because you confided in anyone?
I have not experienced such per se....maybe because i dont really make friends to the extent of sharing secrets.
ReplyDeleteBest life my dear, I learnt in a bitter way. And never introduce them to each other.
DeleteWish I can turn back the hand of time.
I experienced this last week. I helped provide info for a sister in need, who has been groomed but little did I know she'll run right back to the guy!
DeleteIt almost cost me my marriage. To your tent O Israel!
If I see which I've seen plenty, na pim! I dey now!
Am too careful, the way u speak about others says a lot about u,so once am in a friendship with u and all u do is Twist , blame, laugh, accuse, painting pple somehow , omo my lips will remain sealed ! U can tell me ur deepest secrets but na so I go carry am waka. No time and I think Its rather too childish trying to tarnish pples image unnecessarily. I always say something about pple who find it easy to brandish others, they r probably going tru a breakup with the person they r trying to bring down, they r probably jealous or envious of such person there by trying to put them down.
DeleteI once had a friend who told me everything about her family and friends even her men friends but till date, as we fell out na so d story be, Secret. But no hear d dirt she painted of me outside, it was horrible but my happiness was ,d few sensible pple she told trash about me told her it can’t b d same GIRL I know u r referring to o. Just be careful and listen to how she or he talks about d pple in there lives or pple they were once friends with
I learned my lesson the hard way..so now my secret is mine alone. Not a secret if I decide to tell you.
Delete2 can keep a secret if one of them is dead.
DeleteI learnt mine the hard way, if you attend RCCG be careful what you discuss with your pastor or his wife, your situation might just become not just the Sunday message but church discussion. This is not even Nigeria oooo, its in the abroad.
DeleteI was going through a difficult time as I lost my parents, was almost going through depression and then had issues with my inlaw and decided to confide in my pastor: greatest mistake because the entire church knew everything.
My former pastor is someone who calls members during the week to see how ure doing, he will hear gist from you and also tell you about other members "ishes".
I also took a lady from that church as sister, greatest mistake. All her friends knew my problems, even her mum in Nigeria could tell what was happening in my everyday life as this sister and I would talk over the phone when she checks on me and became my prayer partner and she began gathering gist as well 😏🤷🏾.
The lady's mum will call me to greet me and use style to drop a hint through prayers as it was obvious the sister was discussing all my matter with her mum, and because I was very vulnerable and needed someone to talk too I still took this lady as a friend until sense kicked in for me and I decided to stay on my own, never discuss anything with her by distancing myself and reporting my matter to God.
I thank God I got myself away from that situation as I sincerely learnt the hard way.
so what has RCCG got to do with your stupidity? so all RCCG churches have now become bad? the reason you got into trouble, you talk anyhow. rubbish
DeleteErrrrrrm, lemme think about this for a bit!!!
ReplyDeleteMy best friend's wife has been sending nude pictures and asking for me come fuck her well.
ReplyDeleteMe have been playing good guy and telling her whenever I come to town where she stays I will make her cum severally till she begs me to stop.
Now the problem is, I told her that I was having a lady friend visit me since my wife has abroad for awhile nooow.
This lady called my wife to tell her
This na person wey I get enough of her nude pictures oooooo and chat where she dey beg for my dick in her pussy. I'm soooo pissed ryt now
Be pissed at yourself
DeleteHahahahahahahaa.... Anony sorry o
DeleteHmmmmmm!!!!
DeleteConfide in your wife with the nude pics this evil woman has been sending. Convine your wife , Team up with your wife to deal with this evil woman.
DeleteShikena. Her type needs strong solution.....
Ayam not understanding! Lolz nothing i no go hear.
DeleteNa your type and your wife's best friend dey die like chicken. Cursed souls!
DeleteDon’t think you are better than her both of you are the same. You were having emotional affair with her and promised her rubbish. Before you expose her to her husband( your best friend), tell your wife all you have been up to. Rubbish.
DeleteYou led here on...what you do should be discreet to you. I think you messed up. Will you now show your wife her nudes? Double wahal. Your friend will now know and your wife.
DeleteI'm so good at keeping other people's secret but once i just talk small, they don't even know if what i said is true or not, i will hear it elsewhere.
ReplyDeleteThat's why right now, it's just me and my sister.....She is my BFF, i can tell her anything and it's safe with her.
Lol...just like you,I have always been good at keeping srcrets!
DeleteOne story comes to mind now 😂
My elder sister once confided in me, I was about 12. So, when it was her Era of buying fuel, one of the fuel attendants was on her case and would always give her fuel for free, I was always her escort, so I knew about the guy. She begged me not to tell anyone about it, cos my mum would kill her.
One day she wanted to brag to my other sisters and her friends that the guy has been giving her free fuel but no one believed her. Lo and behold, I was called upon by her to corroborate her story. I looked her in the eye and told her it's not true😂. See begging ehn, I was still crying and swearing that it isn't true. She was so very angry, but in my mind I thought she was testing me.
That was how everyone started calling her a liar o. Till today, my sisters still think she was lying.
I keep secrets, but I can't confide in another person for the life of me! My mum will always say I have a hard heart. But I love it that way, to avoid stories that touch.
Arab and Candy Una 2 na Taurus???? Cos that zodiac sign Sabi Dey loyal but always gets betrayed
DeleteI have betrayed before and I have been betrayed. Right now, I hardly keep friends.
ReplyDeleteTwo friends of mine had issues, and were always coming to me to confide individually, one day one of the them came to me and due to the seriousness of the issue, I had to tell her something about the other person, only for her to spill it out to the other person in the heat of anger,she painted me so black that at end of their quarrelling I became the bad one,lol.
ReplyDeleteServes you right ,amebo
DeleteThis is why I can never share any secret of mine with anyone. It's called a secret for a reason and it will go to the grave with me.
ReplyDeleteYes I have been a breaking news. I loaned cash from a friend and when I was supposed to pay back I couldn't meet up.
ReplyDeleteI called her and explained things to her even begged her that I will pay cos I was expecting an alert for job.
When the alert finally came I called her to request for her account number and credited her account.
This friend told one of our friend who tells everyone who knows you any little thing she hears about you.
Cash I loaned out of confidentiality.
She and the one who like to break news had issues, the news breaker told me that she was aware I loaned cash and that our friend said I enrolled my son in school and I haven't paid my debt.
Told her it's hubby who pays school fees and not me. And that the babe even wrote my name in a book as debtor .
I called that my friend I loaned cash from told her all I heard, made her to know she wasn't a good friend for even dragging my son into my own debt.
I distanced myself from both of them.
When my sweetheart first tell im people say im wan marry me. The mother no gree. She talk say (pretty) girls with big smooth nyansh wey read book no dey tey for marriage. Say them no dey stay with one man. (I no blame am for na so Naija girls been dey give us bad names). Me and fiance work our way through am come marry. MIL na my bestie today and marriage don last more than ten years.
ReplyDeleteSo I carry that tori nak one of my close friends, wetin my MIL been talk then. We laugh come forget am.
Na so mother in law come dey my house one time like that wey one of my friends (another one) visit. I notice say, she no dey give my MIL face. As I come dey walk am to her car, na im she say; "that winch wey say make oga no marry you, why you dey allow am for ya house, she fit poi..." I no wait make she complete am. Na so I rush am . . .tell am say make she no ever call my MIL that thing again . I for measure correct slap give am but I don lean to dey control mysef.
Me I no dey keep plenty friends like that. Naija girls na eyi egwu! 😢😢😢😢
Off point as usual
DeleteLmao. You really need deliverance from this madness. Ihe nkea bu ogu biko.
Delete@Eka
DeleteNa your maiden name be dat thing wey you write there?
Okay, full name; Eka Joy (nee Off point)😂😂😂
I aren't Telling any one my secret.. Me And My secret Alone....
ReplyDeleteAhaa
ReplyDeleteAll them (Pharisees) girls go come dey spill thrash. But na them mouth be the real typewriter and megaphone combined!
😂😂😂😂😂😂
I once trusted a friend and neighbor, I thought she was a friend, we attended the same Church, name sakes, married the same year only a month apart, I was a loner till she came along, he would complaint I am not like other wives, I am not sociable and so to show him I was not, I decided to open up and make one friend and that was my worse mistake ever. She would confide in me about the troubles she had in her marriage because we were both TTC and her husband was unemployed, I encouraged her, lent and her money, Food stuffs and all. Slowly I felt we were now friends I noticed she was also friends with her neighbour who is loud, a gossip and troublesome and I was weary of it. She admired me so much, so one day I made a bad decision to open up and show her my marriage is not perfect but I just choose to look perfect. I told her stuffs about the challenges in my home and marriage and off she went to her friend and downloaded all. Her friend took it round telling the whole Estate and when her husband had an issue with mine her neighbour used those things. OMG! what had I done! She was ashamed and I was disappointed, she summoned courage and came to plead with me and I told her it was okay, but she knew me better that was the END of our friendship, to your tents O' Israel. She told people to speak to me but lai lai! It's more than 2 years our friendship done and dusted.
ReplyDeleteChai.
Deletewhen secret is kept by more than one person , it is no longer a secret because that your best friend has another best friend who has a best friend too.
ReplyDeleteThat's it
DeleteWill read comments
ReplyDeleteI had a childhood friend we were so close. She can come to my house and spend days. Well one day I got an Annonymous message warning me to stay away from Her. The sender said she talks really nasty about me and my family. She just want to help me protect my self. Hmmmm I didn't know what to do but we sha spaced out with time. I've had several with female friends. Now I am my own besty. Whenever I ve problems I go down on my knees and talk to God and I feel better and with time things get clearer. Life dey go.
ReplyDeleteI have been betrayed severally.. now it's just me and my secret, no time for my friend this my friend that.
ReplyDeleteSo my 'bestie' not anymore is so good at this breaking news thing, that everything I told her in confidence she spilled them all when we had a fight like who does that. I have learnt my lesson in a though way.
ReplyDeleteA secret is a secret for a reason. I learned the hard way when I was betrayed by my mum of all people. She likes to knock her children's heads together and after doing that to us a few times we had to distance ourselves and keep our thoughts very private. My secrets between me and God.
ReplyDeleteI was dating a guy who is so stingy but can take you to the most expensive restaurant for food. He wanted marriage but l told him l will think about it. Met another guy who was also serious for marriage. I prefer the second cos we flow better. My friend knows about the two. Both relate with her very well. I travelled to another state to see the second guy. Immediately l left. My friend went to the first guys house and told him l travelled to see another man. Told him every negative thing I have ever told her about the first guy. Hmmm. she also gave him the second guy phone number. The guy called me on phone that evening and cried like a baby. I was hearing my friends voice at the background telling him questions to ask me. After speaking with me. He called the second guy and warmed him to stay clear from me. Both exchanged words on phone. It was a a bad experience for me. The second guy was mad at me. He told me after the exchange of words that my friend had called him before to tell him negative thing about me but he did not believe her. I left the next day and deleted both from my life. When l asked my friend why she betrayed me. In her words. Babe. Are you the only woman on earth. How can two men be dying for you at the same time and l have non. You expect me to keep quiet. Her words shocked me more than her actions. This is someone l took as a best friend. Last last she is married with a child while am still single.
ReplyDeleteWOW...I hope you also deleted this friend?
DeleteNaija girls, unu n' eyi egwu!
DeletePharisees, I fear una.
Na so one (Naija) girl been dey yarn say make
Abroad girls from Nigeria (parents) admit them for them SM group?
Tufiakwa!😯😯😯😯
Admit eke ogba!
Stella love. I have not deleted her. But we are no more friends. I attended her wedding and child naming ceremony like any other guest. I have forgiven her but no more best friends for me again.
Delete@Anon can't believe you still talk to this person, you better stop all form of communication or are you waiting for her to poison your food ?
DeleteDon't worry, you will find love in a better man. As for your friend, karma will remember her address at her and hit her hard.
DeleteAnon 15:49 you lack wisdom!!! God forbid. If you were my sister I will beat you this afternoon
DeleteHow can you still be talking to someone like that? Is it to appear nice or what??? Na wa o. This is noy being nice but stupidity. Someone like that can poison you. Please be guided.
DeleteGod forfend!
DeleteYou need to avoid this backstabber. It's not malice keeping but protecting your self from danger.
DeleteGod will surprise you with a wonderful man.
Anon 14:51 You're a fool. Seriously. Who told you that forgiveness means you must hang around the person that offended you? You think she's satisfied cos she's married and you're not? Wait till she poisons you, since you want to be a martyr. I'm actually upset with you. If you were my sister, I'd smack wisdom into you.
DeleteAnon 14:49 I had to check this post again to be sure I'm not the one who posted. My birth mother is exactly like what you've described.
Deletethis one deep!!
DeleteIf to be me I will arrange girls for d husband
DeleteI have a problem with confiding in people. I've always been a loner.
ReplyDeleteIn this day and age, that's actually a plus for you. Keep your secrets to yourself.
DeleteI never tell my secrets to anyone because they are called secrets. People tend to feel powerful over you when they have your secrets with them. Best way to be friends with people is to never tell your secrets because tomorrow, the friendship may die.
ReplyDeleteThis might not really fit in hereh however, it reminds me of something similar that happened to me. A friend of mine was working in a very good company while I was still looking for a job. I had a brilliant idea that was going to make money for both the company and I. She was one of their top marketers and it was her field. So I told her about the idea, wrote a proposal and gave it to her to submit for me at her organisation. She took my proposal, removed my name and presented the idea and proposal as hers. She was asked to execute the contract as the 'brilliant marketer' that she was. She did not tell me. I kept on asking her about the proposal and she continued to lie that the company was still deliberating. After about a year, someone close to her told me to stop bothering myself. She told me what she did. I was so pained. The contract flopped. She made lots of mistakes seeing that it wasn't her vision but someone else'. Years later she lost the job. They found out that she was fraudulent. Karma right?
ReplyDeleteYou weren't smart. You should have asked for the procurement personnel's email, registered as a vendor and sent in your proposal to be redirected to the right department.
DeletePlease let us trust with sense. That serves the yeye friend right!!
In my current job, i work very closely with an idea thief. I guard my ideas like no man's biz. Nonsense and ingredient.
God really fought for you girl....people get mind honestly
DeleteIdea thieves are the worst! Tufia!
DeleteOk.there was this time i was sick and was not mentally stable so my girlfriend was called upon to help me out in the hospital.she came ooo brought pap i took.i was happy, people even taught she was my sister but we were coursemates in school.so one day i was sad from what i was reading online about fake friends so i just posted fake friends everywhere in the whatsapp group of my department we belong to.the next message i saw from her was hey girlfriend so you mean i am a fake friend i will deal with yiu today i was shocked because i did not mention her name when i posted fake friends evrerywhere.the next thing i saw on the our department whatsapp group was her messages telling everyone i ran mad when i was my sicj insulted my dad that he is an old man.this is someone her dad is late ooo.i just deleted myself from the group i was shocked. Till today no more friends.
ReplyDeleteShut up!! You were indirectly referring to her as fake friend, cos you thought her, being too good to you was fake.
DeleteYou are actually the one who is a fake friend to her. Ingrate!
U started it naa, she felt u were referring to her.
DeleteThat's wickedness
DeleteEeeezzziiookkwwwuuuu???
Deletethis your story get as e b... there must be an intial gist before this one..
haba!!!
Whatever I tell you is what I can deal with if it ever comes out. The ones I cannot deal with will stay with me till I die. As a matter of policy too my friends are never friends with each other. They might meet each other through me but they can never be close to one another if not, I am out.
ReplyDeleteGbam!!! I use this policy too. My close friends arent close friends. So i relate with all individually. they only gather because of me and I dont ask them to be friends with each other.
DeleteThis approach has saved me more times than I can count, so anybody who thinks they can betray or blackmail me with something I told them is on a very long thing.
Deletewhat kind of stupid mentality do you all have? so if two people meet and hit it off they cant be close cos you dont want them to be close? rubbish, bunch of manipulative bitches...una get problem
DeleteMe and my secret only no time to shout..
ReplyDeleteI don't keep friends because I love my space a lot, no body should come and chok me with too much visit please, my children and hubby are my best friends, no strength for I think ,I thought. Let me live my life in peace.
ReplyDeleteLol.
DeleteMy youngest sister is my confidant. Had issues with my cousin and she said sm things she claimed she found out about my husband to someone and called me to ask why I would tell the person such things about me, I laughed at her stupidity. I purposely spoke with the lady and she told me what my cousin said about I and hubby and said I should be very careful with the so called cousin. Nah so closeness take pack up.
ReplyDeleteThis is exactly Wat I am going tru now. Thank God for strength and Grace to move on. One lady I usually go to for motherly advice has told the whole world my secrets. I have been praying that God should help me forgive her because I feel like killing her everyday.
ReplyDeleteLesson learnt, right?...that's why I hardly disclose my pains, worries;because I found out that most people don't really care about your problems deep down... Some even go about making mockery of your situation .it is well shaa
DeleteHer reward is loading
DeleteDistance yourself
Pray
Keep busy
Forgive her for your own peace
Let her go!
Some years back a friend I called sister showed be pepper.took her to my toasters house once and that was it. She went behind my back to backbite me, started dating the guy up until she got pregnant. The guy denied responsibility and everything packed up. It was a mutual friend that later told me what transpired , after confronting her she claimed it's the devil. I walked away, to think she stayed in our family house and we ate from same plate. It was a bitter experience,worse than heartbreak.
ReplyDeleteHmmm.. The things people do in this world.well, thank God for the breakup because the guy wasn't meant for you
DeleteThe guy tho. You're lucky, girl!
DeleteI don't keep friends because I choose my friends and it takes time.Even as my friend I still can't tell you my secrets ,I just can't.
ReplyDeleteCould it be that we are all saints on this blog. No one is talking about what he or she did. No one is the bad friend that broke the trust.
ReplyDeleteMe, I won't lie. I broke my Niggas trust. But it's for a good cause. I don't like the way he keeps deceiving many girls with fake Love, So I led the one of the girls to come and see that she wasn't the only one he's dating which he told the she was the only one.
Brother ezigbo mmadu
DeleteYou a fucked up nigga!
DeleteIf you see me dey talk na just general tins ooo. I they seive words like garri. My koko remains with me. And if I know you are the type that gossip a lot, I stay clear from you.
ReplyDeleteIf it's too serious a secret, don't tell me. Cos I'll surely tell my sister, and she tells me too. We're that close. Thank you!
ReplyDeleteI learned my lesson in a hard way, my friend carried my matter on her head like gala when I had issue. I deleted her, blocked her on all social media, if we see each other we walk pass. I don’t even want her greetings cos the greetings there is gossip inside of it.
ReplyDeleteThere is gossip inside hahaha
DeleteA cousin did me in.
ReplyDeleteI couldn't believe my own blood would disgrace me like that, someone I took like a sister. I confided in her about something in my husband's family when we were planning marriage and told her I was scared and felt like backing out. She encouraged me to go on with the marriage that it doesn't matter.
After marriage, an in-law called me and congratulated me on my baby's arrival and then asked that how will I cope with so and so things that existed in my husband's family(her own family) I was dumbfounded
I called my mum and reported my cousin, she was the only one I told , mum said the news was all over the family before my marriage but the family head shut every one up. My husband too said they heard in their family too but they did not take it serious. So this girl went and told both families the things I told her in secret.
I just zip up since then, even my own mum, there is a limit to what I tell her.