Gbenro lives in the US while Osas is in Nigeria...........
There is also reportedly another patter of tiny feet on the way.........Reportedly because i wasnt there.
Sunday, February 17, 2019
Actor Gbenro Ajibade Calls Out Estranged Wife Osas Ighodaro On Instagram For Neglecting Their Child
Tinsel actor Gbenro Ajibade has accused his wife, Osas Ighodaro of neglecting their daughter and leaving her in the hands of strangers so as to go party with friends.
Gbenro lives in the US while Osas is in Nigeria...........
Gbenro lives in the US while Osas is in Nigeria...........
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Fact is Gbenro is an immature young man who needs a lot of growing up to do. He is still in that old fashioned mindset of his parents where it is mandatory that a married woman stay at home and take care of the children. Her profession and life is thrown into the dustbin bcos she is married. The ladies we have today are hustlers and they also win the bread!! Osas job involves making appearances and networking. You are well aware of this. Please Gbenro suck it up and stop embarrassing yourself on internet!!! What have you done as the man. Other than stay in America posting pics of partying etc. If your wish is to bring down Osas your wife then the joke is on you. Grow up. There is a nanny. Professional women do a lot more and their homes are still intact. Rubbish!
ReplyDeleteOh why are you worrying yourself writing all these? Who can't read through him? I now believe B.Vs who said he married the lady so he could live the abroad life. Guy man is even quick to say living abroad was the plan from the beginning.
DeleteI said it at the time that he married Osas for green card. He did not look ready for marriage and commitment. He has relocated to America partying and posting pics and wants to be in control of his home in Nigeria. Oloshi. Let Osas know that Gbenro is a User. He is just looking for excuses to run from her.
DeleteI can NEVER give my consent to any of my loved ones to marry an entertainer or someone in the entertainment industry, the fight to balance home & career is just almost impossible... some men are built for that shit, like Omosexy hubby, she still de act de form taking doggy from another man unto screen play, most men cannot!! These are the consequences to marrying an act
DeleteUncle Gbenro what are you yourself doing abroad. Did she bargain for an "abroad marriage".
DeleteSo a child only needs a mother. What are you as father of the year being away from your family. No young family can thrive when the head isn't around for so long. Did she bargain to be a single mother. I'm sure she didn't if not she won't have married you.
Many women use going out to down their sorrows and forget everything going wrong in their lives or marriages.
Not saying what she is doing is right but I can understand that she did not bargain to be raising a child alone while you are parenting from the U.S. as worlds best father that you is.
Why not take the baby alone from time to time and we see how easy it is whether you will have the time to be lounging in Miami beach.
Without the said marriage will you even have the opportunity to be seeking permanent residency in the said U.S.
It's either you seat your wife down as a grown man and she joins you or you come back here. Bcos it is difficult for a young marriage with cracks to survive with partners living across the ocean from eachother.
You are a fool. So you think Osas is doing the right thing by putting the life of that toddler to risk? Is that the best way to pay Gbenro back even if he is not nice to her? Do you know the amount of sexual abusers in Nigeria? Imagine leaving a girl for party and sending her home with nanny sometimes. Let her take care of her baby as a mother and never use her to get at Gbenro
DeleteAnother idiotic man. He has tried all means to reach out indeed!! Imbe!!
DeleteAnon 11.00 you are even the biggest fool. Did you see anyone using abusive words on the thread.
DeleteNo one is giving Osas a pat on the back for leaving her baby with the nanny. We are simply saying he is going about it the wrong way and parenting should not be left for the woman alone. He as a father also has an obligation towards that child.
It's not only by snapping with her on her bday as an instagram daddy.
Lamentation Horseband where Are Thou?
DeleteOnce Osas chose to marry Gbenro, I knew she wasn't a wise or sensible person so I'm not surprised...
DeleteAnon 10:02...you are so on point. A reasonable person can deduce it all from his rant!!! She left 6pm till 5am and its a biggie? At least she tries to put her child in care of the nanny within that short while!!! Well, most men like this;have no life and seek a woman who will have no life like them!!! Stupid immature boy!!!
DeleteI respect Gbenro for standing up and knowing a child shdnt b trusted with strangers and so called Nanny. Doest change hw I feel abt him but for d sake of a girl child, he spoke well.
DeleteSo, Uncle you that left your "precious child" for only your wife who is a bread winner to go and be following men in the US is what?????? Are you not a parent or are you dead and speaking from the graveyard?
DeleteExcept you are speaking from the graveyard, then you are excused from worse things that you accused your wife.
Gbenro, you are an in grate. I repeat it you are a bloody in grate and I only blame Osas from even looking in the direction of a mentally DAMAGED man like you. I also hope hope you will denounce that American green card you got from her anuofia.
So, if you come and pick up your daughter from here. Will you bathe her, clothe her, take her to school and drive her back yourself? Will you take her around to work? Oh! I forgot, you are a jobless toyboy for ass drillers.
Go and see a psychiatrist, you darn know well that your problems didn't start with Osas. Stop stalking her.
Madam Osas, your nanny is giving this stupid boy information about your movements and probably adding pepper and Salt. SACK HER IMMEDIATELY and cut off anyone that will be feeding the idiot with information about you.
Once you cut off any spy, he will lose grip and control. Arrant nonsense. Stupid broke ass nigga from the pit of hell. Ekwensu odu ogologo
Lols, when I see men who make mouth like this I just LMAO . Look at how easy it is in his mouth to say "I will hop the next flight to come and take my daughter" can you even take care of a child nwokem?
DeleteMost of you think taking care of a child is that one second you spend on the couch helping then open lollipop.
I hope when you eventually take her, you won't leave her in the care of ANOTHER woman that will end up killing the child and you won't be able to talk shit.
MORE CHILDREN HAVE DIED IN THE CUSTODY OF THEIR MOUTH MAKING FATHERS THAN CHILDREN IN THE CARE OF THEIR MAD MOTHERS. It is harder for a stark raving mad woman on the street in the pipe of dirt to lose a child than a man like you. So shut up and take your L. You abandoned this child and have the guts to cast a stone on the one who hustles day and night to pay the bills.
I blame the society for even making men like you feel important. You wanna tell us they are begging you to marry her? All of you are mad. Osas doesn't know her worth.
This guy is a fooooooool
DeleteVery Manipulative, i believe now that he married her cos of US Passport.
@ Gbenro
You have been in Atlanta almost all through your marriage piercing the unpierceables to the point people started calling you gay,
You are no longer interested in d marriage, Osas being acting all cool like Lilian, you just want people to start blaming her.
I remember when OMOT children were young she do leave them with Nannies to travel out of Lagos for movies.
You are too young for marriage that is all i see
Shmmmmmmm
In his sick mind now, parenting is by using wrapper to carry a child for 5seconds and posting I instagram. I know men like this and the sooner Osas leaves him, the better for her. This sort of men will never provide for his family, he will be the one gaining the most yet emotionally draining the other party till you drop dead. I didn't marry her for papers, I am not interested in the abroad Bla Bla Bla, once married. fiaaaammmmm, straight to America, gold digging idiot. He will still make it about her inefficiency, yet it's about his greed. My daughter, my daughter, yet you abandoned her and ran to America. Global parent. I hail o. If I was Osas, I will strip you of that citizenship if you haven't got it yet. People that want something yet claim they are not interested so that they won't have to say "thank you". Pauper. I feel like seeing this guy and cussing him out in person. How dare you? This also goes to other men that only remember they have children when their spouse did one thing wrong out of numerous rights. If anything, stupid gbenro should be grateful that Osas is holding the home front he ran away from. Not man enough.
Deleteas much as he is a man child I do not agree with most of you, he dint just up and go to the US, it must have been a family agreement which she agreed too at the time,so she can not just dump the child every night and be grooving all night, he seemed to be a hands-on dad when he was around and from his rant,you can see he has spoken about it more than once,even to both families and I am sure she promised to change.
Deletethat studio 53 lady has a son as well but had to slow down for awhile cuz when you have a child some things have to give for a little while
I'm so disappointed at the shallow comments. Little wonder the exorbitant rate of suicide, divorce and emptiness. 21st century wives slapping their MIL, partying all night and wanting to remain relevant on SM. God forbid.... Ahn Ahn these are kids and for God's sake they need care and attention.
DeletePlan your week properly haba..., choose to attend 3 parties per week, you mustn't attend all. Presence, impact, fun and exit, can be done within 3 - 5 hours and you are out...unfortunately nuturing a baby is the bigger responsibility of a mum. If you are fortunate to get a man who will work with you then that's a bonus....haba Osas if this is true then it isn't right. Parties and show friends will come and go but your kids are......
Best and roses, thanks so much for this comment. You get it. I’m currently in this same situation. It’s hard for a marriage to survive when spouses are oceans apart. Even more so when it’s by choice. Their child as is much his responsibility as hers. I wish them the best anyway.
DeleteI'm so disappointed at the shallow comments. Little wonder the exorbitant rate of suicide, divorce and emptiness. 21st century wives slapping their MIL, partying all night and wanting to remain relevant on SM. God forbid.... Ahn Ahn these are kids and for God's sake they need care and attention.
DeletePlan your week properly haba..., choose to attend 3 parties per week, you mustn't attend all. Presence, impact, fun and exit, can be done within 3 - 5 hours and you are out...unfortunately nuturing a baby is the bigger responsibility of a mum. If you are fortunate to get a man who will work with you then that's a bonus....haba Osas if this is true then it isn't right. Parties and show friends will come and go but your kids are......
If Gbenro is not in Nigeria, how does he know when goes out and comes back? A stalker needs his spy. Madam Osas, sack your nanny first of all.
DeleteSack your brain first cos your brain is very lazy.
DeleteHmmm Osas and Gbenro your marriage is still fresh, so it is bonding time. The less time you spend apart and more time you spend together, communicate, work, live and gbensh together the better for both of you.
DeleteSince the abroad is important to Gbenro why not you two try to spend 6 months in Nigeria and 6 in America? I expect you guys to understand yourselves better as you are both in the same profession. If you people are really interested in making it work, why not seek professional counselling instead of involving relatives who, except you are very lucky, will be biased on both sides. You guys are adults Biko. Stop all this SM rubbish and get your shit together. Parenting is for both mom and dad. Come together.
May God heal their marriage
ReplyDeleteMy question is.... Before social media 21st century, how were people sorting their issues??
Didnt u read that he tried everyother means? Even used both families... but he came to where she values most (SM)
Deleteafter collecting so much money for the wedding they can't even handle their issues.
Deletewhy can't she find a balance,you can't have it all at once, knowing your hubby isn't around to help
How did they get here? I just pity them, I still have their pre-wedding pictures that I cherish so much. God take perfect control of their home
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
Like seriously..... I saved ubi and Lillian's wedding video until recently. It is just sad.
DeleteVery sad Nne, with all the love & affection eh, to marry go hungry you die, then the problems creep in rapidly or gradually..... now me de fear to marry sef... thunder for you all.
DeleteLiLian n ubi
Gbenro n osas
Church n tonto
Ini edo n ....
Chika ike and....
Kate henson and ....
Banky and sus.... ok sorry error
No dear banky and sus wetin?u want to tell us something we don't know?Biko begin download......I know you ain't sorry and it isn't an error
Delete11:34
DeleteDidnt u see "error"
Or u want fabu gist?
Theyre fine
I reject it for Banky and Susu. Be it unto YOU according to your words. Wicked people.
DeleteWell, he should take the Kiddo with him to the US and be a nice pop. If Osas has career demands and he does not like thebaby sitter idea he can take the kid. [I have major burn Scars from being left with a baby sitters and 4 house helps so I get It).
DeleteI reject it for Susu and Banky, may God keep their home. Some of you are so evil😈, devil sef dey fear some of una 😏😏😏😏
DeleteThis here is one of the most insensitive husband anyone can have. Bringing your wife to the court of social media? How low can you go Gbenro. This is so disgusting and I am so ashamed of you. Trust this strategy you employed gave you the results you wanted.
DeleteHmmmm......this is not looking good on osas side
ReplyDeleteIt doesnt look good or sound good at all..
DeleteTrusting people and strangers thats how pedophilia starts.
And mumu ppl on this blog will say hes being an idiot for complaining, only a deadbeat dad wouldnt care.... nobody say dont do ur hurstle, but is the baby in good n safe hands? Thats total negligence on her path
Feel free, Feel free, make yourself comfortable, na so remote de take spoil and drinks de finish from fridge...
DeleteYoure a mother! Nightcrawling days should be behind you and ur babygirl put first.
Who hurstles all thru the night? You be owl?
Very STUPID man🤬🤬🤬
DeleteAnon 11:49, so why did he abandon this child for the so called pedophiles? Why is he complaining about the same thing he is guilty of?
DeleteMost parents are not living with their kids because they ain't got other options, they CHOSE to protect them as against running to America and then staying over there to point out how to parent when you are a runaway parent.
He should STFU. Lead by example as the man of the house. Talk is cheap.
@ Anno 11*49
DeleteAre you aware that Gbenro lives in Atlanta now partying???????
i only come to SDK to read comments so Please be considerate and keep them short so i can read then all during my 1 hour lunch break ..Thanks as you cooperate
DeleteAnonymous 15:00, ori e ti gbale 😂😂😂😂😂. I don laff tire
DeleteStella Dimoko Korkus you just made me laugh out loud 😂😂😂😂😂 you weren't there?
ReplyDeleteHmmmm
ReplyDeleteGuy pls do you gaskia
Really? What is doing this one? So because she has a child she can't have a life anymore? Abeg shift front.
ReplyDeleteShe can have a life a be a responsible mother, una too support bad thing.
DeleteAbi she be night nurse or doctor? What is she doing all through the night?
So what if she was a nurse or doctor? That'll make staying out all night and leaving the baby with a stranger okay abi? Well, this is her own job. She is an entertainer. Not everyone can be a doctor or nurse. That doesn't make her means of livelihood illegitimate.
DeleteGod forbid for this generation! See the women supporting Osas, unbelievable!! So that's the life you guys live??? Promiscuous, irresponsible delinquents!
DeleteAnon 13:03 eyaaa...you of the past generation; how market? Yes we support her, so go get a cocktail and sip it to cool your brain!!!
DeleteAnon 10:10,is it only Osas that is the parent here? Why are you not asking the man where he left his child to? Is it the sole responsibility of a woman to take care of the child she had with her husband? Is he providing for his family 100%? These are the things he must tell us before demanding she stays at home 24hrs to take care of her child.
DeleteYou cannot claim 21st century couple when it comes to sharing financial responsibilities and then run back to stone age to demand the type of parenting woman. If your wife must share financial responsibility then she must go out and work, if you want stone age woman then provide 100%.you cannot eat your cake and have it. What is he doing in America, is he now in Hollywood?
Did he say take next flight and take the child which was the innitial agreement? .... ah well, I don't want to put mouth in husband and wife's issue.
ReplyDeleteSo because she has a child she cannot have a social life again?. She is the mother and he is the father, where is he...why does he live in a different country from his child. If he loves his child so much he should be present no matter what!. Why did he move away from his child and wife.
ReplyDeleteAs a father you decide to move away from your child and only see your child once in a while. But you have the guts to criticise the mum who is there day in day out. Obviously in her line of work there WILL be some late nights. The best thing you can do for your child is be present!. NOT criticise the person taking care of the child from America!
Honestly u said it all
DeleteFemilicious chop knuckle jor!!!
DeleteSMH seriously at gbenro. Osas how did you end up with this immature boy?
DeleteGBAM
Delete1mill likes
Femilichios...u are totally brainless and I pity anyone that will get involved with the type of kids u will raise
DeleteHmmmmm,
ReplyDeleteJesus take control. I de fear marriage o
ReplyDeleteShift for me, we de same whatsapp group.
DeleteIm divorcing my wife too. Somebody tell Beyonce its over.
ReplyDeleteNa soso late nights, shows in vegas , india and all over.
And our twins are barely one.
Nonsense!.
She went to get 6 nannies for the twins, 3 for blue and also, a chef for blue.
What kind of nonsense is that.
She can't even cook for her child???.
Spending more than a million dollars yearly on staff.
She wants to ruin me.
Please, any lawyers in the house???.
Lol,abi Jayz. No mind the opponu. Very annoying being,he didn't know she was into show biz before he married her abi what. Silly thing.
DeleteShe should have left you when u cheated, with ur big lips
Delete10:55 😂😂 you vex oo.
Delete😂😂😂😂.
DeleteSorry sir Jay. We the beeyhive apologise on beyonces behalf.
She will be sending Solange from time to time to look after the twins. Just be careful not to piss that one off.
But on a serious note. Gbenro you saw other girls but you decided to marry celebrity.
Oga deal with it or come back and share in taking care of your child. When Osas is out you stay home. When you are out, she stay home.
Most industry shindling,premieres and shows are night things.
Osa's you too cut down. Not all they invite you to you must attend. You do it with wisdom.
LMAO 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣,this made my day
Delete@10:55, ahe loves kpomo lips. I know cos ahe told me.
DeletePlease bed and roses , anyone but Solange.
Im scared of her.
On a more serious note,
I just wish Osas will pull a Tiwa.
Rub oyel on her face, tie scarf, cry and tell all d juicy details.
Thats my aproko sense speaking tho.
A man calling out his wife on sm just wants to shame her and fall her rep.
Not nice at all.
They've forgotten their marital vows so soon.
Sad
JayZ...you are MADT! 🤣🤣🤣
DeleteJay z is sooo funny 😂 rub Oyel on her face , tie scarf. Seriously I feel for Osas the worst thing that can happen to anyone is to marry a scum... no respect for her at all
DeleteJay Z et all, You guys are best 😂😂😂😂😂see comments. Hahahahahahahhaah
DeleteTo think I watched their fairytale wedding and was awwwing and wishing...and now this. God heal their marriage please
ReplyDeleteAwon palmwine tappers. Keep tapping.
DeleteHa ! ����♂️ What a pity ! Which resposible 'new generation ' MOTHER stay all night to HUSTLE ? Where is she appearing and networking in the middle of the night ? Maybe she is trash and lives in the dustbin sef . How the matter sef take concern me sef I no know , na the innocent baby girl I pity . #ashewonobework #newgenerationruns
ReplyDeleteIs the husband providing for his family? What is doing in America? Is his job to release sperm and leave only the wife to cater for the family? What is he doing while the wife is out hustling to put food on the table before the child dies of hunger!? What if the woman leaves the child and travels to London nko? Why must he leave home but she can't? He should go and sit the fuck down. He is even more guilty as she is. He expects her to sit at home and look at the child till both of them dies of kwashiokor. Yet he worships Kim kadarshian and Beyonce . Anumanu
Deletewhat kind of women dey this blog,very promiscuous,cantankerous and ungodly women, they keep insulting men yet won't let them be, keep trying to be men, na una go still cry.
DeleteGbenro is an idiot, what are you doing in the states aren't you supposed to be co parenting?She has bills to pay so she has to hustle since you are a runaway husband living la vida loca in yankee.Why are you calling her out on Sm?she didn't call you out when you cheated on her with Babcock uni and university of houston girls tho
ReplyDeleteShut up!
DeleteIf she didnt call him out how did u know he cheated? You live with them abi?
Truly livin la vida loca with pierced nipples looking gay as FUCK!. Just imagine what he will be up to in the states and he has the fucking nerve to drag her publically ...it boils my piss honestly.
DeleteMum's are expected to be EVERYTHING but all a dad has to do is Less than the barest minimum and he gets a pass. FUCK that shit!
See how the man is making the woman look like the worst mother on earth, you that is very far from the child is complaining about the mother that is very close to the child.
ReplyDeleteAre you telling us you don’t party, club, go after babes? You better remove what is inside your eyes before removing another person’s own.
okay let me weigh in on this.
ReplyDeleteFirstly, Oga you are parenting from the abroad.
Osas is a working Mom right? In the entertainment industry, work involves these gigs cum parties. Right?
Secondly, Is the agreement for you to work in the US while she stays at home never to work again?
Giving the baby to a total stranger is a definite NO, but working Moms at some point need these nannies.
Summer last year Gbenro was all over Miami piercing his nipples and taking pictures with ‘friends’ He could have flown back home na.
I know how crazy things can be with the little ones and having a partner that is hands on, not to talk of an abroad husband.
This is a stage in marriage that can be worked out. It gets frustrating. You see your life revolving around the kids and some women even put their career on hold.
Both of them need to iron things out. Either he moves back, or they join him. With both of them present, late night gigs can be managed.
Is it not in this obodo Nigeria married men club all night? Or responsibility should be expected from just ‘mothers’
I support you 💯
DeleteOsas knew what she was getting into when she married an obviously gay man. Gbenro only married as a cover up, now he can sleep with all the men he wants and keep his wife at arms length. Osas is wild, otherwise she would never have married him in the first place.
DeleteJust to let you know Osas plays for the same team too. They fit. SDK won’t post this I know.
DeleteBut seriously if he is gay as is being alleged and he has got his US citizenship, then this marriage is probably over.
DeleteNo mind all these grown ass men acting like babies wearing diapers
ReplyDeleteHusband and wife issue: jump and pass.
ReplyDeleteI dey behind you, abeg! Jump and pass crew.
DeleteOsas should grant him what he wants so she can live her life without restrictions. Not all men can handle osas and her angels movement.
ReplyDeleteWhich angels movement? Why is he behaving like he didn't know this was her job before she married him. I am interested to know who the total stranger he is referring to is. Don't be surprised it's an uber she ordered to take the child home with the nanny. Men can be terrible sha!!! Marrying a woman like Osas you should know nannies would be involved as she is in show biz.
DeleteSo calling uber with nanny at that hour sounds good in your ears abi? Una brain de leak i swear...
DeleteWhich kind work de take her all through the night? She be watchnight?
Anon na your own brain dey leak. The nanny must be a trusted individual. If she had left the child and the nanny all day at home won't dey condem her for abandoning them. She took them to work with her,were ever she is and for what ever life reasons,she is delayed. Is it a bad thing to send the child and the nanny home. You are the person whose brain can't process situations.
DeleteEnter your reply...wait @Y calling an uber to take your child your child home a baby of 2years, is okay.. chaaii what is the world Turning into..
DeleteAll of you supporting this stupid abroad parent. So it is now proper for him to be parenting by stalking?
DeleteIf he was serious about loving and protecting his child, he would not have abandoned her without working out a solution before running away.
Osas would have also ran away like him so he has no right to even speak Ill about the parent that chose to stay and do he job. He is not a man. Osas is the man. If he wanted to divorce or custody, he should have stayed to fight for it instead of running away. If anything happens to that child, he is more guilty.
Jesus take the wheel
ReplyDeleteTypical Nigerian man always blaming the wife for everything. They never accept responsibility for the role they play in destroying the marriage.
ReplyDeleteAnd this childish social media call-out was unwarranted and will only make it difficult to repair any previous damage.
Very typical of them..... Yeye dey smell 😏
DeleteGuy you have exonerated yourself of all the names calling. Thank God I didn't call you a bad guy because I don't always know how to eat my words.
ReplyDeleteWhich words u wan chop. He's an idiot. Enjoying in Yankee and expecting his wife to sit at home and wait for him. She's hustling that doesn't make her a bad mother. He should calm down and be present for his family. As a mother and wife you juggle through so much and everything is left to you. Rather than appreciate and contribute, some men will only bring you down. This century and century's to come, as women we will Rise and keep Rising.
DeleteBut he is equally in the movie industry. Women version of the movie industry is questionable
DeleteGbam!!! Women version na small girl with big gods na. Osas go soon get car or mansion gift...
DeleteSince he got married to her when last did you see him in a movie, movie industry ke and he relocated to america after the marriage
DeleteWhoa! Savage! Guy got no chillz...@all
ReplyDeleteGbenro work as a team with your wife. Your wife won't need strangers Help if you were around. Go and ask Jay Z and Kanye to teach you how to respect your wife hustle.
ReplyDeleteSo immature. Where is all the love they once had for one another? May God fix their marriage
ReplyDeleteSometimes it looks to me like you guys are being partial in your judgements and just take sides with the women irrespective.Marriage entails lot of sacrifice and in this case both sides should be blamed.whilst it's good to have a career as a woman Its also very important to strike a balance between work n family so one does not affect the other.Theres no way you can live fully the life you lived as a single person when you married especially if a child is involved and it's not like the resources is overflowing....It takes two to tangle and one party can't continue to give and the other keeps taking out of it.its draining and eventually becomes frustrating for the giving party.Everything is all about planing. Gbenro should not expect a full time housewife knowing the type of work his wife does, he should be around to provide support as much as possible. They can get a nanny if needed.Osas should definitely cut down on her outings as she's a mother now and cant be sleeping out almost everytime unless they want the child to suffer ..That's parenting ..So many celebrities made this sacrifices -goes off screen for a while for the sake of their family and come back once the coast is clear.
ReplyDeleteThank you. I shuddered at the kind of comments I read so far. There is a way this can be balanced between them but obviously there is no respect and communication in the marriage. If later on in life the little girl misbehaves due to lack of motherly care, these same set of people will be the one to crucify her.
DeleteMaking sense comment
DeleteYou have said it all...no need for me to add
DeleteYou made valid points. But what about sacrifice the father also makes for the benefit of the child.
DeleteMany of us are working women here and you can't do it all. You need the support of a partner.
I also work and even though I have a nanny,my husband still does his part as a father to my boys to lesson the load on me. Fatherhood just isn't about paying bills or sending money.
A woman needs that emotional support. A child needs the everyday guidance of a father. I even have boys so I can't imagine doing it alone. My husband is the disciplinarian, i am the softy.
It's wrong for him not to be playing his own part and putting all the blame on just the woman.
How is he being a present parent from abroad. The child is still young. A young family cannot thrive like this. It's either Osa's joins him or he comes back.
thank you anon,you can't have it all as a mother,what if they get involved in an accident in the night and the baby needs blood? osas is very wrong for trusting a total stranger,no one can tell me anything. eve Eku the number one host slowed down for a while, she can't be comparing herself with all these people. her hubby being away shouldn't be a reason why she shouldn't be a responsible parent
DeleteMost sensible comments so far
DeleteThe only sensible comment here. You are a good person and not judgmental!
DeleteI pray for peace in their marriage
ReplyDeleteMumu horseband you ran to the Us,turn your wife to a single mum & expect her not to work hard, you dy try inukwa. Ashawo Nwoke
ReplyDeleteLet the peace of God reign in all troubled homes.
ReplyDeleteAwwww....cry baby cry baby
ReplyDeleteStick your head in pie baby...wah wah wah...Gbenro is so pained that the wife is gallantly moving on without a hoot, cos the typical nija guy is of the mentality that once they leave, your life is over!!!!😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣 he is so pained😂😂🤣🤣🤣...
Lots of people do not know that as a green card holder you cant travel out of U.S for more than 6months, if you stay more than 6months, you need a re-entry visa. until you become a citizen of united states.As a citizen you can leave US for a century or relocate to another country entirely, no restrition. Probably that is the reason the guy is staying put.
ReplyDeleteNot just in the US, Europe too
DeleteSo this law was made immediately the heard Gbenro entered the States? Hello! He knew about it, meditated on it and made his choice. HE CHOSE THE ABROAD OVER HIS CHILD AND FAMILY . Please spare us that surprise, all of a sudden law bullcrap. He made his choice, let him not look for who to blame.
DeleteWe know. That law is over 15 years old. Which means Gbenri knew and still chose to abandon his family in his desperation to get US papers. And is now being shameless. He may or may not even have his work permit which means Osas may be supporting herself and their child alone. And yet, he's mouthing off.
DeleteYeye dey smell.
@Sue. Please do not spread misinformation here.
DeleteIf you leave in the United States, as a Green Card holder, you cannot be out of this country for more than a year. One year. It is not six months.
How do l know this?? My Mom and MIL are both Green Card holders. We bring them in once a year. They spend three to six months here, and go back home. I heard the six month thing when my mom newly got her Green Card. I knew l couldn’t be buying tickets every six months. I went to the Immigration office here in my state with my Mom. Took a number and when it got to our turn, we went to the window and l asked the lady. She said, they don’t know where that six month stuff came from but it’s yearly. So since then, l bring my mom in once a year, to keep her status active. The draw back is, she cannot apply for citizenship yet because her entire time here due to the in and out, isn’t up to five years. My MIL, has gotten her citizenship because she stayed longer. My Mom always had to go back home because her own mom was still alive. She’s here since April 2018. She’s already complaining so l will send her back home for a Nine to ten months before she returns.
Please, check the website. Everything is in black and white. One year. Not six months.
I don't get Gbenro!! What if Osas was a doctor or Nurse and she had to leave the baby??? Oh please! What are you doing in yankee? Aren't you responsible for your child too? I don't blame him... it's osas I blame for marrying him!
ReplyDeleteIrrespective of how common social media is used these days, airing your personal business this way is a sign of a mental health problem or personality disorder. It can only get worse with people who choose the internet to abuse in personal relationships.
ReplyDeleteI remember reading last year about how controlling this guy is and that Osas was really struggling in the relationship. Now this!
Anonymous 11:13 your answer is deliciously on point.
ReplyDeleteDeliciously?? Did you taste the answer??
DeleteIT GENERALLY TAKES AN AVERAGE OF 3YR PROCESS FROM GREEN CARD TO OBTAINING YOUR AMERICAN PASSPORT IF THERE ARE NO ISSUES WITH THE IMMIGRATION. THEY GOT MARRIED IN JUNE 2015. SO HE HAS GOT HIS AMERICAN PASSPORT AND HE NOW WANTS A DIVORCE AND WHAT BETTER WAY TO GET IT WITHOUT PEOPLE CALLING HIM A USER THAN TO COME ON THE INTERNET AND CALL OSAS A BAD MOTHER AND TARNISH HER IMAGE AND ALSO GET SYMPATHY FROM NIGERIANS AND HIS FANS. GBENRO JUST REMEMBER THAT KARMA IS A BITCH. YOU ARE A NLOODY USER
ReplyDeleteThank u. I knew that guy is a gold digger and a user right from time.
DeleteMy hubby too has a U.K. passport. And I know I will have to stay put there for years to get one.
My marriage is still young,so is my son. I can't leave my husband to go seat in UK because of passport. My son has a passport though.
Maybe when the kids are grown I can go take residency in UK. But for now i can't leave my husband.
Not true. You can apply for citizenship after being married for three years to a citizen. June 2015 to June 2018, is just three years. It’s just eight months assuming he has filed for citizenship. My Sister filed since July 2018. She has only done fingerprints. In this Trump times, everything is taking longer. Besides, Osas, has to sign the form and he can only file for citizenship after three years on the grounds in still being married to Osas, a US citizen. Otherwise, he will be eligible to file after five years.
DeleteSo, in a nutshell, the earliest dude will get his citizenship might be July this year.
Osas, is no fool. If they are having issues, I doubt she will be dumb enough to sign off on his form that they are still married. I wouldn’t!!
Let me weigh in here
ReplyDeleteOsas is a working mom and most working moms have nannies or keep their babies in creche. Most stay at home moms have nannies too. Osas is an entertainer, they get their jobs from networking at parties and event. Except you want the woman to stay at home and you provide for her and the babies all the time but if you don't want that, she has to work. Which working mom does not have help or nannies whether relations, teachers or what.
Look Gbenga, it seems you are tired of the marriage and she has been begging you. I don't know what she did to you prior to this but you either forgive her and make amend or you keep quiet and move on. Do not spoil her reputation. What she did, countless women would especially those ones saying they would never. Wait until you marry them and see. I know stay at home moms that can't even spend time with their children. They spend the afternoon going from friends house to friends house. Anybody can abuse a child including strangers and close family.
Its easy for us to parent from outside. Its sweeter parenting from abroad. Its more interesting partying abroad, parenting through Instagram.
Bottom line is , we are not your in-laws and I wonder what hormonal medicine some men take these days that they act like women.
When you walk out of a woman's life that has kids for you. Don't expect everything to be same. It is a broken home and there are consequences. The kids.The kids will suffer . if you are bothered, seek for sole custody, raise the girl alone with no help, let's see how easy it will be.
Both of you should make up, raise your kids and keep your issues off Instagram.
This guy just want a dramatic exit from the marriage.bye gbenro
ReplyDeleteIt appears so.
DeleteA guy airs his disgust about irresponsible attitudes of his estranged wife with regards to thier child, people call him all kinds of names...SMH, something women do to guys day in day out. Double standards confused bunch. From the likes of ini Edo, toke, chika ike, mercy aigbe,Lillian esoro, etcetcetc, list is endless...Dem see marriage as bondage, strangely dem still want to marry and same time have freedom to gbensh upandan like single ladies. Laslas na the pikin go suffer and the same ladies praising osas will come out and bash her again....women shaaa
ReplyDeleteThank you!! Not saying Gbenro is perfect but he has to be here for sometime. He can go in and out yearly. My BIL, stayed in Naija till one day to a year be came back. That’s the agreement they must have had for him to stay here. Osas, on the other hand can’t party five days a week. Jeeez!! I used to work a lot of overtime when l didn’t have kids. Once l did, I stopped it completely. I only worked my shift. Now my child is fifteen, l go in after he has gone to school. Weekends l stay home with my family. There should be a balance. Nannies are supposed to be helpers but shouldn’t have the sole responsibility to raise a child. He is also wrong to bring this online.
DeleteHe needs to go home and spend two to four months and return.
Thank you!! Not saying Gbenro is perfect but he has to be here for sometime. He can go in and out yearly. My BIL, stayed in Naija till one day to a year be came back. That’s the agreement they must have had for him to stay here. Osas, on the other hand can’t party five days a week. Jeeez!! I used to work a lot of overtime when l didn’t have kids. Once l did, I stopped it completely. I only worked my shift. Now my child is fifteen, l go in after he has gone to school. Weekends l stay home with my family. There should be a balance. Nannies are supposed to be helpers but shouldn’t have the sole responsibility to raise a child. He is also wrong to bring this online.
DeleteHe needs to go home and spend two to four months and return.
Oh! The hypocrisy of gbenro. Like really! After everythibg he has put osas through. Cheating and disappearing on her. She has started to live a little. And he has become jealous that her career is taking off again. She doesn't party 5 days a week. If only she would call him out also.what s child
ReplyDeleteA real man protects his family. What do you intend to gain by posting this on SM? You are definitely not looking for a resolution instead you are trying to shame the mother of the child you claim to love. This is worse than anything she could have done. You knew she would get dragged and than makes you happy. Shows how messed up you are. Osas sure married beneath herself . Not financially but she sure married a baby. This just sucks.
ReplyDeleteCrocodile tears? Your wife? You sure are a manipulator. What is your motive? Shame her before she exposes you? I always wonder why she married you sha. Says a lot about her own maturity though. No woman with small sense should have married an overgrown baby like you.
ReplyDeleteHas it gotten to this?
ReplyDeleteWhat an idiot ! You count 4 episodes but didnt say over what duration .
ReplyDeleteThis African man narrative isn’t going to change anytime soon, now she is a mum she doesn’t have a life anymore Abi
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osas submit...he is the head...
ReplyDeletePerfectly pent subject matter, thank you for selective information.
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