Have you participated in any Singles mingles?The last one in 2018?
Have you got good stories or sad ones?
Some of you have inferiority and Superiority complexes and this affects in a not so good way............Imagine two people who have both trying to start off a relationship?
Some people post specifically what they want,you read it,you dont meet their qualifications for a lover but you still contact them and when they snob you,you raise tantrums and begin to cuss out their generations........WTH for?
Some of you are play girls and play boys looking for your next Mugu....How dare you contact someone who is aching for love and then dump them after eating belle full?We will start calling you out if you dont stop doing this.....
Some of you need to stop taking part and go fix your attitude first.........
Step forward and start talking please.....lol
You post age of what you want you still see some stubborn toddlers telling you and disturbing you with age is not maturity chorus. I am done.
ReplyDeleteHahahaha
Delete😂😂😂😂😂😅😅😁😁
DeleteHahahahaha
DeletePele trying to try their luck
Delete😀😀😀😀😀
DeleteSome babes are just here looking for maga unluckily they come across guymen, and when 'guymen'nack them apako complain go ooze
DeleteOya na, let the gist flow, I'm here with enough popcorn
ReplyDeleteI am coming with bag of satchet water...
DeleteBag of water!! Na wa for you oh! Na so the thing do you reach,popcorn and water😂
DeleteBring it on guys.
ReplyDeleteWe met during the January 2015 or Dec 2014 edition...not too sure now.
ReplyDeleteThot he was the one.I am still grateful we met. Definitely husband material but....
SnM sure works sometimes.I hoped to send you the invite Stella,but we broke up last week after 4 yrs of being thru the thick and thin together.I miss him but we have to move on.
Hmm, pls oo, you have to come back , 4 years is not 4 days.
DeleteIt is well dear...
DeleteAww sorry it didn't work out but maybe it's for good
Delete2 complete strangers from snm and uve been together for 4years??
DeleteSister,go and get ur man back!!!
Even some marriages haven't gone beyond 1year
Yes 4 years is a lot of time but still a good reason to quit if that’s not what you want. You have to remember you two still have more than 4yrs ahead of you ...
DeleteWhen is the next one because i am interested
ReplyDeleteso I meet this guy, on s&m I really like him but there is something odd about him. He has been asking me to come to Lagos so that we can meet up, but liver just dey cut me I no fit shout abeg dude doesn't even have a profile picture.
ReplyDeleteThe fact that you havent forgotten him is enough cause for concern. Its alarming. Maybe he has used you in the spirit already.
DeleteLiver dey cut you, meaning you dey even think am. Chineke mere gi ebere. And you will be someones future wife.
DeleteGrow some balls and respect. If he cant see you in you area, in a public place for that matter, please my dear, allow your mothers prayers to wprk and forgwt him.
If he doesn't have a pic, don't go, I mean, how do u visit a faceless person? Na ghost?
Deletefollow your mind.you should be at peace with someone you like
DeleteDO NOT TRAVEL TO VISIT ANYONE. I REPEAT, DO NOT TRAVEL TO VISIT ANYONE. If you were in same city its even better.
DeleteLet him come instead, meet at an eatery or open place and go with a friend. Reminds me of that girl that has been missing since 2017 and Cynthia's case. Isnt he on facebook atleast ? be careful
Trust him enough before u travel ooo
DeleteOk but please I am about to visit a lady @bed and rose, hope it’s not risky for me too, it’s in another city the meeting is taking place.
DeleteI think the call out is long over due, especially the ones that go about sleeping with tons of girls and dumping them for others when there's a new singles and mingle and biko nobody should ask me why the girl opened totoh.
ReplyDeleteNa u sabi,why she open pussy wen dem never marry?
DeleteMugu fall , guyman chop.
DeleteThe Totoh na open and close ni? 🙈🙈🙈
DeleteSure that's wat most of them here do. Serial guys.
Deletewhy did the girls open totoh
Delete🤐☺️🙈🤐
ReplyDeleteS&m is good, I met my bf via it, we both stay in Nigeria and my sister met a guy that stays overseas via it too. She seems to be skeptical about the guy cos of what he demands at times but over time, she liked it and I can see that my sister is happy. She goes out of her to make the guy happy she says the guy makes her happy too, though They are both imperfect, but they try for each other. I have never seen my sister act this way, I just pray it works out.
ReplyDeleteI dey fear ooo. First you say she is skeptical of what he demands, then that she goes out of her way to make the guy happy, hmmm. I hope all goes well.
DeleteAnon 1:23. Respect your life.
ReplyDeleteWell s&m worked for my friend. How many of you have watched fifty shades of grey? If you have, apply it oo, your husband might come as Christian grey,dnt form Church girl, be his Anastasia and have a good character, it might work. Wonder why bad girls keep winning? Fifty shades of grey is the answer.
ReplyDeleteChristian Grey is alright as a fantasy but...
DeleteAfter the fantasy was the girl able to cope with the pain that came with the handsome and rich man?madam 50shade.
DeletePlease I am still looking for my Nnmadi. It's me A... Nnmadi that lives at Lagos, we talked sometime last year, I was in a bad state so I shut you out. Please Nnmadi, if you are still here, kindly write a comment. I miss you. I dnt want a relationship again , I threw your Friendship . Please
ReplyDeleteNnamdi has moved on.
DeleteI am here. I felt hurt.
Delete....you all are always in a bad state....using a mood or a state of mind to cover up for bad character. it is more of realizing and regretting, because after the damage has been done, you all now remember that that special one that was willing to accept you regardless of your flaws, be willing to sacrifice all for what it is worth, nah, you all keep letting your bad character get the better of you...and then when karma sets in, and you are being treated the entire opposite from what you deserve, then you begin to miss nnamdi.....beauty fades, character stays.....
Delete......you all are always in a bad state...using bad state to cover up for terrible character. most times, what i have come to realize is that it is when your type misses the good guys. learn that life teaches us to face our karma, for it not to repeat itself again.
DeleteI no do again...na by force?😁😁😁
DeleteNnamdi is married and has moved on,so do the same for your sanity..
DeleteWhy can't guys understand that most women are emotional beings? She may not appear rational depending on how she feels and why at a particular time. Moods are very important with women. A woman's emotions, feelings or moods are a good indication of what is really going on inside her, if you care to read it. A wise guy would stay woke. Some ladies pretend to be what they are not. By the time you realise, they are even worse than the one you rejected, you man, have already entered lock, stock and barrel. In summary guys, try to be a little more understanding. You must not take my advice.
Deleteits about time we call out some idiots mehn.
ReplyDeleteI met one and we really clicked to the extent that I was beginning to fall in love with him. but then I realized that I was always the one initiating the conversation which I didn't have any problem with but when it became frequent, I had to stop and that's how they conversation died.
ReplyDeleteStella, please when is the next one
Always a bad sign.
DeleteHmmmm me I never find love ooo. I thought I will find real love but I got burnt 😭😭😭
ReplyDeleteEya sorry for the burn hope you're recovering
DeleteSorry for d burns.
DeleteKpele
Deletethree humans added me 1 asked for money via text message after some chats
ReplyDelete2nd sent a message and we had some chat and that was it
3rd sent hello and i replied hi that was it
#GOAT™
U replied hi so u killed the conversation na
Deletethree humans before is it animals that suppose to add you. you asked the girls for money? you're supposed to be banned from participating in SnM
DeleteHe said one asked for money @deheroine..
Deleteoh I mistook 1 for I.i for say...
DeleteThis is the best time have been waiting for, this call out is so long overdue. coming back with the epistle, u all will be so shock, watch out this space, Mr MAN osetigo in phyno's voice.
ReplyDeleteWe dey wait biko
Deletecall out o.like Stella said work on your attitude before participating or looking for a relationship.eg the one posted on IHN the other day
DeletePlease hurry up, can't wait... Na here I go sleep today
DeleteI met my Engineer boo here in one of last year's edition. We have been good together. He respects me and that's one quality I look for in a man. He isn't your typical naija guy who sees not being able to do chores as a not a wife material thing. He is kind and attentive...The sex is great too, we are both open minded and flowing well. P, I am getting to like you and I would want us to get to that level bug if it doesn't happen, I will be grateful for the time we spent together
ReplyDeleteehen if sex no follow,this your sweet talk for no sweet again.maybe it's the sex that's making you think he's the one
DeleteHope its not the Engr. that was exposed here last year. My dear check well o
DeleteYou are beginning to like him and you've had sex already? I wonder what sex means to some of you?
DeleteSex is a sport.
DeleteLet the name calling start now..
ReplyDelete😃😆😎😎
Last time I participated!! I started am from edo state but based in Lagos. Most of u in bini jumped at it. Pls I dnt want long distance tin. I guess we have alot of guys here who know we want love not even their money but they use money to blind us becos they are only looking for pussy. Well if u give me money I wont reject ooo but my point is I want love. A man to love
ReplyDeleteStella, where is my comments, Biko dnt swallow it
ReplyDeleteThis comment has been removed by the author.
ReplyDeleteIf u see one very old man like 70 years that contacted me eeeh I fear. I say sir u are old enough to be my grand father ooo. I block straight. Most of u no dey read well. I am from Ondo no mean I based there. Pls no long distance relationship this yr biko.
ReplyDeleteHahahaha are u sure its not the serial grandpa?
DeleteGrand pa from Benin
DeleteHahahahaha, I suspect too. The granps that promised to get a bv a job and serious contacts. The one that the foolish geh gave head to his wrinkled balls. Yet papa jus bail out after. Una be careful oo
DeleteLmao! Paleh ooo!
DeleteNo name calling pls, no matter whst
ReplyDeleteare you scared
DeleteLmao
DeleteI think you guys should say their names get so that we go know say d guy no dey date reach 3 here. Or better still stella maybe u should advise d ladies to contact u first to ask for for your opinion regarding some identity of guys or ladies self here to save us d head ache of being used nd dump.
ReplyDeleteWell I am hope you read it here, I can't tell you verbally so I will use this medium. Dear M, you succeeded in making me like you, yeah, I am thrilled at seeing someone that can handle me, I really want you too but I can't come visiting now till two months time or something, I had told you, I still feel Scared u know and scared of been gbenshed. I won't be surprised if after yesterday/today,we stop talking long or much, just know that I appreciated the calls and the long convos..All I needed was more time from you, if you ddt have it, I do understand. Lots of love
ReplyDeletePlease who is dating one guy who is from the West, lives overseas, his name starts with letter D or A or T and loves fun.
ReplyDeleteMe
DeleteWhy no name calling???? At least give us clue. Becos they dnt call them out make them to turn here like were u cn just pick a girl. Use her them dump her.if u want sex state it then I go know say na sex nd money we dey. Not use nd dump. No call name but give us clue about these guys.
ReplyDeleteI participated in the dec s&m, 27 people added me up. God in his mercy gave me my Prince Charming here and I turn off others. This guy has been the best thing that has ever happened to me. Who could believe that a lot of big boys read this blog without commenting. My Prince Charming has swept my feet, very handsome, disciplined , God fearing with his pocket loaded. No body I mean has ever adored me like this guy not minding he is from a very known Nigerian family. I pray on this day my Prince Charming May God bless you and guide you always. Our relationship has been without sex. Thanks a lot Stella for the platform.... I got the latest iPhone as surprise through from him at my office and off course I go abroad for my birthday to celebrate next month courtesy of my boo. Am too lucky. My Ajebo body help me met his standard. Did I forget he is most handsome man I have ever seen. I know you might read it boo, it's my own way of saying thank you to Stella and telling you I appreciate, despite you don't like social media attention, am sorry.
ReplyDeleteEeeeh so wat body. U mean we should be bleaching or wat???
DeleteYes u cn say that again. Alot of big boys are here ooo. Congratulations babe...... but how me I go take get d ayobo body na???? So big boys like ayobo body
DeleteAnd you're still a side chicken. .hogwash
DeleteHe doesnt like social media attention 😂😂😂😂😂.Welcome to the club....Babanla serial cheat...Take my word
DeleteWE PLENTY LIKE THAT....
Anonymous 15.25 : 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 GBA ,side chic life...
DeleteLolz babe ni mind them ooo. Since he loves u go ahead. If he is married stay away ok. No let bad mouth and over excitement kill wat u both have just like the way I did to my own. Not intentional but I was foolish about it. Trying to know all and listen to tins killed mine.
DeleteCongratulations dear
DeleteNice one
Sidechick I suspect say you be sidechick 😝🙅
DeleteUse the medium wisely and don't abuse it. I repeat you rush open ya legs na your own be dat,no come here begin cry later.Pls pass me d next Beauty imperfection...
ReplyDeleteHunkle and wee you continue chooking holes upandan?
DeleteThe last S& M ,I participated reluctantly with a guy even after I gave the age range needed,he still csm despite being 2 years younger and was like its age and nothing to worry about.
ReplyDeleteWe hooked up at a bar after few days and we chatted like we were good and I left for home.
Like a day or 2 after ,he begged for a loan of #50k ,which I would not have given anyways and I said I can't afford it.
The following day,he said he got #30 and still remaining #20k ,I still said I don't have.
Meanwhile, he initiated the idea of coming to sleep over at his place over the weekend which I actually thought its not a bad idea,atleast I knew what will end it up but his attitude changed since I could not loan him the cash and immediately thanked my star I never had to loose anything at all except for the timeout @ the bar,which he actually paid for and I made sure took what is reasonsble for me to be able to pay in case of any funny act.
He eventually was now like,we are both still struggling and could not just take of of me fornow this is a guy who told me he is into oil and gas supplies,I just laughed that I didn't fall his trap.
I don't think I really like to participate in S& M again,its not really worth it considering the guys that comes even after a detailed description of what you want.
You sound so Matured and intelligent . I wish i can meet you. Good guys meet bad girls and vice versa . it all just sucks
DeleteInfact,it was just so funny to me,anon 16:14.
DeleteThere are also guy gold-diggers hun
DeleteGod bless me with a good friend.
ReplyDeleteI know u would read this. No need to write names. I know I offended you deeply. I beg you forgive me. It does not matter if u dnt wanna see me but I publicly apologise to u. I know u would read this. Am sorry ok Mr W.
ReplyDeleteSend him a message.. Apologize sincerely and you all move on or move back if possible.. Good luck
DeleteIn the next SnM,we die dere.
ReplyDeleteLOL......
I want a good man to locate me,My Prince charming,I'm already booking an appointment for us.
I am new on this platform and would like to know what the S&M is all about.Is there a particular age range as I am in my late thirties.Someone should tell me what it entails and how to go about it.Thanks.
ReplyDeleteStella will announce when the next one is gonna happen. You put out the spec you want in a guy. And somehow put a bit of yourself, where you come from and age range of people you want to connect with you. It is usually your BBM pin ( I can’t remember the other one) that you will add in your comment and if anyone is interested in you, whoever will contact you via your contact details and voila! you go from there. But you know the drill...always exercise caution cos some wanderers will come knocking on your door.
DeleteMet a guy His name Eddie other name starts with F... claims church boy, into Oil&Gas. Bobo is very fake, when i decoded, he quickly blocked me. He sends lots of pictures of fine bearded nerd looking guy.
ReplyDeleteBiko when is the next one? Matured people ooooo
This description fits the guy I was referring to
DeleteThanks for the tip. He go soon change format.
DeleteHi ,my first time ..
ReplyDeleteLolz welcome ooo. Find love here sharp sharp
DeleteNnmadi, I just saw your reply, if its truly you, send an email in Ihn, I will send you a mail and we could take it from there
DeleteHey Mr W, if its the Edo guy Mr W, just know that I have long forgiven you . I hold nothing against you
DeleteI don tire for s and m o.God help me this year.my missing rib must locate me.
ReplyDeleteSome ladies do not even know what they want. They see a good guy then messed it up. Meet another, they get lied to and they start calling out names. Some will even claim they are celibates when they know in their church mind that the place is rotten alredy. Sex is overrated, what will happen will definitely happen. Be free, real, matured, sensible and be your own self and all other things will fall in place. Abeg when is the next one? Me no want any drama this year. Iberiberism set of girls.
ReplyDeleteMe ayam happily celebate jor. Though people don't know because I play too much 😀. I love my Jesus biko. If I had known I would have remained a fargin. Lmao!
DeleteI met someone a long time ago on SnM. A very good man but I have never seen anyone who was so comfortable with being broke. He worked in a bank but nothing extraordinary about his pay. He was just fine with it. No masters. No project. Just work for 5 days...wash clothes on weekend. See movies and repeat. Fuck no. Besides,he had serious yoruba accent,it was distracting. I'm not attracted to yoruba men at all. No offence. That wasnt even the main issue. He was just too ok with being in his manage manage life. Now I need a man who is ambitious and determined. Someone who will make me even more hungry for success. A person with the fear of God. Not a pastor but someone who will listen if God speaks. If you like weed,that will be nice. I'd like to grow fresh weed with you honey. We can get high all day and all night. Dont worry. I am a productive stoner. Dont holla if you get high and become useless.
ReplyDeleteYou know what you want. Good luck.
DeleteI added one guy during the last SnM. I was the one fueling the conversation and he was evading most of my questions. I had to slow down. I let him chat me up when he feels like. Funny enough truecaller identified his number as "BV OVERSABI" Lol
ReplyDeleteInteresting
ReplyDeleteMet a cool guy. Chat was flowing ...and all was good. He’s got a good job, great “sense of humour” and good vibes while I played dumb like I was a low income chic. Guy doesn’t know I’m a nurse and plan on training to become a dentist. Showed my guy little interest via chat only, guy man began forming something special. Lol couldn’t help but laugh. If only he knows Lol. Mr “M.U” calm down o. I fancy you sha but pride doesn’t cut it for me at all. Abeg who get medicine to cure phone flirting o. I swear I need am. Don’t get things twisted though, I’m a mad ass flirt with self respect. What I mean? I don’t dick guys I flirt with. I only do a one man relationship. But I love attention from fine boys so I tend to keep the conveesation going. I know....I know...’I know what you’re thinking. Me self know say I no well. Anyway, mr “M U” I must sha collect that kiss. Let’s sort out our curiosity o. Afterwhich, you can come and be going if you want. But until then, I won’t buzz u until u reply. I can’t inflate your ego joor. Lai lai !
ReplyDeleteA nurse who plans to be a dentist? You are not even there yet and you are already feeling yourself. I guess Dentistry will make you a billionaire. Buzz off!
DeleteSavage!!!!
DeleteWill really love to participate in the next one. Hope I get someone serious
ReplyDelete