OAP Toke Makinwa says she will not tolerate any nonsense from any man who decides to play God and a deadbeat.
She has issued a warning to a Mr Bolaji.....
She says
##I am sick of deadbeat fathers. This year I will not tolerate any shit from any man who decides to play God. If you put a woman in the family way, stand up and be counted. It’s not about not having money, the little you have is more honorable than nothing. How do you sleep well at night? I don’t care what transpired between you two, no one forced you to have sex. a child was brought into this world and you two are responsible for that child. I am raising so many kids that I did not help create, now that’s not a problem for me cos many years ago I asked God to make me a lender to nations and as much as I can I’ll continue to support however I can.
What I won’t take is for you to beat the mother of your child. Even worse, in the presence of that child. Don’t go around beating anyone period! I am giving you 24 hours to contact her, buy back the phone you smashed in the process. How dare you threaten her? This one will be your last. You go to her, apologize to her and leave her the heck alone. If you are not going to support them, do not stand in her way. Talking about let’s see how you’ll get help now, really??? you left this girl stranded thru out her pregnancy, she’s come so far by herself without your contribution yet you dare try to sleep with her again, she said no and you beat her up? I am beyond livid 
I blame this sick culture of ours, the shame culture that silences a lot of women dealing with irresponsible men. So many women walking around in fear and pls don’t come at me with your judgement this year, save it. I will speak up for those without a voice. I will use all I have to put you in jail. I have contacted the police but I will give you 24 hours before I release your identity.
Your name is bolaji and that’s all I’ll say for now. I will contact your work place too. Your boss needs to know you also double as hulk Horgan or Mike Tyson and perhaps fire your lame ass since you have other specialties. I’m sure they wouldn’t want this sort of attention. You have messed with the wrong one. I will meet you at every level if I have to and you will be the exhibit to other men who think they can do as they want. This is your first warning. Clock is ticking
*Yawns*
ReplyDeleteI'm not a fan of Toke rants but I support this particular rant 100%. Is time to say "Enough is enough" to those men that touches their women. Is a chicken man that touches his woman and that man should rot in hell fire
DeleteAnonymous,12:24,that is how we will all yawn when something similar or worse happens to you and a defender or sympathizer is trying to champion your cause. Get ready! How insensitive!
DeleteAnonymous 13:00 it is those men that "touch" their women and not those men that "touches" their women.
DeleteWow I love this especially as it's coming from a woman. God bless you dear for standing up for a fellow woman in her down time.
DeleteSome men are shameless and are beasts. Women in abuse r/ship,pls leave b4 its too late. Toke, I pray God blesses you with your children as you are helping out
ReplyDeleteWhat about the homes shes destroying with her pussy?
DeleteIt is women in "abusive" relationships and not "abuse" r/ship.
DeleteOK o. waiting for bolaji *sips zobo*
ReplyDeleteMake una no wait for anything. She will come back later to tell us that the Bolaji has apologized, bla bla bla. This girl is a drama queen like Tonto.
DeletePls release it.stipud man.no excuse to hit a lady
ReplyDeleteThank you Time for standing up for her. #kisses #happynewyear
ReplyDeleteHnmmmm
ReplyDeleteChai. Mr Bolaji haff enter!
ReplyDeleteBolaji, you are in soup
ReplyDeleteShame on you
This new tatoo on their bodies look dirty.
ReplyDeleteGirls to avoid deadbeat 'baby papa's' close your legs.
If you are doing it unprotected,make sure the person you are doing it with is ready to stand by you.
How do you 'make sure the person you are doing it with will stand by you'? Men???
DeleteYour first advice is just the best. Trust no man.
The best is to avoid unprotected sex till you are married or even sex at all.
DeleteMy ex was always telling me he's broody,he wants a baby with me,he would always say he loves me why must we use condom. But I insisted.
This guy did introduction with someone and i didn't know till 3month's to the wedding. What if I fell pregnant? Would it have been easy for me to be married today?
I would have been a baby mama calling him out daily like this receiving insults.
When some people have problems with their baby daddies or boyfriends, they start telling us to trust no man as if they are the almighty innocent ones. As if men are not also heartbroken by women. If that was the case, should we all not have distrust for women too?
DeleteToke my love
ReplyDeleteAye Bolaji to boje
ReplyDeleteBolaji 1....Bolaji... 2.
ReplyDeleteWhere's BOJ? I like his songs.
For once,I stand with Toke. I'm not her fan, but this rant has just made me fall in love with her. So she has lots of content like this?. I'm so proud of you Toke.
ReplyDeleteSome men are so shameless
ReplyDeleteNot a fan but I support this.
ReplyDeleteToke find another punishment for "Bolaji" cos he'll become worse if he looses his job. The baby mama you're trying to help will blame u and you'll be responsible for their upkeep 100%. Trust me, what ever you're giving her now is cool but not 100%. Be careful
ReplyDeleteShe said the man is not doing anything... so there will not be any blaming here... sensitization is key here.... the rate at which unsafe/unprotected sex is been practised is so scary. Does it mean we have thrown away the act of saying NO to premarital and extramarital sex...?
DeleteGovernment should do a .poli po. The beating is getting out of hand. Several times I called police on my husband even reported him to lafLa staSt domestic violence. Nothing came out if it. Even police advise you to settle. When we get home he starts laughing .Ev Ev relative blame me for calling police. What I did now if he touch me u spoil hus oripprop and is working
ReplyDeleteBolaji should go and find work as a wrestler.
ReplyDeleteOkrrrrr. *in khloe Kardashian's voice*
ReplyDeleteyou no go mind your biz anty toke.you will soon learn the hard way oh.use wisdom.you wana go to his work place.you wan carry another man matter like gala.you no know if na set up for your head.no be only you dhey craze oh.vecareful oh.no need fighting with a pig oh you all we get dirty and i am sure the man got nothing to loose.
ReplyDeleteBrother bolaji go take-up ya Responsibilities.. Abeg Women Self insist on Using CD if you cannot hold body...
ReplyDeleteNice one by Toke.
ReplyDeleteToks haf vex😎.
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