We would like to be updated on the Chronicles sent in,and if what we suggested was adhered to...
Please update us with your Chronicles story if you read this and have sent in a Chronicle before......
Did the situation become better or worse?Are you still with this person or situation or you walked away..Did you marry this person?Did you forgive?Did you carry out your threats?
We have read a lot here....Please update us!!!
Please post your chronicle link with your update if its possible.....
Please post your chronicle link with your update if its possible.....
Stella me I don learn plenty things for ya chronicles and the (PIECES OF) advice wey blog visitors wey get better sense dey give. Na so I dey post am give sisi them wey dey listen make I yarn them correct things for life.
ReplyDeleteWahala be say the girls no dey learn. Them go write one chronicle, we advice. Tomorrow, another persin go write same matter; all na marry marry mata. All dey open tohtoh befor them marry, chop belle full, come write.
E good make "we" dey write before wahala full ground like the sisi wey write today, no be after you don scatter everything finish, you come write.
Yayyyyyy.... Stella you listened to us about feedback...... 😘😘
DeletePeople we have been waiting years for this... please please please add the link to your chronicle in your comment.
DeleteIm the one that wrote a long time ago on being pregnant for a side piece i loved with all my heart but was engaged to someone else. Well i aborted the baby( saddest moment of my life) and moved ahead with my fiance. I am married now and praying i get pregnant. God forgive me for my sins. I realized that love is never enough. I loved my side piece with all of me but he just wasnt mine. He wanted me to keep the baby and go abroad which i dint want. Im glad i have someone like hubby in my life. He is not the best man in the world, but he is the best man for me.
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DeleteGod of course will forgive you.
But beware of the next temptation and that is running to and fro, from "pastors" to "witches" to have a baby. Chastisement is different from forgiveness and if you did damage you reproductive organs in the process of abortion, you live with it. Again, does your husband know that you aborted, because you also sinned against him by tampering with your body in such a way.
Must her husband know? Holy nweje.
DeleteLai lai. None of them will write in. They never give feedback.
ReplyDeleteThey will.
DeleteWill be back to read💃
Never say never...
DeleteI sent a chronicle years back, two actually.
One for me, one for a friend. The friend was abused by her bf. Her got good advice here and left the situationship.
I had a problem deciding between two great suitors. I made a wise decision. The rest they say, is history.
Great 👍 Stella.
ReplyDeleteTorr, let the stories begin!!!
ReplyDeleteStella great.very creative ...keep it up ...
ReplyDeleteLadybugsis😎😎😎😎😎
I sent a chronicle few months ago about a guy I was dating that claimed to be an Engineer but was always broke and borrowing money from me.
ReplyDeleteAs you said Stella I later found out this guy was jobless and was lieing about being a contractor(we live in different cities).
As I am not a bank,and I could no longer cope with his bad attitude and lies (getting nasty when I refused a loan).
I dumped him when I discovered all this after the chronicles and I started dating someone who had been on my case also for a while(ladies never throw away suitors). This one knows what it is to be a man,he's always busy though and owns his own business. We usually just see on sundays, but I will rather have a man that I can see is busy at work,spends on me than a jobless one that will be asking me for money.
There should be a balance though. Stop setting for less. Women are emotionally and want their men around. Once in a while traveling is fine but seeing just once in a week??? That’s crazy. If he chooses business over you all the time, love will go sour. Wait for your own man. Learn to enjoy your own company first and learn to be alone without a man. but I’m glad you left that liar and jobless man. Good luck!
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DeleteHow is seeing once a week crazy? Are they married? Even so? What if the man works offshore. So them suppose dey see everyday until see finish go enter. Mteeeeeeew.
DeleteTessbaby, I wonder.
DeleteThey want a semi jobless person that has little change and most of the time
ReplyDeleteThursday, September 13, 2018
Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative....
Hmmmm............
Don't know how to copy link joor.
Blocked.MrB. ended everything with him.but he refused to let go...
Text me everyday begging...sent family and friends to beg me.i refused and still blocked Thier number.
He refused to let go.
Mr A.has opened a business for me.
I pray he pop the question soon.
Thanks alot stella and bvs🙇
God bless you 😘😘😘
Here is the link
Deletehttps://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2018/09/chronicle-of-blog-visitor-narrative_13.html?m=1
So you went with the yahoo boy and use your husband to do bf...na here we dey!!!!
Lwkmd @ queen and boss comment on the chronicle.
Anon 16:22, you are wrong. Mr B was the yahoo guy.
DeleteAh my bad thanks for the correction
DeleteStelz, make it a separate
ReplyDeleteSegment. A stand alone segment just like the chronicles itself. That way BVs can react to the particular story accordingly
Nice one Stella. It will be nice to know if the advice that were given actually worked or not or if they were applied or not.
ReplyDeleteHappy one year marriage anniversary.. Wishing you and your husband the best.
DeleteI sent a chronicle about my fiancee confiding in me that he used to be gay but was absolutely ready to give it up since he met me and wanted to just be with me and no more guys. Well I took the advice from the majority in the comments. I didn't immediately break up with him though.I was still in love. But I Asked to extend the wedding for another 6 months while I process my thoughts,we dated and afterwards I ran biko. Broke up with him. and 2 years later I met my husband . Sdk family I hail una o. Lol
ReplyDeleteThank God it ended in praise
DeleteI have learnt a lot on this blog especially the chronicle. I wish this blog has started 8years ago,I wouldn't have forge ahead with some decisions I made then. I have introduced this segment to a lot of my friends, colleagues at the office even my mum. If you can't learn from chronicles posted on this blog, I doubt if you can learn again.
ReplyDeleteI remember when you started it when you were actually numbering them lol. Who knew they would run into thousands. Personally, they’re the best thing about this blog. A very relevant and wonderful avenue to learn and debate different issues. Don’t ever stop!
ReplyDeleteMine wasn't a Chronicle, I sent my story in about a month ago so as to heal and start afresh and I am grateful I am getting there.
ReplyDeleteAll the advices I got here came in handy, I sleep peacefully now, have become productive and even enrolled for Jamb.
This is me giving a positive feedback to all the responses and love I got here.
Thank God.e-hug
DeleteI am so happy for you dear. God will never leave you or forsake you. Kisses to your baby.
DeleteWow!
DeleteSo amazing you are making progress
Stay blessed
Bless be the name of God!
DeleteI would love to pay your 1st year school fees.
DeleteHugs baby girl. I pray God’s grace and favor follows you everywhere to open positivity for you. You definitely are a resilient lady and you will be great. Jisike 😘💕
DeleteWow.. That's great. Thank God for yoh
DeleteNice one ,will be great to the feed backs!
ReplyDeleteI'm particularly interested in feedback from
ReplyDelete1. The guy in Oslo Norway with a Nigeria wife but is being advised to marry a Norwegian
2. The guy that slept with his wife's friend only to find out she's got a wide poom poom😃😃😃 and still quite in touch with his wife as against what she( the friend) told him
That Norway gist please what's the update..I want to know also
DeleteLadybugsis#😎😎😎😎😎😎
My best post on your blog is chronicles. More power to your elbow Stella.
ReplyDeleteThis is from the lady whose husband impregnated a prostitute and also brought other ladies home to sleep and he lost everything including the baby cos she had a stillborn. I want to say a big thank you to BVs for all the advice I got, as 99% of you said do not go back. O'well I listened and did not return back. He came to beg and my parents said No that it was too early for him to do what he did and that there is no apology or soap in the world that can remove the scar's of what he had done and that they still value me and so do not want a dead daughter and so he should go and not return . He would call me from time to time and even sent messages, I have told him to stop calling and blocked him, some of his family members also reached out but by my coldness they got the message. I thank God for my family cos in a few months it would be 2 years I took that decision and they have made absolutely sure I never regret it. My friends also have been wonderful. Of course initially I was ashamed when I returned home, I guess it's normal cos divorce no be beans, I hid inside the house, until I began going to Church and everywhere else so neighbours are now used to seeing me and they never asked any questions, bless God. I have gotten a job and I am socializing already. Bride price matter has been sorted and though I am yet to find love again cos i think i need to give it time. I see reasons everyday to thank God for taking that walk and listening to the advice of both BVs, family and good friends to never return to that marriage. Least I forget there were times I was tempted to listen to him and return, at one point I sent money to him when he was down, that was the humane side of me speaking but in all I thank God I never went back. I am happy and kicking. SDK rocks
ReplyDeleteThank you for your feedback. May God bless you and you will meet the love of your life soon
DeleteProud of you. Keep praying and moving higher.
DeleteI m just here to warn a particular girl called Uloma. She lives at Ikotun and is a university student . fair in complexion. She goes around sleeping with people's husbands.. Uloma be warned.I have the chat messages n audio u sent to someone's hubby..babe be warned or else I will embarrass you on social media..and in your school. Next time you will not open legs for a married man.
ReplyDeletepls post her pictures for the media. even if the man toasted her and she knew he was married take a walk...must you be sending him pictures and audio? if all women will refuse to encourage married men they they will stick with their wives. uloma the dog, wedone
DeleteStella check your mail cos I sent a feedback/L.R.D. I had to go and resend the mail and add the link to my chronicle after seeing this post
ReplyDeleteMy Chronicle was about my US Old landlord,,Remember, who was visiting Nigeria and I assumed he had amorous intrest in me cause of the type of texts he sends.
ReplyDeleteWell he came and I went to pick him at the airport. But was shocked when he came out in a wheel chair looking very sick and frail. He is over 80, though but was hail and hearty when I left him last year.
I helped him through the airport. Someone came for him but in public transport. As I couldn't take him to where he was going due to distance, I payed airport cab to take him and his brother. He was very happy to see me at the airport. He could barely talk. And I became afraid for him.
He then called later to thank me and said he was proceeding to the East the next day. Then said as my vacation is always May/June. If I can shift it to July when he will likely be back to US, that if I want to still make Use of his place, he will arrange with someone to get me the keys to the house. Very thoughtful of him. That means I will have the whole house to myself throughout the duration of my stay. Just 3-4weeks. The son will collect the rent and keep for him I guess.
Well, he is still in the East and still sends those mind blowing messages to me. Teasing me on how decent and good I am and will miss not being around when am in the State this time.
Contrary to my assumption, I dont think the old man mean any sexual stuff. It just his old age playing game with him. Like I said through out my 6years of always putting up in his place on a reasonable fee, he has never been funny till few months ago after my last trip that he started sending me some funny texts that got me worried if he had amorous interest. Not so.
You know as you grow old you begin to act like a baby. He may see nothing amorous about his messages.like he said "seeing me face on dp and knowing am doing well gives him life and joy" hahahaaa
See old man ooo. Some kids here were insulting me saying I want to kill the man to inherit his wealth. I forgive you all.
I will still be in his place this summer for my holiday. Will drop his rent behind for him. Will probably cook and put in the freezer for him so he will have Nigerian dish when he returns. Now that he is not as strong as he used to be.I pray he returns alive and strong.
I appreciate those who gave good advice to go pick him but with a man. I went with my staff.
This is the feedback of my Oct. Chronicle
Thank God everything sorted itself out. Well done Ma!
DeleteI remember this chronicle very well.The responses you got were out of your assumptions na
DeleteWow , I so remember your chronicle
DeleteWell done ma. It is good to have a good heart . Please do cook the food for him when you go. He will appreciate it so much😗
DeleteThank God. I remember this chronicle. May God keep the old man.
DeleteSo good of you....
DeleteI remembered you. That's nice of you.. 👍
DeleteI remember this chronicle. You are kind dear.
DeleteI remember you madam. You have a good heart. Thank God the relationship and accommodation issue was resolved. Many people here say bizarre things in the name of giving advice. They will assume all sorts of horrible things you never even imagined.
DeleteStella I have to send mine on Tuesday cos now I’m so busy. Pls post it
ReplyDeleteThe fear of bvs mouth is the beginning of wisdom😊😊,thank you all for the tongue lashing and brain resetting E slaps😂😂. Things are now better and still hoping for the best very soon,a very old bv who had learnt a lot and still learning😉😉😉😉😉
ReplyDeleteSDK for life
ReplyDeleteWow this world eh
ReplyDeleteI've never sent in one but there is this chronicle that has stuck in my mind. It's been really long though but it's about a woman who lives in Cairo abi dubai whose husband is in love with another lady. Apparently he met the lady before the wife but they couldn't get married due to some ish ( can't remember the ish)and now he was seeing the other lady while married and even use to come back to Nigeria to see the lady and one day she caught him having a video chat with the lady while naked. I would really know how she is doing and if the marriage is still subsisting. My heart went out to the lady because that's a really sad place to find yourself. But like i said that chronicle was a while ago, I'm just wondering if she's still here.
ReplyDeleteYou're not alone dear.
DeleteAs in enh,that chronicle was the chronicle of the year then,I remember bvs telling her she is the side chic while the other lady is the main chic. Comments were more than 300
DeleteI remembered this chronicle too.. The woman that her husband is still in love with his old girlfriend..
DeleteI rem it o. Really sad for her.
DeleteI rem that chronicle. I felt her pain. Sad
Deletewow as if you know what on my mind.i've been wanting to say those who send in chronicles should try to send in updates as well so we know if the advice given worked or not.
ReplyDeleteNa here get me today,ma read comments... stella dis segment is bae
ReplyDeletePlease keep this segment running even if it features just once in a month for now. Nice one.
ReplyDeleteJust enjoying this blog and learning also.
ReplyDeleteMadam, I remember this your chronicle very well. I just want to say it's ur good heart that endeared you to that old man. You earned his respect.
ReplyDeleteI can vividly remember how you said, you used to keep his house clean and give him your food. What else can an old landlord ask for? Very unlike Niaja people who would have been charging you so much for rent to make up for their hussle. You said that man fee is reasonable.
It's good he appreciates you please, keep being nice to the old man and others and goodness will follow you. I know you are blessed already.
Forget those who did not understand and were insulting you.
I sent a Chronicle sometime in 2014 about my boyfriend being Gay with chats evidence, cant remember the date now. I loved him so much that my mind was being in denial refusing to accept the glaring truth, He denied when confronted but later owned up saying it was a one time occurrence, he was young and naïve and he got offered a lot of cash and it wont and cant happen again. I kept snooping on his phones and emails and saw extra extra more gay chats and evidence from numerous men. Guess I stayed with him because I did love him,I was scared of being alone and he was one handsome muthafucka. Eventually broke up with him 2015, got my Visa and have been in America 4years now. with an Awesome American Fiance
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Dude is 100% bisexual as fuck,last I know he's living off some rich man in Lekki,Got a new car, apartment, material stuff, etc etc. he wouldn't admit he's fucking the man, says he's his boss...mtcheew( Boss my ass)
I will like to know whatever happened to the guy that wanted to marry his ex-wife’s younger sister. The one where the wife left because dude got broke and the younger sister hung around and he bounced back abd fell in love with the younger sister. Oga, how you de?? Please did you end up marrying the younger sister?? Nor shame oo!! Come give us update.
ReplyDeleteYeah I remember that chronicle.would be great to get a feed back from the guy .
DeleteIt would really be a nice idea to have a Chronicle Update segment. Bvs please try and send your updates. After typing to get solutions, also type to give feedback coz you'll be helping a lot of people and also encourage BVs that their advice worked.
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