Thursday IHN

Happy day after boxing day.............

DOGILLA COVERS IN HOUSE NEWS THIS FINE THURSDAY


Hello Everyone,hello SDK Nwayioma.........I feel good!
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TEHILLA COVERS IHN...

Isnt she lovely?







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MRS DEES CORNER

THE DOCTRINE OF RESTITUTION


I've heard of some Pentecostal churches who are for restitution and affirm that it is the only way to show genuine repentance. Even though I am not against it, I am not entirely in support of it. It's a good thing to make amends and right our wrongs, but the question I always ask is; can we truly correct all the mistakes we've made? If it's impossible to achieve this feat, what is the essence of starting what we can't finish?



I remember a well known pastor preaching that if you have gained your wealth illegally, you must forfeit them to the authority or rightful owners, the one who had more than one wife prior to his conversion must divorce the others and stick to the first alone regardless of how much it must hurt the other wives and their children. I am not a supporter of polygamy, but if a man has made this mistake, why worsen it by separating him from his family in the name of repentance? He should be allowed to live with them and deal with the consequences.


In the case of a person who used sorcery to kill people and their is no physical link whatsoever, how can such a person restitute? Even if the person is brave enough to confess to the family of her/his victims, it's very possible she/he will be lynched. The Bible has made it clear that whatsoever a man sows, he will reap. Restitution to an extent is like punishing yourself before the real judgement comes. I feel it is using your blood to atone for your sins when Christ has already paid the price on the cross.

What's your take on this?



Let me read what others have to say on this....





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BABY ISH


Hello Stella. 

I need your advice/help on something please...my 18 months old son is always playing with his pee pee...he is always tugging at it, or lifting up his shots or diaper just to play with it and at the same time sucking his lips. It is now so bad and embarrassing...he does it anytime he is by himself especially when he isn't putting on diaper. I have scolded him,remove his hand and even flogged him...but he just goes right back to it within minutes. And it's just I and my husband at home,not like he has seen someone doing it. I don't know what to do...i am always sad whenever I see him doing it. Pls advice me on what to do plz...is it a common thing amongst boy children? Thank you.




*I dont know why he does that,my Boys never did but i have heard of others who this happened to.....The trick is to distract him and never let him idle....
please stop beating a little child of this age,its heart breaking because you are causing more damage than you think!!!...so upsetting




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VERY IMPORTANT THAT YOU READ THIS


Hi Stella,

I can't exactly pin-point what makes me come to your blog at least 10 times daily. Maybe it's the way u put your write-up after each posts or the daily educative/entertaining/inspirational posts, there's never time to read newspaper or watch news on TV these days... your blog keeps me updated on things. So yes, I I've been an ardent reader and a fan since my brother introduced me to wedding night brouhaha and meeting point years ago. Keep up the good work ma.

Now to my story....I was an addicted gambler(I dunno if I should use past tense or present tense here because the last time I gambled was over 4months ago) This has really ruined my life so far. I started gambling about 3months after I got my job 3 years ago. It first started small small until a friend of a friend won big. Then things got out of hand pretty fast. I moved in with a family friend when I got the job because my parents stay far away. The plan was to win big, start a small business that will give me more income,get a place of my own and start having my own things. I should have sticked to saving religiously the slow but steady way to grow but no,I was looking for a short cut.

I gamble only online and only on livebets so within minutes money drains real fast. When my little savings finished, I started borrowing from friends/family/colleagues anyone around. My salary finishes within days and I always end up borrowing for upkeep and to gamble more. This got really serious because I owe every single person around me money and they actually don't know what I spend money on. It baffles them...most think I actually have if but I don't want to spend. The worst started January 2017 when my salary finished on payday before I got home (staking 10k per bet in live game is the fastest way to death). I had to apply for loan to sort people that I'm owing and to gamble more( hoping the next bet will be the big win). 


I've collected loan 3 different times since then and I can't account for all these funds. It dawned on me that I must stop the day I had dispense error of the last 2k in my account at the ATM(access bank failed me) and I called over 10 different people asking for 1k or just 500 as Tfare to reach home. No one could borrow me that low and I don't actually blame anyone of them. It's either I'm still owing the person for a long overdue debt or I have an history of overdelayed debt with the person. I trekked for almost 3hrs before I got home after a long work day. I had concluded in my mind that day that I must stop. It's slightly over 4months now and I still get the urge every day to gamble, maybe this time I will win. Have u ever been an addict of something? You will know it takes only the grace of God to stop. 


May the Lord Almighty not let us all be addicted to something killing.It's harder with no one to talk to about this problem (not that I'm actually the outspoken type though). No one to be the support system. Many days passes now where I have to fast.. not bcos I want to but bcos I have no choice. I just know in my mind that if I don't want to die miserably alone at a very young age, depressed, with high BP, I have to stop. It's over 4 months now and I pray I get the strength to prevail in this.Mostly I watch series movies or hit the gym or read up on anything online or just sleep... anything that takes my time but not my money.

Gambling is terribly bad. It's like quicksand...the more you try to fight your way out,the deeper in debt you go. It never pays(you might win few thousands today but you will surely lose more than that later. It waste time (time meant to do productive things are used up on monitoring Livescore). You will be lonely( all friends are now avoiding...no one wants a parasitic friend)Depression sets in,many sleepless nights with "had I know" thoughts, devilish thoughts comes to mind (I work in a financial institution,fraud comes to mind....wat if I get caught? Wat if I go to jail?) Then suicidal thoughts comes to mind, should I end it all? My mother won't survive the shock. God please be my strength. I pray about these things now.

If I pay my monthly 38k loan repayment, remove t-fare and little feeding and pay the next person on my list of creditors, by January 2020( I will be free of debts). Imagine getting ready for a new year and not a kobo of your earnings in 2019 is actually yours all through the year. Very sad! I just pray I don't derail.

This country is hard. Plenty youth that wants to succeed. Please let them know that there is no shortcuts to that. Every seconds, someone somewhere is gambling. Kindly let them know before they get addicted. Government doesn't even care about the damage it's causing. This year alone before I stopped i've lost over 1.5million to gambling.Seems like a small money to some but for someone earning way less than 100k a month... it's definitely not. 


This Xmas has to be the worst Xmas ever. Shame wouldn't even let me travel home because I cant even get small gifts for my folks or the people I'm living with. All sort of devilish thoughts in my head right now. 

 I really don't wish this kind of situation for my enemy. I just want to share my story. I've actually sent this anonymously to 1 or 2 people to no avail.

KINDLY HIDE MY IDENTITY IF YOU DECIDE TO SHARE.

Some people will say this is greed, I brought this upon myself but my prayer to all is that "may we or any of our loved once never be addicted to something terribly".

Thank you, God bless and happy new year in advance
Kind Regards




*Hmmmmmmmm....I hope someone learns from this!!!




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COMMENT SECTION

Guys I need your advice, my husbands friend fathered a child outside his marriage. Should I let the wife know cos she was the one that gave him papers here in UK




Take this advice from someone who gossips for a living and MIND YOUR BUSINESS cos you will regret it.


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COMMENT SECTION

 Please i have a question to ask. My boyfriend and i are planning to get married in Easter,i have met his siblings and we are always cool each time we are together. 

The problem here is they dont ever call me aside his immediate elder brother,i call when Its their birthdays or when there is a special Celebration but when its mine i get no calls from them.please is this something i should be worried about?


*Maybe this is because you are yet to impact on them...and also depends on the kind of relationship they share with their brother...Find out and be open about this cos they might like you but trying not to cross the boundaries set for them...




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SHORT GRAIN RICE FOR SALE


I have short grain rice for sale in Lagos at a very affordable price, it is going for 14,000, slightly negotiable. It can be delivered to any where in Lagos, delivery charges exclusive. I can be reached on 08068971939






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URGENT LAND SALE

A large 2-plots of virgin/highly fertile land with about 20-suckers of plantain and sugarcane at Imogu, Omagwa (Station Bustop - very close to PH airport) in a buy, build and pack-in vicinity is available for sale.

Price is N3M at N1.5M per plot.
*Already surveyed.


Also Available is:
3,500 pcs of 6-inches moulded blocks, 1-trip of 3'8 and 1-trip of sharp sand meant for fencing.

This property is very dear to heart. We were already working on developing it but have urgent financial need/relocation which necessitated the sale.

Interested buyers alone should contact: wifevirtuos@gmail.com





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I have another set of books(17)to give out, just in case anyone is bored and wants to stay occupied this holiday.
Pick up location: Yaba,Lagos.
Email:abiolaf207@gmail.com




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VACANCY

In need of a graduate(Bachelors/HND) to work at a management position in Onitsha, Anambra state. Integrity and honesty is mostly what we are looking for.

Preferably a male applicant, employment will be confirmed after 6 months probation.

Applicant must be living in Onitsha and it’s a 7 days a week commitment.

Call 08033238059/08063992237

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Need for Haulage Trucks


We are urgently looking for 10 tonnes, 15, tonnes, 20 tonnes and 30 tonnes haulage trucks to haul snacks and beverages from Lagos to other parts of Nigeria on a regular basis. We can also broker haulage contracts for individuals and companies. for more information,interested persons can reach us on 08053364831 or via email on Quibecnfluid@gmail.com







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SAMSUNG GALAXY S8 FOR SALE


The colour is Orchid Gray and I got it at 180k but it's negotiable, as it's unsealed but still new including all original accessories like earpiece, USB etc which are still intact in their seals. It already has a 3D screen protector which I got differently and a double transparent casing.


Receipt of purchase available and I'll prefer someone based in Lagos so you could see it before purchase. Please call or WhatsApp me on 08183912864.






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Long human hair with fumi curls is available in natural color.
 Deal price: 15,000 naira

WhatsApp: 07063372939
Delivery service is available .




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BUY BAGS WORTH OVER 15K AND HAVE IT DELIVERED FREE (LAGOS RESIDENTS ONLY)


It is not too late to gift your loved ones you know  . At ShopAjiks, we stock various unique and affordable designs of bags. These bags can be carried to beaches, concerts, church, dates, parties etc. Price range N4,000 - N7,500. The amazing thing is if you buy bags above 15k from now, till year end (31:12:2018) you have it delivered at no cost at all to your desired location in LAGOS. We deliver NATIONWIDE.

Contact:

Twitter/Facebook/Instagram - @ShopAjiks
Phone No: 08077687799

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We are currently running a 3,500 clearance sale. Shoes, bags, sandals etc going for as low as 3,500. You can still look good while on a budget this festive period.
Visit us on instagram @affordableshoes_etmore or whatsapp 08088411932.


Hurry before everything gets sold out!!!

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GIVEAWAY
In the spirit of giveaway, I want to give out the 6inch shoe attached to any size 38 person. (Call/Text 08088259833)




*Please how in Heavens name do you people walk in these shoes?huh?Anyone ever had a nasty fall wearing something like this?''upchair'' shoe

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GIVEAWAY

I have 2 worn suits to give to a size 12 female bv base in Kaduna State who is in need of them.

Also, some male shirts (12 shirts) for someone's Security man.
It has been worn severally but still in good condition.

If you need these kindly call 09072300391
Location: Kakuri Kaduna

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With gratitude to God and our loyal customers, deSleek Couture end- of -year clearance sales are on till January 5th, 2019 with 10-15% off on all our trendy and affordable stock(tops,pants,jeans and dresses)

We do free office and home deliveries so you see what you want before payment is made.

Please call or WhatsApp deSleek couture on:
08052834338 and follow us on Instagram: @desleekcouture.




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