All hell broke loose when one of the kids fell down and fell sick and the cat was let out of the bag.......
My husband donated his sperm for IVF without my consent!! We have been married for 8 years with 5 children, 2 boys and 3 girls. He has a best friend who has been married for 3 years without issues. The wife is my friend. My husband was given One(1)million Naira for his sperm to be donated to my friend , the wife to my husband best friend. I was never put into the picture. When her pregnancy was announced around October 2017.
Lady and hubbys best friend are both AA and hubby and hus best friends wife are both AS......Oops!!!
My husband donated his sperm for IVF without my consent!! We have been married for 8 years with 5 children, 2 boys and 3 girls. He has a best friend who has been married for 3 years without issues. The wife is my friend. My husband was given One(1)million Naira for his sperm to be donated to my friend , the wife to my husband best friend. I was never put into the picture. When her pregnancy was announced around October 2017.
I was so happy for her, she never disclosed anything to me let alone of she went for IVF procedure. She gave birth to 2 daugthers in August, 2018. They throw party and painted their city red. In mid-November 2018, the kids just turned 3 months when one of the babies fall from the baby rocking little bed on their parlour chair in their sitting room, when the house maid went out to get sometime behind their house. She was bleeding, so they rushed her to the hospital, only to discover she was S.S, later took the other one there for test she is A.S.
They called my husband 2 weeks ago at 2am early morning on that day to come to the hospital, he wanted to go alone I said I will come as I will be worried for the baby.. The first thing that shocked me, is that baby so much looked like my daugthers at that age. She has the big eyes of my husband and my 5 kids.. My husband was told to donate blood as he has O negative like the child. He is the only one to give the child blood, as her blood went down for her age of 3 months. After 2 hours there we went home. I could not sleep, I told my husband direct " Is there something about Ur friends child U want me to know?' he said no. I said ok. I slept off.
noticed he was already awake and left home for work too early. I quickly dressed up and went to the hospital to see the wife. Only to see my husband there with them. I told them straight that it was my husband that donated his sperm for the IVF? Because my husband is AS genotype like his wife unknown, while I am AA like her husband. My husband knew but wanted the One (1) Million Naira.
They did not bother to find out. She told me she wanted to tell me when they were all planning it last year, it was my husband that kick against it, that I will never agree to the plan.
Now I called his family and my uncle only, as I do not have parents, that I can only remain in this marriage if the 2 daughters of his best friend is giving back to me. They are my husband kids and mine as well, or they MUST pay me 2 million Naira, or I quit my marriage. My husband is a cow. the twins are too beautiful like my husband for me to leave them with that family. My last child is lonely needs them to call sisters.I need advise what to do next.
That was the same reason she wasn't told at first evil woman
ReplyDeleteMadam greedy! Na money you dey find not the children. Make your husband give you e sperm too make you take born twin girls for am as Na fine girls you dey look for. Wicked friend.
DeleteI will stella 've like na 1000 like I 4 give your comment.... y
DeleteWish jare.... evil woman say evil devilish woman
DeleteNo wonder they didnt tell you at first bcos of the kind of person you are, loud mouth and selfish, u think abt urself alone, do u know what dt woman is going tro??? U ve 5 children n u want to take d 2 not even thinking abt her pain, d child involved, now u want N2m, this is so heartless dt u ve to expose d man's weakness to d whole world, just go on ur kneels n weep for urself
DeleteExactly anon13:05, what kind of a woman is this very selfish and insensitive, notedigger cos gold is way too much for her kind and league... All she wanted was the 2mil not the kids, she's the cow, after having 5 of her own still want to claim another woman's 2, what if she's her hubby's 2nd wife, would she have said she wants to claim her kids? Nonsense.
DeleteShe should be ignored abegi, such a dickhead!
This woman is heartless, so she rather has 7 children than let another woman like her have two, and later you will call yourself a Christian. If I was the friend I will give her the 2million and never speak to her in my life, rubbish, is it even her sperm? Did they use her eggs they should got to court
DeleteLike really! She wants 2m or the children? Really! Really!
ReplyDeleteHaaaaaa..... Eleyi gidi gan ooo
ReplyDeleteLol @ her husband is a cow
They should give her the 2million jeje
stupid idiotic hungry wicked woman...she is just doing it to hurt everyone...she doesn't want the kids for anything...face your husband and deal with him for his deceit but leave the couple alone with their kids.if am the couple she can go ahead with her rubbish and danm the shame cos she has no case. she has no legal rights to their child and can only threaten her husband.
ReplyDeletehmmm...does the poster now want her friend to be childless.She has every right to be upset,but to hand the twins to you.madam pack well,afterall your husband donated his sperm,they did not steal it.
ReplyDeleteThis tori never finish o
ReplyDeleteWhich IVF?
The horseband been pound well well.
Naija horsebands don dey trade sperm o. . .
The man don donate cucumber tey tey.
Chai madam needs 2million to shut up. The man is a cow
ReplyDeleteThe writer must be sick, insane or she is high on cheap drugs.... Can you imagine the rubbish.... hmmmmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteOturugbeke
ReplyDeleteHmmm, omo see gobe o. But why does she want to cause that family more pain when already has 5kids with her hubby. I know she should have put her in the picture but the deed has been done; so she should just let go
ReplyDeleteVery greedy woman. How are the 2 girls yours? Is your husnand sperm n not your eggs. See mouth like two million naira. If I am your husband I will even divorce you. Wicked woman. Who do you think you 're doing a favour by threatening to leave your marriage. I am angry right now. To think you have 5 kids n don't even wish another to have any is above me.
ReplyDeleteI'm telling you. The husband should find a way to raise that 2 million and afterwards divorce her. Ole oshi.
DeleteThe husband did wrong, however her responses show how greedy she is.
The husband too is not a good person because of his greed that child will go thru the trauma of ss. Were husband and wife
DeleteShe is as evil as they come.
ReplyDeleteThe hospital runs those people are going through is enough, madam don't add to their troubles.
If you claim the sperm is for your husband, what about the eggs? Wicked woman.
ole na your sperm abegii pack well
ReplyDeleteThat woman is a thief
ReplyDeleteThey run genetic tests before donor eggs or sperm is accepted for ivf, this is an error that cannot be made with ivf, fake fake fake story!
ReplyDeletePure fake story. Any thing to trend..... 😏😏😏
DeleteGbam👌
DeleteAll these fake, nonsensical stories just to trend.
Lol...They just want to put us in our feelings with all these fake stories
DeleteI was just thinking it in my head. I went for ivf class last month and all these were explained. There is no chance of an ivf offspring having such disease.
DeleteTotal fakery... I just yinmu-ed this story...
DeleteYou have one million naira and couldn't use an unknown sperm donor? Well woman, that those kids are fathered by husband doesn't give you automatic rights over the children. In the real sense, your husband's best friends wife, is your husband's baby mama. She has authority over that child as much as your husband does. You have no say!
ReplyDeleteSo your options are to result to cheap blackmail or leave your marriage , but you see those twins? You are not their mother!!!
Greedy and very selfish woman.
ReplyDeleteYou have 5 already, why take the girls away from your friend who doesn't have?
ReplyDeleteThis looks like a fabricated story.
ReplyDeleteOmo, this is faylighd witchcraft! Madam has 5kids o, not that she doesn't have at all and she wants to take away the only two that another woman has. She has pure evil abeg!So if the kids were not beautiful, she wouldn't have bothered, but because they are too beautiful, she suddenly remembered that here last child is lonley. Evil woman that doesn't have empathy for the plight of her fellow woman.I am so upset at the level of wickedness!
ReplyDeletethis woman is wicked!na wa...even though i dont believe it was through ivf but then, why make such demands from people you call your friends...wickedness
ReplyDeleteThis one is strong o!
ReplyDeleteThis is a serious matter. Come to think of it they paid for the sperm so madam poster just face your husband not the couple. Would have been better if its was an unknown donor.
ReplyDeleteThey should have gone far for the donor not a close family friend, why hide such from your wife? It's too painful jor
ReplyDeleteNo wonder God regretted creating man... Evil and greedy people everywhere. How much did you pay God to give you the 5 children you have. If men where God?.
ReplyDeleteMadam you are not her friend,you are an enemy.
ReplyDeleteWhatever the man sees from the wife he should deal with it. The man should have talked to her and tried to convince her before doing that. He is not an only option. Is that how he would be 'donating' sperm all over the place? As father Abraham that he is. If the wife had been the one to do something similar (in this case donate her eggs) behind the husband's back, she would have been kicked out and sent packing.
ReplyDeleteCome ooo, how was the 'donation' done this one nobody wanted to tell the wife? And the couple sef, see how you now have an SS child as a result of not insisting on transparency. They would have found out about the mans AS status and found someone else. The mans AS status must have also been a contributing factor that he wanted to do his sharp runs and collect 1M quickly.
Is this woman listening to herself atall?what sought human beign is this?
ReplyDeleteGenetic testing is always done before the IVF process commences. This story is ridiculous.
ReplyDeleteBecause dem call am IVF. How are you sure how the actual donation was given. Hehehe. Just know say husband's sperm enter another woman, give am belle.
DeleteYou just realized your last child is lonely?😕
ReplyDeleteYou want 2million naira or the kids or you quit your marriage? Madam 'kukuma' say you want money.😁
You already have 5kids Madam. Please leave the 2 daughters for your friend nau. She's going through a lot already.
Hahahaha no be only lonely,let her concieve again
DeleteShe is a very very greedy bitch.
ReplyDeleteThey should have saved themselves this headache by using an anonymous donor, see now. The man that donated sperm is already emotionally involved, see him running to hospital to donate blood. Meanwhile if this story is true, then that woman is as greedy as greedy comes.
ReplyDeleteGreedy woman
ReplyDeleteIs the man’s child her child? She’s just stupid. What can she do if they don’t give her the money apart from running her mouth like a tap. It’s the other woman’s child as well. Greedy woman
ReplyDeleteIf you believe this story, then you can as well believe that Trump is the President of Nigeria.
ReplyDeleteThank you supervalma. I just tire.
DeleteNo wonder the husband did not trust her enough to let her know in the first place wicked woman
ReplyDeleteShe has every right to be mad at them for keeping her in the dark but taking kids back is impossible.
ReplyDeleteMadam the madam, Hailings to you oh. Hope you will be ready and willing to collect all the babies when your horsebands sidechicks allow the sperm he plants in them to 'germinate'.
ReplyDeleteThis story has no credibility.
Evil, woman, that she wants the kids.
ReplyDeleteIs this gist even true? 'Cause people make up stories on SM alot. Let come Abe going than to have headache over this mess.
Except if our Nigerian medical professionals are stupid. Where in the world is IVF done without checking the genotype and bloodgroup of the parties involved.
ReplyDeleteThis is just a silly story cooked up for trending
woman , thou are wicked.
ReplyDeletevery daft story.
ReplyDeleteseriously, what kind of woman is this bikini, your daughter need a sister, give her one now abi, she need the 2million, people shaii. I am very sure that wad the reason they didn't tell her at first.
ReplyDeleteThey should go to court. The children belong to the man not the woman. The woman is not even a surrogate she's just a step mother and I'm sure ivf sperm donors have a policy in situations like this.
ReplyDeleteThe woman is just being wicked. Guess she wants her friend not to have kids. I am not surprised. I had thought if this scenario when l had a failed IVF and someone from Nigeria had a lot of eggs and told me l could have them all. She had girls and wanted a boy. I was very happy but the fear of her turning up in future scared the heck out of me and l refused the offer.
ReplyDeleteQuick question here. Since she’s so ready to take the twins home, would she have been so eager to take them home if her hubby had them with a side chick??
The friend should have gone to a sperm bank. In fact, e for better if sexy daddy had donated the semen sef.
It's very appalling and irritating how people including women are calling the woman in this case names. Tomorrow now, they will say that they are feminist, but they don't even know their rights as married women.
ReplyDeleteHow on earth should a man you're legally married to donate his sperm to your family friend(not anonymously o) for IVF without your consent as his wife? Who does that sh*t? And you all are saying that the woman don't have any right to be livid. Even the sperm recipient saw the need to consult and seek for the Donor's wife consent, but this man don't have any regard for his wife in any way. For the woman to have remembered their genotypes would have saved them from this recent happenings, since they don't know that having someone anonymous that won't be emotionally attached to those kids would save them from unnecessary drama in the future.
The greedy and insensitive man should absolutely deal with whatever he's facing now. This is betrayal and disrespect at its peak.