between one Mrs Alimot Abass and her husband, Jimoh, over husband’s laziness.
“He fights me whenever I ask him for money or beg him to look for a job,” she said. The 32-year-old mother of one said that her husband had failed in all his responsibilities. “Jimoh is an irresponsible husband and father. He has never given me a kobo since the inception of our marriage; I have been the one responsible for the feeding, house rent, and paying our child’s school fees. “I was reduced to nothing in spite of the fact that I am a graduate. I was forced to do all manner of jobs just to provide for the family, with my husband caring less or doing anything to arrest the situation,” she said.
Alimot said that her husband absconded from their matrimonial home last year, without coming back to ask of her wellbeing and that of his daughter.
"Please court, terminate this loveless marriage so that I can move on with my life,” she pleaded.
(NAN) reports that the respondent refused to appear in court despite several court summons.
The Court President, Mr Adeniyi Koledoye, in his judgment, said that it was obvious from available testimonies and the respondent’s refusal to appear in court that the marriage had hit the rocks. “The fact that the respondent abandoned his matrimonial home for a year without looking back or caring about the survival of his family is an indication that the marriage has broken down beyond retrieval.
"Throughout the duration of this case, the respondent refused to honour court processes, therefore, the court has no other choice than to dissolve the marriage,” he said.
Koledoye granted the custody of the only child to Alimot and ordered Jimoh to be paying N5, 000 monthly as feeding allowance for the child. In addition, he ordered Jimoh to be responsible for the child’s education and general welfare.
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Jobless lazy man to pay 5k every month... very funny and impossible
ReplyDeleteAnd what will she even do with the miserable 5k? Is that one child support? The courts even encourage these men to be lazy.
DeleteSuch a useless husband
ReplyDeleteNa real wa,the kinda men out there ehn,I cover my future husband with the blood of Jesus, I speak forth responsibility into him.
ReplyDeleteThis igando court is always on the news for divorce and the reason is something else
ReplyDeleteGood move by the woman; before one man will use his lazy sperm to drain all her youth.At least she can go about her huzzle with no physical and psychological encumberance!!
ReplyDeleteThank God that woman is free from that lazy horseband
ReplyDeleteStella and Igando is like bread and butter.
ReplyDeleteAyam telling you, Stella loves that court like fresh palmwine 🍷
DeleteLol.. you noticed too
Delete😂😂😂😂😂
Deleteits better than death due to domese violence
ReplyDeleteToo many lazy men out there. Mine isn't any different. All talk and no action. No drive at all. Waiting for some magic to happen one day. I'm also watching and waiting. Marriage is just overrated!
ReplyDeletePearl dear...marriage is not overrated. Pray that your husband's dreams come through. Also talk to and with him, let him sit up. I wish u and your family a wonderful Christmas
DeleteMarriage is not overrated my dear. It's quite unfortunate when one meets a man or woman who ends up being a bag of disappointment and a total opposite of what they showed during courtship.
DeleteWhy don't you sit him down and have a heart to heart talk with him? And both of you can map out how to handle finances together with mutual contribution. Ask him what challenges he's facing with work or biz and both of you can come out with solutions.
If not resentment will just kill whatever feelings you have for each other.
In your watching and waiting pls don't have any additional child. It's good this poster had just a child atleast her hustle as a single mom will be less.
DeleteI just ran from a situationship myself. This guy lied to me that he was working not knowing he was out of job becos we were in separate towns. He recently lied he got a job. I said okay let me see the offer letter you got. Na there the bubble burst. Told him I want out,can't stand lazy men. Okay use your car to do uber pending. He prefers sitting home doing nothing all day. I took my leave even though I'm in my 30s. Im a career woman doing well, a lazy man will draw your life back.
It is never too late to start again. Any man you see lazy during courtship won't be any better during marriage.
He even told me at my age I shld be happy he dated me. I will never find someone else.
The same month a guy I have been ignoring since 2016 is asking my hand in marriage. I'm just taking me time to study him.
No b small house husband.
ReplyDeleteThe woman took the right decision of divorce the man.
ReplyDelete*divorcing
ReplyDeleteHehe house husband, just like my friends full house husband. Some men can be very lazy. Expecting their wives to be the one doing everything. Irresponsible men
ReplyDeleteLooks as if we have a generation of lazy husbands.My mum never paid my school fees even as a senior civil servant.It was my dad's job.Today,it's a different story with many men declaring No Show.
ReplyDeleteYou can say that again. we have many lazy men out there nowadays. My own mum was even a house-wife, she just did little cake business from the house. My father provided 100percent and never complained.
DeleteThis men now, they will say im looking for working class lady bla bla.
You people are saying the 5k is small, even that 5k she won't see it.
ReplyDeleteThe woman don do oluwole for the man. The lazy drone might not even know he has court summons sef. Good for his lazy ass. Lol
ReplyDeleteIf he's out of job for 2 yrs,tell him to find something doing that can bring in any amount. Lazy men with active penises is a spiritual something
ReplyDeleteHmmnnn...Igando and 5k
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