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ENOUGH IS ENOUGH

Dear Stella,

Kindly keep me anonymous.

Please I need you and your bloggers advice on how to handle a problematic step mother and her disrespectful daughter.

I relocated back to my father's house recently after things were really tough in the state where I was previously running my business. My father is elderly and retired, he was married to my late mother who died of depression and spiritual attack on finding out that this new wife had taken over her husband.

I am the only child from their marriage. I never had a reason to live under the same roof with this woman until recently because I was doing well for myself and resided in another state.

From my observations, I discovered she had been maltreating my father codedly. She served him sour okro soup in my presence and had no 'surprise' or remorse when my father put some in his mouth and asked why the soup served was spoilt. He does well to give her money for upkeep and cooking though she complains and speaks to him very rudely.

On an occasion, I bought turkey and soup ingredients which I handed to her because I try to stay out of her kitchen business. Would you believe, she served my father kponmo, gave me one bony piece of turkey and after watching us eat, she and her daughter snuck into the bedroom to eat fried turkey! ( I discovered when I heard the dogs cracking bones in their kennels shortly after the daughter went to drop bones for them).

For three days on a stretch, they both hid in the room to eat thesame turkey I had bought with my money for the consumption of everyone in the house. I have an adopted younger brother whose late father was close friends with my father. I watched how she maltreats this boy and gives him food without meat or no food at all. Yet he does all the chores and runs all the errands while she sits gossiping with her obese daughter.

I was about to confront my step sister who was the one serving the meals but my father begged me to please bear with him. It was with sadness he expressed his joy that I was around to witness his ordeal in the hands of this woman!

Stella, growing up we suffered like hell! Then things took a better turn after almost 20 years of penury. Strange and sadly, this woman was introduced to my father by his bosom friend (imagine this life!). This his friend, would come to our house then and my mother would still serve him a decent meal despite that was to be the only meal for the day!


The moment things changed for the better, a good contract pulled through for father, Somehow my father moved out of the house to his own house and the woman moved in with him!
This was the time my mother should be seated enjoying her labour!


Rather, she fell into depression and her system collapsed suddenly. All medical tests showed 'nothing'. She was constantly in pains (Intense prayers showed she was attacked spiritually). She died with a heavy heart! On her dying bed, she sent for my father and told him ' I forgive you'. I watched both of them weep uncontrollably.How I wish my mother stepped out for warfare prayers back then! Sadly, she wasn't exposed and she believed so much in the good of others!


10 years later, I m here and this woman who rode the jeeps and made the trips and businesses that should have been my mums'. She has began showing her true colors on seeing that money was no longer incoming as all these years!


This woman who has never worked a single day in her life, told my almost 70 year old father to go and look for another job after he just retired meritoriously from service last year! Every dime he invested in the business he set up for her is all gone as she cannot account for a cent!


I need genuine advice on how to handle her daughter who derives pleasure in singing 'abusive local songs' whenever I m seated or walking past. I was made to understand that she does the same thing to my father! They both sit laughing loudly and making mockery of myself and my father! No relative comes to visit my father anymore because of insults and maltreatment from her!


I am way more educated and exposed but deliberately restrained myself from reacting to these unprintable attitudes!

I recall whenever I sent money and provisions home to my dad for upkeep over the years, this woman and her daughters benefited immensely from it. She has no child for my father, yet he single handedly sponsored her two daughters (from her two previous marriages ) through universities. Despite the education, they lack class, regard or any iota of discipline.

Please, I can't take this nonsense anymore! What do I do because my uncles were here saying ' this is my mothers sweat that she had eaten empty'. She has turned them all to my fathers enemies (even his own blood siblings). My father's eyes are cleared and open now. I need to know how to tackle this both physically and spiritually.

I will not let my mother die in vain!
Enough is enough!

OMG,SEE DRAMA!!!