STAND ALONE NARRATIVE:
FINDING FAULT WITH EVERY SUITOR....
Hello Stella,
I said no to my last suitor because I believe he brags a lot, and it turns me off,and most especially when asked to bring or offer one of those things he brags about he claims to have offset heavy bills and still have more bill to pay.
Honestly believe me when I say I have tried to work on the mouth odour but its not working.. And I think am BEING pressured
Am waiting for your red pen..
*Hmmm looks like you look for a reason to say No every time you have a suitor.You didnt include your age for us to know if you are being pressured because of age....
Having a Smelly mouth is a NO GO area for most women so this is Understandable but the other bragging part sounds like after he tells you stories you try to get something off him and he also has a ready made story to counter your 'begging'
Smelly mouth is bad but you can work with someone who has it to get rid of it IF YOU LIKE THE PERSON.
Hello Stella,
I think I need someone to talk sense into me ......
My Mum said i am possessed cause I always have one reason to turn my suitors down.but I think I always have reasons for that..please I wanna know whether this is justifiable.
My Mum said i am possessed cause I always have one reason to turn my suitors down.but I think I always have reasons for that..please I wanna know whether this is justifiable.
I said no to my last suitor because I believe he brags a lot, and it turns me off,and most especially when asked to bring or offer one of those things he brags about he claims to have offset heavy bills and still have more bill to pay.
Most especially I think he has this mouth odour that I can't take..
Honestly believe me when I say I have tried to work on the mouth odour but its not working.. And I think am BEING pressured
Am waiting for your red pen..
*Hmmm looks like you look for a reason to say No every time you have a suitor.You didnt include your age for us to know if you are being pressured because of age....
Having a Smelly mouth is a NO GO area for most women so this is Understandable but the other bragging part sounds like after he tells you stories you try to get something off him and he also has a ready made story to counter your 'begging'
Smelly mouth is bad but you can work with someone who has it to get rid of it IF YOU LIKE THE PERSON.
Say NO to MOUTH ORDOR😈😥💔😬🤐
ReplyDeleteMouth odour is life time imprisonment especially if the person is not ready to do anything about it. Body odour follow join.
DeleteWish I could advice you bug I don't know anything about relationship.
How do I get rid of mouth odour?
DeleteIf its follow-come mouth odour, my dear forget it, scientists are still cracking their brain on that issue!
DeleteOxygen, I swear you are mad😀😁😂😃😄😆😅
Deleteanon 16:17:
Delete1,Brush your tongue very well, get those smokers hard brush and use it on it.
2,Invest in a good mouth wash and drink water always.
3,Brush after every meal and before going to bed
4,Floss your teeth once in a while.
5,Avoid food with onions and garlic,
then see a doctor for a general check-up if it doesn't get better after doing all these things above.
Anon 16:27 just eat cucumber & bitter kola regularly. Like every other day. That's all.
DeleteFrom what you wrote you’re very sane. Don’t let pressure push you to compromise your standards. Your mum is making that horrible mistake some mothers make and if she’s not careful she may push you into depression and the arms of the wrong man.
ReplyDeleteNow speaking of standards, it is important to learn to differentiate between being proud and protecting your dignity. Also remember that the fear of spending the rest of your life with one person may push us to exaggerate attributes in people thereby creating an unnecessary reason to dump them. It’s not easy and that why the Bible says we should watch and pray.
I wish you the best and pray God guides you in your next relationship.
Abegi, forget this thing wey una dey talk about MOUTH ODOR. If persin be mirrionaire come dey abroad, that mouth odor go turn to perfume.
ReplyDeleteJust summarily tell us say, the man no gather money; kudi, ego, na the thing Naija girls dey marry be dat.
Really truth is bitter. If Dangote has mouth odor how many of the girls in this blog will reject him as a suitor, even at his age?
DeleteThe day we begin to tell ourselves the truth and not lie to ourselves, our problems will disappear.
I have much respect for Dangote but for real, I will turn down his proposal. Not everyone is fascinated by wealth and power, I am not. As for mouth odor, some are manageable while some are really bad. I have a friend w a really bad one, the entire car when he's there, entire room when he's there.. offensive and stinky. Don't know how they don't perceive it themselves. Good products for mouth hygiene are sold for a dollar or less, no excuse for an adult to have mouth odor. Eew.
DeleteMe. I rejected a city banker here cos of mouth odour. Hian
Delete@Tobie
DeleteE bi like say the Pharisees and Sadducee don dey do meeting here o?
Anon 16:26, you shouldn't have done that ,there are ways to get rid of halitosis if it's not linked to a medical condition....
DeleteKidjo really? I empathize with people who have mouth odor even after taking their mouth hygiene seriously but I can hardly look past it.
Delete@Kiks
Deletethen the person should consult a doctor if it persists after serious hygienic practises...Might be linked to an internal issue.
If you like the person & try to change them, they will agree for a while after marriage they return to having smelly mouth. Most of these guys don't brush and re comfortable for days. Where I was before the married marketer then will use the public bathroom meant for staff members nd not flush. Something that is working o. I noticed twice nd decided to keep watch nd caught him. imaging how he will be at home.
ReplyDeleteAfter they pressure you nd you rush in nd marry shey they will stay in the marriage with you. Let them continue. Do what makes you happy my dear.
Pls dont let anyone push you to making wrong decision. It's you that will live with the person so you know what you can take and what you can't.
ReplyDeleteI can't stand any man with mouth or body odour no matter how wealthy he is. I will be turned off.
How many have u turned down? Cos this one is not as loaded as he claims hence d turning down, how about others?
ReplyDeleteMust you tell you mom about every guy that wants to date you??? Damnn. How about keep it on the low until you’re certain this man is the one for you. And discuss with your mom to stop pressuring you into a marriage you’ll regret! Forever with a man is a longgg time so it’s better to get it right the first time because even with the right man, you’ll still get annoyed with some things he does. Talkless of marrying the wrong man hmmmm. Take it one step at a time biko and know what you want in a man!
ReplyDeleteMouth odour is a big turn off, assuming you like the guy, you two can work together to get rid of the mouth odour but with his bragging, i don't know what to say and its like your mind is already made up.
ReplyDeleteJust be patient,the right man will come but have it at the back of your mind that nobody is perfect.
Good luck
Don't let your mother or anyone else project their fears on you. You are not unduly proud or fussy. Personal hygiene is very very important in a marriage o. It is a basic function of living and co existing together and someone who is unwilling to do that is not for you. I don't care what age you are marry the person you feel is right for you. I know some people on this blog think if you are over 30 and single your life is not worth living but please resist the pressure. God will send you the right person at the right time.
ReplyDeleteDo you,Be you.dont let anybody preasure you dear take your time please
ReplyDeleteNo body should pressure you into marriage oh.
ReplyDeleteTake your time, Mr perfect for you will surly come
#HotMum#
lololololol
ReplyDeleteDon't let anyone put pressure on you to do what you might regret later. You're the one to live with the man not your mum.
ReplyDeleteNa wa o, See most of them here with stinking ponyor screaming their lungs out that they can't date someone with mouth odour, Some wey get stinky ponyor still dey talk....If na Bill Gates get mouth odour, una go rush am.if mouth nor smell, how dentists dem go chop😋😋😋
ReplyDeletePoster , if it's only mouth odour that's his problem, it can be treated/handled as long as it's not linked to a medical condition....Na money e go cost you sha😆😆😆 if you re ready to help him out,lemme know.😊😊😊
And lastly, you won't find a perfect man(No perfect being on Earth)
ReplyDeleteSo please stop rejecting those brothers, look for the one whose flaws you can cope with and then manage him because you ain't perfect as well. But take your time and use your sense to note that you can't be single forever...You might feel pressured because you involve your mum in your relationship matters, Try not to involve anyone for the now till the relationship is strong(close to marriage) that way, you get to make your own decisions without influence from anyone.
My dear if you cant take the baggage let me him go.
ReplyDeleteSo far you are complaining you cant be happy living with him,if he dient get a solution
Follow come mouth odour is a turn off for me , I cannot even gist with you not to talk of having a relationship with the person.
ReplyDeleteMy dear do not allow anyone to rush you into getting married, if you marry the wrong person everyone will back out, they will laugh at you, they will blame you for the failed marriage. Take your time to know who you want to marry, anyone who brags is a fat lair.
bitter kola can cure any mouth odour... take at least two a day...
ReplyDelete#marriedchick
Lots of Dentists on this blog. If, Bitter Kola cures mouth odor, why are there still people with chronic mouth odor?? It should have been the go to cure for everyone suffofrom mouth odor. In fact, there would have been a scarcity of Bitter Kola by now.
DeletePoster check your mouth hygiene and diet. Use mouthwash, gum, etc FYI, there might be hidden meat particles in between your teeth. You better use dental floss and get it all out.
@Anon23:10
DeleteYou tried with the solutions you gave but you re wrong with the gum...it's bad for the teeth and causes hole in the cavity leading to tooth decay which contributes to smelly mouth....
Enter your comment...kidjo are you a dentist? You certainly sound like one
ReplyDelete@anon23:10. i have seen where bitter kola was recommended and it worked.. thats why i also recommended it. bitter kola has no side effect whatsoever, so if it doesnt work for mouth odour, you still benefit from just eating it...
ReplyDelete#marriedchick
Your problem is beyond mouth odour. you should be concerned about his bragging attitude,its a reflection of his poor self Image believe me you can't survive it for the lifetime you will spend with him.
ReplyDeletefinally if it cost you rejecting a whole nation just to find man it's worth it cos most ladies who have yielded to this pressure have negative testimonies follow the stories and comments on this blog and you will gain wisdom