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A PAST TO WORRY ABOUT...


Hi Stella,
Thanks for the good work you are doing. May God bless you.


Here's my chronicle:


My girlfriend is a nice person. We've been together for a year now. She told me about her past when we started.




HER PAST:

She said she used to have a fuck buddy in the university. She even used to pay him for sex. She clearly said she didn't "Date" this guy. She was just using him for sex. She said he was her school son.


After school, she was posted to Abuja for her NYSC. She started dating another guy who later got married to someone else. But she kept on sleeping with him even after he got married. She even used to tell him what to do in his home. The funny thing is she feels she didn't do anything wrong by sleeping with another woman's husband. She says the guy was always on her neck. So she had no choice. I clearly told her what she did was wrong and she also confirmed she won't like someone to do the same to her.


She has also slept with someone she met during an "ushering job" because he was fine and she felt she will get money from him. All this happened before I met her.


As at when she told me this (last year), I told her we all make mistakes. That what matters is the present and not the past.



HER PRESENT:

She flirts. I've warned her about this and I clearly told her the next time it happens, I'll breakup.


There was a time she told me a friend of hers called her that there is business (runs). But she jokingly discarded her friend since she wasn't into that lifestyle anymore.


Now, my worry is that she has slept with up to 3 people other than her previous boyfriends. So I feel there's a tendency for her to cheat in future. And I also feel she doesn't respect "marriage" because she actually saw nothing wrong in sleeping with someone's husband since "she was first to meet him".
She also asked if i will keep seeing her after we breakup (This is another turnoff). My policy is once we are done, we are done.


Another thing is that there's always someone in our social circle that knows her from somewhere. This is quite awkward for me.


There's a certain way she looks at some guys when we attend events. And her colleague's wife has even suspected her of having something with her husband. My gf told me she has never had anything with him. But my gf even went ahead (without my consent) to call the man telling him to warn his wife!. I was mad at her for that. She also recently told me she lied about her age when we started. She is actually 4 years older than me.


Whenever I remember her "past" it makes me moody and i often feel like ending the relationship.
Please SDK fans advice a brother.

*My dear this relationship is dead on arrival a.k.a DOA...Please let her go and find someone else who is on the same level with you,this one will become something else after you have married her....
She will meet someone who likes her the way she is crazy....