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UGLY AND BROKE BOO
He is quick to get angry, very stubborn and touchy feeling for a guy(my opinion). I have lent him money a couple of times without it being returned.
However, he always tells me that I'm beautiful, is always the first to apologise, listens to my rants which are a whole lot and values commitment.
In contrast I am good looking and from a very respectable background. I also, work in a very good organisation.
I am in my late twenties and feel so confused. Most times, I regret letting go of my past relationships because of pride. My ex boyfriends were very even tempered, doing better, better looking and valued commitment.
I am hesitant to move forward with him and also to break up with him. I feel terrible most times, because I'm ashamed to introduce him in public, as my bf. I know that this affects the way I treat him, which in turn strips him of his human dignity.
I know breaking up with him will break him because all the time I tried to, he kept begging me not to.
I guess the issue is that I don't know why I'm with him anymore and for the past few weeks I've been unable to figure this out which makes me more confused. I guess I just need clarity.
*You want us to help you clarify why you are with an ugly broke man?OK,let me try.
You are probably with him out of pity and i think you need to let him go....When you fall in love with someone,their ugliness turns into beauty for you and that is all you see.The minute you fall out of love,it reverts to ugliness.
You are not in love with this man so let him go.......he will be fine,heart break no dey kill,it teaches!
I couldn't read all once I saw "dating a guy that is ugly and broke""" sounds off as a girl who has nothing too!
ReplyDeleteShe never said she had nothing. She is comfortable, works im good
DeleteWorks in a good organization. She said she is fine as well.
DeleteBabe maybe all these got imto ur head and u broke up with ur good exes.
This one na dead on arrival oh. If he were rich now, queen nd boss for advice u to marry him.
But he is broke
Scout for someone else. 28/29 is not the end of the road...
DeletePuffin browser be messing up my comments.
You really should have read before commenting. I don’t know where you got that she has nothing when she wrote that she works in a very good organisation.
DeletePoster free the guy ASAP and stop wasting his time and ultimately your time and good looks. Life is too short to be dating out of pity
DeleteProbably da oza room no let you leave him.
DeleteMy taught exactly@Mao Akuh she no tell us him performance in za oza room please make up your mind by your self because you are already comparing him to your ex
DeleteHmmmmmmmm
DeleteA broke and ugly man has absolutely nothing to offer! You even lend him money? Smh
DeletePls break off that relationship and stop lending men money
The guy is equally tolerating you because you give him money. Not worth it to remain in the relationship
DeleteWhat are you still doing in that relationship? So many negativity going on there.
ReplyDeleteLike Stella said... Out of pity...and you are even ashamed to introduce him?
Who told there isn't someone better you will meet?
Please free the guy.
Free yourself.
Better days ahead for both of you.
Not even out of pity unless its pity for herself cos half bread is better than puff puff.
DeleteShe must also be insecure with her looks, or she wouldnt believe she might not meet another, hence her holding on to her shrek! Men with low self esteem gives me concern, your aura & charisma shouldnt be affected by the depth of your pocket, even if you look worse than Osho baba. How dare you beg a girl not to break up with you? if you have self worth you'd never beg anyone to stick to you... from that moment she'd feel shes doing you a favour, a huge one!
DeletePoster, stop prolonging the inevitable, youre just hanging by a thread out of pity, it'd only get worse. When you see no reason for being with someone, & you constantly look down on them, that union is a good as dead.
A wise weather forcast on TV said "You'd never find a rainbow if youre looking down".. he was right!
Don't say...Even millionaires beg their girlfriends not to leave...You don't know what list or love can do to a man when you are obsessed by a girl
DeleteAnon 19:59 Youre missing the point... why should u beg someone to remain in your life when uve not wronged them, if u did somethg wrong i can understand.... its not about the money! maybe those millionaires u talk about have erectile dysfunction without remedy.
Deletesumbori is broke, ugly and hot tempered? you are with him because you are in your late twenties and you are looking at time abi? no wahala, next chronicle will be belle don enter, you will now end up giving birth to potential ugly babies for a broke and ugly man who may turn you to a punching bag as his stress reliever
ReplyDeleteOnce you see a sign, aunty run for your life, someone that reads meaning into everything, will one day accuse you of cheating on him. He may be quick to apologize cus that’s their character, one day he will beat you and be quick to tell you to forgive him, he will even cry tears so you will keep forgiving him. He is even broke and ugly yet has such a negative attitude. Well, even if he was rich, I will still tell you to run
DeleteHahaha ROTFL
DeleteFor you to date this man that means you can openly fuck a dirty witch .
ReplyDeleteYour self esteem has been exchanged for a sack of fufu
I guess you are evenly uglier than the scarecrow
No wonder your spirit husband abandoned you cos the mumu decisions you take strikes him
Gerrara here ikpu like you
hope all is well? did you remember to take you drugs today as the Dr prescribed?
Deletemay dangote truck crush your stupidity ewu
DeleteY so angry?
DeleteHe's broke n ugly, I guess u are still there cos of his dick game, multiple orgasms and bed shaking.
ReplyDeletePity kor.
The kind of chronicles we read these days.
ReplyDeleteI will rather read comments biko
ReplyDeleteYou better free the guy and move forward. Every relationship mustnt leads to marriage.stop being with him out of pity cos is the worst thing ever.if you leave him today he willl not die.life is too short abeg.beside is he the only guy in your life?? If yes, you are not serious!!
ReplyDeleteJust let him go poster. I was in your position years back. I broke up with him 'fightlessly'😁. And I am happy I did today. Would have been a bully to him if I married him.😉😉😉
ReplyDeleteBreak up with him for your own peace of mind, I've being there so I know how it feels. You'll be frustrated. You don't love him and will never do. Give relationship a break for now. There's no harm being single for sometime.
ReplyDeleteIf the guy was rich you will called handsome.
ReplyDeleteSince you value physical and outward appearance more than inner traits, then free the guy now. Let him go. May be your rejection will reset his brain to make cool money.
ReplyDeleteYou don't love this guy. You are just tolerating him out of pity. If the guy is rich you wont see the ugliness. Free him.
Which inner trait? D anger issue or d insecurity issues?
DeleteBabe let him go jor. U dont need him.
Aunty, I really don't understand this your rant...
ReplyDeleteWhat is your issue?
Did he get ugly and broke after you started dating him? If yes,I sympathise with you but have your physical appearance changed too?shape/height/colour? if yes,then let him be.
If he was ugly and broke before you guys started,then you have no right to come here and disturb us.How many times are we going to tell you not to start what you cant finish? If you cant go out with him or be proud of him in public DON'T DATE HIM!
Seems like you sill have eyes on your Exs;aunty move the f**k on.Very obviously your character is bad as you stated up there;so dont even feel like you are doing your boyfriend a favour,it just might be the other way round.
Don't date with pity ooooo
He is BROKE, UGLY, BORROWS MONEY FROM YOU AND WILL NOT PAY BACK. Nne you are on a long thing. @Giveaway Princess
ReplyDeleteMadam stellz bring beta chronicle naw na beg I dey beg you. This one no be chronicle o. I cannot coman go and be typing long advice for a mumu. Ugly and broke, only you. Arrest the poor guy now since na crime. Instead wey u go say u don tire to dey do gofundme for the guy as per ur desperation to settle down. Namsense.
ReplyDeletePlease break up with that guy so he can get someone that will love him, you don't love him at all, you are simply using him and hoping a better person comes so you can dump him and the truth is that is better you leave him now because I know you will still leave him in future. I wonder what this relationship must have done to that guys self esteem because as as human being he must have noticed that you are ashamed of him. Please free him and tell him is for the best
ReplyDeleteForget ugliness, u hate him cos he is broke
ReplyDeleteMtcheew. If you are not handsome at least be nice.
ReplyDeleteAnd rich...
DeleteHmmm poster you are just using him as a pillar to support your self as you no longer have an option.cut off this horrible relationship yes you heard me horrible.you feel he's not up to your standard and he feels he's doing you a favor.just cut off amicably it won't be easy at first but you'll be alright.Next time swallow your pride and work out your relationship
ReplyDeletemy dear, no body ugly ooo. the problem with your guy is that his broke. some times staying with broke men is not an easy thing, especially those with low self esteem. I know what I go through in the hand of horseband everyday. But come before you started dating him was him rich? was him good looking? what attracted you to him in this first place? check within
ReplyDeletePoster he is not your man, you are with him out of pity & that is not good enough. Dump him ASAP, I bet if you where the ugly & broke one no guy will come close to you. What Stella said is true, once you are not in love that is when the other person's shortcomings/ugliness magnifies & you just can't stand it anymore. E.G me I have always loved 6.5feet tall dark handsome six packs kinda men, but when I met boo he is 6feet,fair handsome orobo, but guess what he blew my mind away with so much care & love got me singing I love me my teddy bear, funny thing when people see us together they smile, my friends & sisters are like you this small & your huge orobo boo, they say we really good for each other.He is my everything now & I no longer remember all my standards.
ReplyDeleteSo many gold & pussy digging lots out there, you don't have a job or business they see you as leprosy & always talk ill of you,they call you lazy.
I know most guys that only check up on me just to know how my business is doing, guys that when I didn't have anything they don't even remember I existed. I don't even answer them, I block them.
Good you block them but why will a mere mortal be your 'everything?'
DeleteIn the eyes of God no one is ugly cos we are all fearfully and wonderfully made except if he is only fearfully made, marriage is not comuporsy since u are not comfortable with him pls let him go am sure u both will find someone that love you for who u are and not what you look or have.
ReplyDeleteThe man dey ugly im dey broke, you see am with ya koro koro eyes come carry you two legs put begin date am?
ReplyDeleteAbi na winch im use and the thing just clear?
Or e get something wey you never tell us? Say inside the ozer room, im fork dey make you moan like cow wey don
chop belle full come wan born twins?
If so, Mmmmmhhhh, make you comot for fornication o, make that thing no screw mumu bolt put for ya brain.
The Grass is always Greener at the other side is wat most folks wud tel ya...
ReplyDeleteI always believe dat a bird at hand z worth tons in the bush,so before u get tongues wagging wit dis ur one sided story, try work hard on changing dis ur Entitlement mentality so it wont ruin ur sunny days...
If this man wins a 100 million naira jackpot today, will you dump him? Will you send this chronicle?
ReplyDeleteI only asked two questions. That's all.
from what you wrote up there, you don't love the guy one bit and you have issue with yourself girl, sort it out. I don't the problem is from your exes but from you. You need soul searching but going into another relationship. Be sure of what you want in a man, don't just follow the trend because you are 29 there about.
ReplyDeleteHe is ugly and broke, also you don't love him then why have you been doing with him? Oops may be he is good in other things.....wetin concern me self?
ReplyDeleteYou obviously do not like this person why do you feel you have to settle for less. You hate the fact that he is ugly and broke yet you have sentenced yourself to a life with him. You need to like your man, you need to be physically attracted to him. You are the one who lack confidence and have low self-esteem to feel you must settle for less than what you desire. Grow the hell up and put some value on yourself!
ReplyDeleteThe character you described above is follow come, they are in built in your man, he will never change. Let him go and focus on other Things, if you marry him, I pity you.
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