In an era where some young ladies believe it pays to date married men , popular actress , Dayo Amusa , has advised them to desist from such act .
While speaking in a recent interview , the actress noted that such ladies should remember that someday, they would be a wife and mother and would not want the same thing to happen to them .
“ Frankly , as a public figure and based on what I stand for , I would not encourage a young lady to chase after married men . Some might say that married men would take good care of them , but it is wrong. It is not something I would encourage the youth to do.
“ Also , I do not think that having numerous boyfriends gives you the privilege of having a perfect guy as it could even cause confusion at some point , ” she said .
The actress , who doubles as a singer , said
that there was really nothing wrong with it if some actors chose to live fake lives , while describing their business as make - believe.
She said , “ Although social media is a platform that is meant to provide opportunities for people , sadly , most people are misusing it . I do not see the big deal in any artiste going on social media to live a particular life because it is called showbiz . You have to ‘ show ’ for the business to grow .
“ You have to brand yourself and make people see that you can promote their products well through the lifestyle you depict . If that is what people mean by fake life then it is fine . As an artiste , we live in a make -believe world which means that 80 per cent of the things you see us do on screen and even on social media are make - believe.
“ It is totally different from my personality . I might be at home and choose to tie a piece of cloth round my waist and drink
garri. But if I would go on social media , I would not want to do that because some of my fans would be disappointed .
“ I am not advising young women to pretend to be who they are not . What I am saying is that as an artiste , we need to ‘ show ’ for the business to grow . I am a very realistic person and I do not see myself as one of those fake ones . ”
from Punch
Okay Dayo hope you practising what you just preached oh,about not dating married men and having multiple oko.
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DeleteMe that is looking for how to hatch a plan and collect big money from my man-friend this Dec.
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ReplyDeleteDid the girls point guns on the head of the men to fuck them?
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ReplyDeleteEven this your interview self na make believe,fake live noni gbogbo ehh.
ReplyDeleteLol.... As in ehn...
DeleteAllow them to follow married men. Your preaching cannot stop it. It is like peak milk. It is in them
ReplyDeleteAbeg comot here with your advice after u don dey all d whole married men finish
ReplyDelete"All the whole". It's been long I heard that. You be real pidgin writer
DeleteLolz modella no mind me Jare. No be my fault as I no get opportunity nko
DeleteThis is what irks me. Dayo Amusa dey two? Abi she wan make we release list of how many married men including politicians wey dey her cabal? I like her because she dey seriously invest her runs money and not just showing off on IG but she should not coman try to confuse her ancestors this early morning. If I hear say na only single guys you dey date!
ReplyDeleteThat was how one sista was advising us to close legs and work hard for our money while she was collecting blokos upandan,left and right.😋😋😋 all these adviser nowamagbe, keep your advice to yourself😕😕
ReplyDeleteHehehe...."do as I say. Not as I do"
DeleteJust like some hanty will still be advising us to love our body. Meanwhile they go under the knife all the time
Delete@MODELLA, I despise such people...
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DeleteAdviser nowamagbe, after you have retired. Well if all married men turn faithful , 98% of singles women will be broke n frustrated. Argue with yo mind.
ReplyDeleteMy sister tell dem. Her problem is they are no longer approaching her.
DeleteWho wants a mama as side-chick or shld I say side-hen. Leave those of us still in market.
Many of us have our own men still. It's the one without sense that will spend all her youth on married men and turn preacher when time has gone.
This life has no formulae
Just do you.
Talking from both sides of the mouth. Was she not the one that said in an interview that women should allow their husband "misbehave" because that is their nature. Shioor.
ReplyDeleteAll I know is that if you date married men, your life can never be arranged. How much do they even give you girls that you are willing to sacrifice your peace. Do you know you can make that money yourself and not submit to the stupid demands of such men. They are only out to practise their fetish sexual desires with you so as to ruin your bodies. I pity the men that end up with such women.
Madam mind your business. Which fetish desires sef. You are the one that arranges your life not a man. Many of us have our 9-5 jobs and some of us are in relationships with younger men we will eventually marry.
DeleteYou think it is all of them that are even into sex. It's even the small boys that over-use your body.
My own man hasn't even touched me since like May. Infact i have been the one complaining. I can count how many times we have had sex because he is just too busy with a project this year. So I just drop by his office for short visits. And I still get my transfers steady. It's not all about sex.
Many just want a beautiful girl by their side that can care for them,Rob their heads, take some steam off their busy lives and just make them happy.
Meanwhile another young guy somewhere wants to use sex to finish you without nada to offer. The key word is playing smart. Dont fall in love,maybe lust but not love. Never assume they will marry you and build your own relationship by the side.
Word.
DeleteTalking from both sides of the mouth. Was she not the one that said in an interview that women should allow their husband "misbehave" because that is their nature. Shioor.
ReplyDeleteAll I know is that if you date married men, your life can never be arranged. How much do they even give you girls that you are willing to sacrifice your peace. Do you know you can make that money yourself and not submit to the stupid demands of such men. They are only out to practise their fetish sexual desires with you so as to ruin your bodies. I pity the men that end up with such women.
You pity men that end up with such women, and you into pity naive girls who end up with such supid and immoral act right?
DeleteOh please! It does not work that way these days. Please channel your energy to the randy men.Sometimes, good things happen to bad people and bad things happen to good people it's the life we living in.
DeleteThey have heard
ReplyDeleteWhy is no one talking to the men who are married and older to stop fucking around and face their wife and take care of their children.
ReplyDeleteTell them please. The girl is always the problem. Nonsense talk.
DeleteMajority of our girls are lazy, they want to ride the best car, use expensive gadgets, live in mansions. It is surprising that some people find it difficult to work but desire good things of life. Many girls want to work but no job, still that does not give excuse to date married man. It is not fair on the part of the legal wife and her children, please.
ReplyDeleteNO TO FORNICATION AND ADULTERY
Advise the men too tell them to try to be responsible. Dayo your gist full 1004 but I will let it slide.
ReplyDeleteThis kind of advice should be directed at the men. They are the ones that go out of their way to chase girls. This is evident in popular phrases like 'men are polygamous in nature' and a lot of women now believe that 'all men cheat'. No third party or homebreaker can come in unless invited.
ReplyDeleteIn any marriage its the responsibility of both spouses to uphold their vows. If you treat your vows like trash outsiders will help you to rubbish it even more.
Follow my words and not my action World people.
ReplyDeleteBecause she is too old and they are not looking at her again.
ReplyDeletePeople like this finally Ends up with Married Men..after she will say the interviewer miss uote her speech..
ReplyDeleteJust wait till they open your yansh aunty dayo
ReplyDeleteDont mind her.has she finished dating kwam 1.
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