Is anyone here already an Accidental side chic?OH DEAR!!!!
Tuesday, October 23, 2018
Ways To Avoid Being An Accidental Side Chic..
Relationship IG expert, Joro Olumofin has warned Ladies against becoming an accidental side-chick... And also listing ways to know and identify those type of men when they come around.Shine your eyes and read.....Ignorance is a disease!!!
Is anyone here already an Accidental side chic?OH DEAR!!!!
Is anyone here already an Accidental side chic?OH DEAR!!!!
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Some men will do all these and more for a side chic
ReplyDeleteThank u
DeleteYawns...next.
ReplyDeleteStella leave some girls, they known quite well that the guy is in a serious relationship, but they keep deluding themselves hoping the girl will leave his main chick for them, In most cases it Never happened.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm I almost became one but I saw the signs,many are written up there 👆👆.
ReplyDeleteWe met and I specifically asked him if he was married,had kids or was in a relationship. He said NO to all that his last relationship was 6months before we met. He even gave a stupid sub story which I knew was lies of how he got the ex an apartment fully furnished in lekki and she was cheating on him bringing in men,the maguard told him. I just yinmu.
I noticed he never called me at night. From there I saw signs he was married. Even if he came to visit me,if I call to just check if he got home safely,he won't pick. He will then claim he slept off when he returns my call in the morning.
2nd sign,he never wanted me knowing his house. I will say let me come visit he will come up with stories. His whole extended family is visiting he doesn't want them in his business. Another period he said he is renovating the whole house he had a fire incident. The house isn't conducive for visitors. All this I knew we're married men tricks.
At that time I had snopped and found his wife Facebook page. He isn't on Facebook but through his sisters Facebook I found his wife's face book. He was very married with two kids.
I was travelling for masters then so I didn't even want a relationship. After collecting the money he promised to pay for my ticket(lied I was just going on vacation). When I got there sent him all his evidence I got from his wives Facebook. Blasted him and blocked him.
Sharp babe. I like you
DeleteSharp babe how? Abi shay the guy no chop???
Deletecorrect babe
DeleteGood girl. Some will call u at night, those ones have spare rooms around d house, some will invite u over, those ones live in other states apart from their familiar.
Delete@ Bbjac they both enjoyed each other!
DeleteYou guys should know something; when you have sex with a guy, he actually loses more than the woman scientifically, financially and more however, our society has conditioned a woman's mind to believe she's the only one that has been cheated!
A Jo n gbadun ara wa ni (we both enjoyed each other if not the woman more)
Olomi Lo maa Re (the man loses more energy and has to recuperate for days to regain his stamina after 1 round of sexology except he's on drugs to help his stamina)
In conclusion ladies, never allow any man yab you; you both enjoyed each other.
I like you.
DeleteSome men sha get mind.
at uberhaute, please how long did I know the guy for. Is it every guy you meet and is asking you out you sleep with. It was still asking out stage, besides I lived with my parents, no opportunity for me to even sleep out.
DeleteI just left a bad relationship. He promised that ticket money to entice me to date him. He is rich, and owns travelling agency. How much did the ticket cost him, its even enquiring about ticket prices I met him through his staff. Im not even returning, im sure he has cancelled the return if he has the power.
You were living with your parents and about going for your masters. Did you spend the money your parents must have given you for ticket? Why must you collect ticket money? Next time once you know he is married block him. Our intuition as girls, ladies, women is so on point but we love been enemies of ourselves as women. If you are not careful, if you see him you will still say we can be friends though ❌ Gb Roland be careful
DeleteCorrect geh!!! After you na you jare.My dear even if you fucked him and you enjoyed it, no qualms. U didn't "catch feelings' and act dumb. U too much jare.
DeleteToo many relationships experts
ReplyDeletehehehhehehe @yori yori very true...everyone wanna claim i too know lol...
DeleteThem full here now. You no read am for yesterday comments to that post "single ladies cannot survive without married men?" scroll down and read comments. But a lot of the ladies don't care. They enter into the side chick cadge with two eyes and plot the downfall of the owner chicken!
ReplyDeleteWey my FAN OO.
ReplyDeleteE bi like say, side vultures don gather come dey claim chickens oo.
Abeg carry ya koboko and bulala come quick.
When you finish with ya side didillooo cock? I no no ooo
I no get dildo ooo.. Abeg no accuse me
DeleteLMAO 😀😁😀😀, fan and her bestie
DeleteSome men are so clean that you cannot even get anything to trace. Some will play smart and make you side chicken, is only God that can help one.
ReplyDeleteNot to the extent that you won't find one of the tricks he mentioned.
DeleteThe ones that their families are outside the country or not same state will play you smart oh! Forget
DeleteAdd to the list:
ReplyDeleteHe ignores some calls when hes with you.. names saved as Mechanic or Pastor.
His friends dont tease you with talks like... "You guys would have cute kids" etc.
You have not met some evil friends...
DeleteShakara LOL. No mind Anonymous 13.24 He/she is a learner
DeleteHmmm. You have not met Abuja guys 😂😂😂😂😂.
ReplyDeleteThose guys eh n! 🙊😋😋
I think I've written bout 1. Not sure.
I go to his house WHEN I LIKE
We go to his family house.
I knew his friends. Still have contacts sef. Only that I'm not the type that forms closeness or "iyawoness". Never been. I'm that chic that minds my buisness. Always been!
We go anywhere and everywhere.
He has never been unavailable when I want to see him or need him.
Birthdays and all, we have our time. But since I live with parents, I dont do very late nights. We go out and I return in decent time say 8,9 or 10pm maybe after that he meets up with chairlady (I dunno)...
I was even his date for his party 😂😂😂 (But for real yo, How did he do all that he did? Man deserves an award oh 😂)
Well, in all this and more and I mean much more 😂......
I conclude by saying he got married 3months or so after our "breakup" .
I keep blessing God for instincts and the fact I wasn't invested in the emotions
Maybe he did not date the girl up to 3months
DeleteWhat if he was considering you along the line that you never knew , he thinking you are going to be better than the lady he later married but along the line found out she was a better choice. Ran back to make ammends and marry her.
DeleteBless you Mr Joro
ReplyDeleteIf the man isn't married, then there's nothing like side-chic.
ReplyDeleteAll are girlfriends!
Being in his life before he meets another girl doesn't make you his main chic.
In this case, the first can be the last and the last can be the last.
And I repeat, if it isn't about a married man committing adultery (side-chic) and the guy is single, then there's nothing like main chic and side chic until he decides who to marry.
In other words double dating is okay? Na kwesion ooo
DeleteThat's why I always advice ladies not to have one boyfriend until someone pay your bride price .During my waka waka days I have many boyfriends until one wey dey for London process visa ,even as I dey here after I don born,I no dey dull myself because my partner be womaniser
DeleteYou have a point. The only thing is that people have spoilt the dating experience with sex. It should be group dating.. then engagement.. then marriage. A man that commits adultery sins against GOD and his WIFE. Bcos marriage is a sacramental bond recognized by God, the church, the society. A man that fornicates sins against God alone. A relationship (boyfriend/girlfriend) is not a bond and not recognized by any institution. An engagement is even recognized by tradition, bcos of the intent to marry.. but boyfriend/girlfriend is not. You are NOT married until you are married. Don't play wife/have sex with them for 5 yrs, 6yrs.. There are cases where the one we thought was side chic was the one he finally married. I know my point is counter cultural, but I believe its the right way.
DeleteTobie aka Mr counter cultural hope what you stated is what you are doing o! Hope you don't involve sex in your group dating den engagement and marriage
Deletetrue talk o.
Deletetrue talk o
Delete@16:50, all I am saying is that that order should be the right way because it reduces chances of premarital sex, which both God and our traditional society are against. Of course we will still date, cos it's the order for this millenial age, but no matter how you define your relationship, it's best to still flee fornication. For me yes, I have dated the wrong way, but the Lord brought me out and taught me the effects of sin on the soul. Now I have the chance to date and marry God's way. My partner has the same values as me. It is very possible to keep away from premarital sex and I will detail it in my next post. Sex is scared, and it's intention is for marriage.
DeleteSteps to keep away from Premarital sex in a relationship
Delete1.Repent of past sins.
2. Tell God your willingness avoid premarital sex and ask for the grace.
3. Can only work if you date guys with the same value as you. So at the start of the relationship, discuss ways to avoid premarital sex and how to make it work.
4. Don't sleep on same bed, or spend nighta together especially until trust is established.
5. Avoid watching romantic movies/videos together ie no Netflix and chill
6. If possible avoid french kissing. Have more conversations.
7. Of course you will struggle with lustful thoughts. Anytime you do, pray. Both of you can also get an accountability partner to check on and guide you.
8. Pray pray pray for grace. Rejoice in the word. Don't be afraid, its possible and God will see us through.
May we have more relationships centered on God's word, full of light and truth and love and purpose, where there are meaningful conversations. May they lead to beautiful marriages and examples for people to follow. You are the light of the world, pls don't grope around in darkness.
My dear @ poster nice write up but most ladies nowadays don't mind being a side chick or side hen...They just wanna get the cash and slay.
ReplyDeleteI once came in contact with a dude that claimed he was once a formal banker lost his job and his wife left him with two kids, if we can become friends bla bla bla. I ran like no other, who wanna get entangled with such a toxic relationship, am not lonely either. I have a boo that loves and cherish me but Nne i don't wanna put all my hope in one basket hence the try out
Posted my initial comment without the concluding part. All I'm saying in essence is that, there are always signs but not necessarily these. In my case, I've learnt to observe how a person treats me over what they do with and for me. I realise some people love your person and your company and maybe even love you but not necessarily in love with you. That s what worked/works for me.
ReplyDeleteAnyway, thanks for informing men of these tricks as they change tactics.
ReplyDeleteTo couple with what I wrote 👆, never put all your eggs in one basket.
ReplyDeleteJust in case!
Just in case!
While at that play your card well, except of course you want to live the i-don't-care kinda life where you take life with a pinch of salt.
That one you can even invite both of them (your boyfriends) to a/your party or even 3some. Chai!
As a married man, there is really no use lying that you are not married...it is simple and easy when you tell her the truth from the onset, infact you gain her respect and trust, she will still date you if she naturally likes you...just take good care of her, give her money, buy her stuffs you can afford and respect her as a person, and also respect her own relationship too....its just soo simple
ReplyDeleteDon't worry one day she will get pregnant for you then you will know that putting something inside something is not as simple as you thing🤗🤗🤗
DeleteThank you.
DeleteI am a side chic and I love it like that.
My married man is a Moslem and he wants me as a second wife but I have told him over and over that I am not interested.
Now he's hellbent on getting me pregnant. Man doesn't know I am on 3months shots.
He would start squeezing face when I am talking about/to my boyfriend when I am with him.
I just pretend like I don't notice.
So far my monthly allowance is coming in and our vacations are stable, the rest of the emotions is his wahala.
I stay on my lane, I have only seen his wife once, I shop for her with his money sometimes cos he is clueless when he comes to stuff like that.
And when he is with her, I don't call/text or ping.
He will be nagging when he calls that i don't check on him when he travels to see his family.
Who get time?
When we started, I used to feel a lot of guilt.
But now?
Abegi...patapata we go land for hell.
I'll rather go to hell for enjoying on earth than go to hell for gossip,lying or envy of unguarded jokes and all the other things we consider petty but God hates.
Wao..... this is really low.
DeleteI wish you peace and ask that God's grace find you.
When you move to the other side I am sure you will not be too proud of what you just wrote.
Karma is doing 1000x pushups for you
DeleteAlhaji's side chick, if you know the gravity of the statement you made about going to hell, you'll retract it immediately. Please hell fire is not something to joke about. I pray that your soul will not be lost in Jesus name. If you have a revelation of hell, you wont even want your enemy to go there. Please 1 month of enjoyment on earth is not worth spending eternity in Hell, give your life to Christ and change your ways.
DeleteStoryyyy! Not true in all cases. You never jam player na. You go do FBI so tey you go grow white hair for yonder join. Some go even marry you keep for one place or different area or state if you dey claim madam celibate. Shebi na to marry you to convince you to spread legs like blue band margarine? Just pray for a God-fearing man. That's all. Most of them don know all these things wey Joro write. They just enjoy breaking hearts for fun just like serial killers kill for the thrill. A friend's husband codedly married a second wife just five months after their own marriage. The other woman even attempted suicide when she found out after two years that she'd been played by a married man after all her combined snooping. Tori plenty abeg. Na Holy Spirit fit reveal the truth especially if you are not greedy, selfish or desperate.
ReplyDeleteAnony 14:01 thank u .sound matured.i love simple people.
ReplyDeleteI did all those stated above for 6yrs! Met his family, went everywhere and did everything together but still never found out that he was married with kids till I had a child myself and she turned one!
ReplyDeleteYou would what about marriage? He proposed from day one but I kept turning it down because of religious difference! Even during the naming of the child, the family requested for marriage but were turned down.
See men are wicked and if they want to hide it from you, you would never know unless the grace of God people!
No I am not stupid or dumb or even ugly but mehn that has been a humbling experience for me!
I left him like a bad habit and the only reason we talk is because of the child. I HATE HATE HATE him with everything in me.
Till it happens to you, you would think that you are the smartest.
Gosh this has been some sort of catharsis for me.
Thanks
i don't believe you, you turned down his marriage proposal even during naming ceremony.
DeleteSo why do you hate him, you turned down his proposal twice and you are angry he is married. Wont he marry since you don't want to marry him? i don't get.
shebi na you no want marriage and turn it down twice.
18:50 plix epp me ask, because me sef konfuse??
Delete*scratches wig vigourously
Anonymous 18.50 please read her comment slowly again
DeleteHappening right now to my girlfriend, dude has been married since 2014 and never mentioned it, my friend on her own part didn't do her background check very well but somehow she stumble on the wife's Facebook page and boom he is married with a son and the annoying part is that after she confronted with all the pictures and evidence the stupid guy was still lying saying they are divorce blah blah blah. In fact story long but I am personally doing my own fbi cos I checked out the lady on Facebook and she happen's to have a mutual friend with me and I am very close to the friend
ReplyDeleteNonsense. What kind of man updates his pictures on WhatsApp or Facebook regularly? Introverts will be introverts. Why complicate things? If you are dating a man, find out where he lives and works. That will tell you most of the things there are to know. What is his schedule during holidays?
ReplyDeleteWhat a waste of time? I am not married but I tell my female friends that I like sex. They give me what I want and I take care of them. I have bought car tires, perfumes, etc for my friends. It is a mutual benefit. I don't care about their relationship status. We understand that it is all about sex. Funny thing is that when they need help, I seem to be the first they call. I don't need the relationship stress. The most important thing is that I let them know what it is all about. The biggest draw back was when some start catching feelings.
ReplyDeleteGb Roland be careful ☠️
ReplyDeleteSometimes the girls know and still crook head coz the guy tells them sweet words and how bad their wives are. May God help us
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmm
ReplyDelete