Spontaneous October Fifth Post...

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Good Morning people....

Thank God it's Friday indeed!

Those asking if i forgot the gist i promised to drop inside IHN yesterday,no i did not forget,the gist is the one about the man who used his wife to make money and had a stroke in Church when a pastor in the Church he walked in to worship confronted him about killing his wife..He died three days later singing ''na me kill am oooooh''.Read the gist in Thursday ihn here.



Yesterday i met someone who is married to the daughter of his Father's younger Brother.....If you see the way my mouth dropped eh,my reaction also shocked him and i quickly told him that it is a big taboo where i come from to even look at anyone that way in the whole family....he showed me a photo and him and his wife and their kids all look like identical quintuplets.....


I didn't know how to tell him that his union might have some genetic implication cos of the way he appeared smitten by his wife...He said one of the reasons they marry each other is that..''how can you leave someone so beautiful in your family and let an outsider come and take her?or that rich rich brother for another woman from an outside family to come and tap into the wealth and take it her family's way?we unite in Marriage so that families can be stronger and there is no reason to divorce because families cannot hurt each other the way outsiders who marry do''

.......His reasons were so good and valid but i still insisted it cannot happen in my Country.....He then said something which shocked me....

He said most of these people claiming its a taboo,they are still sleeping with family members and hiding about it,we are open with ours and make it respectable by marrying each other.....he says his son has been prepared to marry his younger sisters daughter..My mouth fell down and i lost the argument oh....

I couldn't continue cos he had to get back to work fixing my new Kitchen....

Was thinking about this the whole night and even though he made a whole lot of sense A taboo is still a taboo...or is it anywhere in the Bible where this marrying inside family is encouraged?

Pray tell!!!

Have a fantastic Friday.....