IHN- Monday

What are you doing today?...I am here thinking of how to get exciting posts for you guys....LOL

I am also here thinking of what to eat and thinking of how to get the Bambinos to where they want to get to........

Hmmmm Motherhood has so changed my life,sometimes I get so stressed that i think i cant take one more and sometimes i want more stress........Motherhood rocks and i wish it on every woman reading this now!

Kisses!

IJEOMA COVERS MONDAY IHN

Hello stellicoco.. Lemme lick ya ass small(no homo o).. U re omeogo( generous heart)..omotekoru(golden daughter).. and finally the queen of blogosphere.. Thanx for having a heart of gold darling ... Forget say we quench ontop dis blog o.. I have learnt so much from it positively... And am still saying thank you for what you did some years back .. It made me choose the part i am on now and i don't regret it... Hope i qualify for foihn.. Kisses to my bv neighbours . Side eyes at ladyB..(holding my rambo spray

LOL.....Please remind what i did years back!!!

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TEE JAYS CORNER
THE LAST CARD....


There is always a first time to a thing in life but a last time I can't guaranteed. Reasons are that most things in life are hardly given up on, mostly when they have become an addiction. It will interest you to understand that, it is not as if the urge to give up such act or attitude isn't there but the force and discipline to pull out entirely could be lacking.


Breaking loose over an addiction is such a strong battle that doesn't comes easy. Addiction goes beyond mental state and sometimes emotions. In order to defeat such act, the mental state and emotions that created them in the first place need to be work upon towards it eradication.


A man who constantly indulge in po#n has the tendency to masturbate frequently, and can even end up being a rapi#t. Now understand this one thing, the brain and the mind works in uniformity. What the mind captures, it transmit to the brain for interpretation before an act is been formed. The very reason the mind serves as the power house and needs to be guided at all time.


There should be a last time to a thing in life if we truly desire a change and turn around. It's so unfortunate, that a good number of persons didn't live to give up bad act, as some died in the process and others are still battling with it. It is of a great testimony hearing people talked about how they gave up smoking, drugs, pornography, masturbation, womanizing, Pre marital s#x, adultery, drinking, gossiping, stealing, cheating and fraud.


Giving up on an ugly act and attitude requires; A STRONG WILL POWER, DISCIPLINE AND MENTAL STRENGTH. Do you notice most times you said you have given up an act, you still go back to them? The year is almost running out and there will be so lot of resolutions for the coming year, but how long can those resolutions last?

I think one of the major reason people fall back to an addicted lifestyle is because they tried using force to stop it. Remember, addiction didn't take over one in a day or even week, rather it does gradually over a consistent act for a long period of time.

To get freed, a gradual and consistent process should also be applied. Like they say, easy does it. The mental thinking should be worked upon, the mind at the other hand needs to be trained on resisting those urges and finally there should be a strong will and discipline in controlling ones perception of things. As a lady there should be a last time you would open your legs for a man who isn't your husband, until you get married. For when such stand is been taken, I think senses will befall the men with wandering deek.

Remember, it is not an easy task but certainly very possible.

TEEJAY.



Hmmmmmmm one can also be addicted to good things and not only negative things...There are two sides to every coin and when writing on the negative,also try to highlight the positive so that we do not dwell too much on negative things...it'S consuming and takes time.





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WIFEY RANT

So, the husband of 3 years cheated about 3 months ago. I only got to know because I got an infection and as he was the only one i had been with, I confronted him and he confessed to cheating, albeit giving the BS story of "not entering fully", then apologized. 


This fungal infection ( that is what the Doctor called it) has refused to go. I use mycoten, it goes for like 2 weeks and then the scratching starts all over again. Anyone who has successfully gotten over this kind of infection, please help, how did you do it?

 And as for the husband, We have 'settled' the matter, but I cannot get over the betrayal and pain. I do not know if I can stay in a marriage like this. I will rather be single and happy.... I can't get over the betrayal...





*Fungal smelly infection...Jesus!!!
Did two of you get treatmnt for this?please do otherwise you will keep getting back from him...And if he is still seeing THE PERSON WHO GAVE it to him and she is not treated yet,then you are in a forking dangerous health circle....Na wah oh.






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THE SMALL FINGER SIZE

Dear Stella,

This Lagos is becoming something else o. Especially with these pressure mounted on our girls in their 30's who are yet to settle down.
I was discussing with my niece who severally had to call me to speak with her mother (my sister) who wouldn't allow her breathe over this matter!

She gave me different scenarios of young men she had met but one in particular struck me and i thought to share this with you.

According to her, they met in at creamery. The very popular one which was her place of refuge whenever she needed to calm her raging nerves. She said while waiting to get a signature mix, a young  man next to her asked that she tried the mix with a bit of alcohol. They both got talking afterwards and he seemed like a nice man. Of course he was single and very much interested in her.

Days went by and they decided to hang out and spend some time together. The weather got in their way of going to the beach. Eventually he suggested that they chilled in a nice lounge (side eyes). From lounge while having a few drinks and assorted orisirisi. He wouldn't let her go home and succeeded in convincing her to spend the weekend with him at the lounges' hotel( what do they call it?) I asked her if he didn't have a house? She narrated how he said his mum stays with him (And so what?)
She got convinced again that his decision was in a bid to let their relationship grow first before announcing to the world(so his mother alone is the world?).

It was time to hit the sack when she found out he was shying away from her. She moved closer and said as she tried to touch him below the waist, she realised he was as clean shaved as a tortoise but couldn't find the occupant of the area.(I adjusted my gele to allow the gist enter well). 

She claimed his genital was the size of a 5year old boy. I asked if it was because of cold, the weather outside plus the Air-con inside the room?. I even said maybe the drinks they took had too much ice-block!.
After she gave me a mysterious stare, i removed my gele and put it on my lap so i can see her well.(my sight suddenly became blurry).

She said after touching to see if it will increase it only became worse as it looked like it would fall off in a few seconds!

Her mother came into the room wondering why we both had a concerned look.I pulled her to sit and did a summary as my dear niece continued.

The young man was able to wear condom (clears throat), penetrate, he thrust like 5times and arrived! He did not touch her for the entire weekend till they parted ways on Monday morning!.She said he has been calling her phone non stop but she has not been able to decide her take on this.

I asked her to show me the young man's picture. He was such a handsome fella in 6yards of husband material. (Deep sigh). Which book do we write this one Stella?

My sister went to her room and returned with Jerusalem water to sprinkle on my niece's head!. 





*wow,let her take his call and hear what he has to say,not taking his calls can also damage his mindset,he did not create himself,did he?




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THE SET UP AND THE STINKING SITUATION


Hello Sis. Stella, how are you and your family today? I have been a consistent reader for years tho I do not really comment. There is a piece of information I intend to share with you and pls you are free to confirm before u publish. Recently I was accused of some financial stuffs which really are fictitious just to break me but I have relied on God and my lawyers to help me out of the mess. I have spent money, time and sometimes I really become so depressed and feel like dieing seeing my business and family suffering because of my absence. Now to main reason I am sending you this mail.



My adjournment was a few weeks ago and upon getting to the court at ogba where my natter was to be heard we learnt that the magistrates are not a rounds (applied to over 6 different courts), so were locked up in a court cell, my sister i almost died. The cell was so dirty, littered with over a million nylons and food packs, smelling like there is a dead human in it. I was offered an opportunity to sit outside the court cell but I refused because the warders wanted me to pay then 3k for it but I decided to feed all inmates with the money instead.


The lavatory in the court cell was full with all the excretes pushing our of the toilet hole. Then I asked a warder why the cell was that dirty and you know what he said, IT IS MEANT FOR PRISONERS!!! If u don't like it pay and come outside, fresh man like you.


We were all there for about 8hours till we were shipped back standing in a black maria van stranded for another 1hour.


See for this country to change for good, all citizens whether accused or free must be treated right, the court or government pays a cleaning company to take care of the court and in the cells but they rather clean the courts and leave the cells that way because we don't respect ourselves, we don't think the next man deserves the best, the people in small office don't even do their jobs or they select who to service. We go to police to accuse people of things they didn't do, or blow up what they actually did to get them to surfer for no reason because we are just full of hate.


The law enforcement agencies go round street pick up people and then to courts and then prison so that they can get paid the 10 or 15k Lagos state government pay them. Why rip people off, suffer them to raise money. I know a lot of people will be like this doesn't concern me cos I am not in jail (I was like that too until now).


Sorry, about the typos and all I had find a source to send this to you. Please go to ogba magistrate court cell and confirm this for yourself. This cell explains why Nigeria is the way it is today.

Take care dear.
Love your blog.




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HATING ON PRIVILEGED KIDS


I really don't know why people hate on privileged kids. 

I am not from the upper Nigerian class more like the upper middle class and I get people hate on me too on the regular for no just reason. If you understand what others go through the only feelings you'd have is pity, honestly. People expect so much from and of you. You get little to no help because everyone assume your parents give you everything you need. 


The parents have high bars set for everyone and can be extremely  verbally abusive on the slightest error made. Yes, they provide you with the basics but most time dictate your every move in return except of course you are a rebel. The experience might be different for everyone. My cousins can be very funny, dad sends them money to celebrate their birthdays and they feel he gives us ten times more on ours.


 They don't know the guy man likes helping others and disciplining his children. I can't wait to be free. 



*na wah!!!! ....I hope this rant helps?Cos i really dont understand why one would be a kid with privileges and still have this mindset oh....



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IN URGENT NEED OF A HOUSE


PLEASE BVs I'M IN DIRE NEED OF A HOUSE IN ANY ESTATE IN LAGOS...very clean 2 bedroom flat with 3 toilets at least(1 in each room and 1 for visitors) and in a very good environment. MY BUDGET IS SIX HUNDRED THOUSAND NAIRA and i don't want agent and agreement to be anything exorbitant thanks.
Anyone with direct link please contact me 08038021960






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BUSINESS IDEAS FROM KENYAN BV


Good day Stella,  I am a low key b. V and a Nigerian studying in Kenya and I will like to get business ideas I can do here. Like goods I get for check prices in Nigeria and where I get get them. I will like businesses like ankara or hair or something that wouldn't be too heavy to carry. I will be grateful if you post this in ihn so that I can get suggestions of fellow b. VS. Thank you and God bless 






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BABY  AND KITCHEN ITEMS TO GIVE AWAY

I have some neatly used baby things (mainly for a baby girl) and a few other kitchen utensils to give away.
You may contact me on 08025191577. Location is Abuja.





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Honda EOD for sale, everything is working perfectly just buy and drive. It can used for uber or Taxify. Price 800,000. Location lekki. Contact 08092182222.




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Bank used standard Toyota Yaris 2013, purchased brand new

Make: Toyota
Model: Yaris
Year of Manufacture: 2013
Trim: 5-Door LE Automatic
Colour: Black
Condition: Nigerian Used
Transmission: Automatic
Mileage: 108703
Registered Car: Yes

Asking price: 1.8million
Negotiable: yes
Contact: 08063552150





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Good afternoon SDK family.
For your trendy, affordable and classy female clothes, shoes and bags, I've got you covered. Your patronage will be highly appreciated as this is a start up business.
There will be a discount for all BVs.
I deliver nationwide.
To place an order ,
Call / whatsapp : 08067170731
Instagram @jk_apparel.

Email: jkapparels@gmail.com.



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Olawealth CHRISTMAS sale

We now sell Guinea Brocade of different colours. At just #5500 at 5 yards!!
Guineas you can use for more than 20 years and gift to your children..
It can be used for souvenir for that your handsome charming Boss at the office.
Christmas is coming, buy all what you need for the season now..
So that your amaka tailor will not disappoint you..
WhatsApp; 07037210981
Instagram; olawealthq@gmail.com

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HERITAGE COUTURE

Our shirts are crafted with an obsessive attention to details, because YOU our customer is at the heart of our uniqueness...
Send ur shirt size and get a shirt (official or casual) for 6k each. let's make some nice designs for you...
WhatsApp/ call 08080617502 to check our samples.
IG: Heritage_couture_
We deliver nationwide (not free)
Made in Nigeria %
Giveaway coming very soon





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TO LET ( LEKKI)


1) OFFICE SPACE TO LET IN LEKKI PHASE 1
Location: Marwa, Lekki (off pinnacle filling station road, 2nd roundabout).
Size: Approximately 15 sqm - It's ideal for a small business.
Rent: 750k per annum
Service charge: 120k per annum
2) Self contain in Lekki from 600k upwards
3) Mini flats in Lekki from 800k upwards
Call/whatsapp for enquiries 07064440129






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READ THIS


Are you an experienced Tailor interested in working  in one of the fastest growing Fashion/Design Houses East of Nigeria?  
Are you a Fashion/Design Intern seeking for new opportunities to enhance your skills?
Are you desirous of learning Fashion/Design?

if your answer is yes, OMALIFIED FASHION HOUSE has a place for you.

Contact us on 08178515265 or omalified@gmail.com for immediate engagement or #1 Chief Amobi Lane, Behind Pascal Dozie Drive, Owerri, Imo State.

Limited spaces are available!

Discount awaits our friends from SDK!

We set the pace in modern Fashion/Design and others follow.






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FOR PAPA LOVERS

For all pap lovers, yum yum pap is fresh and made in a clean environment.
It comes in different flavours,
Mixed grain with ginger
Mixed grain ( banana flavour)
Mixed grain ( vanilla flavour)
A pack goes for 500naira.
Contacts: 08170685664, site A, satellite town Lagos.
Investors are also needed please.






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We are industrial tailors that take tailoring stress off ready-to-wear retailers. Let KGWEARHOUSE wow you with excellent detailing plus perfect finishing, and in such great return time. Kindly contact 08025279186.
#@kgwearhouse#readytowear#grownaija#instagram#whatsapp






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Shiloh Photography studio in Ado-Ekiti is offering two free shots to SDK bvs and also 10% discount on all events booked till 25th December,2018





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Shared Office Space Request

Please I need a small space in an office environment where there is constant light. I am tired of working from home and can't afford to get an office for myself yet. It is just me and my laptop. I won't disturb any activities you have going on as I'll be almost invisible :)

I would want somewhere around Okota, Amuwo Odofin or Festac. I have searched for Co-working spaces in these areas but found only one in Festac which is not really conducive. 

I am willing to pay a token of N10,000 monthly. I know it's nothing but I'll be really grateful if I can find someone here that can help me. 

Please reach me on leslieburkhart01@gmail.com





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MEDICAL EQUIPMENT FOR SALE


I have some medical equipment for sale at a reduced price and they have been used (not brand new equipment) but are in perfect condition. So for anyone looking to start a new private practise or looking to add some equipment to your already existing hospital/clinic, this is your opportunity. They are as follows
Two Surgical Operating Tables (Foreign Hydraulic Operating Table) 
Big Medical Autoclave
A Defribrillator
Complete Operating Forceps
A Tianshi S-2000 Luxurious, Blood Circulative Massager 
Seward Operating Lambs (Four in One Lamb) and other hospital equipment.
If you are interested call 07060885766





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