I am sure you’ve been wondering where this nurse went to, hehehe, I went on a well-deserved short break jare, cannot come and kill myself.
Its great to be finally back and I surely missed you all.
The emergency room has been quite busy so I have a lot of stories in line to share with you guys and I’m so excited.
Today’s post is about a boy who was rushed to the ER by his parents. On presentation, he looked pale, lethargic and very weak. His abdomen was distended and his eyes were yellow, he was said to be about 3 years and he looked quite small for that age.
His mother said he had been having occasional episodes of infection and was on admission quite often recently, they also said they were told his blood level was low. She said he was even discharged a week ago at another hospital but got weaker and his tummy got bigger after a few days and wouldn’t want to eat or play.
He was running a fever and was wasn’t breathing too well. He would cry often as if he was in pain. He was placed on a monitor and his blood samples were taking for series of tests. Meanwhile, the mother was asked if he was a sickler, she said no and that nobody is a sickler in their family.
She said she was AS and had made sure all her life that she married an AA man because she wouldn’t want to go through the financial and psychological stress of raising a sickler, she said she would ask any guy that wanted to date her what genotype he was. She said she had lost a brother who was SS when she was younger. She claimed the father was AA and all his work and travel documents had AA written on it so she was sure he was AA.
As she talked her, husband was looking at her. She said that the boy had not done a genotype test before.
The boy was placed on IV fluids and antibiotics while we waited for the results of the blood tests. He was placed on oxygen to help him breath better. He was taken to the scan room for an ultrasound which revealed that he has an enlarged spleen which we call splenomegaly, which is quite common among sicklers. The blood count revealed he had severe bacterial infection and his blood level was terribly low, 11% so he needed to be transfused.
His parents were told and they agreed to donate. We were quite convinced the genotype result will be SS. The genotype results finally came out soon after and it showed that the boy was indeed an HbSS, a sickler.
The parents were told and could hardly believe their ears, especially the mother, she was holding on to the doctor’s coat asking the doctor to repeat the statement . The sister of the father was with them too and expressed her shock as to how the child was a sickler.
It now started to look like the father might not be the actual father. The father didn’t talk much, the doctors asked him to confirm if he had taken a genotype test before and he said yes and he did it once when he wanted to travel. He said that was before he met the mother of the child and didn’t see the need to do another one while courting because she was certain she was AS.
The mother started to panic and demanded we repeat the test, the sister was already using a bad eye to look at the wife as if she brought a bastard home or wasn’t faithful in her marriage. What she had been trying to avoid all her life was happening to her and she was so confused and upset.
The doctors then demanded that both parents repeat the test. They were directed to the lab as we made preps to transfuse the boy. He had 2 bags of blood and was gradually getting better while we waited for the parents results. I noticed the father was suspiciously withdrawn and was only holding the boy’s hands, mumbling words as if he was praying. Lo and behold, the result came out and the mother was AS but the father was AS too!
I was relieved sort of because I knew if the father’s result was otherwise, the mother would begin a very long journey of emotional torture. She began to cry and was inconsolable. The father tried to calm her down and reassured her that the boy would be fine. She began to ask him if he was lying all along and that she had not seen any of his travel documents that had his genotype on it and only believed him because he said so. It was their first and only child.
While she lamented, the husband was quiet and only said ‘now is not the time to do this’. Since the boy had blood transfusion, he got better and he got a little more active and was able to take little food. He also had painkillers and more antibiotics. An hematologist came around to review him. Soon, he was able to breath fine and was weaned off oxygen. He was then transferred to the children’s unit.
The mother was still crying when she left the ER, to her, children with sickle cell are destined to die young and that was why she made sure she would never have a child with the condition. Obviously, the husband wasn’t being honest enough to her and it seemed like he knew his actual genotype all along, he was probably hoping none of his kids would have it but it doesn’t work that way.
The mother was still crying when she left the ER, to her, children with sickle cell are destined to die young and that was why she made sure she would never have a child with the condition. Obviously, the husband wasn’t being honest enough to her and it seemed like he knew his actual genotype all along, he was probably hoping none of his kids would have it but it doesn’t work that way.
Some people think that if you and your partner are both AS and you have just two kids, none of them will be a sickler and that it’s the fourth child that will have the disease. It is not true. Any of them can be born with the condition. Its better to be safe than sorry.
Wicked man if he knew.......She was also careless not to have asked or demanded for one!!!
They will not hear that love doesnt take away the pain and tears of having kids born with SS......dem no dey hear!!!
If you are AS and dating someone who is AS as well,DO NOT HAVE KIDS!!!
I know a couple that are AS and they have two kids and were lucky both aren't carriers.
ReplyDeleteMAKE THEM CARRY THE BOY FOR OFM AUCHI
DeleteAttention of anaesthetists were called to the female ward on Wednesday to attend to a lady of about 24yrs old who was having vaso occlusive crisis. My people I've bn seeing people with sickle cell crisis but I've never seen anything like hers before. The doctors and the nurses said they've administered inj pentazocin, diclofenac, tramadol etc.stil the lady was still shouting and wailing of pains. When we got there we met her on the floor screaming and heating her head on the floor. She said if the pains cannot be taken taken away that she's going to kill herself. All attempt to restrict her failed as she was ready to attack anybody that comes close to her. Hmmmm. I will never wished what I saw on my worst enemy. Finally we were able to calm her, and gave her strong opids like pethidine, we also sedated her and finally put her to sleep before moving her to ICU for intensive pain management therapy.
ReplyDeleteMy brethren anybody that's As and knowingly married another AS deserved to be stoned to death. What stupid love? Love gbakwa oku. I can't deal mehhh.
"heating [sic] her head on the floor?"
DeleteMmmmmmhhh likita abi na lurse, I no fit bypass this one oo
Una go soon carry am HIT auto correct say na im cause am?
" I will never wished what I saw on my worst enemy"
For this one, I come confuse o. I no even see space put sic.
Google sef come confuse.
"Opids?" mmmmmmhhhh
Na to stone AS couple to death them teach you for likinka/nursing school?
Na stove abi na microwave she carry heat am?
DeletePlease stop writing these your medical stories. It reminds me of everything a hospital should not be and the decay in Nigerian health system.
DeleteHmm
ReplyDeleteThis genotype issue is so bad, I wonder why people in this time and age especially when you know you are AS wouldn't demand for a thorough screening before marriage.
ReplyDeleteI am AA so has never been bothered all my life, but as le hubs is AS, I will test all my kids on time to know if any is AS and if any of them are, I will start on time to hammer it into his/ her ears on the precautions to take.
Before this week ends, I will go and get my little cutie tested, let me start on time biko.
Emee ngwa ngwa, emehara odachi
The plot twist at the end of the story though. Even me I was convinced that the baby was not for the man. That means that the sister inlaw no like her before. This husband is the type that will put hole in a condom to trap a fine girl from a wealthy home. This is not wickedness, it is wizardry.
ReplyDeleteWomen and their enmity! The sister was already fitting for action; to deal with the brother's wife for being unfaithful. Now what will she do to her unfaithful brother?
ReplyDeleteAll the girls waiting for abroad husbands this December, you think they care about Genotype or genotypewriter? Forget that thing. As long as it is marriage and abroad, they don't care!
Yes ooo. I hear say some dey already dey f*k chimpanzees to grab abroad husband.
DeleteThis is another lesson for would be AS brides/grooms. Don't just ask for the results, see it. To be safe, do the test more than once in different places.
ReplyDeleteNurse is back ooo
ReplyDeleteStella never cease to amaze me. Are you telling a Nigerian woman not to have babies?
ReplyDeleteMy hubby has an older brother that's SS,he looks so frail.it's a terrible thing,he falls sick often, their mum has to be at hospital with him as he hasn't gotten married , he's 40 already. Unfortunately one of the sisters married an AS too, the man lied to her and she didn't bother to confirm. She has 4 kids l,2 girls and 2 boys , both boys are carriers!brilliant boys them. She nearly died in a accident few months ago when the boy had crisis in school and she bad to travel from her state to his school that's amongst many other times she has to travel on emergency o. The expenses, the emotional torture , psychological torture, the pains the children go through even as adults can't be quantified. First thing my MIL asked when I met her was my Genotype. I've always known I'm AA but I did another test before I got married. When wahala start even love will not be enough to hold the couple together, na so so blame game.
ReplyDelete* Side eyes * @my Adamant brother in-law and my close Frnds... She's Pregnant already and I hope she's gt to see this... Love is stupid shaa
ReplyDeleteMy people, I specifically asked hubby to do his when he wasn't sure. I love him so much that when he played pranks by not telling me the answer at first, I cried for the whole day!
ReplyDeleteI also did HIV, Hepatitis B etc myself to know my status. It's better to be safe than sorry.
*smiles*
DeleteI know so.
Na WA o! Welcome back nurse.
ReplyDeleteI know of someone who is As and her fiance is As too and they are planing to get married. I tire for humans
Nawah!
ReplyDeleteI run a sickle cell NGO and the things I see everyday are so appalling. People just take unnecessary risks and bring innocent children to the world to suffer, I'm talking about very educated people who know about this disease. I have learnt that knowledge doesn't necessarily effect behavioural change and I'll like to appeal to people to know their genotypes, confirm again; use a very good laboratory cos many of these laboratories are not up to standard. Let's break this sickle cycle.
ReplyDeleteThis is a topic I dread most in my life, it forms d basis why I am in my predicament.
ReplyDeleteAS in itself is good,it has higher immunity than AA against malaria and they don't fall sick easily but the problem is two AS mating,their is the probability chance of giving birth to SS,which is 25% per birth.
AS couples getting married now is doable but requires a lot of emotions and financial resources.
1.PGD:This is IVF plus PGD. After the extraction of d spermatozoa from d guy and before insertion, d sperm will be tested for any chromosomal defects like SS genotype etc. The unsuitable ones will be filtered away requiring d suitable ones being inserted. PGD test is not done in Nigeria but I know of 2 hospitals in Lagos dt hv partners abroad dt can do it. The total cost as at early ds year when I was making enquiry was btw 4-5m.the success rate as I was told was 50-70% .
2.PNS (PRE Natal screening): This is not expensive to some extent, at least not like d PGD. In this case, for every pregnancy ,before d end of d first trimester, d foetus genotype must be determined and this done through a test. If the pregnancy is SS, of course, it will be terminated. Sickle Cell Foundation does this at N300,000 ( when I found out ds early ds year).
3.Surrogacy: in ds case, couples will look for sperm that is AA (through sperm banks) and this will be inserted to d wife. The question now is who is d father?. Well, me I don't know. Can't remember d exact price,think it should be up to N2M,cant remember. I know of one hospital doing it in Lekki.
4.Adoption:This supposed to be the easiest but trust me, it is d hardest. Having discussed with my partner then, decided to find out about child adoption, d condition is crazy and almost nearly impossible to adopt.
5.Not giving birth:If u don't have money, can't abort a pregnancy and can't do a surrogacy. This is d last bet.
Any intending couple at are AS can visit sickle cell Foundation in Lagos for more "tori"
As for me,i am still living my single life pending when my own AA will come.......Gclef
Nurse, I'm your tough critic but I've missed your educative series. Welcome back, now we will get regular stories. Welcome home. Imagine, I have a male MD friend that married 3 years ago. He came to visit me after I had a baby meanwhile I got married last December. I've never asked him about children, I thought they probably aren't ready or TTC. My mum was like "Doctor Maria don born make you to do sharp sharp e don tey u marry". It was like the ground should open and swallow me, I was embarrassed. I just told her to go and change the baby. When my mom left, I apologised to him. He was like no he didn't take offence that after all my mom used to call him and bug him to talk to me to marry fast. He got married like 3 years before I did so my mum used to complain to him and ask him to set me up. So he said he wasn't offended.
ReplyDeleteNow to the main gist pardon my epistle. My people imagine my surprise when my medical doctor friend said his wife is AS and I've always known he's also AS. That they both knew and proceeded to marry without telling their families. That they started IVF in 2016 and have had about 3 cycles but they failed. To say I was shocked is an understament. I couldn't say anything and was just looking.
I was still trying to digest the information days later then I became really upset. I didn't notice how badly it affected my mood until my husband started praying that he binds every spirit of post natal depression lol. But seriously, how could they take such unnecessary risk and I say unnecessary because they were not really in love. So that excuse that they love each other too much is nonsense.
I pray and intervention happens fast and it ends in praise. Because I can imagine the amount of money they have spent on three cycles of IVF, the emotional torture of the failure and the inevitable crack it might bring to an already fragile union. Kai Dr. Kay if you are reading this you fall my hand no be small. I know you read SDK once in a while. I didn't expect a medical doctor and a deputy branch manager of a bank to be so reckless. You guys are too educated and enlightened for this situation.
This is not nice. How many medical doctors are bank managers and their names start with a K? This was easy to deduce. The deed has been done abeg.
DeleteWow!!!
DeleteYou are so myopic and no, you don’t love that person you call a friend. I expected some accolades and support from you as a friend. The people you are talking about are enlightened and unwilling to risk having SS kids yet you blame him for loving and marrying his wife. Shame on you!!!!
Imagine saying they fall your hand... Tigua!! No wonder people keep their problems to themselves in that country
Welcome back Nurse.
ReplyDeleteNice topic for intending couples.
Did only once, luckily both of us are Genotype AA and Blood Group too was A+. The problem is malaria bouts but home pineapple and lemon therapy be doing us good.
All our kids are AA too but we're on alert for fever attacks. Preventive measures for sure.
One girl we adopted is AS though but she's now in a country where health facilities are highly accessible and cheap. So we good.
My love to all mothers with Sickle gene carriers, being off and on in school especially in their formative years is an excruciating pain for the family. God be with them.
I knew the husband is a fraud when I read that he was quiet.
ReplyDeleteThis is a close one's story up there.
ReplyDeleteAll his life he believed he is AA,his mum always told him he is AA and he donates blood regularly too. He married an AC. They gave birth to a lovely boy but he started falling sick and not growing well,doctor decided to do the genotype test,test says son is SC they did the test again because the man was seemingly sure he is AA,same result. Can you imagine the pain?
All about to wed must confirm their genotype again,whether you are sure or not,some churches insist to avoid stories that touch. The man may innocently think in his mind that he is AA so,I wouldn't blame the man. They both made a costly mistake of not confirming their genotypes before marriage.
I and my fiance quarelled about this. He said no body in his family has been sick and therefore they don't have SS in their family. Lol. I spark/craze seriously and demanded an outright test before we go ahead with any marriage plans. I'm lucky to be AA from two AS parents. All my siblings dies of SS expect one and I'm believing God to keep him till old age. Then someone wants to marry me without doing a genotype test. Lol. Even if im AA I demanded for his result or no show. He did it and he is AA too. I thank God. Complete good bye to SS wahala in my life. The constant death of my parent s children destroyed their marriage cos family attributed the deaths to spritiual issues and started catching witch left and right. No woman in this day and age should marry without knowing her man s genotype wether she is AA or AS
ReplyDeleteMy friend’s story. Hubby did genotype for work once and it was AA. Ore mi had dismissed several suitors for AS ish and ended up with him cos he was supposedly AA.. only for their boy to fall ill and this happened too...
ReplyDeleteShe was so sure it was not Sickle cell alas, result came out and behold, it was! It was a sad day. Till today, I always wonder if the husband actually knew but hid it from her...cos if you see the babe eh, chic and brilliant too!!
Oh well...they’re still together
Thank you nurse for sharing!! You have been missed!
ReplyDeleteIf your AS please make sure you have money for ivf or surrogate or fetal screening before you say I do!!!
If 2 adults want to get married, checking genotype should be d first thing in their brain!!!