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Wednesday, October 10, 2018
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The guy na
ReplyDeleteNa wa oh, see comments
DeleteIt should be the guu but we ladies are impatient for love so ladies always go 1st
DeleteLol
The guy.
ReplyDeleteGuy should travel to go meet girl...after all the bible says that he that findeth a good wife(and not she that findeth a good husband)...so let him go and visit the girl simple.
ReplyDeleteLEPπ
I am really encouraged by your response;
DeleteTohtoh eater don dey quote bible
Good, sure! Make we quote more ooo
1 Corinth. 6:9 Don't you realize that those who do wrong will not inherit the Kingdom of God? Don't fool yourselves. Those who indulge in sexual sin, or who worship idols, or commit adultery, or are male prostitutes, or practice homosexuality,
So a guy traveling to meet a girl must end up in carnal knowledge yeah?
DeleteThe annon 18;13 , what exactly is the response you gave up there, so u are saying that once there is meeting point of both sex at a place, they must make love or whats bcs i dont get the bible passage quoted.
Deletein response to the above, sure the guy should do the traveling down and lodge in hotel or somewhere else not the ladies apartment.
The guy should be the one to travel first to where the girl lives!
ReplyDeleteIf possible, the guy should visit the girl for at least three times, before the girl will be considering making a move.
If you are communicating with any man over the phone and the man can not make plans to visit you, then he shouldn't be taken serious.
You are right @ms. But. The guy should go first please.
Delete..only a mumu girl will travel to benin from ph and open leg like Shoprite door, then blame her friend.
ReplyDeletehaba u guys should let this matter rest nau...
DeleteYou again? You need to get past that. Don't dwell on it. Let it go.
DeleteYour friendship with the girl is over. Find new friends.
The guy o
ReplyDeleteAny should
ReplyDeletethe guy of course...the hunter should go in search of the bushmeat and not the other way round...
ReplyDeleteThe guy...that reminds me of my worst mistake. I met this guy through a friend of mine. we met and after a month I was on my way to Abuja to go and see this guy from school then. When I got there we got talking and all but guess what? we never had sex. but along line I realised that guy was not it.he treated me so badly, he had sweet mouth and all. he told me he bought heaven and earth but I never saw anything. one day I called him and broke up with him cause I realised he was Just looking for someone to talk to since him and his GF were having issues. it's well Today I'm happy and have no regret. Ladies he should always come never go first to see any man!
ReplyDeleteit has nothing to do with gender...whatever makes sense
ReplyDeleteThe guy but desperate girls are now doing the travel and adding housewife to it when they get there.
ReplyDeleteOnly Sugar mummies are allowed to travel and see their sugar sons.
The guy definitely
ReplyDeleteThe guy should visit first.
ReplyDeleteFinally have gotten my ID chrome did it for me.
ReplyDeleteWhatever suits them
ReplyDeleteOr they could just meet eachother halfway.
ReplyDeleteπ
DeleteOya who should arrive first???
DeleteA mini old Japanese man once said the man should always do the chasing...he was right. Ha ha ha ha, Oxygen of life...
DeleteU people should comman carry oxygen ooooo, ee yaf started ππππππ.
DeleteThe hunter, that is the guy
ReplyDeleteEveryone be saying the guy but in reality the reverse is the case.
ReplyDeletePersonally i feel the guy should go first but whatever works for both party.
What works for A might not work for B,I travelled to see my boyfriend after 9 days of meeting him online and we are working down the aisles soon while my ex I didn't visit for 3years plus we didn't end up together
ReplyDeleteThat isn't a yardstick for a relationship
DeleteAnon 18:47, reminds me of the Benin chronicle lady friend, that took advice and it didn't work, lol.
DeleteMy dear, a man will commit when he is ready, that your ex may commit to the girl that visits him same day sef? But it isn't the parameter for relationships.
The guy, so long he is not physically challenged.
ReplyDeleteThis question to me is uncalled for,feminist alertπππ,I will tell you that whoever it is convenient for should visit...common sense
ReplyDeleteThe guy
ReplyDeleteApart from security reasons. To me whoever visit first doesn't really matters. What if the guy is a very very busy person, he works even weekends. who visit first doesn't determine how long the relationship will last or whether the relationship will end in praise. All what I know take time to know the guy, no rushing whatever.
ReplyDeletebut he wont be too busy for sex... na lie, no one is ever that busy! Holidays nko... theres always a Muslim holiday around.
DeleteThis was the issue i had until he finally visited last weekend. i funded the trip cos he was broke. he came to lagos and it was a mistake.he wanted me to suck him even when he agreed to no sex after 7 months online relationship,at least 12 hours communication daily. he behaved as if his life depended on my sucking him. 4 times in that first night. i had to ask him to leave th next day. even when i refused,it wasnt easy. i am done with online romance biko. if love will not find me walking down admiralty way,let me remain like this abeg. i am done.
ReplyDeleteThe nature of the chat gave him that dirty idea that it was ok to for u to download his precum... na you i blame, the DHL package you ordered arrived but u didnt like the content.
DeleteMeeting someone online can be beautiful, that is if you meet the right person, and the both of you are on the same page. At post, I think the lady should visit first, works better that way.
DeleteLmao!
DeleteAfter funding the trip?
Importation biz nawa o!
Emeka and why should the lady visit first?
DeleteI think for online relationships, it may be dangerous for the guy to visit first. What if hes a psycho/serial killer, then he gets to know your life, your routine, your friends, where you live etc. Of course its more romantic for a guy to do the chasing, but to be safe, if he must visit let him book a hotel, don't let him stay in your home especially if you live alone. But if its more convenient for the lady to visit first, its also dangerous to stay in his house. Book a hotel or airbnb and stay there.
DeleteHoney don't beat yourself over past mistakes. However, pray for the wisdom to make good choices. Don't date anyone who does not have the same values as you. Have that conversation with him, let go of anyone who is not on same page as you. Don't let anyone put you in uncomfortable position. When you meet one on same page, make boundaries. To avoid sin, avoid the near occasion of sin. That means, don't spend nights together. Don't chat dirty. Avoid romantic movies/music together. But these are all only possible if you make the choice to only date men who have same values as you. Plus mature and stable and into you. Not one that will let you pay for his trip, hian.
DeleteAnyone who can afford the trip.
ReplyDeleteOrdinary trip u cant afford, is it to Europe? Then keep dating on whatsapp till battery dies
Deleteπππ
DeleteAnon your own weak me
Whatever works for them biko.
ReplyDeleteThe guy
ReplyDeleteWhatever rocks their boat
ReplyDeleteThe guy..
ReplyDeleteWho visits first doesn't matter. If both are the kind of people that pay attention to details, from the conversation they will understand where the relationship is heading to and before you know what's happening one don visit the other.
ReplyDeleteThere is no straight cut rule to life....I was once married and the dude no gbadu me...The marriage even packed up after all my no visit/sex rule .....Years later, I met a younger dude and few months after communicating without visiting, I visited him and we never had sex. On my second visit, we had sex and I must say no man has ever cared or respected me like this dude. You'd think with the sex, his regard for me would drop or he'd start acting up, but nothing of such happened.
ReplyDeleteRAther he totally adores my opinions on issues, treats me well and meets my emotional needs. He might be too young for me as he's 29 while I'm 28 and we might not end up together, but I'm so enjoying him as much as I can.
Needless to add that the sex happened once and I came for the first time ever.
He has been planning to come visit and I've been stalling cos I don't really like hotels.
GIRLS DO YOU BUT STAY SAFE ALL THROUGH.
I'M DONE LIVING MY LIFE ACCORDING TO SOCIETAL NORMS
Woman go for your man!! What do you mean he might be too young?? Bisshhhh whet??, Enjoy him wella but don't rule him out for marriage if that's what you want. He is even older than you. I am sure your ex husband was older than you but pray tell how did that turn out??? Guurrl enjoy your self and don't
DeleteNo matter how much money you have or how capable and able to things,a girl or woman must never pay or seek out for a man in that way! Otherwise it shows desperation, foolishness and loose morals, low standards in life and poor values.
ReplyDeleteI spend over $10,000 on vacation, expenses on trivial and non essential life thing on myself every year. But I will never pay to go see a man or spend my free time with a man in those circumstances. Otherwise na.. bad market I dey invite into my life and welcome to agents of low life and broke spirit to attack me.
If a man you are dating or in serious contact with and unmarried to, doesn't have the money to pay for you to come see him, be with him or spend time together in a dignified way, then wave him aside, run faster than Usain Bolt, delete and ignore him, for his lack of seriousness about you.
The guy should be the one to make the first move.
ReplyDeleteAnny.
The guy na
ReplyDelete