STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
BIG MISTAKE
Good day Stella and all bvs
I made a mistake which I regret every second. Pls advise me with love. Thanks
I'm married to the best husband one can think of and since I met him over 15 years ago, I haven't cheated on him even though I have admirers from all angle.
Recently I met my ex( sugar daddy), he is a high profiled man and when he asked about my job status, I told him I was still searching for a job. He told me about an opening in a big organization and with his personality he said I will get the job. When I gave him my CV he said for the job to be mine I will have to sleep with him. I begged this man that am married now and cant cheat on my hubby but he said I wasn't serious that it was a simple thing to do compared to the job I will get. I offered to pay him some money once I get the job but he refused.
The other day I went online and saw the job ending date was getting closer and knowing he could help me, I called him for us to talk. He said he wouldn't want us to talk at his office/car so we went to his house. My plan was to talk with him and beg him for the job but this man later had his way with me. I cried that day and he said I shouldn't cry that he won't ask for sex again.
Good day Stella and all bvs
I made a mistake which I regret every second. Pls advise me with love. Thanks
I'm married to the best husband one can think of and since I met him over 15 years ago, I haven't cheated on him even though I have admirers from all angle.
Recently I met my ex( sugar daddy), he is a high profiled man and when he asked about my job status, I told him I was still searching for a job. He told me about an opening in a big organization and with his personality he said I will get the job. When I gave him my CV he said for the job to be mine I will have to sleep with him. I begged this man that am married now and cant cheat on my hubby but he said I wasn't serious that it was a simple thing to do compared to the job I will get. I offered to pay him some money once I get the job but he refused.
The other day I went online and saw the job ending date was getting closer and knowing he could help me, I called him for us to talk. He said he wouldn't want us to talk at his office/car so we went to his house. My plan was to talk with him and beg him for the job but this man later had his way with me. I cried that day and he said I shouldn't cry that he won't ask for sex again.
I later found out that this man has CCTV camera installed everywhere in his house and probably recorded what we did. I asked him to delete the video and he said I should sleep with him again which I refused. He said he will delete it at his own time. I have been calling and begging and he said he has deleted it but am still bothered.
Please advise me, I haven't been myself since then...
*..........You followed him to his house to talk?You honestly did not know he would gbensh you?You didnt sense his excitement?Had his way how?he forced you or you finally agreed?let me count my teeth first please!...I dey come oh!
*finishes counting teeth*
Is it the CCTV evidence disturbing you or guilty conscience?CCTV is programmed to record right?maybe his wasnt.
If you say he is high profile,then he also has a lot ot lose if he outs you.
So did you get the Job or not?
Stella o 😂😂😂 at counting your teeth first.
ReplyDeleteMadam please don’t lie you only got jittery after you discovered he had video recordings because what happened was simple Okafor’s law and how desperate were you for this job that you had to beg him for so long when you could have simply applied and hoped for the best?
You wanted a good job but didn’t want to do the work it would take to get it and now you’ve got more than what you bargained for. If you were so qualified for the job then you would have simply applied like every other applicant who didn’t have a sugar daddy. You won’t get that job and this man would continue to have his way with you until you get caught or he gets tired. I would say tell your husband but not many African man would understand why their wife had to lay with an idiot to get a job? Keep begging him to delete the video or damn the consequences and hope that he’d fear that his own image too would be tarnished after all you weren’t sleeping with yourself but then he only has to show your husband and church Agbasa.
Stella, I follow you ask. Did you get the job????
DeleteI hate when people do wrong things and they don't own up to it.
DeleteI dey misbehave wella but I will own it with my chest.
Madam, you want to his house to fuvk him.
Now hassle him for the Job.
He's in the video right? Madam, nothing will happen.
Carry this mata with your chest abeg.
Babe CCTV deletes it previous recordings monthly. It will clear off itself.
DeleteSee how the devil use to play “bring head to collect head” anh what do you guys mean by “he has his way”? Meaning he rapes you? Abi you later agreed? You dint want sex and you went to his house?
DeleteYou were enjoying not having a job, now you don’t have a job and have added another wahala to your joblessness. I give you had. Just move on except you want to keep sleeping with it, let him give you the job he promised. Why did you even ask about the video, do you think he will release a video that shows him naked as well (as a big man that he is) you just blew it.
Ask him for your job and move on like nothing, let him leak it now make we see who go shame
*counting teeth with stella*...*side eyes..
DeleteYou know eh, there is one kind spirit in sugar daddy even if you marry, so far you have tasted sugar daddy before settling down, you can still taste it again and again and again and againnnnn.
DeleteSin/sex with eyes wide open, did you enjoy it? Did you get the job? Can you collect my CV?
I dey count my teeth too. Jesus cares but if it leaks, the man will loose shah and you will lose your marriage of how many years... Count it. Always use your common sense and believe God more.
@16.23, you've never heard of a flash drive or external storage before?! STOP giving her false hope!! The man has clearly backed up the footage! He would be stupid not to.
DeleteAs for those telling her that the man has more to lose...pure lies!! Clearly you all do not know that advancements have been made in the tech industry. All he needs to do is blur his face/ identifying marks, or even put an emoji over his face, and taadaah, she is a trending topic! Unless you have slept with CEO/MD ABC or Gov/Senator XYZ, how many of you would be able to identify these men without their agbadas on?
Even if she were to get the job, he is most likely going to tell her boss that she is easy. Every month she is going to be threatened with termination, and she will have to keep spreading her legs to keep her job!
Anon 18:59
DeleteYou are right o. I have never thought what any senator looks like without Agbada. So it's easy for him to blur his face and put out the video, no one will know it's him, except his wife. Since he's a rich guy, you trust a Naija woman wont leave her rich husband because of a video, but your husband... it is well
It is well. If the video comes out you are not alone. Just free yourself. You should have applied directly online ,hope and pray for the best. If you are not invited, then the job isn't meant for you.
DeleteAh! Hmmm...
ReplyDeleteMarried woman so because of job you gave yourself out to a man that has probably used you for something. Anyway, go get yourself tested to ensure you don't have some diseases before you infect oga at home. Rubbish... What's even your definition of mistake. Take it from me, you don't truly love that your husband. Mschwww
Poster be truthful to yourself and ask God for forgiveness, you actually went to sleep with him not to talk and he did not force you!
DeleteI can't help but this gist got me laughing.
ReplyDeleteA leopard cannot change its spots.
We are only hearing this cry cry story cos CCTV matter don show.
Relax, he will lose too if the video goes public.
OK, did u get d job or not?
Were u spermatized or he used CD?
Heheheheer...
Enjoy ur job if u got o.
This is what Yorubas call "Jibiti obo".
DeleteI want to spermatize you tho. 08102842756
DeleteStellastico!
ReplyDeleteI love your last question: so did you get the job or not?
That was exactly what I was interested in finding out...lol
Stellastico!
ReplyDeleteI love your last question: so did you get the job or not?
That was exactly what I was interested in finding out...lol
Instead of her to tell the man to give her the job first before she can sleep with him.Nop , she mumu go the man house.
DeleteAll these people that cannot help others without getting something back, your daughters will beg for water and they will not see anyone to give them. My own father was more generous to strangers than us. Gave so many youths opportunity that made them very big in the country today. Because of that favor has never left our family. The funny thing is those big men refuse to return the favor to those looking for help. We have never had reason to ask them so thank God. But we hear how vain they are from others. May God give them an opportunity to retrace their steps and help pull up people. It is well with those struggling. May helpers come your way who will ask nothing of you.
ReplyDeleteAs for this woman, once a runs girl always a runs girl. You went there to gbensh him. Na the video de worry you. Instead of you to be concerned about infecting your husband with STD’s. Useless thing. That is how fools like you destroy lives and their families. Such a horny man is fucking and raping everybody. You better go to the hospital and get Prep within 72 hrs.
Mtcheeeww...
ReplyDeleteGo and sleep abeg cos you don’t have any problem!..
Do you know what your husband is doing behind your back?...
See how you are screaming like you comitted murder!,,.
Chill down madam!!...
Most married women dey cheat these days so it’s not news!..
You even did yours to get a job what of people like me that cheat when I see a small fine boy?..
So I should die abi?..
Madam,continue fucking him untill you get that job!..
As for the cctv,every home in Nigeria has that!...
He can’t do shit with the video!...
Calm down abeg and enjoy!...
Hagagahaha this queen you don kolo.
DeleteSee how you gave the woman hope. Chai married women
....different opinions are welcomed sha, we cant all match down different routes in life, life will be such a clichè.
Deletesame route*
DeleteQueen,there is no time that I read your comments and do not open my teeth, thank you so much.
DeleteSee how English is speaking you? Gaff mad finish
Delete@Queen and Boss, i dey sell pigeon o. in case you need steady supply.
Delete@ 15:54 , you got her message innit? thats that matters.
DeleteLinda u don kolo finish... i don laugh taya.. i dey read dey screammmmmmmm LINDA hahahahahaha i love you baby.
Poster, no follow Linda mouth o, she fit be virgin o.
DeleteDon't mind her. If u wanna sin, sin complete and get d damn job. I need to see you to shout you off. Too soft.
DeleteQueen and Boss ooooooooo
DeleteLolss
Hahahahaha My princess before nko?..
DeleteOxygen,na English you dey yarn!...
CherishD thanks darling
Peaceful soul really?where is your location?i hope the pigeons are white with no spot..
Joblesshousewife what’s up dear,love you too!...
Mao Akuh virgin ke?me that started when I was 13..hahahaha longest time?..
Anon 18:01
Gbam!!...don’t mind the poster...
Stella maris ❤️❤️
🙄🙄😎
DeleteOshee, all hail the 👑
DeleteCONFESS to yout husband.
ReplyDeleteYou'd feel better.
A problem shared is half solved, since u say your hubby is a nice man, im sure he'd understand and 4give you
Do this and it's over
DeleteForget that thing ooo.no man will be happy his wife is being fucked.
DeleteShe should tell it to God Almighty
You are very wicked for telling her to confess!,,,
DeleteConfess wetin?..
Can you confess if you are in her shoes?...
Do you want to break her home?...
You guys should stop giving advise you can’t take!...
Rubbish!...
Lwkm.
DeleteConfess only to God abeg.
That video(that's if it's even existent) ain't coming out anywhere.
Confess fire. You better don't confess anything, Naija men aren't wired to take their wives cheating. Even if they are doing 10girls at once.
DeleteHe will use it against you till Christ comes.
I am a Married man and this is my advice to you. Till you take your last breath NEVER you confess to your husband that you cheated.
DeleteMen are not built to hear such stuff. The image alone will destroy him.
My wife cheated on me and confessed to me. Even though I forgave her, I am no longer the man I use to be. I am depressed every other day and I have lost the will to continue living. It's only a matter of time, before we both go our separate ways because the union is no longer working.
I wished she never told me. I loved her too much.
I am a Married man and this is my advice to you. Till you take your last breath NEVER you confess to your husband that you cheated.
DeleteMen are not built to hear such stuff. The image alone will destroy him.
My wife cheated on me and confessed to me. Even though I forgave her, I am no longer the man I use to be. I am depressed every other day and I have lost the will to continue living. It's only a matter of time, before we both go our separate ways because the union is no longer working.
I wished she never told me. I loved her too much.
This is d very last advice u should take. Meaning don't take it! You do this and ur marriage is as good as over.
DeletePoster even if you are dying, do not i repeat do not confess any shit to your husband or kiss your marriage goodbye. Nonsense. You have no case here. I dont understand why you are worries about stupid cctv you don't even if it recorded any thing. even it recorded it and so? The man can't do shit with it, unless he wants to ruin himself. Don't ask him about the CCTV again, get the job and move on biko.
DeleteI feel your pain Mr.Akinjide.So sorry dear.
DeleteNever ever ever confess. NEVER!!!!!!
DeleteSo you knew what was at stake, yet you followed him to his house to talk about beg him?
ReplyDeleteAll of a sudden he had his way. Issorite
Just know that he has something on you and can blackmail you anytime he pleases.
First the use of had is way doe's not sit well with me, secondly if he blackmails you report to the police. Thirdly please never ever use the words had his way, you an ex runs girl so it's not new, next time own up to your fuck up you gave in cos the date for the job was closing. I pray you get the job sha. Had his way indeed don't try to play innocent with me that sentence is pissing me off cos it's a bold face lie.
ReplyDeleteMost people that would come here to judge and criticize you for cheating are single girls ooohh!...
ReplyDeleteThey do worse when they finally get married so ignore them!...
Hagahahaha the queen welcome back ooo
DeleteYou are too blunt Linda... chaiii
DeleteFirst the use of had is way doe's not sit well with me, secondly if he blackmails you report to the police. Thirdly please never ever use the words had his way, you an ex runs girl so it's not new, next time own up to your fuck up you gave in cos the date for the job was closing. I pray you get the job sha. Had his way indeed don't try to play innocent with here that was was the sentence that kicked me! that sentence is pissing me off cos it's a bold face lie.
ReplyDeleteLol one chance, once i get married in fact i would open a new Facebook sef..... Best thing tell your husband if not the man would use it to threaten you onto more shags o.
ReplyDeleteOpen a new Facebook indeed!...
DeleteNa so una dey talk!...
Get married first before yarning dust!...
Sorry Poster. This man will blackmail you with the recording, if any, he will want sex again .I hope no infection or ritual things. Will it be possible for you to tell your husband? Will he forgive you? . You either play along or tell your husband . Did you get the job?
ReplyDeleteHey girl, stop begging him. If he sees how desperate you are for the video, he will capitalise on it and continue sleeping with you.
ReplyDeleteFirstly, MOST cctv automatically deletes their recordings because of storage capacity. For a private CCTV sef, the capacity will be very small, so I guess the recordings should be there highest one week.
Secondly, the man has more to lose more than you since he's a profile person. He will never release the cctv.
Just take the job and move on. Don't ever talk to him about that CCTV again.
Thank you.
DeleteThere's no point cursing her and whining/ranting about what she did.
She don already fuck up.
She can't erase the shot she had done and no amount of insults will do that either.
She needs to keep hassling the man for the Job!
Make e no be say she just share nyash for nothing.
wise Response
DeleteOMG. May God punished him. My pain is that why do they use sex to give contracts, job etc
ReplyDeleteThat man is a Christian and he pray to God to bless him.
See how job made you to knack. What about the job? Don't let your husband know because that is the end of your marriage.
Eayah sorry, ndo, ekpele
All these women asking about the job, so if she got the job, that justifies adultery??
DeleteDoes it mean that all of you chanting this job mantra condone it or are adulterers?
This woman has broken the hedge of her marriage and she is both conscience stricken and
afraid of blackmail. The best option for peace of mind is confession -James 5:16; to her husband -if she
was "taken advantage of", let him know whatever happened -period. When David did it (kindly see his prayer in Psalm 51),
he came clean and that was why he remained king.
@Yori
Delete"May God punished [sic.] him?
If you should be PUNISHED for all your sins including this grammatical one
Mmmmmmhhh, you for don kpeme.
And when did the man tell you that he is "a christian or you are making him one?"
Christian sugar daddy indeed.
Thats the thing about Okafors law, its a slippery slope, if you MUST meet an ex partner for whatsoever reason, it should be done in a public place plenty glaring eyes! Can you swear you didnt shave & pick out a good lingerie? Pls dont act victimized.... why does such poo happen to you ladies when ure not on your monthly flow? Is it a coincedence?
ReplyDeleteA wise veteran from Iraq said "Thinking before acting is wisdom, but acting before thinking most often leads to regret" ..... he was right! If your perpetrator keeps blackmailing you, you'd reek of guilt & more regret till your husband begins to smell a rat, even if u get the job, the stench of betrayal will follow u like Calvin klein perfume.
Mr carbon dioxide wehdone!!
DeleteYour Sugar daddy might not blackmail you with the recording, you should know the kind of man that he is, try and put it at the back of your mind, pray, if that would help you. So, it is either you keep quiet or tell your husband. I think that you should keep quiet but ask God for forgiveness.
ReplyDeleteAll you women should fear God, don't you know once someone has blackmailed you once, it continues. The first time he asked for sex you shld have removed your eye from the job.
ReplyDeleteThat is how I know someone that went to abuja with her husbands backing to see her ex-sugar daddy regarding a contract for the husband, she always told her husband the man is her uncle bcos they come from same village. Offcourse the man tried sleeping with her.
These sugar daddies will always want smthn in exchange, that is why its advised to cut off exes after marriage. They will always want a taste of what they had in the past. Forget your Mrs status. Men will be men.
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DeleteWhat did i just read? Madam you followed him to his house and he had his way that's what you wanted. He did not force you madam, you gave in willingly. You have betrayed your husband. Why didn't you object the proposal of going to his house to talk.
ReplyDeleteReally some women have fish brain. I know why you are afraid that your husband may get to know and your marriage will be in the verge of collapse. Has the job be given to you??? This one is not a mistake you did it with your senses intact.
Don't worry ma, since you said the man is a high profiled man, he has a case to answer too peradventure the video is leaked.
Babe stop the pity party abeg
ReplyDeleteWhich one is he had his way with you
You deliberately went there for you people to gbensh
How am sure there was even a job opening sef? Abi you are just adding the job thing to make us understand why you did it
You are only coming for advise after the act cos of the cctv you didnt realize was there
If there were no cameras you will still go back over and over again
Stop saying you went to beg him in his house, stooop eeeeettttt
So your were penising another woman's husband on her matrimonial bed and you want us to believe you were helpless about it.
See ehn, the earlier you admit to your self that you willing hung ya legs for another man, the better you will be equipped to handle the blow back
Don't mind the poster...the most annoying thing she said is that "He didn't like the idea of me begging him in his office" wots wrong with u having a "job discussion" in his office? Oh....I forgot, such talk is better in the room!..its better discuss wen u hang ur leg on the wall and he screw in his cassava into your ponyor..
DeleteThe question is, did you get the job? If you did, ignore the crap out of the man, in fact delete his number and wait for him to call and act like you don't know him 'if' he calls.
ReplyDeleteBut if you didn't get the job, omo na your loss ooo. Na em be say the man wise pass you. But either way, if you no get the job, ignore him still, let his conscience judge him.
He's not going to do anything, his image is on the line too, and if he threatens you with it, you sue him, after all it was a consensual s**, he has no right to tarnish your image.
Whatever you do, don't let him get the upper hand. Men be thinking they are smart, but they aren't shii.
If you did not get the job, thats wot Yoruba's call....ofidi jona...
DeleteYou shouldnt have gone with him to his house....well you did
ReplyDeleteYou shouldnt have requested he deletes the recording(shows desperation)....well you did
But then again,thinking rationally...did you have the sex in his waiting room?sitting room??cos I believe that's where CCTV should rather be and not the bedroom(except he fixed one in his bedroom)...so you may just be worried for nothing
I want to believe you are truly sorry for your act and not just worried about the video going viral.
Pls we need to know if you got the job or not...all this stress shouldnt be in vain biko
I am not sure this lady got the job.Since this man want another show, obviously she did not get it.
DeleteMadam, I see nothing wrong in you cheating on your hubby.
ReplyDeleteAfter all your hubby has side pieces so it's no biggie.
Like you said, he is a high profiled man, damn him and tell him to do his worst that he too have an image to tarnish.
Wait! Your sugar daddy you say?
Shebi you know that your hubby too issa sugar daddy to some other girls?
You shouldn't have gone to his house if you did not want this to happen, you should be more concern of infections or ritual thing. Please go for check up first before sleeping with your husband.
ReplyDeleteStella, you are indeed a drama queen.
ReplyDeleteCount your teeth first 😁😁😁
women and desperation!!!!! why are we so desperate? AHHHHHHHHHH! ABOMINATION.
ReplyDeleteI remember one saying I read on this blog...
ReplyDelete'Ashawo wey marry, na vacation she go'... Well, this is proof. 🤣🤣🤣
Mtschewwwww you knew it will end with praise and worship in his bed. Stop disturbing us. Nonsense
ReplyDeleteLmaoooo!!
DeletePoster, ignore his threats. Stop calling him for anything and most importantly, block every access he has to you. Forget asking about that job as it will be a constant opening for him to reach you. If you get the job, well, good enough. The video recording will also not be good for his image since he was one of the actors. He is blackmailing you becos he know say you no get liver. He will meet a tough enough woman soon who will show him real pepper. Slippery idiot!
ReplyDeleteMadam poster don enter one chance. Okafor's Law once again.
ReplyDeleteTwo things are involved :1.he didn't record the ghenshing session.
2.He recorded it.
But then don't worry, shebi it's both of you na, so he might not release the video, he Wants to continue chopping your cookie. Just make sure you get the job & then stop giving him the cookie. He will move on.
But that man wicked sha
see me as I dey smile dey read this chronicles and comments. it happened to me too, this man came to me that he wants to help me, it was at a time I was in dire need of financial help cos I wasn't in good terms with my hubby intact we are as good as over but because I don't have money to move out of his house, I had to stay and endure emotional and psychological abuse. You can imagine when this man came to me and told me he wants to help me but I was skeptical cos I know he would want something in return. I later told myself to be smart for the very first time in my life. He gave me his card and I called days after, we met at a choice hotel but I didn't allow him do the do, he begged but I no gree. The next time he called me he told me he has called the governor on my behalf that I should bring my C.V,foolish me was very excited intact I gave my friends gist that am about to secure a job with the help of a high profile politician.We agreed to meet in a hotel and I went there with my CV,i allowed him to have me the Ay and manner he wanted with so much anger in my heart. After everything I gave him my C.V and Lo and behold he told me to keep it OMG I almost fainted. I was angry with him and started insulting him,he was calm throughout. He begged me to take things easy with me and gave me another format.He gave me huge amount of money but job I no see oh, we gbenshed several times after that, although he gives me money but I no see job o, till I got tired and start avoiding him. My dear he will not give you that job cos he enjoyed your pussycat and kows you will stop coming immediately you get the job. 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂
ReplyDeletePlanning on cheating on my hubby, since he won't change. Two can play the game.
DeleteSome of you are not smart sha.
DeleteStop calling them when you're down. They take advantage of Your vulnerability.
I have cordial relationship with my exes. My hubby is not the richest and they know but I don't go begging them rich exes for anything.
Be content with what you have
Please did he later give you the job?
ReplyDelete
ReplyDeleteSomething is not correct about this story.
He has more to lose if he recorded the intercourse. He is high-profiled and you are not. He is highly placed and married, though you are married, you are not highly placed and influential.
Your only fear and pain should be the audacity to break your marriage vow.
You are not principled and you will still sleep with that man more and more people in that office because you were once an 'aristo'. You have started it now and will surely contnue especially if this one yields positive result.
My Advice:
If you get the job, stop the mess. No man can coarce any lady into doing anything she does not want to do.
Just learn to build values around yourself that jobs will be looking for you and not the other way round.
Grow uo, the man wont do anything for you, he only wants to do you more and more without giving you money or job.
Threats of blackmails- just a reverse psychology
Stellakoko, you're a comedian - Lmaooo at "count my teeth"
ReplyDeleteThe truth is you are not sorry or have this guilt because you cheated on your husband but fear of the man using the CCTV to blackmail you. Also, you have accepted it in your mind to gbensh him when you saw the closing date out of desperation hence you followed him to his house.
You just have to stop this pity party and made him to know that he has a lot to lose if the video leaks out since he's a high profile man. Threaten him wella to make him know you're not afraid or ready to give in to his whims.
If your husband is an understanding man that can swallow the pill then discuss it with him but if he's weak and cannot bear it then ask God for forgiveness and avoid the man.
madam abeg answer Stella question Shey u later get d job or not? ? make your case no b like my own wey go lose both ways..d stupid manager useme do refreshment with no job.now I don dey sell indomie with fried egg since I no see work atleast that one better than no job
ReplyDeleteThis looks like it has been posted before. Story sounds quite cliché
ReplyDeleteBabe do not listen to those telling you to confess to your hubby, I do understand you, you love your husband but the quest to have a better livelihood led you into what you did. Men don't cheat for this they cheat for fun,but i see you as a good woman who did something nasty. Ask God for forgiveness and forgive yourself too. I hope you get the job so all this can be worth it. P.S prep for future trouble in case the big shot decide to stare the hornet's nest again!!!I wish you well
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DeleteSo the cost of a married woman's fidelity is job?
DeleteNa so adultery dey una easy to commit?
I thought most runs gals are smarter and wiser. Why didn't you ask him for something in exchange before you do the gbenshing like huge sum in case the job didn't pull through or you just believe empty promises. I am not justifying the crime you committed against your own conscience.
ReplyDeleteDid you get the Job?
ReplyDeleteEt tu Ify?
DeleteIf she got the job, adultery is justified eh?
This my question carry weight. I want the answer though, I want to see something. Lol
DeleteI was met a married guy that wanted to help me get a job with Dpr on the basis of sleeping with me.Well i told him to give me the job first when i get it i will sleep with him.He said if i do not sleep with him he wont have the "ginger" to assist me.Then i told him okay i will sleep with him if only he can credit my account with N10 million in case if i no see job i go see money.Married man tuale...waka. Make una try dey get sense small.
DeleteNa CCTV dey worry This one not conscience
ReplyDeleteShaa calm down and hope for the best
Did you get the job or not? That's what we want to hear after the quenshing. Leave the guilty conscience part. Medicine after death.
ReplyDeleteDont worry about CCTV, he wont do anything about it. You shouldnt have gone o his house, he just had his way and will not get you the job.
ReplyDeleteNa so my younger sister Goldie say dem choir master wan introduce am to person wey go hep am with Temporary job while waiting for admission.
ReplyDeleteShe come back house begin cry!.. i get malaria, i nor even fit shout.Na so she say choir master carry am reach the man place.small time the man say make she sidon for him leg. She say she refuse run go open door, choir master follow plan dey tin o. Na beg she say she begin beg this man he nor gree begin threaten her with knife...she say with cry she begin shout 'Jesus help me!'...na serious matter o! The man stand up, begin beg her.. give am okada money. She reach house dey shake pass me wey get malaria.Job matter izza sometin!
madam u had already made up your mind to sleep with him since u really needed this job,he did not rape u,you jejeli opened your shrine for him,if you had wanted to plead with him I believe there are places to do dat not his house, u knew what u were getting into but u decided to deceive ur deeper life conscience by convincing yourself dat you will talk him out of it in his home,nawaoooh just ignore him, confess ur sins to God and keep on praying that somehow the video will not come out
ReplyDeleteFear some women !
ReplyDeleteDid you get the job? If yes get ready to be sleeping with him. The day you put a stop to it you will lose your job.
ReplyDelete15 years ago, na your sugar daddy. You still get mind to allow am rod you. He mouth no smell,e blokos no shrink? You get luck say e no die for your top.
ReplyDeleteLoling at your comment 😂😭😉😆😃😂😂
Delete@ Poster,remember to come and tell us if you got the Job.
ReplyDeleteGood luck if it clicks..
The best way to treat blackmailers is to call their bluff. This man won't do anything with the video. Stop begging him to delete, act normal if he calls you. Whatever you do, don't confess to your hubby.
ReplyDeleteYou're only remorseful because of the CCTV recordings. To avoid his blackmail, tell him you've told your hubby. He has a lot to lose,you have only your marriage to lose.
ReplyDeleteI ask again,HOPE YOU GOT THE JOB?
The thing that annoys me is that it's people like you that make everyone assume a woman must have slept her way to the top even though she worked hard for it without doing such. You were trying to take a short cut and now it's come to bite you in the butt. Just carry your cross abeg.
ReplyDeleteI have these installed in my house. They only last thirty days and it records all over again. I think you need to chill because most of our big men do not have the technical know how, to save these things unto other drives. Except, he calls the tech savvy guys or the installer to come and save it somewhere for him. Besides, to save it, they have to go to an exact day and approximate time. Do you think the Oga is so dumb to let those guys see him with a girl in his house?
ReplyDeleteSecondly, why did you go to his house?
Thirdly, did you get the job?
Fourthly, the thing still strong like fifteen years ago? Did he make you come? E sweet? Did he give you head? Abi, na in and out?
Anyway, you better chill.
Lest l forget, if you got the job, please come back and do shooki oo! Don't eat alone.
This one everybody chip in, make we sef get something for this stress wey you don give us. Make sure you get big Odeku for Queen and Boss of this blog.
Poster you are a big FOOL! You gambled with your soul and marriage for a job?? Is that how desperate and low you are? My goodness! And I wonder why people are saying hope you got the job? Which job? Do you not realise that anything the devil gives you will never bring you happiness or fulfillment??? He gives 10 and takes 10 fold. Are you a christian? As believers, we should never want anything that doesn't come from the hands of God. It's obvious you aren't prayerful for you to be lured into this kind of mess. You've just opened the door to the enemy into your life.
ReplyDeleteThis chronicle should have part 2.
ReplyDeleteLol @counting of teeth.
Somethings aren't worth it,it's all vanity at the end of the day.
ReplyDeletePART I
ReplyDeleteIf you got the job, resign and give it up IMMEDIATELY. It is the ONLY way you can convince ANYONE of your integrity and sincerity, even if after the fact, even if you knew in your heart of hearts what would likely happen if you went to his house. Repair your ways before God. Repent and confess your sins to God, ask Him to have mercy on you, forgive you and help you. Go on an at least three day prayer and fasting. TELL YOUR HUSBAND. If you do not do ALL of these, you will still be a slave to that man, whether married or not. He will blackmail you emotionally if not otherwise. You can also consider emigrating abroad for work. If your marriage fails after telling your husband (because he may eventually forive you but not be able to forget), you have an even better reason to emigrate for work. If the man should ever publicise the video/photos, bearing in mind that he cannot cut himself out in the first place, it is already a disgrace and shame for him to be seen naked and in a sex romp, then with someone not his wife. All this is automatic even before you speak. Then, if you are identified, tell the TRUTH. Admit your foolishness and naivety or desperation in going to his house. The SPEED of your resignation from the job, your having told your husband will further help to swing public opinion in your favour and make him look the wicked, immoral, old predator and home-wrecker he is. You MUST be serious and sincere with God now henceforth. God can do a miracle and your marriage can overcome and become even stronger and sweeter. For real. True word. You must, however, be prepared for God, in His Wisdom, to allow otherwise and trust Him that whatever the case, His "Plans for you are for good not evil and to bring you to your expected/desired end." Whatever the case, I just see an opportunity for afresh start for you one way or another through all this. Either a fresh start for your marriage or a fresh start for you. The foundation of your marriage could not have been ideal if you couldn't amd didn't tell your husband from the beginning and all along about this man. Your husband coukd have told you to leave him out of it and that would have been that. Or, he could have okayed asking him but when it got to the point of you going to his house, being a man himself, your husband would have immediately known what that meant FOR SURE and at that point would have told you not to go and also end seeking your ex's assistance. Furthermore, your desperation and excessive worry at not having a job even though you are married also raises questions because even if both of you are just starting out in life, just starting out on the first rungs of the employment ladder, there is a degree of support and encouragement you should have been getting from your husband, there should have been some kind of mutual trust, communication, support and working together in your employment search. It ought to have been a team project. Not the desperate solo effort as if there was competition in your marriage, as if you had something to prove to your husband (&/or in-laws?). Please, for your own sake, most of all, and for your husband's sake, you cannot escape making a FULL CONFESSION to him. You MUST tell your husband. You will NEVER have peace if you don't. And if you don't, know without a shadow of any doubt that you have a root growing in you and in your life which will SURELY, WITHOUT FAIL, continue to bear evil fruit throughout your life and in your children's (no matter uf this current husband is their father or not) lives. You MUST confess your sins (ALL) to God, repent, and forsake those sins and way of life, way of thinking, and character forever and hold on to and walk with God in whole-hearted trust, faith and love; you MUST confess to your husband. This could also be an opportunity for your husband to come clean to you about anything shameful or regrettable in his past or whilst married. Tell him that.
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PART II
ReplyDeleteTell him you hope you can both make a fresh start with NO secrets between you. Either way, you have a fresh start ahead of you. If after all these, this one doesn't work out, trust God and know of a certainty that as you continue to walk in sincerity and obedience to Him, He has a much better husband, much better marriage for a much better you ahead. And, do you really need to bebtold to BLOCK PERMANENTLY that man's number? Even to get a new number if need be, if he would call with numbers you don't know? Let him know you have resigned from the job and that he should NEVER try to contact you in any way. DON'T tell him you've told your husband, don't discuss your husband or marriage with him. Don't discuss your life plans. Let him know that if he doesn't delete that video or pictures, and publishes them at any point in time, or doesn't publish them but doesn't delete them such that sooner or later someone, his wife, mistress, one night stand, cleaner/househelp, children, CCTV installation/maintenance staff, etc discover them and publish them, he CANNOT escape the public shame and disgrace for all the reasons already stated above. Let him know that if he should ever find a way to edit himself out or blank his face or photoshop anybody else's face on to his own and then publish, since he has already put you out there, there is no shame again and you will reveal his identity to the entire world and tell the world the whole truth. These are the things you should tell him. Then BLOCK HIM PERMANENTLY.
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