Na wah oh....
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
A SPECIAL KIND OF MUGU
I know after reading this chronicles, I will get E-slaps but maybe I need some brain resetting slaps.
I'm in my late 20s, working and residing in Lagos. Sometime in 2016, I met a guy online and after several weeks of chatting, he came over to my place and we hooked up.
It's wasn't deliberate. But it happened. A tumultuous relationship started from thence. According to him, he was not in a relationship and I stupidly believed him. There were moments I get cold shoulders, I tried my best to know what was going on but he blocked me out. At some point I allowed him be, but whenever I start forgetting about him, he reaches out again.
All this while, I never knew where he lived. I still do not know where he lives. It's always one excuse or the other. I knew something was wrong, but I just concerned myself with my job. He never said he loved me. He always said he cared for me. Late last year, I stumbled on the picture of a baby boy that was his split image. I asked him whose baby it was, and he just kept twisting everything, but one thing was sure the baby is his. I knew I had been played. He denies been married or engaged. He said he doesn't want to talk about it
That was December 2017. I was devastated.
I made up my mind to tell him I'm done in July. I was stupid, I dated a guy for almost 2 years and I didnt know where he stayed. He keeps flaunting his woman/ child on his dp.
Guess I'm not as smart as I think, but I would never make this mistake ever.
His excuse was that his house is very far and traffic is crazy there. Oya send me address, he says the place is not easy to trace with address. Just send it anyhow, Bobo change mouth. I fell Mugu in Lagos. Thank God no disease or souvenir (unwanted pregnancy) from the so called relationship. My Life would have been over. I don't know any friend, nobody. It was just his words.
Lesson learnt. Please, Mrs KorKus keep me anonymous.
Two years?So he kept visiting you whenever he wanted some booty and you still gave?i'am gobsmacked!!!
I find this very hilarious. Your own mugu is a soft work kinda thing. Good you came out clean from it. It is well with you.
ReplyDeleteYou know he is married, you are just living in denial, and that’s you cheating with someone’s hubby but tellling yourself as long as you don’t know you are fine, honey, you are not fine. Two whole years with a married man, weldone ma.
DeleteYour problem started from knowing he had a child in dec but waiting until July to break up, who sets a future appointment to stop being foolish. If you like don’t face front, you have been on this blog for years but you don’t have sense... the man did not even lie to you plenty
You’re really bold o, two years you didn’t know if you were dating a ghost or some criminal. Since you know you made a mistake, hopefully you learn from it and do better next time. When a man puts up a wall when you ask him questions that require a no or yes answer then know you’re on your own if you keep believing him. Also block him out of your life and don’t let Okafor’s law rule ever between you two.
ReplyDelete“When a man puts up a wall when you ask him questions that require a no or yes answer then know you’re on your own if you keep believing him.” Hmmm....! The sad part is that someone here will still make the mistake of believing the kind of man you described.
DeletePoster happy moving on try not to make such a mistake again that would have cost you a lot.
Hmmmm. Two straight years you were giving him free cookie without knowing his house??? That wasn't a relationship. I pray for your sake you're indeed wiser....
ReplyDeleteHahhahahahhahahahhahahhaa...
ReplyDeleteSorry poster, I am just laughing at your story not at you.
Women, your private part should in indeed be private.
"in indeed be private?" where do I put [sic.] sef.
DeleteI come confuse o
Abegi keep ya gramma INDEED private
and tell doc make im nak you some grammar injection if
you no fit yarn pidgin.
Madam sic or whatever u are called, can't you see that was obviously a mistake? Drop your comment(s) and move on that's if you have any.
DeleteHis dick kept u enslaved.
ReplyDeleteHope he didn't damage ur bed beyond repair.
Hmmm, I can't judge you. Things we do for love sometimes are crazy. Just move on dear, "nothing spoil". Learn from it, forgive yourself and move on. You gave to much trust to someone who didn't deserve it. Don't beat yourself too much for it. At the right time your own Prince will find you.
ReplyDeleteCall it 'things you do for LUST"
Deletethings you do in stupidity
Deletethings you do in desperation
things you do in low self esteem
things you do in the absensce of self esteem
Lmaooooo you be correct mu.mu.
ReplyDeleteWho knows if you've been gbenshing a ghost or a ritualist?
2 years.
You don't know where he lives, his family members, his friends, his work place(that is if he even has a job)
Lmaooooooo.
Omo mehn, your own dullness ehn, if your brain was a knife, it still wouldn't cut air.
Make sure you repeat tests 6 months from now, HIV is usually dormant.
As for the soul ties and any other thing, wish you well.
you have given ur self the perfect judgement so I pass. Thank God you no carry extra baggage comot wen ur head set
ReplyDeleteReally you need some brain resetting slaps and punches đđđđđđ.
ReplyDeleteThank God you borrow your self brain.
ReplyDeletePlease keep yourself and don't fall mugu to the guy. He is chop and clean mouth
End time Spirit husband in human form...
ReplyDeleteGo for deliverance...
Hahahahaha this Frankool you are hilarious oo
Deletelmaooooooooooo.
DeleteNne dont be too hard on yourself
ReplyDeleteEven the smartest of us have fallen for this trick
Some very smart women have been deceived for years, by seemingly unlikely men.
You were deceived, get up, dust your ass and cut off every tie with him
Count your losses, pray it doesn't happen again and be wiser from experience
I wont call you a fool now
But I will call you a very biiiiggggg fool if you continue seeing that guy despite all you know.
Delete all contact, block him everywhere . Yes you can do it, No you will not die
And don't think of planning revenge. he will only get you to part your legs wider while he fucks you the more.
True.
DeleteTaaa, I never fell for such tricks o, that what now? When I am the one that used to play people
DeletePoster take it as a lesson learnt and move on. So many women have experienced this. Even me
ReplyDeleteI met one bastard on this blog like 2 years ago. Thankfully I didn't even give the chance for sex cos I stay with a strict uncle. Whenever he comes visiting we go to a fast food in my area.
Once I noticed I can't reach him at night or throughout Sunday he won't pick calls. I knew he was married.
Plus I asked to come visit him several times. Different excuses.
I snopped him on Facebook which wasn't easy as he used his Nick name of Facebook. He was married with 2kids.
Poster seems you are not avid SDK reader. You should know some of the tricks these married men use.
ReplyDeleteHow do you date someone for two years and you don't know his place.
When he's not a ghost.
My dear you weren't even in a relationship. You were just fucking.
How you atleast chop his money after all the oshofree.
Anonymous 15.08 bless you for the words of wisdom. Well said... Poster it is well with you.. If you apply all said by Anonymous 15.08 and involve God and sense.... It can only get better for you from here on. I wish you all the best.
ReplyDeleteThat is how I dated one man in PH. Dude has 2 young teenage kids living in the US. I only went to his house once (mind you he has two houses),one he stays with his aged parents & he never took me to that house. Anytime I brought up the idea of going to his other house he got angry(cos I only wanted to meet his parents) Dude will introduce me to every associates as his fiance, & would make me speak to his family members only on phone, the closest I got to meeting his family members was just once we hung out briefly with his cousin & cousin's kids. Dude confused my entire life, made me pursue all eligible suitors around me, my life was just a mess, no moving forward, just on a pain. For complete 3years. Did I mention he was also a very stingy man, only spent money on me when I'm around him, he can buy plenty things for me when I'm around him, but once I'm not around him I'm totally on my own. He even went as far as telling my mum he wants to marry me. I just tire. But this year I decided to take my life back. I left him, it was the hardest thing I have ever done in my entire life. I didn't have any backup bf,but I left. & after I left I met an angel❤❤.
ReplyDeleteSo after two months of leaving him dude calls from no where telling stories how he missed me & loves me, I blocked the bastard.my life is sweeter & better now.
Poster don't worry you will be fine. Soon belief me.
Good
DeleteAt least you don get 3 years working experience
DeleteAdd am to ya CV.
Hahahaha oya put am as good working experience
DeleteDid you have to have a backup bf before leaving the idiot? I tire for some of you.
DeleteMumu rest to power 20
ReplyDeleteThe fact of the matter is she has realized her mistake there’s no need name calling. While you are at it, it’s raised to the power not rest.
DeleteNa wa ooo na so him prick sweet reach?
ReplyDeleteHmmmm.. Thank God you have realize your mistakes and learn a lesson.. U are one of the few people that come out of such relationship with no drama..
ReplyDeleteThat was how I dated a pig, thinking he would change. Not until I found out he also grunts like a big at night. Haaaaaaaaaa I ran ehhhh.. piggy man. If I didn't visit this guy I wouldn't have known he is a pig ooo.. .chai thinking bout it makes me sick. Lol come to think of it sef his nose is like pig own. Maybe that's why he grunts
ReplyDeleteYou sound really pained and using the pig thing to feel better. Pele
DeleteNext time close your legs until you marry
Deleteđđđđ
DeleteHahahahaga Mr. Piggy how are you
DeleteLolll@piggy man.
DeleteLadies, close your legs till further notice (marriage)
ReplyDeletei once fell victim of this online dating. i dn't know y my brain works like that if it is work issues i am smart but once it comes to love matter it will just be as if my village people exchanged my brain. it is well
ReplyDeleteSince you know you don't use to have sense in relationship, when next you are in one, borrow someone own and remove yours.
DeleteGod will give you the best.
Men do not set out to cheat intentionally. Most times men hide their marriage identity to woo other women so they can have an unlimited supply of nta-nta. How do you explain a wife who wont give BJ nor agree to receive head and would only agree to missionary style even when the hubby is adventurous. If the man decides to go outside and a woman begins to give him all he has been missing at home,would you blame him?
ReplyDeleteI dont support cheating but women sometimes push their hubby to start looking outside.
Then let the wolverine husbands marry their kinds
DeleteIf you are adventurous in bed, marry likewise
If you love your sh*t being licked, then marry a girl that loves licking sh*t
If you go seeking for a "good" wife without sexual experience, how then do you expect her to have the skills and desires that them baddies have?
Its just like when a woman marries a man that earns a salary of 50k, and starts demanding for a monthly upkeep of 100k from him.
Makes no sense.
Women don't push their husbands to cheat, their husbands cheat because they know they will get away with it very easily
Put a mandatory high fine for cheating and see if it wont reduce drastically.
Retired slay queen, thank you, God bless you. That's all I have to say.
DeleteThe idiocy of people always beats me.
DeleteYou will see a man boasting he can only marry 'a pure girl who hasn't slept around' 'who is still fresh' (what ever that means).
Same idiot after a few weeks of marriage now starts complaining, 'wife doesn't like sucking his dick especially with the days old grease, urine smell and scrubbing brush hair surrounding the limp piece of dodo like a crown of thorns, can you imagine? 'wife doesn't like putting her tounge in his anus', 'wife is not exciting', 'wife is not this','wife is not that'. Bleating like to lost goat.
How will she be nyen nyen nyen enough to satisfy you when you are comparing her to thousands of holes you've plugged your penis in?
How can she satisfy you when she was keeping herself for the grand idiot that became you?
And of course, you do not have the patience or the common sense or even the skill to teach her. Okpo!
Thank u. That's all nothing else
ReplyDeleteShe no even reach side chick levels. This one na sex doll she be for the man.
ReplyDeleteAs much as I would I want to call you names u will not cos majority don get their share.
ReplyDeleteI gave 2 married men free cookie (knew they were married) for 2 good years. I was stupid, very very stupid. Like i was jazzed. I didn't enjoy it and just thinking about that past of me makes me sick. THANK God I am married (told hubby about it). So help yourself and let it go. Forgive yourself and move on. God will bless you with your own hubby.
Nne some 'stupid girls' will also fuck your husband. Congrats
DeleteThe poster is weak from her write up,she no fit shout,she knew allmwasnt well but because she's tired she continued
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm....poster..my goid Lord will strengthen you...say a louder amen
ReplyDeleteAnyways, , the poster is so weak cuz the logic used by the guy is iranu cuz such idea cant move me sef..but suncerelly, nobody wey no fit fall mugu ooo..its just by his grace if u think you are wise, when God wan catch u, d thing go just b like d way dem dey catch đ for poultry..
Hmmmmm
Men, , , okunrin simply means.....okun___tonrin
Meaning, , rope wey dey waka...imagine me dating someone for 2weeks n i never know ur house, i trust myself, , , ma wadi e
Ⓜc pinky đź
Poster you acted stupid, you deserve to still be slapped.
ReplyDeleteThe fact that you are even sending chronicle about this means you need more than one slap..,better get a life stupid.
The most important thing is that you have realize your mistakes, their strategies and mode of operations that would enable you not to fall victim again.
ReplyDeleteJust be wise , try to analyze things when confused and ask for people's opinions to avoid such things in the nearest future. In all, forgive and love yourself and put the past behind you.
Angel in human form will locate you soon.
I wonder how you guys do it. Having sex with with someone you met online the very day you guys met. Una get liver oooo
ReplyDeleteBank
Thank God you have realized yourself, just move on and never look back. He may try to come back with lots of confusing excuses, just leave him with His wahala.
ReplyDeleteVery soon you will smile again
I SWEAR! The kind of liver some men display will mock the devil himself! not to mention the cheap women that quickly open their legs to total strangers...
ReplyDeleteNah, this isnt Sex doll thingzz. Its Traffic shenanigansđ©
ReplyDeleteYou were comfortable being the other woman all along, hoping he would choose you, somehow, eventually. Pele
ReplyDelete2years! 24months! you don't know where he stays? Poster you tried o.
ReplyDeletejust be careful next time and learn from this mistake
That's a whole married man my dear. A side chick will still meet his friends at least.
ReplyDeleteThis guys are good at what they do.. but u were lucky, u were only blinded by emotions.. he was so eat enough not to use the word LOVE.. u could have sense from that. .
ReplyDeleteI met a very smart one recently online.. I've never seen a man promising and making so much vow to me, I was so confident I hit the jackpot atleast.. it's been 2weeks since we spoke at length, guy has successfully sidelined me, I've cried and begged but now I'm tired, I made up my mind already never to chat him up again.. this is someone who claimed to be Christian brother ooo.. guess when it comes to matters of the heart some of us ladies tend to be gullible, I don't blame u at all.. please be strong, I'm sure the one for you will come thru soon.. e-hugs
*Honest enough
ReplyDelete*At last
Pele.. Now you've learned your lesson. My advice to young ladies reading this blog. One surefire way to weed out deceivers and con men is to have the fear of the Lord especially with regard to sexual matters. Sex is the major supply these demons are after so when you withhold that, they will leave you alone. Fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.
ReplyDeleteYou're right dear. And it is very possible to flee fornication. Young ones, ask God for wisdom to make decisions. Ask daily. The decisions you make as an adult will make or mar you. I know we live in a sex charged society, but waiting is possible. Ask God for the gift of patience. While waiting, God works on you and molds you into the woman he wants you to be. When you finally meet that special someone, don't spend nights together. Start the relationship with God as foundation. God is still in the business of match making his children. And how will you know he is the special someone? His fruits. You know by the fruits they bear. And you know because of the wisdom and grace you receive as you continue to pray for leading. You know because all the time you were single brought you closer to Jesus, that you are able to recognize him in someone. I mean with all these cheating Nigerian men who disrespect their wives so openly, do you still wanna marry the world's way... meet someone..sex...more sex... marriage? Naah. Lets do it Gods way. Waiting..legs closed...meet someone..legs still closed..marriage. May Gid help us.
DeleteAll this is love wahala.trusting the wrong person.just learn your lesson and move on.
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