ABOUT TO WED ROOMIES BOYFRIEND...
Dear Stella,
I have three room mates in school. Everything seemed normal until my
bunk mate told us about her janded bobo who just returned from his
masters study in the Abroad.
Dude was frosh like actor Ramsey Noah and gather wallet like actor Tom
cruise..lols..
My twin brother always made jokes about my friends being
prettier than i (he says i embarrass him cos i look like an S.U
without make up or extensions)...we were both in Unilag and he was the
very social one while i just preferred my space!.
prettier than i (he says i embarrass him cos i look like an S.U
without make up or extensions)...we were both in Unilag and he was the
very social one while i just preferred my space!.
It was roomies birthday, Ramsey took her out for a treat and asked to take her
friends out that night clubbing.
Stella, i was not invited since i was not 'posh or slay' enough to be
on her snap chat but i was slay enough to help her with tutorials and
assignments!
friends out that night clubbing.
Stella, i was not invited since i was not 'posh or slay' enough to be
on her snap chat but i was slay enough to help her with tutorials and
assignments!
I was by myself in the room as they went out uploading videos and
pictures. I went home the following day just to get my mind off how
bad i felt.My twin brother came home on Sunday to join us in church
for service. I was with my parents when our deaconess who was very
fond of me introduced her son to my parents and I.
I recognised him from the birthday pictures my roomie uploaded, he was the Ramsey.While my parents were busy with their after church meetings, my twin
and Ramsey took me to coldstone. We sat there gisting and choking on
laughter!...
and Ramsey took me to coldstone. We sat there gisting and choking on
laughter!...
I told my twin when we got home about my roomie and Ramsey...he was
furious and said shit happens..after all she never introduced me to
him!I went back to school and kept a normal friendship with Ramsey. We
would usually see in church or hang out on Saturdays ..My mum asked me
last week if we both were looking at settling? She said deaconess told
her how Ramsey likes me and she was ready to accept me into the
family.
I am staring at the massive engagement ring Ramsey gave me yesterday...I
said 'yes' in tears and laughter!...I am unsure of whether to share the good news or keep it to myself...
What should i do?
*Hmmmm i dont know what to say but i know that wahala dey!!!..You are going to be labelled a snatcher and all sorts.
Please dont say anything first,just move out to a safe place and then think if you want it out..I really dont know,this is complicated!
This one na real see gobe
ReplyDeleteI would be very careful of you of I was the guy.
DeleteU met him on a different platform obviously but u already know he hung out with one of your friends all night.
You are also aware that one of your bonk mate thinks she is in a relationship with him and you bottled it all.
Congratulations on your engagement. May God give your friends understanding when u finally talk to them about this but to me, it seems you really don't care cos u are already smitten the first day.
What will be will definitely be Sha!!!
#hadeyhalaba
This story is not complete. I feel something is missing.
DeleteThis story is funny and it teaches a good lesson. The lesson is that, some girls/women are only good (for men) to party with, when its time for marriage, the men look elsewhere for the the ones that they feel can keep a home..
DeleteYou probably just read the headline and commented.
DeleteQueen of Slaying, but not Queen for marriage...
DeleteYou did not tell us if he continued seeing your roomy while also seeing you?
DeleteBiko let me perch here i don't want to scroll down. Poster u are not a good friend let's forget d fact dat she didn't invite u to her get together party.
DeleteSo long u are aware dat Mr Ramsey has something going on with ur friend/roomie you shouldn't have accepted dat proposal.
In ur chronicle, you didn't mention where u confronted Mr Ramsey about dating ur friend/roomie but u were quick enough to jump at his proposal. Poster imagine if it was u
Pls let's learn to be our sister's keeper.
In fals’s voice “is that what really occurred or you garnish the story a little bit?” Lol!
DeleteExactly @ dreadmitts ice. Women are their own worst enemies. I always wonder if people who do things like this have a conscience. She knew about his relationship with her roommate. Even if he didn't say anything about it to her, the right thing she should have done is to let him know that she knows and demand some explanation.
DeleteKai, I get you both met on a different platform but it’s not nice you never told her about it all, nawa o, you are not to be trusted but the person you should even be more concerned about is that your Ramsey o, he wants a sister for a wife but prefers partying at night with slay queens, that one go cheat taya. He may be marrying you for the prayerful wife status, someone that will not bother to follow him out at night, someone to pray the calamities away while he parties away. Aunty look before you leap, I may not be right but aunty check it
DeleteReal gobe indeed. Did he continue seeing your room mate? There are obviously some lines you missed out. Congratulations all the same
DeleteChoiii. I came late to the party. Baby girl you are an ole (thief), gbokogboko. How babes do this trash is beyond me. I had a similar situation when I was in the university, met this guy who liked me and the feeling was mutual.i went to visit one of my friends off campus, and in the course of her gist realized that she was dating this same guy, and was obviously tripping badly for this guy. I confronted the guy after I left my friend's place and he said he doesn't really like her but babe is seriously latching on to him... yimu. But you can come sleep in her house for days and probably fuck abi? Story for gods. I disengaged from him sharply and warned him to stop disturbing me.
DeleteYou are a betrayer. You are not a slay queen like you said so why are you pained that you weren't invited to a club? Your have not mentioned anything about your roommate being a bad person. You let you envy win. You didn't mention having a talk about that relationship with your guy, I'm sure you were sneaking out with him. Wehdone ma. Watch out for your karma.
I'm late.... i'd have said a whole lot, but poster if youre reading this, "The foundation of your union is shaky".... what'd u know about Ramsey? His lifestyle wouldnt tally with yours.... ring de make u happy!!
DeletePoster you are a pretender
DeleteDainty T...
DeleteYou hit the nail on the head. The poster is and has probably being jealous of her room mate. And her low self esteem makes her issues more complex. If you look at the way she described herself and the relationship with her room mates, you’d see a level of spite and envy. You can see how she gloated about the engagement ring. Oh what a Cinderella!
Poster you are a self serving, self limiting, greedy and jealous bitch. Church won’t save you and the bible won’t mask your true self. Wait for karma, it will surely deal with you.
Get ready to be called names ,i mean kee aju na ume.
ReplyDeletePls update us ni,this Chronicle is not complete.
Na action film be this... This one go pass The Avengers and Terminator 2 combined.
DeleteThis chronicle isn't complete joor.
Deleteeven if the "Ramsey Noah" didn't tell you about his past relationships, u already know a bit ....... He was/is in an intimate relationship with your roommate. They we're gbenshing.
U also didn't ask him about his involvement with roommate cos u are desperate and naive.
Oya, come back and jist us when he finds out u knew his immediate past body count. I just hope there is enough understanding between you both when that happens.
Anony 15:28 abegi poster isn't naive she's just desperate bcos the guy is 'frosh' and from the abroad
DeleteAnon 15:28, the poster is wicked, not naive. Not naive at all.
DeleteLol @ kee aju n'ume.
DeleteTell no one.keep it to yourself.Tell your new Bobo about your roommates.He would have to distance himself from her.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations.God works in mysterious ways.
Suddenly the old girl has become a plague that must be avoided at all cost.
DeleteFriend stabbing friend in the back since way back.
If you had told her, would the guy not still be yours ? I won't call you a bad name, but u know you've done something bad.
Tell no one.keep it to yourself.Tell your new Bobo about your roommates.He would have to distance himself from her.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations.God works in mysterious ways.
He would have to distance himself from her as a wayward girl that she is abi?
DeleteWhat is a relationship without total trust? He was dating your roommate. Don't tell me you trust him completely if he hasnt told u anything about that.
Something is about to go down.
DeleteAsk your ramsey about his past relationship and tell him about your roomie so that when there is any ish, your ramsey will be behind you,if not,let it not be like you planned your snatching from the onset and he happens to be your target.
Something is about to go down.
DeleteAsk your ramsey about his past relationship and tell him about your roomie so that when there is any ish, your ramsey will be behind you,if not,let it not be like you planned your snatching from the onset and he happens to be your target.
Eleyi gidi gan..
ReplyDeleteNne Biko face front and flaunt your engagement ring but move out before you reveal your man....
This is a big lesson to the "posh Mama's"...
There is no lesson for the posh mamas dear
DeleteThe man is a cheat! The room mate dodged a bullet.
RSQ MAY God bless your hustle. Straight cheat o! Babe prepare for drama after marriage cos it shall come . Dat guy ain't loyal. And until he connects both u and ur roomie he will still be seeing her.
DeleteOn point RSQ.
DeleteRSQ thank you.... Lesson for the slay mamas kor
Delete@RSQ you right. So that Ramsey is gonna keep the slay queen as side chic because that’s his ideal woman. He’s marrying SU prolly due to pressure from home precisely momsie....... I might be wrong tho 🙂
DeleteExactly @ the white enchantress. The mummy just matchmaked him with a good daughter of a fellow church member. The guy is a mama's boy. He has to obey his mummy. Really is not the girl's fault. I dont blame her at all. The guy is still single until he is married. He never engaged the roomie and never did he marry the roomie. He is free to mingle with who he likes. My dear you can tell your roommate at your convenience. Congrats
DeleteI don't think you've done anything wrong here.. The guy was introduced to you by his parents.. So? Just move out already and before you do that, talk to you now fiance on what is going on and how he intends to handle it.. Is he still seeing her? You need to know that you are protected before you go all out.. All the best
ReplyDelete@Ayaoba those are the questions she was suppose to ask before accepting the darn ring
DeleteI don’t understand, you knew he was dating your roommate but accepted to date him and collected ring then you’re here to ask us questions? Did all of these things take place in one day? Did you bother to ask him about your roommate and if he has ended things with her?
ReplyDeleteI hope for your sake that he isn’t marrying you because of your godliness because men like him would marry Mary Amaka to be firing prayers day and night while they go out jollificating with direct opposite of their wife. He is probability marrying you to please his deaconness mother, Aunty you better calm down and think but of course flaunt your massive ring o because you already know you want to marry fine bobo American wonder.
I totally agree with all you wrote here. Writer,let's take it that your story is not complete. I want you to think about these questions;
Delete1. Did you accept him out of greed or to pay your friend back for not inviting you to the club?
2. Did you agree to his friendship because you think he is doing you a favour by choosing an SU as you put it?
3. Did you accept his ring because he is Ramsey+Tom Cruise put together?
4. Is this love, infatuation or a prize won?
5. He knows your school, I guess. Has he ever mentioned your room mate as a former crush or girl?
6. What is your room mate saying about him? Girls will always talk in their rooms, are they still on or it is over between them?
7. Are you the arranged wife by the parents to seal a relationship?
8. Are you free to be yourself or you are being extra careful to be a good girl so as to be the Christian girl?
My dear, you have the answers. Choose right!
Love your comment doppelganger. Poster please and please make just he is marrying you for the right reasons, if he has not said anything about your roomie then this is one chance.
DeleteMake sure not make just
DeleteYour comment is on point. Some girls think they're good simply because they are SU members. My dear poster, you are evil, wicked,vindictive, jealous of your "slay" friend and most importantly desperate. I feel sorry for You. Your self worth is so low you're willing to marry a man, knowing fully well he's sleeping with your friend. Shame on you. Don't complain when he continues sleeping with every woman in sight after marriage. ODE
DeleteDoppelganger, your brain is working 100%. I can't believe how many people are getting fooled by this incomplete story from this snake of a girl. She makes it sound like an achievement that she is engaged to the guy. The guy might still end up shagging the other girl on the side anyways.
DeleteYou don't get engaged in one day. She has been dating him for a while like a little slimy snake
Exactly what I wrote up there dipole, such men will even do anal outside but will want o holy wife to be praying for them, aunty check who you are about to get married to
DeleteI just pray they will not be fucking each other even after your wedding
DeleteEven the Bible says the heart of man is desperately wicked.
DeleteAunty poster you're happy you're engaged abi? Shioor.
May God deliver us from back stabbing, hypocritical, supposed Christian friends like you.
I agree with doppelganger Ojare.
She even carry the engagement for head like prize. Mtcheew.
DeleteOrekore.
Poster is very Wicked. She probably said bad things about her friend to this guy. Pretentious Christians like this poster are worse. Feeling all that cos u are an SU member..like who cares? It your freaking choice...mtcheew...The other girl dodged two bullets...Poster and Ramsey.
DeleteMen will of course settle for a reserved girl than yoyo!
ReplyDeleteIyamma.......some likes fire for fire oooo
DeleteIf you are sincere your roomie has never introduced him to you before. There is nothing to worry about. Just inform them that you have been engaged. Leave it at that. Do not invite your guy to the hostel.
ReplyDeleteAs a guy...
ReplyDelete❌ I cannot date any lady that any of my friends has dated.
❌ I cannot date any lady any of my relatives has dated.
❌ I cannot date any lady that I know her former boyfriend or any of her Ex's and I never want to know them(even their pictures).
But ladies and most guys are wired differently.
....but you can smash them regardless abi?
DeletePoster, you better start following him to that club o.
DeleteCongratulations . But why did you not mention it to Ramsey that you are roomies with his girlfriend. You did not say anything in that regards.
ReplyDeleteBc sugarcassie
Congratulations in advance my dear. You met him on a neutral ground so go ahead if you both are in love and not getting married because of your parents relationship.
ReplyDeleteThat congrats na because he dey abroad?
DeleteNaija babes.
Who's talking about abroad here? Do you see where she stated that the guy still lives there? They met on a neutral ground and if they both love each other, let her go ahead. Period.
DeleteMadame Estateowner even if dey met on a neutral ground it is wrong of her to accept a ring from a guy she knows the girlfriend without even asking if they are still together. Smh
DeleteGbege....
ReplyDeleteGbege oooo
Haaaa...
Can't blame u sha...
Na ur luck.
Bb dis one nor be luck oo e fit choke her latter
DeleteCongratulations dear and don't even bother showing your roommates his pics. Just thank your God that you didnt go to d party with them if not they would have called you bf snatcher. Nne gollibe o😙
ReplyDeleteWhether she went to the party or not. So long she knows the guy was dating her friend/roomie,she's a snatcher
DeleteRight. Go ahead and marry your man, okay. You did not snatch nobody. Slay queen, my ass: having you do almost all her homework/assignments and heavy lifting. Meanwhile, when its time for party and enjoyment, she never invites you. Were you born to be a work horse for an empty nitwit devoid of character? Better, use your number six and marry that guy oh. Pay no mind to most of this blog responders, if you know what's good for you. WINGS
DeleteAha, all the girls wey think say na for night club and parties you must meet husband, una see am?
ReplyDeleteAll those make ups and extensions and fake lashes and night crawling/riotous living will only get you laid and labelled
a loose hoe; that's the way it is.
When the guys wan marry, they will avoid all such.
Hmmmmmm
DeleteBut all those guys getting married to slay queens, where do they come from? From the animal kingdom? Abeg! Abeg!! Abeg!!!
Some guys prefer the slay queens while some prefer the 'No make up/extensions' kinda girl.
Na so life be.
Most guys love what they hate o
DeleteAnd this particular one seems to prefer slay queens but went fir “mummy deaconess’s” option just to appease his mum’s church mind. He’s the type that marries the quiet girl and leaves her at home with the kids while he has fun and travels the world with his actual type - the slay queen. A lot of Nigerian wives are in the very boat right now and this poster is about to join the body count. Most of these women are abandoned, lonely, sexually frustrated and overwhelmed. He was straightup cheating onwiyh her and she was gleefully keeping a secret relationship thinking she was winning. Hope your roommate or even roommates will not end up being the ones enjoying you hubby in future whil you are the one just maintaining the home. The guy is not yet married and he’s already displaying aristo tendencies. Well, congratulations poster! And best of luck..... You’re going to need it
DeleteAnons 17:40 you said as it is
DeleteIs Ramsey dating your roomie? Ramsey should distance himself from your roomie and don't say anything just keep it to yourself.
ReplyDeleteAnd the guy last last went for the church girl. Your friend used too much hang out to tell him she's not ready to settle. Chai.
ReplyDeleteMy dear she wasn't your true friend to start with. A friend who's ashamed of you and cuts you out is that one a friend. Abeg cut them out and start you new life. Tell them via social media and keep your distance. Na the guy rush you not you that rushed him. Except there's something you didn't type.
I don't like boyfriend snatchers but this one is not snatching this one is *thinking*
"still looking for the right word to use I dey come"
This chronicle is incomplete
Delete.... and how was the roommate ashamed of her? Even among your own friends, i'm sure there are some places you would not even bother to invite some of your friends to because you already know they are not the type that go to such places. The guy himself should not be trusted because he hasn't said anything about his relationship with the roommate. She knows about his relationship with the roommate but hasn't asked him about it too. Both she and the guy are terrible people. They deserve each other. This is snatching big time!
DeleteGod awon naijas have no conscience sha. So you knew he was dating ypur roommate and dat meant absolutely nothing to you. You are busy using church to cover people eyes. Why i dont trust anyone who goes to church. See how people are here even giving you dead advise. You definitely are a snatcher. So u know. U r keeping quiet so at no point did the conversation of your roommate come out for you to asj him any questions shei... Jesus. Naija people make una take style fear God now at least have a conscience. Jesus christ.
ReplyDeleteAs in ehn! I am shocked at these comments!
DeleteIf a man does this now, they would chew him raw.
Thank you. The only sensible comment. She knew he was in a relationship and never asked about it. It's normal for people not to invite you for a party if you act like you don't live that life.
DeleteThis church babes ehn. Fear them.
As in ehn people are just saying you met on a neutral ground. neutral ground kill you there. if na your sister them do am to you go like am? you knew he was having something to do with your room mate , you saw him on her snap and as a hustler that you are ( using useless SU to cover face) you opened your mouth and swallowed him like a snake. why couldn't you come out straight and ask questions and if he still wants you then you know your conscience is clear. abeg make una dey fear God o. i raise ynash for you Odiegwu.
DeleteAll I can see in your comment is Naija people!
DeleteAmerican person, we have seen you. Abeg, go front!!!
Na wa ooo some Nigerians !! ha! The heart of man sha. The comments here are shocking to say the least. The post just exposed yalls way of thinking to say i'm not surprised i'll be lying. Goes to show that some Nigerian girls will happily be side chicks to married men without fear
Deletei swear down Anonymous 18:36 all bunch of liars how can what she did be morally right. if you never knew the guy was your roomies bobo thats a different scenario, but girl you knew CHAI. the matter sef dey pain me pass who get issue, no wonder men will continue to act this way because we ladies who are supposed to shun this kind of character we encourage them. e.g you know he is married and still go ahead and date him .
DeleteJust make sure your keep staying in your space. And be sure, rest assured that your "Ramsay" is of like mind with you. Is he in Christ like you or are you not?
ReplyDeleteIt beats me how girls who want to meet a good husband go to night clubs and bars. And they expect such to become a "pastor" after marriage?
If you met him clubbing, he is a clubber and will keep clubbing even after marriage; when you will be nursing a baby and are unable to go out, he will go out with other ladies and do the do.
If you met him drinking alcohol like fish drinks water and smoking, he will be drinking and smoking after marriage.
So she who snatches someones boyfriend and she who goes clubbing abeg hanty please tell me o which of them is in a better moral position.. So bicos she say she be SU that makes her a better person. Sk to be christlike eith no morals is what is being embraced and propaganded here shebi. It boils down to the fact thst shes wrong for daying and accepting a proposal from a guy she knows has a girlfriend especially someone she sleeps in the same room with and not say anything. She can kill, infact e be like say 80%of stella bloggers fit kill sef bicos from the dead advise una dey give, most of the people on here are amoral. Haba. So bicos the roommate goes clibbing automatically she should be disqualified as a goid person or a marriage material and this madam SU wen see another person man come snatch am dey ok. Abeg mske una grow conscience biko. If she knew she was right she would have told her roommate or better still confront him but obviously shes an amoral Christian and she is being applauded.
DeleteYou are yarning dust!! Fellow husband snatcher. What was the man doing in a club? So it's okay for a Christian girl to marry a man who clubs abi?? See your mouth like 'is he in Christ like you'. Is that even a Christ like behaviour?
DeleteOh anonymous, I just reread your sarcasm. Pardon me.
DeleteThis story just pissed me off. Babe sounding so self righteous.
i pity you because i dont think Mr Ramsey has morals - he is double dating....be prepared to deal with side chicks, possible babymamas or more wives should you marry this dude.
ReplyDeleteHis mum on the other hand will feel she and her son has done you a "great" favour by marrying you after all, there were "pretty and classy" girls her son could have picked as the abroadian that he is.
I will advise you face your front because you never reach your last bus stop. The fact that he is proposing to you whilst still in an active relationship with your room - mate....without even telling you that there are other babes is dangerous..Do you know if he has another babe in the abroad? hmmm, i pity you sha
poster, you be reserved and pretentious boyfriend snatcher all in the name of marriage. you don't even mind that this Ramsey is not being truthful. Poster, Ramsey is seeing you an your friend yet you didn't question his integrity but you are happy he wants to marry you. You think you are holier than your friend. you are wicked and a fake friend. People should fear you. I'm sure Ramsey is with you because of his mum and because you are a church girl.
ReplyDeleteShe even called d proposal 'goodnews'like seriously goodness on what will cause any girl tears smh
DeleteThank you o anon 15.19.abeg tell the holierbthan though backstabber. U r busy condemning her for going clubbing and you are churchgoing yet morally her club going arse is 100% better thsn u in terms of morals. Naija ppl ehn. A bunch of hypocrites and the most amazing thing is the support she seems to be getting on here and the club goer being slayed meanwhile u r a million times worse as ur morals are dead.
Delete🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 she read and has been reading about Eka Joy’s goodnews, she decided to cash in on it bur e don back 🔥. ....... #smbrouhaha
DeleteDidn't you poster ask him about his relationship with your friend, did he break up with her? What is the situation of things between them as of now. Move out of that room, don't tell anyone about the engagement before you are bathe with acid
ReplyDeleteWhether she tells anyone or not, the engagement must surely find its way out.
DeletePoster return dat ring and tell Mr Ramsey to go sought himself out with ur friend/roomie
To be honest, you're not a good person. You recognised him but never told him that you know him or talked about your roomie with him? Na wa o
ReplyDeleteYou don already collect ring so enjoy your new found love.
Darling, thank you and people are here talking about this is a lesson of good girl vs bad girl. 😂😂😂😂
DeleteHer cane is chilling inside water, she wants to marry mummy’s boy.
But the friend too isn't a good person na. Personally, I doubt they are friends sef with such behaviour
DeleteBTW, so this lady is okay being engaged to this guy that is dating another or has he broken it off with the roomie?
Thank you o.she knowingly dated someone in a relationship.
DeleteThey were never friends cause when the guy asked for her friends she wasn't among... But why not ask him about his relationships?
DeleteShe didn't invite her bcos according to her chronicle, she isn't the clubbing type
DeleteShut up miss Sharon. U level of conviction that they are not friends is shocking.
DeleteHow are they not friends? She admitted that she does their assignment when they go out clubbing.
If she isn't a friend, then she must see herself as their slave.
Maybe that explains why she backstabbed them
I pity you! They met some of us in church was intrigued with our sweet voices during prayers at our bed side, they call us when they have problems at work, we are ready gisting partners, but that's all to it. We can never be attractive like the ones they party with, we are just meant to stay and keep their homes because their mums approve of us. It's our club when you are married I can sign you in because just in a few year, you will soon be lonely.... get ready for a life of misery. From the praying boyfriend snatchers club
ReplyDeleteLMAO 😀😁😀,poster please come and read this oh.
DeleteHahahahaha. PBSC, Praying boyfriend snatchers club.
DeleteWell...there's A LOT to this.
ReplyDeleteFirst thoughts; I think you should have asked him about your room mate when the hanging out became consistent. Just for the sake of the "rapport" you both have, you owed her that much.
Well, I don't know...
Hmmmmm guess the mother likes you and that made him like you but have you found out if he is still with your friend? Have you studied him enough to want to spend the rest of your life with him?He might be marrying you for your perceive goodness and still go out shagging your friends and other slay queens. Be smart and marry him when you've studied him very well or else another husband cheating chronicle awaits us in the future.
ReplyDeleteSo much double standard on this blog! because the poster painted herself as a good girl everyone is telling her she did good. Poster, you be snake a very green snake. you are wicked! all in the name of being a wife you are dating your Friend's boyfriend. I know you were never introduced to this guy by your friend but common now! you have seen his pictures. Poster, you claim to be a Christian but you are shameless and vile! Because of marriage. This guy is a cheat and a liar but you aren't bothered! ah! Holy girl! karma will visit you
ReplyDeleteThe poster is evil. The worst kind of evil.
DeleteBackstabber.
Thank you Anon. Poster knows the dude is dating her roomie but she decided to pay her roomie back by collecting ring and forming church girl. Poster in your mind after all Ramsey dude choose you over slay queen. I'm sure the dude is confused, I'm sure they must have seen vision that the other girl is a witch or her star doesn't match with the guy's own and those demonic rubbish vision y'all see when you aren't GOD.
DeleteWell Poster, take this to the bank, Your Ramsey will cheat on YOU cos you are NOT want he wants. I'm not cursing you but enjoy the ride while it last because it will be short. You sef go tire. You deliberately took what doesn't not belong to you. God isn't a wicked God, I pray the other girl ask for mercy from God and ask Him for His will in her life.
This poster doesn't portray the qualities of a christian rara. She is very pretentious
DeleteThis is quite dicey...did you ask/tell him about your friend?
ReplyDeleteWhere you involved in any conversation about him with your friend?(so she doesnt say you have been taking info to use on him)
But I can't wrap my head around you dating your friend's boyfriend.
You accepted the ring without clearing the air,that's so wrong...
Like mami said,you have to move out first before telling your friend..also be certain that this uncle will not use your heart to do shakushaku
Girl you are a boyfriend snatcher period!
ReplyDeleteYou knew your roomy was dating him, but you still went ahead to spread legs and collect ring
Your type is dangerous.
Anyway, go ahead and marry him but know that your roomy would keep fucking him after marriage and you can do nothing about it.
Shebi he was with her before you? Infact your roomy would make sure you know she is fucking your husband just to spite you
he would go and cry and beg her and tell her that his mom forced you and him and there was nothing he could do. They would continue from where they stopped.
You are just an envious person
So because they didnt take you clubbing, you are feel justified
Hoe do they want to invite you to the club if you are not the clubbing type.
I pity you.
Nonsense and Buhari.
Your mom is even sounding as if the mighty deaconsess is doing your family a favour
O! I forgot. Of course it a favour! Abroad husband
Opportunist!
*Deaconess. Vex no even let me type well.
DeleteNo be say the man dey even live abroad o. Na just masters him go do and you are tripping like this. Kai!
Deletegbam!!! your desperation is on another level!
DeleteHahahahaha. RSQ don vex,but seriously poster is a snatcher.
DeleteRSQ.... My WCW.... Well said. She is claiming holier than thou. We are ALL SINNERS before God. You, Poster plus the other girl. See how you painted her bad. If she is as bad as you wrote here, you guys wont be room mates and she won't give you gist. Perhaps they have invited you but your judgmental and back stabbing self declined that it was against your religion. I wish the other lady will block the dude and move on. Nonsense and Buhari too...mmmmmmmtttssshhheeeww
DeleteRSQ this thing is doing you for body as it is doing me.
DeleteLook at d way she even started the chronicle dat her twin brother usually tell her her roomie is finer than her. So poster in ur mind now u are feeling fly dat even in ur 'uglyness'Mr Ramsey chose you.
DeleteI will like to vindictive to ur pretentious nature
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DeleteHmmmmm
ReplyDeleteThis story is incomplete.
ReplyDeleteIs Ramsey still seeing your roommate?
Like how could you even keep staying in the same room with your room mate while fucking her boyfriend?
ReplyDeleteDo you hide to take his calls? Do you smirk when he calls her?
Jeez! I just can't deal abeg.
Thanks for speaking my mind all through. She is a SLUT. For her roomie not to invite her to the club, she must have always given her room mates the holier than thou impression. And she sound so jealous of her roommate. She will so cry an ocean in that marriage. Please, marry the guy poster. You deserve each other.
DeleteI'm sure she smirks
DeleteNne congrats? Ramsey should be on the know and pls vacate that room. Anon 15:17 how is she a husband snatcher? Did she introduce him to her? She sew Ramsey's picture on IG.
ReplyDeleteAnon 15:15 Just say you are jealous.
ReplyDeleteCome poster don't give a damn hoot about your roomie, shit happens ,it's your destiny, tell your parents your current accommodation is not conducive & you need to move out asap. Move out without sharing your good news.Keep your news & relationship to yourself, after all you have always been on low-key, so when the news of your wedding shows people won't blame you so much. No matter what you say about this situation people still going to believe whatever they want to & say whatever they want. So I advice you do your thing without involving anybody.
Since the your parents arrangee has worked for you both just enjoy your life & move on with your Ramsey....😁
That her destiny is coming to hunt her in the near future like storm ali
DeleteIts best you know the situation of things with your room mate and your boyfriend.Watch him closely
ReplyDeleteHusband snatched, cunning green snake. That marriage will be filled with misery
ReplyDeleteSo what are you trying to sat, that it is bad to look good and dress pretty aka slay queen, so is it bad to club? In your mind you don catch husband with your Mary amaka lifestyle abi? He will leave you and go clubbing with side chick that suit his taste, he is marrying you bcos of his mother
ReplyDeleteHe will keep her at home n go n bang d slay queen naa, she will be his prayer warrior.
DeleteAre you minding d poster
DeleteDear poster I was you ten years ago, in my own case they weren’t my roommates but Neighbour’s in the hostel, when their is party they don’t invite me, I was very pretty but innocent;no make up, reading all the time, no partying , no clubbing, never had a boyfriend.
ReplyDeleteThen the rich dude one of them was dating so me in their room one afternoon and started paying me attention and advising me not to be like them. Long and short he proposed but I had to say no cos I met him in their room. I’m that type of over loyal person.
In your own case, she never introduced you to him, so move out of the room if that’s possible, keep your fiancé a secret and do not tell them, but just to be clear; hope the guy is no longer dating the girl? Cos if he is then that’s a red flag for you o.
Congrats on your engagement and please be careful and be ready to be dragged when it all comes out cos they will definitely drag you. Are you close to graduation? If you are then, delay the wedding and graduate so you’re completely out of that space okay
Exactly. She would have been termed a BF snatcher if she was introduced to the Ramsey guy by her roomie but that was not the case. The meeting was on a neutral landing and because she recognized him through the pictures uploaded by her roomie does not make her a snatcher.
DeleteDid the Ramsey guy promise the roomie marriage in the first place? There's no way she would not have informed Ramsey about her roomie by now.
Poster, if you love the guy and the guy is genuinely in love with you, marry him. You don't owe them any explanations
She is a SNATCHER
DeleteI feel like bitch slapping estate owner....How would u know if Ramsey "promised" her marriage? They were in a relationship, at some point they were going to get serious...like must one be promised marriage soon they going out with a guy? Some of you are so stupid, it hurts .This is the reason why loads of nigerian guys have no respect for women. Everything marriage.. everything marriage. Can't one enjoy a relationship? The poster is very very Wicked. First thing she would have said, when the guy asked her out, was..that is if she was the Christian that she claim she is was...AHH i know your girlfriend, we are very good friend, and put that guy in his place. I can't even do a friend's ex ..This girl has no conscience. That guy will cheat with her friend, and wouldn't even hide it. He will go like...u knew I was dating her before u....remember? This poster is very terrible, estate owner u are also very terrible
DeleteI don't understand why some persons are calling this poster a boyfriend snatcher .
ReplyDeleteNo1.The said babe is just a roommate & not a friend (roommate with benefits, the kind you use to write your assignment)
No2. Both parents did arrangee & the people involved where not aware until they met each other .
No3. This guy never had it in mind to marry the slay queen babe, she is just a fancy girlfriend he hung out with for fun time,(which most guys do & most of us babes have at one point or another been unfortunate to be in such a situationship).
No4. SU babe didn't snatch this Ramsey ,roomie never brought him to the hostel, It is assumed she doesn't know him. Babe you should ask Ramsey about his past & present relationship. No biggie, he already proposed, that one is now the side chick he will soon abandon .if there's all you need do, is keep your relationship low-key, don't share your good news with any of your roomie's,move out of that hostel room asap.
No5. Ramsey saw her & liked her, he's good with her, so all you saying he will abandon her in marriage, leave am,make that time reach first. Most men that cheat don't do so cos their wives are SU.they cheat bcoz they wanna cheat. So keep shot & allow this babe enjoy her life with her new found boo.
Hope if it was a guy that wrote this chronicle your comment will be same?and also if you were the one in this same shoes your answer will be same
DeleteFirst off, the poster is a snatcher bcos she is very much aware dat her friend/roomie is dating Mr Ramsey but still went ahead to accept his proposal without asking the necessary questions
DeleteSecondly Mr Ramsey definitely fancies slay queens dats why he dated SU's roomie in d first place
In conclusion if Mr Ramsey finally marries SU, Okafor's law will surely take place
Abeg marry him if you like him. I know your friend type. One if my friends will start sending us pics of a guy that comes on the scene. The idea being to "claim" him for herself .this is no primary school and you met the guy on your own through your family. So you should now drop up , for what? Is he going to marry her if you say no. In fact, if she's a good friend, she will say marry him and both of you start looking for a man for her
DeleteAwww, you such a sweet dear... Interestingly different story you've got here thankfully.
ReplyDeleteMust be exciting having the "good understated, underrated girl winning scenario". Must be earth-shattering feeling like you are getting your "expected end", and with a dashing loaded guy as the icing. Must be amusing seeing your worldly roomie chuckling about "your man", while you are the "babe who gets the ring and his future". Between us girl, I bet you feel like "karma Is about to be a sweet bitch" for your sake. You know like all that goodness, repressed personality is about to be compensated. Almost feels like the pentecostal rhetoric, who says there is no God? I can imagine you all sly and patronising while she huffs and puffs about your man, you can't wait to flaunt the ring and have their faces fall at the sweet revenge. You are a good girl, who has won! The underdog who has turned the phoenix, the social outcast with low self-esteem who is about to get her fairytale, the Jesus baby about to give them hot hot, the rejected stone turned corner stone... Okay, you see your "high" is so damn infectious.
Now babe, I know in your heart you are a good person who may not have allowed herself to 'live', may be due to some godly standard, upbringing or low finances but a good person anyway. It was all there in your story you see and the lifestyle you led made you feel really angry, envious of your friends and most of all kind of cheated. This is exactly why, you see this Ramsey and the promise that comes with him as your chance to get back, to live. That is why you are here asking all the wrong questions and hiding the true questions you should be asking alongside the fears within you.
Your level of fear is at the risk of you being termed a husband snatcher, or the friends striking back, ganging up on you and seducing him back. That fear is superficial and the least of the worry around your story.
The bigger fear here, is the zero compatibility you indicated throughout your story, your focus on superficial features like good looks and big pockets, your self-esteem pushing you to seize this, put the people who looked down on you socially in their place in a self righteous manner, the question of the quality of the character of this guy who may just love flashy airhead and easily pliable by the mother and... The overwhelming influence of the mother who can just fix a union for the son with a Christian low maintenance, familiar chick like you for whatever reason... No matter how good will eventually create frictions when time to assert yourself comes. Most fearful is the chance you are making cute loaded Ramsey the focus of a new fresh improved life, a life away the shadows and a point of condescension which might be so.
Sweetie, I'm not going to run you down. It's a sweet feeling you are experiencing fresh, different and a chance to be viewed in the manner you secretly wish to be seen... Nevertheless it is a feeling and not solid enough.
Standing ovation! I love your wry, cynical sense of humor
Deletethe poster feels that God is rewarding her for being a good girl and punishing roomy for being a slay queen.
This post has somehow turned to a church girls versus slay queens thing.
Empress for real? U spouted all this? Odiegwu
DeleteRSQ you have said my mind. It is a condescending post. As if slay queens' are not humans Poster find your man! She is feeling like she won a trophy.
DeleteWhere do i send ur kisses to Empress CHO
DeleteFrom her post. Think the poster has self-esteem issues and a feeling of unworthiness(timidity) if not so you won't be so upset u were not invited clubbing something you claim you have zero interest for. Sorry,you didnt expressly say that. So, You actually envy them and want their lives. I totally get that.
DeleteBut this hey, I can get your man isnt a good payback, it makes you a wicked hypocritical back stabbing individual which you avoid being.
Do the needful and talk to the guy if u haven't done so.
Ps. Na only you know what's holding you back from having makeup n extensions on at if you canotc be a full slay queen be a Mini one n stopping moping.
What kind of girl would even want to settle down with a 2faced dude
DeletePoster, you try o, you dey take style dey advertise Coldstone ba? Story sounds somehow fictitious if you ask me!
ReplyDeleteNow girlie, if there is one thing you have seen and known about Ramsey he likes them like your roomier... Whether it's a deep like or not. It's important you note this little thing about him because it's a choice he made independent of his mother and matchmaking moves, and without you being in the equation which makes it super-significant. Trust me that is a pointer to his taste You frankly don't not want to be the wife of a charming guy who you can't unlock his innate reserve or be attractive to. That level of wife material sucks and makes you a terrible loser even with the ring, title and luxury.
ReplyDeleteYou need to know that man. I know it's hard but, you need to shift focus and even near-idolatry about his physical attributes and charisma, and figure out this guy, his moral compass, his take on issues of marriage, women rights and gender roles, spirituality raising kids, finances and financial knowledge, sexual appetite and behavior Including boundaries, and his taste for the woman he wants. Even an imbecile has taste, so do not shy away from this even as you already suspect you may not be his type or first choice.
You however need to know if this cute guy is matured enough to see beauty in every woman or sees makeup, weaves and figure enhancing outfits as beauty... So you can guage if he is the type that want a typical Instagram babe regardless of who funded the lifestyle to the point he met them or the type that respects your godliness but will patiently brush you up outwardly in a manner you emerge from drab to class.
You need to know if he is intelligent, deep and likes what you secretly desire and I don't mean what you suggest. Simply because he is cute and loaded doesn't mean he can't be under qualified for you or you should have zero taste for your kind of man. Get him off the pedestal and really date him. Downplay the bling of your ring or the roar of the reactions of people and find yourself and a partner however you can.
You see how I didn't focus on your roomies, they Don't Matter at all...Except sex is involved and bothers you so. Shut your mouth, keep your plans to yourself, so even if you assess this guy and he isn't good enough, nothing spoil. YOU SNATCHED NO ONE AT THIS POINT . Focus on building yourself and self worth. You are the religious type so pray for peace and confirmation. Let this guy know at once the association you have with your roomie who he was fooling around with previously... I hope they have stopped relating since you came on board or else he has no respect for you, only likes you for the safety of a good wife you provide and should be dumped at once... That would be him cheating On YOU! I wonder why you tolerate that when something serious is up with you too. Work on your self-esteem, set your boundaries now with this guy, take good care of yourself physically and be mysterious about everything till your soup is done. Good luck!
EMPRESS, WHY HAVE YOU TYPED 2 DIFF EPISTLES FOR ONE CHRONICLE???
DeleteNa wah ooh!!!
He!he!!he!!! Na wa oh
ReplyDeleteWhy didn't you tell Ramsey you know he is dating your roomie? You sef like the Bobo cos of his looks and bucks. Anyways,go ahead oh who no like better things
Young lady, search your heart. Listen to the voice of your conscience. What you're doing is WRONG! Anybody congratulating you on this is not telling you the truth.
ReplyDeleteExactly. I'm still shocked that people are in support of what she did.
DeleteI am kind of lost... You seem to be happy to have landed your roomies catch despite being a good girl?So as a good girl you are okay with your future husband double dating? Your future husband should be scared of you oh.He thinks he can play smart,marry the good girl as wife and date the fun girl. Not knowing good girl knows all about fungirl and is just maintaining. I fear your type
ReplyDeleteStella Bia what is all this where my previous comment? to the poster like your headline reads about to wed roomies boyfriend , baby girl you are a snatcher busy forming SU. SU kee you there. you knew he was going out with that babe even if you were not introduced why didn't you ask .
ReplyDeletei have seen fine bobo with masters from Abroad all your hormones just dey misbehave, sister girl no one is asking you not to marry your *RAMSEY* but all i want you to know is that because he gave you the ring doesn't mean you are in any way better than your roomie and she will def find her own partner. stop deceiving yourself he chose you because you are a spiri koko SMH.
Stella this gist is not complete o. the poster didn't give us the full gist. over to you poster, you are the devil's incarnate. with friends like you, no one needs an enemy. you accepted his proposal knowing fully well that he is dating and strafing your Roomie. I'm sure you're just after his looks and money. why the rush? you couldn't even wait to study him first. I'm sure you accepted his proposal just to spite your roomie and let her know that you can still find a guy like Ramsey. don't worry he will marry you and still be going out with your roomie. then you'll have no one to cry to. the guy on the other hand is very wicked. he has a serious gf and he engaged you and you are happy thinking you've made it in life. you've already seen d handwriting on the wall but you are ignoring it cos you are so much in a hurry to answer MRS. don't worry, e go over you. you will write another chronicle soon. do you know how many girlfriends he has? forget the engangement o. he will just chop you and clean mouth then run back to the abroad. boyfriend snatcher. and you didn't even forget to tell us that you help your roomie out with assignment. proud fool. continue o. he will marry you and still be taking roomie out to any place of her choice
ReplyDeleteOn point!
DeleteSee SU using terms such as fresh as Ramsey Noah and wallet like Tom Cruise. So your roomie showed u the guy's pictures whilst talking about him to you...smfh..Must she introduce him to you, before u accept they are together? Who made that rule?You have always been envious of your friends. You wanted to have what they had. I can bet you dm'd her bf to say bad things about her. You are very very Wicked, and pretentious. Used to have a friend like u, had to cut her off. This poster can kill. See the way u painted your friend black, and u are the real bad person. You do this to her, and still have the guts to write all those bad things about her, and call yourself a Christian. Can't stop shaking my head. Oh so u feeling "tre bien"....like u won, right? Smfh...I'm here waiting for your next chronicle, and the next....Wicked pretentious "SU" woman.
ReplyDeleteMona
Wicked girl.... Just full of hate and low self esteem!
ReplyDeleteMany women are like this poster. They will be doing pepper them on Instagram, doing wedding shoot, actinglike they are the first to marry, praising their ‘Ramsey’ on every post. Meanwhile they are dying inside with their fuckboy husband. But they can’t tell anybody!
ReplyDeleteLolZzzz no be small fuck boy husband
DeleteEnvious witch! I hate people like the poster!!
ReplyDeleteGet ready to be poisoned... Snake
ReplyDeletePoster don't mind this people calling you names,so many of them did worst things,just keep your secret and don't tell any of that your roommate you didn't snatche anyone from anybody. Some girls think that because they have the looks they can keep a man. He is your husband cus you were not even looking for him and he came to you. so congratulations my dear and enjoy your good fortune.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations....But I feel Ramsey should be in the light (you should have told him everything and not hide the fact that you are roommate with the other ladies) even if the other ladies will be in the dark..
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