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DUMPED BY A SERIAL LIAR

Dear Stella,
Please keep me anonymous..

Sometimes when you see married ladies struggle with challenges which aren't
entirely their fault, look within and in most cases you would realise some
men are to blame for past misdeeds.

Dont get me wrong, some ladies also have hands in these tribulations they
eventually face as a result of actions they could have avoided completely
or opposed.

I was dating a young man who worked in an oil and gas company. He began to
get very serious and marriage was in view. We spent our weekends together
planning our future. He came from a religious background and soon joined
the workforce when his pastor 'adviced' him to work for god.

Sundays were scraped for hanging out as he had to wait back for workers
meeting with his pastor. Soon saturdays were days he also had to work with
his boss who was quite demanding. He would come on wednesdays after work
and we try to catch up on events and gists. Whenever he visited, he would
come expecting s#x.

I began to feel uneasy and went on my knees asking God to forgive and
direct me. I went on a 3 days fast so i could rebuild my personal
relationship with God. He showed up on the third day expecting romance and
s#x. I excused myself that i was waiting on God for a few things.


Suprisingly, he got all moody and kept trying to touch me. I refused and
stood my ground asking why he couldnt respect the God-factor in my
decision. He took his leave all puffed up though i tried calming him to see
reasons.

I didnt hear from him for a few weeks and i wasnt bothered as i was also
busy with my business.

It was his birthday so i sent him prayers, he called back thanking me and
asked that we hung out days later which went well but i still refused to
sleep with him. Everything seemed fine as he complained severally about his
demanding boss and applogised for not being in touch with me.

He got a few days off work and told me he was going for a burial in Ondo
state. I visited him the day before he was to travel and he was busy
sending some documents to his boss and made a few work calls. I got bored
watching Tv and slept off.

He startled me with a kiss, caress...i thought it was his usual tease until
i felt he wasn't wearing boxers. I tried sitting up whilst pushing him off
but he obviously had an intent. He strongly pinned me down as he tried
forcing himself inside me. I got aware and kept saying 'stop, i dont want
this'...In his shaky voice he muttered ' babe please i miss you'..

I struggled awhile and figured he was not going to stop. The moment i felt
him inside me, it felt like a lost cause so i just laid there and let him.

Afterwards we both went to the park to sort out his bus to Ondo. He said he
had never had to drive outside lagos himself.
The following day i called endlessly to know he got to Ondo safely but got
no response. I was shaking all over. I couldn't sleep, sit still, eat or
focus. I soon started praying and crying at thesame time. I sensed
something bad was about to happen so i kept praying and even dozed off on
the cold tiles in tears.

Few days later, he called saying it was a sad event and he couldn't respond
to calls as he wanted to.

I was so glad to have him back in Lagos safe. He promised to visit in a bit
and when he came, i was all too emotional that i just let him do everything
to me. It was the most passionate we had ever been.
He talked about getting another apartment on the island and i was
super-excited but gulity about the s#x.

One evening, i wasn't feeling too well. I came home and slept early. I
woke up suddenly at 10:50pm and decided to call him since i had not heard
from him all day. He picked saying his phone dropped in the water closet
while showing the plumber around.He put the sim in another phone and was
hoping i'd call as he had no numbers saved on his sim.


I was shocked because he didnt tell me he had gotten a place, paid for it
and was furnishing it already. I felt he probably wanted to suprise me!
While we were talking, i heard a female voice in the background. I heard
sounds of a door open and a lady speaking casually in the background.
I sat up in bed asking who it was and he said it was just a colleague who
wanted to see his new apartment.


My instinct told me something wasnt right, i asked what a lady was doing
there at almost 11pm??. He said 'baby please let me call you back, the
plumber is also around' and he ended the call.He didnt call back until 6pm the
following day (saturday). When its obvious his 'colleague' would have left
his place.


That action plunged me to set my investigators in motion and evidences came
back showing the day he claimed to travel for a burial was actually his
engagement to another lady in ondo state.

Infact, the lady had everything splattered on her social media accounts.
Every single day he cancelled our weekend plan, same date correlates with
dinners and outings with the other lady. It turns out, the lady saw him in
church, told her pastor she liked him and the 'brainless' pastor matched
them together claiming he was led by the spirit'!...


Hmm...i got all the details i needed and i realised why he always did
discourage me from social media saying 'its just a waste of time and
privacy invasion'...I was rather too swamped myself to check up on his
social media activities or create an account...


He wasted 2 good years of my life and only dated this lady for 4months
under the 'advice' of his pastor and married her.
To think after the engagement, he still called severally asking to visit me
which i declined.

He never put anything on his social media account until the church wedding.
And he only uploaded just one picture!

My friends adviced i set him up on one of his visits and afterwards have
boys beat the living daylight out of him.A colleague asked to help me go to
'benin' on his behalf. Its been almost 2years after and i have moved on...

His marriage is currently troubled and honestly who do we blame? Is it the
two-timing retard, his brainless fake pastor or the long- throat sister who
came after the oil and gas money?..He's now broke and back to square one.

*Well its not the Pastor or the Lady's fault,he didnt tell them he had someone,probably because he didnt feel he was dating you...

She didnt force him to Marry her...he must have seen something that made him agree to the Union.She may not have gone after him for money,he may have gone after her for what she had to Offer.

Your supposed lover was a fraud and you should be happy he dumped you...dont go blaming other people in your anger...its been two yeas you say?why are you still so upset if you have moved on?

I pray this post helps you find closure!