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Mugu!!!

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I WAS PLAYED LOCAL 

Stella good day. Pls if u see this, kindly post as a chronicle.

I don’t even know how to feel about this. (I’m so disappointed in my self)

Early this year I met a guy (let’s call him Tom) I was as single as a Pringle. We got talking and we clicked but I didn’t gbensh him (bkos what he wanted wasn’t defined, so I thought of keeping my ‘Kpekus’) He was always checking on me tho. One day, he called that we should hang out that he will be travelling out of naija to his base in two days time. After all the talking and holding hands, I was so h**ny but I didn’t let it show that night. I held my self and went home. 

I was waiting for him to say something meaningful, like wanting to date me or something, But he said nothing. The next day he called again to tell me he will be leaving for Lagos the next day. That was how I carried my mouth and told him I wanna see him if he’s not busy. He came to pick me and from my body language he knew what I wanted. That was how we gbenshed (konji na bastard)


Next day Oga called to tell me he’s in Lagos.. he was saying how he’s gonna miss me and I shouldn’t cheat on him. I didn’t know what to think of the situationship at that point. The first month, he was calling once in a while to check up but that wasn’t what I expected from him but I didn’t complain. I was still on d look out for my own, because I wanted someone in Nigeria that we can build something meaningful together. I didn’t know he stays out that long.



One day, a strange number called me and when we got talking I didn’t know d person but he was talking like he knows me and even knows where I stay. I told Him to send his pics on WhatsApp so I could check if I’ve seen him before. He said he doesn’t use watsap. We then resulted to instagram. He gave me his ID and I asked him to un-private his page. He did, but I checked and I noticed I’ve not seen him before. He kept calling and calling. The next week, he said he’ll come to my house to prove to me he knows me and that I gave him my number sometime ago.

 I dared him to come. Well, he came and he was so cute! Tall, dark and handsome. I seriously told him I can’t remember meeting him anywhere.


That day he left and from then he was calling me every morning and night before I sleep to check up on me. Some days we talk for hours until we will both sleep off. We went out a couple of times. He later told me he saw me at shop rite one day and sent his brother to get my number as he was shy to talk to me. I felt relieved that he actually said something meaningful about how he got my number.


Each time he travels, he will get me gifts and he was calling to always know if Im good and all. This time the other guy abroad doesn’t even call anymore so I thought of letting him be. That was how me and the second guy started dating and gbenshing uncontrollably.


Long story short, abroadian came to Nigeria and was asking me to come see him. I felt there’s no need since I have this other guy. He kept telling me he’s disappointed in me that that’s why he’s afraid of naija girls, they are cheats and always not sincere blablabla.... I was wondering where that was coming from. Guy man just told me he set me up with his friend to test me if I can be trusted. My jaw dropped. This is someone that didn’t tell me how he felt. He just told me he’ll miss me. Is that supposed to be what I should hold unto? He wasn’t calling and all.


Since Tom told me this, my sweet chocolate haven’t called me. I don’t even have the strength to call him to say rubbish. I let me guard down and was used. These two guys are the only ones I’ve slept with this year. I was really in love with d second one. I was doing his dishes, cooking for him, sweeping his house and all. It was so real! I don’t know if I should even get angry at any of them. In my bid to search for love, i was played local.

 I have bought padlock for my ponyor. That's the only advice I will give my self and any gullible girl reading. Learn from my experience and don’t make urs. Pls if there’s anyway I went astray pls kindly talk to me like a sister. Will U blame any of the guys or I’m to be blamed. I was just trying to hold one relationship as I don’t even have anyone who checks on me and all. People always see me like someone that will keep many guys bkos I’m kinda cute but they don’t know I’m struggling to hold one down.


I know I would have done dat without the s&x but ......... I’m just pained! I refuse to say men are scum as na me open my legs. If there was no s#x, I won’t feel used.

*Hmmmmmm,I hope the padlock will still be locked after the regretting phase passes?Both guys are a piece of shit so bad rubbish to them...A man that really wants you will not set you up but try to make you a better person......

I dont know why some men think they have to right to do it alone?All the time he was away he never slept with someone else yeah?

Let us kneel down and pray to baba God that you dont fall into this pattern again.

Please forget them and keep the padlock locked....