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Monday, September 10, 2018
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For what! I can't and won't. If he insists I tell him I don't have a secret.
ReplyDeleteThat is why a lot of women are still single.
DeleteGod bless you.👌
DeleteAnon 18:04
DeleteYou need brain surgery. So sharing secrets is now a criteria for marriage? Your mumu go tay before e do.
Lol... How can sharing of secret be a criteria for marriage? As for me
DeleteFirstly, Deep secrets that will affect him directly should be shared e.g A woman that did abortion in the past and has affected her womb should actually inform her husband to be
Secondly. .For e.gA woman with an outrageous body count does not need to inform him. Not all Men can bear such truth,not even a cheat it could even destroy the relationship
Please post!
@18:04
DeleteEphesians 5: 11Take no part in the worthless deeds of evil and darkness; instead, expose them. 12It is shameful even to talk about the things that ungodly people do in secret. 13But their evil intentions will be exposed when the light shines on them,
John 3:20 Everyone who does evil hates the light, and will not come into the light for fear that their deeds will be exposed.
It depends on whether you want "marriage" (as God described and prescribed it) or co-habitation (the kind that is done in darkness -that's exactly the secret keeping type)
Hell to the no!! Like hell NO!!!! Me ain't telling nothing...... It all went with the wind!!!!
Deletemy husband to be just asked if i have dated a married man. i have actually but i denied! i have confessed to God,i wont confess to man again. lielie. my past is over. women shut up biko
DeleteYou see the way vagina is hidden, clit is hidden inside it? That is how we women hide secrets
ReplyDeleteand it is bad, very bad. If someone is coming to marry you, tell him what he is getting into,
let him make up his mind. If he loves you and says it, he should be able to receive you as you are.
If not, let him go, life isn't complex like a lot make it.
What are you afraid of?
Please shift. Basket mouth
DeleteYou secrets dey black and numerous like Blackberries. Kikiki hahahahah huuuuu!
DeleteSure you go carry am go grave?
Even grave go tremble.
Which kain foolish talk So?
DeleteNa real basket mouth.
Ladies please do not listen to thus advise o.
DeleteBut the man will hide his own or who told you men don't have secrets??? Some of them raped when they were younger and they will never mention it, some of them belonged to cult groups and killed , some of them made their girlfriends abort, gave them pills or took them to quacks, some even have a child outside wedlock and won't mention it. I can go on and on.So yes men keep secrets too.
DeleteWisdom is profitable to direct
ReplyDeleteI told my husband even before we got married everything he needed to know and he did likewise. Some of them were "so dirty" but that is why there is salvation. Jesus saved us by Grace and we are good because of him.
ReplyDeleteDid u also tell him u have meetings on a mango tree at night?
DeleteMmmmhhhhh Blackberry
DeleteSo you be winch wey dey meet for mango trees at night?
You think say everyone dey come that meeting?
Hahahahaha will they tell batman they are witches or they visit baba to knack pigeon
DeleteYori Yori too be winch?
DeleteE bi like say them plenty here o. NO wonder.
So Yori and Blackey, where and when una dey meet for winchcraft runs?
DeleteFor your house. Come to my junction we are taking new intakes and I have given them your name and number. Yeye
DeleteUnless you're tired of the marriage. You now used your secret to send yourself home or as a daily ringing tone from him cos he will used it to get you whenever you people have misundersting.i no dey tell if I have one
ReplyDeleteAmawbia ugbo ogiriga
Very bad idea.
ReplyDeleteIt is a big No, before I met my husband I dated a guy far back in the uni, I never knew they were cousins,he ex came to the wedding and I thought he was just a friend, I wanted to tell my husband but I changed my mind, I broked up from ex because he was not serious and a serial cheat,he was cool with the breakup only for him to tell me on one Christmas day in the village were all family members came for thier granny birthday, he cornered me and whisper to me"Bose just one more time and I will close your chapter "I immidiately attacked him and started shouting that I don't get what he is talking about and people including hubby gathered and I told them what he said, he denied it and turned the table around that I was trying to seduce him,trust me nobody believed him and he didn't have proof because at the time we dated no gsm and nothing to proof, I never met his friends and the only family I met then..oghale and he is dead,I was glad all happened because it has always been my nightmares,hubby later called me when we got back to Lagos and confronted me again,that he understands it's past that his cousin is going to any length to proof we dated, I still stood my grounds.now am a bit worried to confess..what if he finally got proof? We never went to parties, no pictures, the relationship lasted only 6months .I might loss his trust ..he said it before that over his dead body will he ever date a girl his friend has dated before..and now he is married to a woman his cousin gbenched for 6months ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ™†mogbè
ReplyDelete😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteHe won't get any proof jare!
You "broked [sic.] up from ex?"
DeleteI give up!
If you BROKE up with your ex
Did you also break off from your school?
were all = WHERE all
Deletethier = THEIR
to proof = to PROVE
Loss his trust = LOSE his trust
etc.
Thanks.
Anonymous 19.14😂😂😂😂 what exactly is ur problem?
DeletePoster take it to ur grave never u utter a word. Except u want to end ur marriage yourself
madam the lie was not necessary. as you meet the guy and found out they were cousins, you for tell the guy sharply becos he will still find out.
DeleteI used to be very open in my relationship but someone i was dating told me not to say everything i'm asked because its not everyone that can handle the truth.
ReplyDelete-Some will unconciously withdraw from you
-some will say "no problem,its well" and judge you silently.
-Some others will always rub your past on your face at the slightest provocation..
-For some your prescence will always be a reminder of the past(Incase of cheating spouses) .
It takes a real man/woman to accept someone with a heavy secret.What guides me these days is this quote--->
"Don't judge others because they sin differently from you"."Do not listen to reply but listen to understand".
God help us...Amen
Exactly! Keep whatever happened to yourself. Even d person asking, if asked won't tell you his/her secret
DeleteYou are a strong lady.
DeleteA TRUE relationship is when you can tell each other anything and everything. No secrets, no lies.
ReplyDeleteLemme Rephrase: A real relationship has no secrets, no lies and built on solid foundation of unconditional love and trust. It's only when you both are truly sincere and open to each other that your relationship would have a rock solid foundation.
But you've gotta know the kinda person you are dating before sharing some secrets thou, else..
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Old things are passed away!😅
ReplyDeleteI won't advise such
ReplyDeleteSome are necessary while other secrets are best taken to the grave. I have seen some Men insult the wife or MIL, over spilled secrets. How many secrets do our husbands tell us? Mine told me right in the presence of his brother that someone hurt him in high school and he has never told anyone about it and will not do so till he dies. I just pinched myself.
ReplyDeletePlease give instance of the necessary secrets to be spilled to a partner. We can learn...
DeleteI will not do it and don't tell me ur ,will I marry ur past .plspls forward ever back ward never ever.
ReplyDeleteWhy do I tell you my secrets? If it's not God I am spilling to..nobody else.humans can't be trusted o...one minute you tell someone something about ur past d next minute you are being mocked /shamed abt ur past deeds. So d best thing is to zip ur mouth. Most men are fond of secret shaming their women. * I said what I said*
DeleteOld things have past abeg
ReplyDeleteMy own tell God Almighty because He will keep your secret and help you.
ReplyDeleteNo man is Jesus Christ
James 5:16 Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.
DeleteYou don read wetin almighty God talk?
It all depends on the teller and tellee, but mostly on tellee. How well does the teller know the tellee? If the teller tells the kind of story that tellee cannot handle,marriage is ended. My own is that a secret is a secret and so should be allowed to exist as such. If your mouth dey scratch you, brush your lips instead of the teeth.
ReplyDeleteNo b small teller and tellee. e no depend anything rara o! Ur secrets are best kept with God.
DeleteI don't think it's necessary because some people can't handle certain things they hear so it's best to keep quiet but it also depends on the people involved in the relationship.
ReplyDeleteMine told me from day one he doesn't care about my past, so I kukuma shut it...
I for no tell but las las, I gat nothing to tell
ReplyDeletewhich secret again...hian
ReplyDeleteI did and it is the greatest regret of my life. I married as an orphan and narrated in details how my parents died of sicknes to my hubby; his mum came visiting and alleged I starved her, my hubby insulted me and said "how will you know how to care for parents when you do not have one, who knows if its your badluck that caused the sickness that killed your parents". He has apologised since but I have not been able to let go, its been 15 months and I have not slept with him.
ReplyDeleteWaoh! Your husband is a very wicked man.. Haba, I hate him already
DeleteI really hope you can forgive him because that is really how to move on.
Deleteleave him to whatever he has that he thinks will not finish one day he will come to his senses.
what i see is that your relationship has issues and should be addressed.
your principal concern and revenge now should be how to become your husband's best friends so that those family members will not continue to win n your home: therefore rather than spend time being angry with your hubby, can you think of ways to improve your relationship? If I were you I will think from a xtain perspective and do the following things. You can take any strategy you want and make it work for you but bear in mind that your aim is to make your husband your best friend and not tehir own best friend:
i. Pray for wisdom in this situation
ii. Go for counselling, it can be formal or informal. Informal is find matured women who are successful in marriage to befriend and seek advice from them wisdom wisdom (note you need wisdom to seek counsel....there are some thing you cant tell some people no matter how matured they are and there are some things that the solution is actually in you and not outside) formal is see counselors like me4counselling.
iii. Find happy homes and become family friends with them. it might take time but make your husband and children their friends.
iv. encourage him for worthy causes: religion, good relationships, academic.
v. Make up your mind to become a better person your self. become very reserved and do things right as much as you can.
vi. PRAY your MIL out of your house. don't fight her just pray she becomes tired of staying with you and carry her bag by herself and anywhere she goes let her stay there.
God help you.
Tell him how wounded you re with what he said to you. May be , it would give you closure. Next time mind ht you disclose to him because he's a baby man.
DeleteGod comforts you dear
98% of the above comments are from ladies.. this means they have a lot to hide.
ReplyDeleteFor me as a married man, I told her all my secrets and adviced her to do same but as Lasgidi babe nah. She only told me little even after I told her if I find out anything outside, it will destroy our marriage she no gree talk.
Wahala started from our wedding day, when I found out she had fucked a friend of mine.the guy even get mind to wan sleep with her for my House self..
Till today, I don't trust her one bit
I also found out she was dating a married man. My issue be say I told her how I fucked a married woman, why can't she talk about her own????
Anyways me just dey wait make my new babe get belle so I can confess to her and she go vex pack commot..
Both of you should divorce. This is not a marriage
DeleteWhatever!!!
DeleteYou no serious and you wicked. If she for dey cheat on you na different thing. Wetin concern you concern her past. You wan come cheat on her. No worry that your babe go give you HIV. You go fuck your wife but she no go contact am.
DeletePls both of u should swerve
DeleteIt depends on the kind of man he is,Some will always use it against you anytime you quarell.
ReplyDeleteTell fire
ReplyDeleteSome men don't have the heart to carry their spouse secret and some will use it against their spouse
When you marry you enter a new chapter, old things have passed away.
ReplyDeleteEven you will need to forget the past and move on. No need for unnecessary revelation.
#Delete the messages, photos, numbers and move on. You don't have to forget them. You just have to accept that they aren't that person anymore*
ReplyDeleteWill say things that can be revealed later and that I know might cause problem if kept a secret
ReplyDeleteTell wetin....if i hear
ReplyDeleteⓂc pinky 👮
No way biko...
ReplyDeleteUna never jam a well groomed native person before ooh.They go natively to ask questions,Igbo's call it Eju ese".You will be so surprised how your hidden secrets will be unveiled.
ReplyDeleteI never told mine in the beginning,but he found out himself.I mean every every,mèhn..I was really dumbstrucked that day,couldn't even deńy.
This life get äs e be,so many forces at work.Fear catch me ooh!
I no kuku ma get secret to share or tell.
ReplyDeleteJust know the kind of person you're with. The person's Perception to life and understanding goes a long way to determine the kind of information you dish out. Is the person the type that can overlook, control and let go of your past and would not use it against you later?If the person is not emotional matured and cannot keep his/her mouth shut then mind what you disclose. Some people inability to study their partner's and know what to disclose to them have marred their relationships.
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