Married women cannot marry single men but married men can marry single women in a bundle if they want!
Why do Single women marry men who already have a wife (or wives)..Is it love that pushes you or the quest to secure your future?or frustration to be referred to as Mrs?
Did you Marry a man already married?Why did you do it?couldn't you find someone else?
I have a very close friend who married a Billionaire but she is the second wife and the way they act,you would never know he has another wife......
I know one thing for sure,that she would never allow him take another wife if he wants to...............i find that very tasking having to be on the outlook for someone desperately looking to hook him
If you are in a second,third,fourth,fifth,sixth,seventh,eight,ninth or tenth wife situation,tell us why you did it and how you are coping.....is it like the fuji house of commotion scenario? or you are the secret wife nobody knows about?
Lets gist.....
*grabs popcorn and zobo* pls for those sending in gist, make sure it's authentic. don't spice it too much... waiting
ReplyDeleteI married him traditionally because even tho she moved out of his house 4 years ago and filed a divorce suit 2years later cos she found love with another man. Unfortunately for her the relationship crumbled early last year. I met him mid 2017 and we grew close and he proposed and he introduced me to the kids who told her and she started pulling all manner of strings and stunts to frustrate him moving on. She stopped appearing in court, her lawyer would take months to file documents....wo, when my eye too started looking for another husband he quickly went to my village and paid bride price biko.
DeleteShe refused to stay yet she doesnt want to let go. We will do court and white when its all over. I pray she finds her own man cos she clearly needs love.
Modella, in regards to that dream you had better go for deliverance prayers and take it seriously. Its spirit husband that is masquerading as Tonto Dike to sleep with you. Things like this leads to delayed marriage. Its the spirit of incubus and succubus Asians suffer it as much as Africans, its prevalent all over the world.
DeleteModella please take anon 14:55's advice seriously cos it leads to delayed marriage .The earlier you tackle it the better
DeleteA woman married a man with four wives and she was the last wife, she married the man when he was 65, she TTC for 5yrs before she had her only child and now the child is 18yrs, the man is 88yrs now. The child is the same age with some of the man's grandchildren. I dont know why she married the man, maybe beacause the man is very rich and she is the one in charge of most of the business. Her own father is just few years older than the man. I hope no rivalry BTW them. It is well
DeleteMe my own is I want to cheat on my husband of six years.women please advice me oh.this man is pushing me to cheat.has a dick but starves me of sex. This is the sam man I married with absolutely no kobo but today he's doing well and is already showing his character. I have been faithful for 6years now but I'm being tempted each day to look for love and care outside. Stella pls let's talk about married women who are thinking of straying.it's hard on me ' this man eats and drinks malice. I'm only 32
DeleteIt's sooo painful. I'm on this table and I cry everyday. Started life with him when he had nothing.
DeleteTor....yau ne yau. Ina jiran ku, ku zo da magana da yawa!😀
ReplyDeleteToday na today. Me self follow you de wait o........@ G n M
DeleteU don murder this lang madam
DeleteNa sa taburma na anan. Akwai labaru yau🤣
DeleteChoii! na Fara jindadi da labaru á nan post.
DeleteAnonymous 15.07 forgive me my Hausa is wack!
Fine sisi goan buy peanuts and chilled coke.
Will be right back
ReplyDeletePlease, if your mum also married somebody's husband, tell us how you feel about it. Be Honest please
Yeah and all those buy 1 get 1 free situationships can be plenty in Naija... you know free 3rd wife/side chick as in step father step daugther angle.
DeleteMy Mother-inlaw is a very wicked woman. She chased my father inlaw's first wife awaycwith u children. The man just suffered the first wife, neglected her and her children till she died. Now my mother-inlaw is bent on destroying my marriage, why are Yoruba mothers like this? To marry their son na war.
DeleteAnon 15:06.
DeletePlease learn to make use of the word 'some'.
My Mother and my MIL are not what you described up there.
My MIL is the best you can ever wish for. I thank God everyday for her.
My mum was the third and last wife. I asked her one day why she agreed to marry another woman's husband and she told me her parents were responsible, that in those days a daughter has no right choosing a spouse by herself, everything was being arranged by the parents. I also asked if they ever dated b4 marriage, she no. That she remembered when my Dad used to come around to see her Dad and her mum always insist she'd be the one to serve my Dad food and drinks, she didn't know he was her husband to be until all marriage rights and bride price were settled,only then she was informed that he is her husband. She got married early at the age of 17. Though both mum and dad are late now,they were the best parents ever!
DeleteNot all yoruba mother inlaw. I married a yours man the mother is very sweet and nice. Is just individual
DeleteAnon, my MIL married an already married man too. FIL left his wife and four kids to be with MIL. I found out right before we got married. She’s also pokes too much nose in private things and I draw the line whenever I can. I don’t think hubby is proud of her actions in FILs 1st marriage and he wouldn’t talk much about it. If I had known earlier, I probably wouldn’t have even dated talkless of marry hubby. That family fact gives me chills sometimes and I rebuke any results of other people’s actions on my family and kids. I always use that eye to look at her. And don’t trust her intentions because I feel someone who can break a home and openly marry the man can also try it again with her DIL. FIL was very rich and flashy back in the day, he travelled all over the world and MIL went with him while he left his first wife and kids at home. Now he’s not doing too good business wise and MIL isn’t on the best of terms with him anymore. Anon, your MIL’s story sounds similar except that both my MIL and FIL are from the east. Same village there sef. That was what gave MIL the boldness to marry him too, his 1st wife isn’t from their village. I still think a married man. Should be off limits. Same village or not. None of my BILs or SILs are proud of their parents’ history either. FIL’s highflying business dwindled after running away with MIL. MIL’s attitude changed towards him and he showed her pepper too. Hmmmm
DeleteGrabs popcorn...
ReplyDeleteOya let's hear the excuses of side wives.
Wow! This sound so interesting, let me just sit down here and read comments.
ReplyDeletewell lemme go Anon on this. I am madly inlove with a married man and he triples the love also. he saw me through university and spoils me silly, he cares for me so much that I can't stop blessing the day I met him. He recently asked me to marry him as a second wife( he is a muslim and it is allowed in Islam, so spare yourself your sermon) . his wife wife has been having problem conceiving and he is not getting any younger. I have met with his family and he has met mine also. I am not intending to dispose his first wife but I won't tolerates shits from her.. The wedding date has been picked (November). He is the best thing to happen to me and I will proudly be a second wife. Don't cry more than the bereaved, each to his own. less I forget his parents assure me nothing will happen to me..I'm their favorite wife!!! jolly mood
ReplyDeleteFavourite wife until you fail to give them a child.....
DeleteJust make sure you born your first child before you marry him,otherwise, the cane used on the first wife will fall on you also. Then you'll know anyone can be the inlaws favorite when they want something.
DeleteI pray u have kids for him o...it sounds like u are the baby factory wife for them.favorite wife might end if u no born.
DeleteAlright but when you get in pls treat day first wife well. Never u use her predicament to mock her. Hml in advance
DeleteOh congrats. I am assuming he has got you pregnant in the past or you are already pregnant?
DeleteMaka ihe Obosi gwara Onitsha😁
Utali apiara first wife nnokwa na celing na eche gi💅
Invite me
DeleteFavorite wife 👏 👏 👏
DeleteOk
DeleteMake sure they are his babies when the pregnancies comes...hint hint no come manufacture baby o..i know his story.
DeleteGoodluck.
No you are not. Only for the moment, wife number 3 is loading.
DeleteIphie thank you ooo
DeleteAnonymous keep swimming in wickedness,who knows if the movie DRY will be your portion.. Ekwensu
Becareful darling, the man has a wife already, once the first wife has a child that will be the end of your jollification. Thread carefully the ever doting inlaw now will still tell that you met her in the house. Speaking from experience.
DeleteI already told u guys to save your sermon as I'm not interested. I have the power to chase the wife out cos he ask me if I'm comfortable with her or he should send her packing ( they are having issues) I pleaded on her behalf, pls am I not a good co-wife? As far as the money is there for me to enjoy who cares?
Delete@Tblack which wife? Well I'm not stupid enough to let my own end like that. I have begin to pack enough money to last me till some time and imagine how much more I will pack when I'm married to him. I have ntin to lose if it goes south
DeleteSo it is actually for the money. God will bless your hustle
Delete😂😂😂😂😂 I laugh in many languages...
DeleteIts only a child dey want from..that's all darling..u better born if not, d cane dey use for d 1st wife will be stronger dan urs!
#classicChic
Lol...@iphie, it's ife Onitsha gwalu Obosi joor
DeleteSo anon, are u a Muslim or a Christian? I am guessing Christian, if so, u no get home training at all. For you to be willing to enter into marriage korokoro as a second wife. So what happens to your faith after you are married to him?
DeleteEd🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 One mind told me to confirm from Momsie first ooh🙈🙈🙈
DeleteFan.. Lol.
Enjoy it while it last because in a few years, there will be a sweet young girl shaking ur table and sharing ur man with u. There’s a quote that says, if he cheats with u, he will cheat on u. All na turn by turn
DeleteHave you gotten pregnant since you got with him? How do you know he isn’t the one with a problem? Abi you will produce baby any which way🤔
DeleteYour Idiocy deserves world cup plus plenty medals. Favourite wife. O girl shine ya eyes, you are just a baby making machine. If you fail to conceive. In comes wife number 3. Foolish girls everywhere. (That Isoko Babe) Stella long time.
DeleteBehind every successful man is a woman. More women, more success. Maybe that's the secret code...
ReplyDeleteHope you don't have only one woman frankool?
DeleteHahahahahah!
DeleteStella you really shake table its cold in the north here
ReplyDeleteI had a marriage proposal from a very rich man. Married to two wives and informed me that I won't be the last. He wanted to marry four wives. He said the first wife was forced on him. They were in secondary school and she got pregnant. His father insisted since he was old enough to get a girl pregnant he is old enough to marry. The girl moved in with them. He had to look for a job after Waec to fend for his family. Wife dropped out of school and became a full time housewife. According to him the wife was well mannered and a nice person. He gradually furthered his education up to Msc, became rich. Wife was not interested in acquiring more education. He married his course mate as second wife. He needed an educated wife. Second wife was tiger and fighting everyone. Now he needed a 3rd to balance things out but there's no guarantee a 4th won't join the fray. He was a great provider but I didn't want the type of life he described.
ReplyDeleteI am from a privileged background. Went to UK at age 5 but came back for NYSC and stayed back in Nigeria. I loooove my neighbor. He is my father's friend, married and rich like daddy. Will love to be his second wife. I can't suffer in this life, abeg.
ReplyDelete"...will love. ." it's like no single rich guys approach you b dat. Well done o
DeleteOgbo nna gi? Imagine!
DeleteIf you went to UK st age 5 and still have this mentality as an adult then I pity your generation. If you depend on a man to safe you from suffering the you do not have any self worth.
Delete@anonymous 15:39. I tire for her mental faculty ooo. I actually thought feminism has taken over, considering the kind of environment this one is coming from. Fear of poverty will make some women loose their senses ooo. What if after her marriage to the man,God forbid, things turn around. She will come out to say the man is abusive and claim domestic violence. Lord have mercy
Delete😂😂😂😂😂😂Fan Emmanuel limme o
DeleteYou want to replicate Bianca and Ojukwu...e no dey pay oh. You want to marry your forefather, your father's mate; how will you even have respect for your parents?
DeleteWell have never dated married man but to my own perspective, single lady would want to marry or date a married man because of care. When a married man is able to provide a single lady with what she is seeking of which a single guys are clearly unable to.
ReplyDeleteAnother point is, a single lady may be frustrated to marry a married man because of family pressure. And some single ladies find married men attractive or maybe they just wants the name MRS SOMEBODY.
Hmmm i was a 3rd wife not by choice but by force. So this dude in his early 50s and i dated for a year before marriage. He told me he was divorced with no kids,that he has issues with impregnating a woman so his wife tried outside while they were still married and they moment she got pregnant she divorced him and moved to London. My people na so we begin date o,i had access to his house at will but never saw anything suspicious. Like play like play person wey dey claim impotent con give me belle,he was so excited,his joy was out of this world and we decided to get married traditionally leaving the court own for after delivery. We moved in together and little by little my angel became a beast,his hot temper is beyond words,we were always arguing and yelling at each other. One day we had when i was 7 months pregnant we had another of our usual heated argument and the next thing he brings out his phone and goes "darling your junior wife has started again,i'm really tired you i am hypertensive and all this stress is not good for me at all. If not for you i would have left the house for her long ago". While still in my shocked and dumbfounded state he passes the phone to me and the lady on the other end goes " what is wrong with you,do you want to kill our husband,the last time he came to London he was lamenting bitterly about how you are not submissive, your immediate senior wife in Canada doesn't even give him this kind of headche despite being a trouble maker,pls behave yourself, we are only tolerating you because of the son you are about to give us,if you are not interested in the marriage just hand over the baby after delivery and leave". Hmmm i died and woke up. Turns out this man had not just one but two wives,one in London and one in Canada and was visiting them from time to time,the first was also in her 50s while the second was in her mid 40s,i was 33years old. He was truly impotent but was advised to try with a younger woman. Hmmm i ran for my dear life,this man did everything to take my son from me,my son is 4 years old now and he's still trying. I can't believe that someone could be so cunning and deceitful,whatever happened to being honest? Me wey come from a very terrible polygamous family you now want to make me tow the same path and put my innocent son through the hell i lived? No way.
ReplyDeleteOmg wives in London, Canada and Nigeria. Very strong man! Hold ur son well inugo? Your story got me sipping warm Lipton
DeleteWow!!! The heart of man...sorry sis!!
DeleteAnonymous baby factory come and see your life oooo.. Hahahahhaahhaahhaahhaahhahaahhahahahahahahahahahahahaha in advance for that idiot up there that claims to be the favourite
DeleteWTF.... so sorry dear... may God strengthen and provide for you beyond measure .... don’t give him the child o...
DeleteKikikikiki
DeleteThis is the Kind of stories some soft hearted women will read, only for them to be suspecting their innocent husbands. Some will even carry the matter on their head so much that this will affect the way they behave to their husband or partner, all in the name of being careful. Many homes have been scattered why some calamities have been prevented by stories like this. Things are happening oooo. Some human beings are just wicked
Favourite wife, up there come a read along with me oh 😄
DeleteMay God in His mercy protect his daughters from this kind of husband. 🙄
DeleteThem go all come here dey pretend but make I help them with reasons:
ReplyDelete1. Greed, greed, reaping where them no sow
2. Conscience: them don shoot out/suffocate a lot of babies and already know wetin we know.
3. Pressure from family; all ya mates' pikin them don dey enter university
4. Runs, running, ran, and still want to run -them dey pass them round like akara balls.
5. Foolishness: A lot of ladies are just foolishly foolish. Nothing go help them. Them brain
turn to concrete when them hear marriage. Them no wan care whether the man get battalion for house.
"He roves me, he buys me kulikuli bla bla bla"
6. Winchiness: Some no dey take eye see happy marriage, they must scatter am.
What else ehm ehm . . . make una attack ghost if una like . . .
LMAO 😂😂😂No need for attack! This ghost get sense and said it well. Keep resting in peace dear
Delete😂😂😂😂 You are no longer a ghost, we know your handwriting😁😁😁
DeleteThey say u shud kip restn in peace?
DeleteIkwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwa
Anonyghost no dey write from burial ground.
DeleteYou see as the shootout/suffocating committee dey wish me dead, no be winchiness be that?
And Ceiling FAN;
Make you hol ya husband tight, all these girls wey dey raff hahaha with you wan be second and third
wives o.
Hol ya koboko well.
Women are really their problems, Hope you won't write chronicles and come here lamenting when he stops giving you attention because he wants to marry a third wife. You know in Islam they are allowed to marry 4 wives. Moreover, we the SDKers will not be happy if dare give the third wife problems.
ReplyDeleteAs usual blame the women and not the man who want to look outside
DeleteOkuko nti Ike ka obu! I just remembered that Warri billionaire that gifted his first wife Royce rolls to apologize for messing up
DeleteIf your Father also married another woman after your Mother. Tell us what you think and if you will toll the same line.
ReplyDeleteI am married as a fourth wife because of my religion. I envy Christian ppl that marry just one.
ReplyDeleteNot because of your religion dear,but because you have a terrible character that you can only be chosen as a second hand material.
DeleteFan Emmanuel, that is rude. In as much as I don't condone marrying a married man, I have no right to judge her. I don't know her story.
DeleteThis Fan, you seem horrible. I can't deal with your manners sometimes. It takes a thief to catch a thief. You know life has a way of humbling one. Shame on you
DeleteBut fan is right.
DeleteWhy is Anon 14:45 claiming she’s 4th wife because of religion? Is the man the only male in her religion?
Doesn’t she have the will to decide if she will marry into polygamy or not? If she is told to jump off 3rd mainland bridge because of her religion will she do it?
Stop blaming your religion for your decision, nobody will beat you here.
Nobody is truly bound by religion. You made a choice to be the 4th wife.
DeleteReasonable Doubt and Fan you never fail to convince on how misbegotten and vile you tripe are.
DeleteFan do u even know if it was a forced marriage?
DeleteHe who wears the shoe....
DeleteEven if she married as a first wife, the husband may still marry more wives. When you ppl are condemning ppl with multiple marriages, leave Muslims out of it and face your religion. Any Muslim woman ranting here is being hypocritical.
DeleteMy aunt did @the age of 22 but she wasn't aware of his status as the 1st wife was in Turkey with her kids while Oga was here, they lived together for over a year, she (aunt) didn't suspect anything, they hard tradition wedding and white wedding was on hold because she was pregnant. After child birth,1st wife found out and came down to naija, it was hell on earth as at that period.
ReplyDeleteThe guy had 2 houses, his main house wasn't where my aunt lived with him,
He lied about going on biz trip to Turkey but he was going to visit his family,
But my aunt already had a baby 4 him and was pregnant for the 2nd😪. She stayed,
no white wedding was done, no court wedding, no happiness,
He doesn't sleep in her house, madam moved to naija after she found out of their affairs.
He stopped her from working bc men are looking at her backside.
She has 4 kids now and only comes in the noon day to see her.
She regrets but no money, no job/business and she is no longer a baby.
wow, when you never snoop this is what befalls some people.
DeleteBut why did she keep getting pregnant after the 2nd child
Delete2nd wife, 4kids, no love no care, suffer head, no job, no money, no business and she's no longer a baby. Omg... It's well with her.
DeleteYour aunt is really dumb. She deserves what she gets, if after the 2nd child she didn’t give herself brain.
DeleteI dislike weak women.
U see why its good for women to have something doing..am sure if she's not so dependent on the man she would have moved out since the 1st pregnancy.... all the best to her
DeleteEyah, the man is cruel. She even married him young at 22. I figured she must've just wanted to have all her kids since she's not leaving for another man.
DeleteBut as you said she's no longer a baby, let her stand her ground and get something..business, car, house. At least for the future of her kids.
You better knock knock knock on wood babes.
ReplyDeleteHahahaha Bukola I say Amen to you may you not have a rival. I watched an old nollywood movie titled No Rival Yesterday. It featured Omotola ,Tony Umez and Toyin tomatoes.
ReplyDeleteThis is not for me. I am not interested in loving a man who has loved another enough to marry her.
ReplyDeleteStella, your friend is a hypocrite. But nah second job she has to constantly monitor him and make sure she doesn't get replaced. What a constant stress.
This is Africa and African culture supports polygamy, the don't frown she a man marries more than one wife. Forget all the I am a Christian talk, whybia it that the society doesn't query the man yet insults the woman especially women. The women believe that all men cheat but shout and scream and attack the woman when the man cheats,who was your man suppose to cheat with a goat?. And lemme borrow what tope of your view said yesterday as long as you wed your husband traditionally he right to pick another wife unless you skip traditional wedding. In the case of ehi and ken , ken is a polygamist and a womanizer sef ,sobi don't understand why women are attacking ehi, even if ken didn't marry ehi he would have still gotten married to another woman and still be fucking around. So single ladies,make sure you marry one who won't practice polygamy, ask him questions.
ReplyDeleteBljg visitor who are side chick or second wives should come and talk, or some one from your family should come and talk, because I know that this post will be filled with those who has never said hello to married men not to talk about dating them.
ReplyDeleteI married a man who was divorced from his first wife,he painted himself as the best and heaped blame on the first wife, treated me well then after the second year beating started, he started misbehaving especially when he became broke,i have two kids for him but this man hardly takes care of them,presently he has a new woman he's planning to marry and I over heard them planning how to send me out of the house cos he's fetish and a lot of things has been happening, am even scared for my life I don't have a job and I don't even have where to stay if I leave. Had to go anonymous.so in case you're planning to marry a married man there's an adage in Yoruba that says "pason ti a fi na iyale ounbe loke aja fun Iyawo" this is my own karma though I was naive and ignorant about a lot of things.God help me out in this trouble am in presently.
ReplyDelete...and God in His infinite mercy see you through.my dear go get a job first and foremost no matter how little the salary might be it will go a long way.
DeleteYou sha want to block my chance of marrying another wife after you left me. You don't need to go anonymous, she knows your story because she verified every bit of it. If you have truly moved on as you claim, you won't be worried about me getting married to another woman. You
Deleteclaim to have found love and moved on. Allow me do same now. Shoooo. Wind has blown
Favorite 2nd wife come and read again oh
DeleteThis is drama loading. Shokolokobangbosheooo
DeleteI am in a relationship with a married man who loves me so much.His love for me grew deeper when he go to know that i understand and interprete football very well as a woman. He is football coach.He can rely on me any day anytime as long as his career is involved and also in some other vital issues cause i studied psychology G/C.He could call me up any day anytime to give my opinion on his team list.when i dream about his game,it happens exactly as I saw it in my dream.I pray with and for him.He just asked me to marry him cus in me he saw a woman that can go any length to make sure he grows in his career ( not diabolic but with prayers and fasting).We play,yab and gist together that sometimes i wish hes single. He just asked me to marry him but my conscience is playing tricks with me. I love him so much.Could it be that He is my husband despite the fact that he's marries?
ReplyDeleteHe’s not your husband, another woman’s husband is not your husband darling..when you find yours you’d be convinced, your conscience wont play tricks with you
DeleteYou pray and fast for a married man? My dear, if he is married, he is not your husband!
DeleteAnakogheri. You are praying and fasting with and for another woman's husband?
DeleteIkwakwakwakwa... Laugh don carry me throw for ground.
My mum's friend's daughter married a man with a wife. Actually, the first wife couldn't bear him a child after almost 20 years of marriage, so he had an affair with mum's friend's daughter and she got pregnant. Na so oga lawyer go her village and paid bride price. The first wife stays in another part of town while he got a house for the new wife in another part. The first wife is aware of her existence though ad nnever for one day gave any ish. This lady decided one day to test her"Chi" by going to first wife's house to warn her to stay clear of her husband ( guy man no come back the previous evening, apparently he was with the first wife), madam first wife just called oga to come and carry his thrash from her door step, oga came, picked her up, dropped her at her parent's place and told her never to show face in his house again. He picked and took their 2 sons from school and warned the house keeper never to allow her come near them. After 2 weeks, na so she go oga law office go dey beg, oga told her to go and beg his first wife, until she forgives her, she will never come back. Oga's first wife also works in oga's office as a legal secretary, na so she swallow her ego go dey beg the woman.
Till date, shevno dey do anyhow concerning oga and first wife parole. They have 3 sons now, she drives, wears the latest clothes and if u see her, u will want to tap into her 'blessings' but she is in a real bondage there. The man still makes all major decisions with his first wife, consults her before he does anything, she stays in a highbrow area and enjoys trips and vacations abroad.
It's not always as easy as it seem marrying an already married man...make una dey look well before leaping.
You’re dumb sha.
DeleteIt won’t be well with the person that did this to you I swear.
He loves you because you can interpret football? Are you really this senseless or you’re just pretending?
He is not your husband and you see this thing sweeting you will end with a rude shock from him...don't go and look for your own husband bloody penis thief
DeleteReasonable doubt, your comment got me rolling on the floor. Can you imagine how gullible some women can be.
DeleteAunty the only thing I will ask you, is why he hasn’t divorced his first wife since you are his god that sees his tomorrow and secondly which God do you pray to together? Cus it can’t be the almighty God
DeleteWhen you take very good care of your wife, God will bless you with another. Somalia proverb.
ReplyDeleteWhat a fucking lol. Haha
DeleteMy mom was the 2nd wife because her husband’s first wife couldn’t have kids. She had my siblings for him,and felt that would make him devoted to her but no... even after 33yrs he’s still living with his first wife. And that one is still going spiritual for my mom. All my life I have dated married men,even when I know they are not good for me. I’m lucky to always date those that take good care of me,but once I dated a single guy,who didn’t even have that much money, I knew I would never date a married man again no matter how rich. I have felt the difference,as long as you’re not a lazy woman and have something you are doing,you can survive without a married man’s money.
ReplyDeleteLike mother like daughter, I guess you’re looking for the love your father should have given you in these men.
DeleteIt’s your type that end up with men that abuse them. Let’s hope you won’t pass on your weakness and insecurities to your own daughters.
Reasonable doubt you must be a big ass fool. Idiot!
DeleteI don cancel the open house wey I been dey go tell dem say rain too heavy. Which rain too heavy? This topic is too ameborated to ignore. Let me be munching fried meat and sipping my Mateus on ice. Na here I park motor today. Bring it on!
ReplyDeleteI am married to a married man with 3kids.I n my family didn't know he was married before we did traditional n white wedding early this year just found out this month n I am pregnant with a twin.me I have moved out of his house staying with my friend for now.I have not told my mom yet because she just recovered the wife has Bn disturbing me cussing me seriously I am just tired of everything don't know what to do.I don't even know how I am going to survive
ReplyDeletePoverty is bad sha.
DeleteYou’re probably from one of those hungry families that give their daughter away without doing any background check on their prospective in law.
If not tell me how they gave you away to a married man and his family, or is it that you don’t have elders in your family that went to check your husband’s people?
You people are for ever telling stories.
@reasonable, you don't talk like that. Some no matter how you investigate you wouldn't find result. It God that give the right person.May God provide for you the pregnant lady with twin, i feel for you since you said you didn't know. Don't worry all is well.
Delete@ reasonable, occasionally yoy make sense but you are too evil and confrontational, always angry, kilode? People like you just open your mouth and say what ever comes to your head. You lack wisdom in its entirety.
DeleteYou haven't seen families that won't even say Pim that their son is married and play along esp.if he is rich and the one taking care of them?? Mstchew.
Stories.
DeleteI hate competition. I can't watch my man loving another woman
ReplyDeleteI am not really in love with my married ex. But he is still obsessed over me. We were supposed to marry but I ended the relationship. He’s always calling and telling me please don’t have a child or marry anyone yet. LOL. He is visiting me in September as we are not in the same state. I know he plans to come and impregnate me. I don’t know if I truly want marriage but I want a child or two. I am more than capable of taking care of myself financially. His parents also love me and we are the same tribe. He and his wife are not. Anyway, I have not made up my mind yet but I suspect he will attempt to use me to push his wife out because the house they live in, he built it for me and our future kids. He even bought lands in my name while we were dating and I was his next of kin. I still am on some of his documents. Life is strange. Please ask your man before marriage if there is a woman in his life that he cannot let go. So you don’t keep fighting for his love like Diana and prince Charles.
ReplyDeleteThen why did he get married to someone else if he loved you that much🤷♀️
DeleteDarling don't cause his wife pain.
DeleteDon't do it.
If you want babies you know you can afford to get sperm at the sperm bank.
That's what he told you abi??all lies if he truly loves you he wouldn't have married another,so he left his kids and made you next of kin??your mumu is not made in China that's why it's still solid till this time ....
DeleteThat’s how my friend’s mum that married as a 2nd wife is forever fighting the man over carrying small girls as old as he is.
ReplyDeleteForgetting that she met the first wife in the house who tolerated her. She will still be claiming righteous indignation.
Msctheeeewwwww!
Know someone who's dating and about to marry a married man. This is someone who's also from a polygamous home, who hardly relates with her steps and gives her step mum big attitude. She started bringing the man to family occasions and she spends money like it's nothing. It's obvious it is becau of the money and nothing else. She's sporting an engagement ring sef. The man has like 4 kids already. Wonder how she would cope.
ReplyDeleteI have been dating a married man for almost 5yrs now but I know I can't marry him rara
ReplyDeleteAnd you are proud of writing it?you are a woman your time is going and the man is there making his own family and having plans with his wife about their kids....you can't marry him rara???and who even told you he wants to marry you rara??even if you People want to collect only 10naira as bride price he won't agree cos you are just his toy...he comes for sex when madam is ill,tired,pregnant,seeing her period or nursing a new baby and can't perform like before so what does that make you???olosho
DeleteAnd you are not ashamed of yourself, talking like it’s an achievment. Five whole years tat people spend in the university plus Nysc that’s what you are wasting on someone’s hubby. You people think you are doing someone, honey you are doing yourself
DeleteAnd to the girls whose parents allow them date married men una doh o I greet you
There's a lady that I know who has been dating a married man for the past ten years. His family is in another state. I just wonder how some girls think. This guy told her that he wont marry her. This lady will be 45 next month.
ReplyDeleteHahaha the lady na real fish brain she get
DeleteJesu!!!!
DeleteAnd she no try born one pikin at least? Hmmm.
DeleteThis is sad
DeleteNa waa o!
ReplyDeleteI'm from a polygamous home, about 3women has kids for my dad yet some women won't let him be. There's this his gf, she's divorced mother of two oo, anytime I come home to check on my dad & she's around, she'll start giving attitude & carrying face.
ReplyDeleteThank God we're all grown & out of the house.
When my mum divorced my dad, people saw her as a bad person, now no woman can stay with my dad because he's insatiable. Women are too many, no shame.
There's a director in my office that I really dislike bcos hate iso too strong a word. I just dislike him bcos of his attitude but I heard his story during Sallah and I have a lot of respect for him now. This man is hausa and a Muslim, he has been married for 11 years and has no child. He's in his 40s, young, handsome, rich and successful. There's nothing his family hasn't done to make him marry another wife but he's adamantly refused. Apparently two years ago, his mum called him and told him she has arranged a second wife for him, he refused and next thing the woman brought out her breast to curse him (I thought this only happens in Yoruba movies) that unless she didn't carry him in her womb, push him out of her body and he sucked her breasts, he must not refuse her wish that he takes a second wife. He had no choice but to agree, he married this girl and divorced her that same day after the wedding. They just got home and he told her that I divorce you thing three times. The mum had no choice, he obeyed her by marrying the girl but no one said anything about keeping her. So I don't believe it when men say they are helpless, just say you want to marry another wife, no one can force you if you don't want to.
ReplyDelete45 you say....ikwakwakwakwa. Biko don't blame her she doesn't have any option anymore.
ReplyDeleteMy mum was already a grandmother at 45. Even if the man wants to marry a 2nd wife it won't be a 45 year old nah
I know one girl dating and leaving with a married man who has 3 kids (all boys) the man is almost 50 and she is in her 20s she did juju for the man to live his wife and she is now living in the house the man and his wife built together. I just pity her End.
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