Friday, August 24, 2018
Nigerian Bride Reveals She Didnt Kneel Down During Her Traditional Marriage...
A Canada based Nigerian bride has taken to social media to reveal how she managed to evade the "kneeling down" part of her traditional wedding ceremony....
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But that's culture na,just that day o.
ReplyDeleteAt least this man will not connive with the doctor to remove her womb
Deletewho the fuck cares if you rolled on the ground???
DeleteAnd so???? Mtchewwwwww
DeleteWon’t kneel for tradition, but she will kneel to give a head and do the doggy.... HYPOCRITES!!!
DeleteOya carry world cup
ReplyDeleteas in she should be given a medal ...whatever floats her boat
DeleteCongratulations
ReplyDeleteAnd is an achievement..
ReplyDeleteKini big deal?
ReplyDeleteSo what?
ReplyDeletekneel down for what na? in my culture we dont do that, though the girl and two of her friends sit on a mat for most of the ceremony..
ReplyDeleteThat's cos u are neither igbo nor yoruba
DeleteThese feminists and their extreme way of doing things sha.. Kontunu
DeleteI like what she did, especailly seeing that her husband is not Old fashioned
ReplyDeletePls can you tell us the new fashion?
DeleteLol what is this one again? I thought the men lie down flat on their bellies too as a sign of respect. Dont let chimamanda mislead u o
ReplyDeleteThey lie down before THE PARENTS, not before the bride.
DeleteWho ever kneels, bows before you is below you.
All I see is her beauty!
ReplyDeleteYou should have saved yourself the unnecessary drama and jejely opted for a simple civil wedding. Who your kneeling down or not epp? You sha wan trend abi? When it's not because you have polio. Wehdone ma.
ReplyDeleteA Hahahahahaha. Good for her but we don't need to know
DeleteGini e we mezia?
ReplyDeleteCongratulations, that's an achievement abi
ReplyDeleteSomeone on twitter told her that she can't kneel for her hubby during her wedding rites, but she can kneel to give a blow job.
Another one said "you can't kneel for 3mins but you can do doggy for 20mins....omo kekere oniranu"😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteTwitter is a crazy community
Why is anyone kneeling to give blow jobs when you can lie down or sit sideways, women are suffering o still kneeling in 2018 to pleasure a man. Chukwu a ju.
Deletehahahaha lobatan! She should take it to the bank now that she didn't kneel. Anything must shaa trend on SM
DeleteDoppelganger,I Wonder
DeleteCrazy lots on twitter
At doppel, u won't be comfortable lying down or sitting sideways, the best way is to kneel
DeleteAHh doppelganger leave am.
DeleteThat Kneeling down is the koko.
Eka your heard dey house. Don't mind this one... you'd think she knows it all, that's why its best not to comment when you don't know weitin dey sup
Delete@Eka If the hubby is a dwarf or below 5ft3 nko?
DeleteAbeg lie down and save your self neck pain.
@ doppelganger, we know your type o...forming steady character coordination whereas, if we see you behind closed doors, na your type dey do all sorts like who overdose on spanish fly!!! soon, na your type go dey wonder why people dey use the same sponge for face and yansh....onye ntu amu!!
Deletedoppel the fun is in the kneeling down, my husband also kneels while im on the bed to give me head. what is the big deal, you people want to carry feminism into bedmatics again. Your neck will pain you giving head in some positions.
DeleteMarriage is a fun thing, you are supposed to be eachothers bestfriend but everyone has a role. I cook and take care of my husband because I enjoy it, not because im enslaved and he plays his role as a man by providing and helping out when he has the time.
Good for her
ReplyDeleteRubbish
ReplyDeleteI just hope she is not putting her self in problem she does not need to put that on social media its should between her and the hubby anyway she stays abroad if not trust my Yoruba people the in law will never allow her to enjoy that marriage even the bible say woman should submit
ReplyDeleteAwon bible quoter! So submission is by kneeling down, abi?
DeleteIs she marrying her inlaws?
DeleteSo frustrating someone's marriage is thing of pride to you abi
I trust the woman to sweep all of them out her house sharp sharp
she be like person wey send inlaws?
Please read your Bible again. Everyone is asked to submit but you've let your god of man drum only the wife's submission part and you ignore the first part. Ephesians 5 verse 21
DeleteThat same Yoruba man that said you should not kneel down will be the one that will use it against you.Eni aye Lebo! Keep your marriage out of social media.
DeleteAnd even go on all fours to receive preeq.
ReplyDeleteAs in one million pounds in her bank account. Well done you. Congratulations.
ReplyDeleteNot kneeling is not the problem but bringing it to social media. Her husband's family and friends will see this and tell the guy he's a weakling, his wife controls him and he is not man enough. The husband will change completely towards her to prove he is charge. Things like this should remain between you and your husband if he is the 'understanding' type.
ReplyDeleteGbam
DeleteThat's if she married the average useless Nigerian man.
DeleteI hope she didn't waste all this intelligence marrying one.
Lol! Anon 13:20, on the contrary. The husband is actually a real man to insist on treating his wife the way he wants her to be treated and not caring what other people’s opinions are. And you just described what YOU or your husband would have done (if you’re a woman) but thank God he isn’t you and he still wouldn’t care why people say but would still love his wife unconditionally. It is so rare for Nigerians to see men moving mountains including traditions for their wives that they immediately start seeing other negative things and scenarios. The fact still remains that the man loves his wife and did what most Nigerian men cannot do. Simple.
DeleteAll I want to say is that she is beautiful.
ReplyDeleteThis one is just a baby.
ReplyDeleteI hope she and her family also rejected the bride price and all the yams, drinks and listed things they brought. Afterall we women are not cattle that are for sale.
God bless you
DeleteIf she’s Yoruba, brideprice gets rejected most of the time anyways. Her family will say they’re not selling their daughter. I’m Yoruba and my family told that to my Igbo in laws. I’m not being sold, just getting married and they’re now all extended family.
DeleteAnty anon 16:36 it's only the cash in the bride's price that's returned ...all other things are taken and shared amongst the bride's family.
DeleteCustom and Tradition can be modified or changed. Especially ones like going to drink tea a day after a funeral while the family of the deceased are mourning should be abolished.
ReplyDeleteAs a couple, you can decide that you don't see the relevance of kneeling down to do whatever. Some couples even skip the regular “For richer and for poorer’ chants during their weddings. What I find disturbing is the tone of her tweet. Is she educating,bragging or making a point?
Seem like she's bragging to me. Yinmu.
DeleteBut if he kneels to propose you don't have a problem abi? Both are tradition, no one is saying you both should be kneeling upandan after then
ReplyDeleteU dey mind all these ppl talking wetin person no know, here.
DeleteIt's called traditional wedding for a reason na. What's the point if the tradition in it is removed.
ReplyDeleteI don't kneel or do all these old fashioned things in a relationship in any way but I absolutely can't wait to kneel to feed my baby palm wine on our wedding day. Then afterwards go back to making him help me do dishes and even cook
So you’d kneel not because it is relevant or affects the wedding in a positive or negative way but because it is “tradition”? What purpose is your kneeling down gan gan? I would really like to know. Change is a constant, so many things we count as tradition are gradually getting alienated as the world evolves, please don’t be a doormat and continue to do things because “that’s how it’s done”.
DeleteNothing wrong with kneeling down and nothing wrong with someone who doesn’t believe or want to do it but don’t say it’s tradition because these traditions were handed down to you by some person who thought it was necessary at some point.
Lolll this one is just eager to get married and do pepper dem and shake waste. 'feed your baby palmwine indeed, Lollll Zero sense.
DeleteLeave Eka, the beauty of Igbo traditional wedding is that kneeling and giving your husband palmwine. My grandmother did it, my mother and I did it. It is one of the highlights of traditional wedding and I looked forward to doing it.
DeleteDo you want to stand and give him ? I don't even know where some people are taking this feminism to.
Doppel you want the culture to be overhauled but u clap for the English when the exhibit their's.
DeleteNo matter how big, rich, influential or whatever an English man/woman is, when they meet the Queen they bow/ courtesies. The same Britain colonized us and maintained their culture ( even the skirt wearing by their men during certain occasions), we the colonized now want to revamp our culture in the name of what?
So leave all these your yarn as it no hold water at all.
@Doppeiganger you are definitely too intelligent to write what you wrote up there. A people's identity is embedded and encapsulated in their culture, it defines them and establishes their uniqueness among the human race.
DeleteKneeling is our culture it defines us. The greatest evil of slave trade was the stripping of Africans of their identity not the manual Labour. A people without any identity is like a wanderer, a lost soul, a ship with no destination. On this one I completely disagree with you.
I have severally maintained that feminism is a devilish contraption to confuse the world and overturn God's instruction manual on marriage relationship. The same spirit that gave rise to feminism was what led to gay rights and it's associated satanic manipulations. We need to be vigilant
She’s soooooo prettty. She even tried. I almost got away with not having a traditional marriage. Boring!
ReplyDeleteMy dear, I also plan to escape it.
DeleteU should have tried harder... It feels me with sadness when I see African tribes and countries scorn and despise their rich cultural heritage. They try to adopt and emulate Western "CULTURE"which is not half as interesting and colorful as ours.
DeleteThis is not about kneeling down or lying down. It's not about maintaining dignity. It's a total package. Embrace it! There in lies the beauty.
LOL useless Naija men were SHOOK!
ReplyDeleteNaija men and their fragile egos. Is it a woman kneeling before you that makes you a real man? How women from Naija cope with their fragile, toxic masculinity is a mystery to me!
A real man knows that subjugating and controlling a woman does not PROVE that he is a man.
A real man is confident and strong enough to let his woman DO HER without feeling threatened.
Kudos to all the real men out there who recognise women for their worth and not by some silly, antiquated gender roles.
Not these silly, makeshift men with the sensitivity and perceptions of a three year old. Insecure little boys!
2018 is for competent, independent, accomplished BOSS WOMEN! Not lily livered puppets who think their self worth is dependent on them being slaves to a man.
Gbam!!
DeleteMy husband kneeled down to propose to me, he went on his knees and asked me to marry him.
DeleteSo YES I absolutely knelt down for my husband on our wedding day and I will do it again if I have to. a
All this immature bitch, of what benefit is that.
ReplyDeleteNo problem. Next time I will not put a ring on it because the ring signifies nothing about the love I have for her. She for kuku no do marriage na as traditional marriage na culture things. The marriage no go last past 3 years. Na yab she come online yab her husband and his people even mentioning their incomes online. A man who takes this level of insults is a moron or a green snake in a green grass. You think you are doing him until he finishes you and move on. No be so Yahoo boys dey operate? You think say you catch a mugu to find out you na the maga.
ReplyDeleteIf you accept a man you accept his tradition
ReplyDeleteAfricans and senselessness. Asians maintained their culture/tradition and they are soaring high. We want everything about our tradition to be modified or erased to suit our class, pride and religion belief. We have twisted our mind set to behave and act like westerners. If kneeling down for your husband when performing traditional marriage rites is the tradition which your own mother did, why are you so happy and excited that you didn't do it by bringing it to social media to claim jagaban of feminist. Educated my foot!!!
ReplyDeleteGod will bless you!!
DeleteNo matter how hard we try to be civilized we can never be more civilized than the people that brought it to us. Ladies need to calm down these days , know the difference between feminism and foolishness.
Good for her
ReplyDeleteThat evil girl has nothing to offer, she is bringing bad luck into that family. I hope the guy did his own traditional right while standing up. Daughter's of discord !
ReplyDeleteSelf hate is pathetic!
ReplyDeleteSelf hate is pathetic. Own ur culture.
ReplyDelete