MONDAY IHN

Monday feels great.....May your hustle pay this week...

IJEOMA AND BESTIE FOME COVER IHN


Goodday stellicoco.. Its me once again.. But this time i want to celebrate my 18years friendship anniversary with this wonderful being called enifome... I call her fome.. She is a FRIEND Stella... She has been through thick and thin with me... When everybody gave up on me she fought for me... I call her small but mighty... I just want the world to know that friends like this still exist.. And am blessed to have her as one... Ps: shes the one on stripe skirt... She would b so shocked to see this... Kikikikikiki.. Love u stells.. 



Awwwwww Besties rock..I have lots of them and they bless me with their friendship.



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TWO SISTERS DIE WITHIN MONTHS...

You guys remember last year July i told of how shocked i was to learn my friend Judith Adiukwu had died?well last night i felt an urgent need to connect with her sister who was seeking asylum in the Netherlands.Checked my phone and realised that i didnt save the number from the last time we spoke and i went on facebook and searched for her and got the biggest shock of my life this early morning......A community in Holland announced in early Jan that she had died ....Ennie according to the write up died suddenly in refugee camp.....

I am pained and i am in shock.....Two very beautiful sisters died just like that...oh dear God!!!
These girls were dope and always visited me whenever i visited Nigeria.
I pray God gives their mum the strength to bear these painful loses and i pray their only surviving sibling does not break down over this.

Kai!!!

RIP Judith and Ene...

Please say a word of prayer for their mum.....




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ADVICE NEEDED URGENTLY


Hello Stella please I need advice from you and bvs, am 30 and single, I have been working for a while now but since i started working I don't have any savings because of my family, am planning on settling down but I can't boast of a tangible amount in my account, my family knows how much is my salary and they will not rest until i have spent everything for that month. Now am to resume in another organisation next month with a better salary and my mum is already asking how much is my salary, I really don't know what to do because I don't want to lie to her, please what do i do. 




The rubbish needs to stop now..No one has a right to know how much you earn unless you decide to let them in on it........

Do not tell her how much you earn and look for ways to evade the question,it is so wrong that she is asking!..DO NOT TELL HER.




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THE DIABOLICAL MAN THIEFER


Dear Stella,
In life, make women fear God and make men nor dey carry sometin chuk everytin!


Growing up as a petite sized kid, my mates looked way older and mature. In church, i was usually directed to the children's class instead of Teen's church.In my compound, my mates would ignore me and play with older kids...so i became an introvert who loved arts..painting and drawing.


A family next door had a handsome son who was friends with my elder brother and whenever he came over, he was a good listener and loved my artworks.We soon grew close and despite the age difference, i liked him very much. Whenever he came around, my mum would fetch me and she also grew fond of him.


Years passed... i got into Uni at 20 and came home on a holiday. I bumped into him and we got talking again, he was a banker at that time. For the first time ever, i visited their apartment and after our long chat, we got cuddly and i had my first kiss...he tried sex but the discomfort i felt down there made him gently dress me up and we just cuddled till i went back to our apartment..


I went back to school avoiding all suitors and admirers since i knew what i had back home. I went home on another holiday and we spent some time together. The way he looked at me felt strange as he once said ' i have watched you grow into a beautiful youngwoman'...
He never tried sex with me again and it was more like 'keeping me till marriage'.


I came home after months in school and he was to take me out for icecream but strangely i couldnt reach him. I called him over and over and a lady picked the third time yelling at me that he wasnt coming to see me!... i was shaking all over but waited till the next morning and went to his apartment. His mum went to get him for me, i asked about the lady and he said she was a crazy friend he had and apologized.


He showed up at my place trying to refute any claims of ownership the lady made. Infact, the lady contacted my brother while having a drink with his friends and claimed i was trying to steal her man!...Here he was clearing all my doubts.


I went back to uni and returned about 8months later to bump into that same lady with a protruded belly coming out of his apartment. I was in shock as i quietly went into my place. I asked my brother about her and he told me she was carrying my man's child.I was so furious!...I cried out my eyes till they were sore!...


I got back to school and became irritated at the sight of men!..i didn't want any love talks around me either!..I felt deeply betrayed!..
I moved on refusing to date anyone and after graduation, i went far away as possible from Lagos!...


Few months to completing my Service, i got a call from him. He met my brother in a banking hall and asked for my number. He asked to see me but i refused!...I got back to Lagos after service and he wouldn't stop calling so i granted him audience.
He apologized for everything and tried making it up to me but i wasnt ready for that besides he was already married to that lady with a kid.


I was home gisting with a family friend when my ex's name came up and she mentioned how the lady my ex married was a full time runs girl in Moremi . She narrated how she would queue by the hall with cars lined up! She further told me how everyone knew my ex's wife was 'jazzed up' and nobody ever dared drag a man with her!...the scariest part was when she was quoted that ' my ex would be hers either he likes it or not'!


I thought this was all a joke until i went for prayers at my uncles church when he began to reveal certain things... he warned me about how the lady who stole from me had tied my exs destiny and only Gods grace can set him free. He further said my ex got into the trap the very moment he began to have sex with her thinking it was just sex.
My heart was so heavy hearing all these and i just wished there was something that could be done to free him!...


I tried reconnecting with him one time and just as we stood outside talking, his phone rang and she was asking him repeatedly ' where are you'. It was like she had a sensor monitoring him. He was looking very unhappy like he had alot to say but couldnt find someone to confide in. As i watched him drive off my eyes were filled with tears...
Everyone who knew him as a kid comments on how humble, kind, reserved he was but to think he ended up with a diabolical runs girl!....




na wah oh



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ANOTHER WAY TO GET CUSTOMERS?

Hello Stella,

I don’t know where this story fit in but please post it as I’m still worried about the wellbeing of these ladies involved.

Last week Wednesday which was public holiday, I was on my way to my parent house at Ajangbadi with my daughter, at mile two I entered a bus going to Alaba international. At the row where I was sitting were these pretty young ladies with big phones (lol), fixed long nails, nice hair and wearing trouser, they tried to be nice to my daughter but I just kept a straight face all throughout the journey but my baby refuse me to stay still so at the end the one sitting beside me ended up playing with her. 


On getting to barracks bus stop the conductor informed them that they have reached their destination only for one of them to say this place does not look like the barrack bus stop she know, I turned and told her here was barrack and asked where she was going to and she said Ojuelegba, I screamed and told them that they were on the wrong route. I advised them on how to get back to mile two so as to proceed to Ojuelegba.

When they highlighted we started talking about their predicament knowing how far the journey back to Ojuelegba could be. One I too know old man at my back started saying rubbish about how these ladies are workers (i.e. prostituted) how they intentionally miss the way because they have plans of hooking men. I was very angry and turned to him telling him not all young girls are prostituted, that it would happen to anyone and looking at these girls there are very young, and they might not know there way around Lagos as it has happened to me when I started cruising all round Lagos without my mother knowledge. That I was not kidnap or lost was the love God has for me and His Grace.

This old man kept saying rubbish and I felt pity on most ladies Nigeria men has labelled prostituted because they dressed nicely and flashy. When he came down at his bus stop other passenger praise me on how I stood up for these ladies despite none of them said nothing.

Please if these ladies are BV kindly notify us how your journey that day went because I know it would have been hectic. I hope you got to Ojulegba safely and also got home safely. My Advice to young ladies in Lagos keep soaring high in whatever you are doing because the sky is your starting point as for the men labelling all ladies prostituted God help you I hope and pray your daughter doesn’t turn out to be what you call other people daughter.



Well done oh..VOLTRON 



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TEEJAYS CORNER
THE PUBLIC DISPLAY OF SUCCESS.

Early 2000 during those days I do travel to Lagos on luxurious buses, we often go with security escort, one at the front and the other at the back. On getting to Lagos from Port Harcourt successfully, the security escort will shoot on the air on arrival  as a sign of successful landing.  But on one occasion, I heard that unknown to those escort, armed men who were robbers have invaded the bus terminal and got the gate men all tired up and posed as watchmen.

When the bus finally reached, the terminal was opened and the driver drove in. As usual the escort came down and fired on air to send warning for security alert only to be disappointed as those robbers fired at them mercilessly to their death and robbed all passengers. It was so terrible that day.

We have seen military men jubilating after conquering territories once hold by insurgents? The joy can't be described, you see them lifting up their hands and shooting sporadically as a sign of victory.

At this point, permit me to also say, it is not in the lifted hands or public display that shows victory that matters but how worthy and timing is the hand lifted? How long can such declaration stand?

Talking about timing, so lots of people hurriedly exposed their success too soon and ended up been caught unexpected in problems just like those escort we read above. It is an evil world, filled with lots of surprises and disappointment that   one need to guard their doings wisely.

You don't need to broadcast your success, appointment, contract win or proposals. A lot of people that tow that way didn't get their mission accomplished. The world don't care if you are poor or hungry, so it will be irrelevant and unnecessary trying to keep them on the know of your success or plans.

Finally, it won't do justice if I end this piece without writing on the worthiness of some victory hurriedly expose by some people. I want to ask, How worthy is the success you are celebrating today? Can it stand the test of time? Does it infringe on other peoples happiness? Are you truly satisfy? Can you beat your chest that it is genuine success you got? Do you sleep in delight with your heart at peace? If NO is your answer, then I will  say you are living on a temporary happiness and no matter how happy you make it look, you can never derive lasting peace.

BV TEEJAY.



Hmmmmm this is deep and table shaking!



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WEDDING GOWN TO GIVEAWAY

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Thank you God bless you!!!





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We make school bags, lunch bags,  diaper bags.. We revamp your old bags with new materials or Ankara.. We also produce bags with Ankara.. 
School owners can contact us if they want to use bags as souvenirs. If you are organizing a party and you need bags please contact us.. 
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Small lunch bags:2000
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A plot of land is available for sale at cultural area, Ondo road Akure for 1 million naira but the price is slightly negotiable, interested buyers can mail me on lfjprofessors@gmail.com or call 07054961476.





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I love the tops,would look great with denim pants some kinda shoes like this....
How much are they oh?





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contact me on 08038895695


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FENCED PLOT OF LAND FOR SALE


 I have a well fenced plot of land  in an estate in a strategic location that can be used as a school, church/mosque, hospital, residence etc for sale in Ibeshe ikorodu at a give away price of 3.5m

Please contact me on 08039424758 or 08050723338 or 08097152500

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RECEPTIONIST NEEDED



Hi Stella, there is a vacancy for a female receptionist at a unisex saloon located at Opebi. Salary is 25k and the person gets to work 6days a week with 1 week day off. Applicant should be decent looking and polite. Interested persons should call 07084783749. Thank you

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