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A Grade “C” Customary Court in Iseyin, Oyo State, on Wednesday dissolved a seven-year-old marriage between one Baliki Oke and her husband, Arowolo, over the man’s incessant demand to get laid...
Baliki had approached the court in July seeking dissolution of her marriage to Arowolo over his frequent demand.
She told the court that the union had produced a six-year-old boy.
“My husband wants to kill me with s#x, he demands for it more than he does for food, he wants to have it with me six times in a day before he gets satisfied.
“Arowolo goes to the farm very early in the morning and would not wait for me to bring his lunch.
“He will come home in the afternoon just to have it twice before he goes back to the farm and would still make demands when he returns at night.
“Anytime I try to resist him, he will beat me till I surrender.
“I have decided to quit for the sake of my life, I don’t want to die now, my lord, please dissolve this marriage,’’ she said.
Responding, Arowolo, who did not refute the claims of his estranged wife, told the court that he has a high drive.
“I have worked very hard to solve this problem of incessant urge to no avail.
“The truth is that I can’t cope with life without it, I can’t work, eat or play, s#x is more important to me than anything else in life.
“I have been suffering since she packed out of our house about 10 days ago; I have not been going to work, I have begged her relatives to plead with her on my behalf,” he said.
Arowolo, who urged the court not to dissolve the marriage, also promised that he will put his urge in check if she returns..
Delivering judgment, the president of the court, Adelodun Raheem, said that all the efforts of the court to plead with the wife and her relatives to resolve the crisis did not yield a positive result.
Raheem, consequently, dissolved the marriage and granted the custody of their child to Baliki.
He ordered Arowolo to be paying N2,500 weekly to the court’s registrar for the child’s upkeep.
from:Premium Times
*This is really strange..The woman sounds like she took off her shoes and ran!....what manner of gbenshing will make a woman run like this and even ask for divorce?He probably does the 'wham bang thank you mam'' without enough play...........chei!!!
Lol.., this is very funny.
ReplyDeleteWell the wife didn't laugh, she ran. Maybe he has sex addiction. He needs a shrink.
DeleteGbenshing of life, too much of everything is not good, even something as enjoyable as sex will leave her in pains because it’s just too much, she even tried staying six years, I would have left the first year.
DeleteThis man is not serious o, he says he can’t do anything without sex, that’s why he is broke, his mates are making money and he is busy gbenshing
Na WA o
DeleteEven if he’s doing all the foreplay in the world, too much of everything is bad! How can he even do productive work having sex 6 times in a day... abeg! Let him not come and kill someone’s child. Imagine beating her to surrender , that means he’s been raping her too. He needs a therapist.
DeleteI tell you, everyone has a reason they marry. So this one married this woman to make her a sex slave cos he no juju get money to pay ashawo. Smh...
DeleteThe man lipido is very high. Chai
ReplyDeleteYes. His liPido is indeed high.
DeleteShantelle!!!!You hennn! I saw that o.
DeleteHow have you been Sis?
Lmao @ Cynthia. I'm fine dearie...Top of the morning to you!
DeleteLibido.... correcting someone with love is not a curse.
DeleteMinding your business isn't a curse either @Ms.A aka poster face for gbagaun personified....
DeleteShut it and keep moving.
Poor men and sex are like 5&6. Gbenshing gbenshing gbenshing all day long. How won't they remain poor when their whole vision and goal in life is to get laid? Mtcheeeew
ReplyDeleteExactly, cause if he is busy pursing wealth he will not have time for gbensing 6 times again. Someone's daughter fah.some men though!
DeleteImagine marrying someone that that’s all he aspires to! Smh women don suffer
DeleteStella I don't blame her. Even I can't have sex everyday,I will bruise. Not to talk of 6 times a day. The 2/3 times a week I do with my hubby is very okay for me.
ReplyDelete2/3 ti,es a week..choi!!!,i cant do during the week sef
DeleteThis is called excessive gbenshing, chaii this man wanted to turn her into a horse lol. Obviously the woman is not a sex freak type, please he should go look for his type before he turns to a rapist na so e de start oooooo
ReplyDeleteHe’s already a rapist na! When you beat an unwilling person to submit to sex. That’s rape, wife or not. If this were a civilized society, the man would have been charged with wife battery and gruesome rape too. He’s still begging the judge not to dissolve their marriage, he would have paid the wife through his nose and also subject to form of compulsory therapy along with some jail time
DeleteMy younger ones just called me that my father almost killed my mum with slaps this morning. According to him, he has warned her severally to not cook his meals while brushing her teeth. For God's sake, that woman is working and trying to multitask. Thank God my younger ones can take care of themselves and prepare for school. Am I supposed to arrest my own father now?
ReplyDeleteWell no justification in his action but to avoid it your mom should try to adjust. It disgusting for some people (cooking while brushing).
DeleteYes ooo. Arrest him. I trust my brother, they no born you to touch my mum.
Deleteoh dear I'm so sorry for what your mum is going through. I wouldn't advice you to call the police on your dad though, the Nigerian woman in your mum won't forgive you. How about you talk to your mum about moving out?
DeleteCall him and give him Stern warning,what nonsense!that means she has been choping sound slaps from your Popsy,hehehehe even my village people knows what I can do,if they invite him to the station and threaten him,he will adjust,tell him to watch Blind Spot,see that doctor kissed his babe while she was brushing (spits,I can't do it), that means if she farts under duvee na upper cut and head booth she go receive,please call your mum and console her.
DeleteSorry, anon. Truth is your mum is in an abusive marriage.
DeleteIf you don't deal with this matter, it will escalate to punching. Give him the last warning and be very firm with it.
DeleteYour papa is really sick and your mama no well to continue to receive slaps and shouts
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DeleteSome men though. Can't he canjole and beg her when to stop such when they are in the oza room?He had to result to salp cos he feels entitled as usual.Nigerian men!
Delete@ Just
Delete🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Some men eh.... even with grown children! That means he’s been abusive and your mom has been hiding t from you guys... show him red eye, one time!!!!! Let him know you won’t stand for it and next time, e go be police matter.
DeleteYour dad need stern warning and your mum need a good talking to. No matter how busy, brushing while cooking is not right. Anything can get into that food.
DeleteConsidering how old you are, your dad should never think of abusing your mum. Make him see reason why he needs to have a heart to heart with your mum but if the beating continue with another excuse, you may need to advice your mum to make a choice.
He must be a Scorpio...
ReplyDeleteHian! This is more than food to him.
ReplyDeleteWow...Gbenching gone wrong. His libido is extremely high.
ReplyDeleteI would leave a marriage where I'd have to have sex on daily basis let alone one where he expects sex 6 times a day. He for kuku marry olosho
ReplyDeleteExactly!!!!!
DeleteEven olosho will run with this kind of demand.
DeleteHian! Nothing wey we no go read/hear/sea.issorite
ReplyDeleteI have met a man like this in my University days, the only difference is that the man has money to throw around to satisfy his urge. The man said he really wanted to be a full christian, repent and concentrate on his wife, at times he pities the wife that's why he goes outside. He also complained that God has answered most of his problem except this. He has six children all senior each other by a year
ReplyDeleteThis is the kind of man I need oo . Sex is food for me ooo. Me and that man go fit oo. I can fuck for Africa.
ReplyDelete🤣🤣🤣🤣you need help
Deletemy dear im exactly this way too
DeleteSo tay me wey marry as virgin my husband don dey dodge me dey call me ashawo..and guess what? lmaaaao I don't kia!
😂😁😀😂
DeleteEverybody is wired differently. I'm frigid. I can give excuse for Africa. I hope everybody meet their real match.
DeleteNawooo!!!! I can't stand everyday sex though I'm not sex freak but I think for married couple twice a week is ok. Thank God I didn't end up with someone with high libido, I would have seek for dissolution if he's not ready to adjust
ReplyDeleteA friend of mine confided in me that she bruises each time she gets initimate with her hubby because he’s well endowed and stays at least 30 minutes per section..her saving grace,the man lives abroad and comes visiting every 3months for 2 weeks.imagine now living everyday with this kind of man and having sex 6 times every single day!!!...my verdict;she tried,7 years of daily bruise no be beans
ReplyDeleteShe over try sef. Inukwa six times a day!
DeleteHmmmm. This is very serious, as now there is no wife, how will he satisfy his urges.We now have a sex animal prowling about. women be careful and little girls oh.
ReplyDeleteAnother angle!!!
DeleteIf he can beat up his own wife just to have his way... this one Na rapist oh
Hmmmm. This is very serious, as now there is no wife, how will he satisfy his urges.We now have a sex animal prowling about. women be careful and little girls oh.
ReplyDeleteToo much every is bad!
ReplyDeleteYou all are chattering about sex, that is where your eye hook abi?
ReplyDeleteYou did not see the 2,500 for the child per week?????
Sometimes I wonder if these human beings making these judgements are drunk when they do so.
No be till he even pay the 2,500? Is it Nigerian police or d judge that will enforce it?
DeleteAs in, 2,500 for the child per week is way way too little.
DeleteThis man is poor. Child support is dependent of income of the person paying it. She gets 10k a
DeleteMonth, probably even more than she gets while in the house with him..you’d be surprised
Hehehe....(I laff) mkpo ke pump action. The man the poke well.
ReplyDeleteIf there is money I am sure the woman would have endured.
ReplyDeleteShe obviously has being enduring for the past 7 years and could no longer take it anymore. Oguike don't you think she could no longer endure and it has nothing to do with him having money or not
DeleteHe set her vagina on fire & expect her to bear it. Sex no be food o. He should go look for a woman with same libido, better still learn to control himself, discipline your body Mr man.
ReplyDeleteThis kind of man needs to be in a polygamous marriage. He needs 10 wives at least. His major problem is not his high libido but poverty. I heard this was the case with MKO too and the reason he married many wives and had many concubines. His first wife even supported him to marry as many as possible. Polygamy was specially designed for such men to save them from this kind of embarrassment and disgrace but na poverty dey open their yansh. I really pity him because he obviously can't control his drive. There's surely a medical term for his condition. The man is sick.
ReplyDeleteI cannot cope with this man even for one month,mW that can survive without sex for months,days,years,na my dead body people go see with this man.
ReplyDeleteGbensher for life
ReplyDeleteA man who is a good lover and takes his time pleasuring the woman will not have the time or energy for any other thing if they fuck 6 times a day. It means they will spend the whole 24hrs in a day fucking. This one is the 'open your leg, kpa kpa kpa arrrrrgghhhh hmmmm' type. Any man who fucks 6 times a day is either jobless or a noodles man.
ReplyDeleteTalking of which..there are many noodles men out there these days. I wonder whats going on
DeleteIt's a lie that man last that's y she's complaining if he was a noodles man she will endure. And y do they have just1 child with all this gbenshing
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