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A BOO WITH THE WRONG INTENTIONS.

Good day Madam Stella and may our God Lord continue to bless you. My fellow bvs, una doohhoooo.


I'm sending in this chronicle cos of a particular chronicle where poster said her boo boo left her cos she didn't buy clothes, shoes and bags for herself and for him, ( she bought a camera for her business with the little money she travelled with) but that didn't stop her from achieving her dreams which will soon make her a house owner and can afford all the shoes, clothes and bags she wants . My story is a little bit same with hers.



I haven't been in a r/ship for 3years and 2months, no friends with benefits, no side, up and down, left and right, sideways boo and its a personal decision not until January this year I decided to give love another chance with a family friend of mine I have known for more than 15years. Everyone including my elder brothers told me he (lets call him chuks) was a nice , calm and reserved guy.



I'm an interior and exterior decorator which I started this year but went public March this year, Chuks on the other hand was a non academic staff in a University but was on suspension when we started getting to know each (that didn't stop me from giving him a chance) but on a contract job in same University for masters and PhD students, each student pays 3k for his/her work, which gives him little or nothing every month, say 1-10students a month, 10-15 students only when senate is about to seat and nothing some months.



Clients with big contracts weren't forth coming, some said they couldn't afford it , while some kept mute after taking measurements of their desired areas, I was only getting small contracts which was not what chuks wanted or expected, but I never gave up.


Chuks expected me to travel from state to state in search of contracts just like his cousin who took advantage of the fact that his girlfriend now wife works with a paint company to carve a niche for himself and became an importer on a particular line of business, which is same business chuks told me he wants to venture into, but no funds yet. Chuks told me how his cousin will drive to the girl's office every morning to hustle for clients including travelling outside his state. He expected me to do all that while he stays at home doing his not regular 3k work. I advertise my business in my own little way by making use of social media and sharing handbills from site to site in my town.



Within 2months plus in the r/ship, chuks started withdrawing from me, stopped making out time for us, started being unnecessarily angry and aggressive with me, infact he started avoiding me and always giving flimsy excuses when asked the reason for the sudden change. I asked what the problem was, if I did anything wrong, but got no response in return. His attitude towards me worsened which led to the end of the r/ship.

 I once again became single but wasn't bordered, I buried myself in my job and how to build my company, but not without always praying to God for a bigger and better contracts. God indeed doesn't fail, He answered my prayers when a forgotten "would have been" client called and told me he was ready for me and apologised for not keeping in touch all these while, his reason being that "your job is the last thing you do in a new house before packing in, so I was waiting for your turn which is now. He gave me a mouth watering contract, another forgotten " would have been" client called and gave me ×10 of the previous mouth watering contract I got (these two clients where among the mute ones when I was with chuks).

 I have gotten contracts based on recommendations just waiting for my turn to execute the contracts, done my 1st intensive training and planning for my 2nd, also planning and working towards becoming a dealer on my job's raw materials, all to the glory of God.

Chuks on the other is now unemployed cos the suspension letter became a sack letter. His source of income Is the contract with the University which isn't regular and he is comfortable with it, while he searches for the "girl".

Why this chronicle? People will come into your life and leave, but don't let them leave with your dreams, don't let their "leaving" destroy you or make you give up on yourself. Keep fighting for success with prayers, faith, determination and perseverance, make a name for yourself, be focused in building yourself , make God the centre of your life and see how things will fall in line for you. Please sorry for the long epistle.

P.S: the r/ship was a no "sex" r/ship.
And chuks started catching feelings for me which i thought was real after he learnt and saw what I do for a living.

*Hmmmmmmm na wah oh...Good for you that the relationship ended cos it would have taken a bad turn-

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