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he is not too rich but he is comfortable, he gives me money when I do not even ask, calls me every day from time to time, and the s#x is out of dis world, he is very good in that side with a good looking and size able d**K, and he is also very good looking, that was what even attracted me to him, his height is very intimidating too like he is perfect, he is also very clean with good manners, now my problem is that he is too perfect, like he is hiding something, I mean nobody can be that perfect, at least he must have one problem hidden somewhere....
I spoke to my aunty about him and she asked me to break up with him that he will be a wife beater by the time he marries me, I plan on breaking up with him next week after he is done with a certain project he is handling but am confused if am truly doing the right thing, I love him but I really do not ever want to end up with a wife beater or something worse because he is just too perfect to be real, please somebody talk to me, is it possible for somebody to be without faults? Will I be doing the right thing?
*Na wah for the advice from your aunt?
Has this man told you he wants to marry you?Your negative attitude to this relationship is outta this World...Its possible you dont see any flaws in him cos of the love....Be positive minded and have a heart to heart talk with him about how you feel if he has indicated interest to spend his life with you oh....
But what on this earth is our problem for Christ's sake. Ok then, follow your aunt's advice. I give up.
ReplyDeleteThat man has hidden demons.. i'd also suspect him as well. O had one like that 3yrs ago, smooth talker, 6ft tall, 6figure salary, flat tummy, can apologise even wen he farts, loves me and not afraid to show it, good manners, AA genotype, good on bed, even brings me breakfast on bed.... etc I kept having this feeling in my gut telling me he kept his demons far away... i was patient and reciprocating but i kept my heart far from him, the more i snooped the less i saw, so i gave up and we dated for almost 2yrs till. Till one faithful day God answered my prayers when i already gave up, this guy has the biggest demon in Africa, hes on medication for bipolar.... his own is occasional but its mega wen it comes out.
DeleteHiak, ok now. Help us and post his perfect Number 😂... me sef , I am perfect 😂😂. We can be perfect for each other 😂😂😂
Delete@15:48
DeleteWhich "God" answered your prayers or you meant "god"?
When you begin to fork up and down before you get married, no issues as long as you do not bring God into it.
The God that I know said we should "flee fornication, that every other sin is outside the body but he/she that fornicates sins against their very souls . . ."
May be he's your spiritual husband in human form just to be there for you, you need deliverance, ask Linda Eze. Lol
DeleteLook for his friends and family, from there you can get the info you need to either stay or leave. On your own pray to God to reveal anything 'revealable' about the guy. Go for HIV test too.
You seem paranoid. The guy may actually be that ‘perfect’ or he has perfected the art of pretending and masking his true feelings. Your reason for wanting a breakup is flimsy and silly. Give your relationship more time, be observant and prayerful. Stop having sex until you tie the knot, this can becloud your sense of good judgement. God is the revealer of deep and hidden secrets. Seek God.
DeleteLastly, does he have friends, acquaintances, families, colleagues, neighbors, classmates: these people can give you insight to his life.
Be weary of bad advices.
Poster,stop formication and seek the face of they Lord in prayer and fasting. He will defiantly reveal every hidden things to you.don't break up with him yet.
DeleteHe is married with wife and children in another city. Why would he be angry when he needs your company, it's not as if he has any long term plans with you.
DeleteContinue to sleep around ashawo.
African women are so used to abusive relationship that when they see a good guy they think it's pretence.
DeleteDo not break up with that guy. In fact he's too good for you. Can you kindly fast forward his number here.
He's married!!!!! RUN. No one can be this perfect except they have been with lots of women
DeletePoster ayam not understanding you again o.. What exactly do you want gan? How can you aunt tell you to break up with a man that has done you no wrong and you take that advice.like how is it doing you gangan?
DeleteHope he isn't gay 😏😏😏😏😏
DeleteI feel you poster. I think something is definitely off. And it could be something mega, like he could be gay. However don't break up with him until you are sure you are not being paranoid. If I were you, I would be in snoop mode...
DeleteIf a man is too perfect.... Uhmmm my sister suspect him ooo. I dated one like that few years ago he gives me gift without even asking. He knows all my needs at any particular time he did not even ask for s*x... Until the day we wanted to get down. He can't have sex normally until he beats or maltreat a lady and he's a serial woman beater. Don't leave him until you see the demon in him. No body is perfect.
DeleteHe could be a ghost as in akudaaya, or he could be a woman beater, or he could be married or gay or he could be using your glory as in spiritual things.
DeleteYou already began sharing tohtoh?
ReplyDeleteWetin women they look for in marriage.
So you want wahala fork boy -them full everywhere.
ahahagahahah
Deletelol... them full Ghana must-go bag de find who to buy.
DeleteHas he beaten your aunty before?
DeletePlease be positive, there are people like that who hates to fight and quarrel.
You might be blinded by love and again it might be the love he has for you.
Talk to him first if he wants to marry you.
Whenever people begin to have intercourse outside of marriage, their judgment
Deletegets clouded. So nothing new here.
Lol... village people on point. carry on
ReplyDeletevillage people don send agent in good man form... waiting to unveil.
DeleteYour aunty probably has daughters that are unmarried and is jealous.
DeleteAnyway keep fornicating and think the devil can ever give you any good thing
I once left a guy because he was too good to be true n another because he was too good 4 me as d baddo I thought I was. N u know wat those two guys r still good today even better than b4 n they went ahead to marry d luckiest women in d world. I went back to beg after I realized myself but dey had moved on dis was b4 dey got married o but they both told me de was no more room 4 me. So poster hold ur man tight b4 u live a life full of regrets like me.
DeleteHe gives me money
ReplyDeleteHe forks well
His deek is twenty meters
Are these the things that you must do before you marry a man?
And you jumped into conclusion that he "beats wife?"
Why haven't you signed for Olympic long jump and get us a medal after Chioma Ajunwa's own?
Those are the reasons a greater percentage of women get married.
DeleteLater they will come and cry.
Mumus.
The man hasn't even proposed, he might even be a married man with family in another city
Pesin cannot test before buying again?
DeleteWahala dey for this life o. So your aunt just asked you to break up with someone because he is not like other men you’re used to? Seems some of you are so fond of suffering and issues in relationships that you don’t even know how to relax around people who come with zero issues. Please break up with him so some other girl deserving of a good man can swoop in and have him. Just know that men like this guy exists and I’d ask you to calm down. It’s just a year, he hasn’t even proposed yet,I don’t know why you’re running faster than your shadow. Don’t begin to test him either in the name of trying to get his bad side or think it’s abnormal for someone to be different from the trash men you’re used to. He is not a unicorn, people like him exist.
ReplyDeleteexist where??
Deletewhich world???
They only exist till you marry them.... then you know how far.
Anon please know that good men are still alive and breathing. It's unfortunate that you have been meeting devils in sheep clothes which has clouded your opinion.
DeleteGood, kind hearted, drama free men are still walking on the surface of the earth 😊
Anon 15:35 yes they exist. I know cos I'm married to one. Its 7years and still counting. They are still very good and well brought up men out there.
DeleteAny guy that behaves too perfect RUN
ReplyDeletePoster you are not well, you have dated him for over a year, and he is this great, I think it would have shown if he was bad. I am beginning to believe men who say most woman have fish brain. What if he was just raised right, what if he truly likes you? Please do whatever you want
Deletelol... bae what exactly do you want, obviously you are the one with issues. Is there any sign that he would turn to a woman beater? please a lot of ladies are waiting for him out there.
ReplyDeleteYour aunt prediction is so funny,why re you looking for trouble now aunty. Enjoy your relationship and if you want to see fault in him,create them.
ReplyDeleteChai na wa oh. what do you really want? If he is aggressive, you will say he is aggressive. He is calm and all that you have described up there and you are still complaining. Please take your aunt's advice and drop his number because I am single to stupor
ReplyDeleteMadam calm down and watch this guy very well and don't rush into marriage abeg.character is like smoke sooner or later you'll get to know him if you're not in haste and pls don't break up with him.
ReplyDeleteExactly. Don't rush to break up with him yet. With time if he remains even, go for it, but the truth will out once you get curious.
DeleteYou aunt concluded he will be a wife beater on what ground??
ReplyDeleteWhat if he is perfect like he seem?abi u don't see his flaws cos they ain't that serious....
Ur Aunty is right, Leave him but I beg send me his contact. I have somebody that has been looking for husband since. Thanks in advance
ReplyDeleteI’m sorry how old are you? Did he ask you to marry you? It seems like you’re jumping the gun, babe. Relax, enjoy the relationship. When you start going into marriage talk then voice your concerns. What kinda advice did your aunt give? Women!! Everything marry marry marry. Sigh... sometimes just enjoy the relationship for what it is. Yes marriage is great, yes look out for red flags and yes we don’t want to date for too long only to end up broken up and age against us. I get it! But if you haven’t talked about marriage plans then why are you already there? Talk to him, ask him are you always this calm? What makes you tick? What upsets you? If I did xyz, how would that make you feel? Ask him scenario questions. And yes, it’s quite possible for one to lie when answering these questions but at least you did your due diligence. Ask his friends, family someone if this is how he is. It is very possible that he is! Get to know him some more and if you’re still convinced he may be hiding something then do you. I don’t get how people date/court. Y’all don’t talk but wanna get married? Sigh
ReplyDeleteWhen will she have time to do all these when all she does is open leg and receive 20meters dick. The man doesn't even seem interested in such discussion cos he won't marry her.
Delete@Anon no go kill person with laughter in this blog, which one is 20meters dick.
DeleteIf he's height is very intimidating then beware.... Thats why i dont date men above 5"10 because im just 5"3 don't want a guy that will scare the shit out of me during an argument 🏃🏃🏃🏃
ReplyDeletePoster you are very funny.so you want to call off the relationship bcos the guy is too perfect. Why not try and investigate to know if he is married or not. Don't do what you will regret later oooo
ReplyDeletePoster nobody is perfect in this world but I assure you some are 99% perfect.you just described my husband, infact I agreed to marry him because i was too scared if I break up with him I will bring out the monster in him. I was also scared of ending up with someone who will maltreat me. You better hold what God has blessed you with tight before you loss him to another lady.
ReplyDeletePoster some of us are lucky enjoy it while it last instead of worrying over nothing.
Na wa ooooo, what are girls really looking for in a man biko??? He has everything you want infact according to you he is more than perfect and you still wants to break up with him because he has no fault...The advice your Aunty gave you is not a good one.
ReplyDeleteHissssss rubbish when some ladies are even praying for wife beaters you are complaining that your man is too perfect. This is why some guys act like devils to ladies because women can never be satisfied. Dump him then....instead of you to grab him with both hands and protect and love him with all your heart....Just don't come and write more stories when you are a spinster at 45 years old...shediot
ReplyDeleteOkokokobioko!
DeleteUdonminit!
So women are praying for wife beaters?
Chai!
Have you heard those prayers from their lips?
Abi you just wantu talk?
ABILITY TO COMPREHEND IS A PROBLEM, BCOZ COMMON SENSE IS NOT COMMON. WHAT SHE MEANT WAS THAT MANY PEOPLE ARE PRAYING FOR WIFE BEATERS TO GET BETTER OR TO DESIST FROM THE ACT.
DeleteWhat do women really want? Nawa o. Dear Poster please kindly give me the guy's phone number when you finally break up with him by next week. I am very much interested. Thanks in advance
ReplyDeleteWhat do women really want? Nawa o. Dear Poster please kindly give me the guy's phone number when you finally break up with him by next week. I am very much interested. Thanks in advance
ReplyDeleteThat your aunty no like you.
ReplyDeleteThat your aunty no like you.
ReplyDeleteSome women sha.
ReplyDeleteYou love him that's why you can't see anything wrong, your love is blind...but it seems someone is fanning ur picture in the village.
This guy is still cool with breaking ya waist, u better enjoy it while it lasts...cos I'm sure if u break up with him, you will run crawling back n begging.
Please breakup with him as you dey find wetin no loss. You don't deserve him so please leave him for someone else. it is Obvious from your aunt's advice that your family don't like good things.
ReplyDeleteA wise Hispanic said to me "Anything that sounds too good to be true, usually is".... he was right!!
ReplyDeleteI wouldnt advice you swallow your aunts advice hook line & sinker just yet... but you know what they say about dinning the devil? Get a longer garden fork & patiently wait for the mask to fall off.
Another thing..... Find his mother & make her your friend, if she loosens up you'd squeeze out a thing or two from her indirect words, mothers always know the darkest secrets to their sons, but they hardly tell...
You are right about the mother. My mother - in-law tells me everything about his own husband and my own too. Both the good and the bad.
DeletePoster, you have a good man yet you are not content. Do you want a monster?
ReplyDeleteSee how you are giving us details about his d**k,na wah ooo. Just trust your instinct.
ReplyDeleteWomen are officially stupid. How can a brain lack reasoning like this?
ReplyDeleteOf course he will have his own fault but I guess love is blinding you not to see the faults. And that your Aunty's advise is somehow ,haba why will she advice you to leave him because his a potential wife beater, has she met him before to conclude like that.
ReplyDeleteAnyway still watch him because the part that got me thinking is when you said he doesn't get angry, that he will just smile when you offend him, thats what doesn't sound nice to me. Everyone is prone to anger at one time or the other. Anyway watch him and pray about it, get close to his family and friends and ask the necessary question ,don't let the relationship be all about sex alone. There are a lot of things to talk about that you need to know about each other.
God help you
My dear that "smile" na vex, as far as there is a gesture involved... she just neva knw. My dear dine with him with a very loooooooong spoon innugo
DeleteAlthough some people pretend well, time and situations will unravel some certain traits. Poster wait it out and do not break up with him bcos of what u ain't sure of
ReplyDeleteWhat do women really want? Has he even promised to marry you? That is how I came across a lady long before I got married and said she can never marry because I am boring. According to her, she sees me as someone who cannot beat his wife when she offends and that is a no no for her, that love is expressed in beating. She said that though I am nice and all that, how can she cope with an interesting man who does not drink nor smoke? I had to run for my life
ReplyDeleteHahahahah that one na were alaso.
DeleteThe same way I am suspecting that one that I have been dating,two months now, the guys spoils me with gifts eh. he is really tall, like 6ft tall,but his dick is the smallest I have seen. He confided in me about it and sent me the pixs. He's been begging me for sex, I am just too scared that after the sex, he might change. Please fellow bvs, what should I do? why must sex be in a relationship? And can such a small dick, really small dick impregnate a woman?
ReplyDeleteSmall dick has nothing to do With how virile a man is. A 9 inch dick can be impotent it sterile. It’s the contents that matter ...
DeleteAnd men with smaller dick tend to know how to make a woman come better than those big dicks that just know how to pound ( cos they had learnt early that they can’t rely on their size.... and thankfully a woman doesn’t need size to get off
Your aunt is a wonderful being to offer you this kind of advice which you readily accepts. Seems you're so used to abusive relationship that your brain could not comprehend it when love is shown to you.
ReplyDeleteI expected you to do background check up on him an ask God for direction instead you're searching for troubles where there's none.
Inasmuch as we have bad guys , there are cool headed guys too. Follow your aunt's advice and you will regret it later.
Don't be surprised if your aunt is trying to put you off your boyfriend, in order to have him. Who nor like better thing. Fear the wife beater detector...
ReplyDeleteAnd why are you trying to fix what's not broken? But the fact is, no one is perfect tho'. Keep calm, live in the moment, enjoy the ride but keep your eyes & ears open...
shes not trying to fix anythg.... na run she de run.
DeletePoster I understand how you feel
ReplyDeleteYou are waiting for the other shoe to drop
I hope you snoop? start if you don't
Also start praying seriously for God to reveal any dark side of him.
My dear your village people including that your aunt who gave you that advice are after your destiny. Do until a man exhibits fits of aggression, violence, malice keeping, stinginess then you will know that he is being real and is the one for you are you sure there is nothing wrong with your reasoning or how you see life. Please you are the problem here cos everyone strives to be better instead of you to enjoy what you have and praying in your relationship you are finding faults that are you are praying hard to find. You might be that mans doom cos i have seen and read of ladies who don't like good men. Please leave him alone and go look for your definition of real men. Maybe your aunt is used to dating the wrong men she cannot stand a good man like you. Please take the advice of BVs who like good men drop his number. Ana e zuzu!
ReplyDeletesome men are angels.. my husband is one of them, you just described my hubby and we have been married now for nine years. He is a doting father, loving husband. i hope your aunt doesnthave something up her sleeves.my dear, thank God for the life of a good man. Ifyou miss him, you will alwaysregret missing him. as he will be your standard for future relationships.
ReplyDeletetoo much sense willnnot put u in trouble... ure right!!!
DeleteShe will meare uo any guy that comes her way with this good guy... thats the thing about meeting a good guy first, if it doesnt work out eh u will select tire... u wont find any match.
Dear poster, you are counting your chickens before they are hatched! The guy may not even be that serious with you!
ReplyDeleteSend his contact details (probably a social media account). So I can help you test him and prove your aunt wrong. I won't advise using a friend to test him, it could be dangerous.
ReplyDeleteHanty biko drop his number i'm perfect and need a perfect man.mtchew! Person wey no get problem dey find problem
ReplyDeleteI was once this exact guy, but kept getting heart broken now no girl is worth it. Am perfect for myself. No worry when they leave they always beg to come back. 1 gal left and married a player, the other left her hubby is broke asf I gave him loan, the 1 dt left me last is pregnant and the man left her and is in usa. Sha watch this space... This will b her biggest mistake in life.
ReplyDeleteOga, go wash your head. Only you, all these girls left, don’t you think something is wrong somewhere. Check yourself.
Delete... maybe hes practicing celibacy till marriage! World don spoil, very little girls will stay.
DeleteHi can we be friends ,I'm also like this
DeleteMake sure he's not married, do some medical checks on him including STIs, make sure he's not a ghost 👻 that's a dead person living somewhere else from known relatives. Keep the relationship going, one day the truth will come out . It happened to me too. Turned out the guy was violent and had STIs. Na God save me
ReplyDeleteI HAVE LAUGHED AND LAUGHED, BIKO WHY ARE YOU PEOPLE LIKE THIS, ONE ANONYMOUS EVEN SAID SHE IS SINGLE TO STUPOR HAHA. DO WHAT PLEASES YOU POSTER LEAVE HIM FOR A WOMAN THAT WILL APPRECIATE THAT HIS PERFECT NATURE, NONSENSE TALK
ReplyDeleteIs ok
ReplyDeletePoster you are dating my husband!! I knew I you were going to confess soon that is why I have stayed glued to this page waiting for this blessed day. You better leave him alone. He is married with two kids. The reason why he is perfect is because he just enjoys the sex... if am lying ask him about his kids
ReplyDeleteMe I'll also suspect such man o,how can som1 b that perfect if what you are saying is true,he supposed get one come,even if na body odour or smelling breath..ahahan,aunty talk to him about it, you don't have to break up with him
ReplyDeleteIf your instincts are telling you to be careful then listen to your instincts. Listen to your instincts.
ReplyDeleteThere is NO perfect person on earth.
Nigerian ladies and their brag for the penis, What do you want in a man / relationship, Demon or Angel? There are good men out there. What do you talk about , or is it all money and sex and good looking that you call a relationship?
ReplyDeleteYour mind is playing tricks on you, If you have not given him yourself for sex, would you be saying he is too perfect? Raise your standards.
It seems you are used to rowdy men who brag a lot and have only disappointment to offer - You are not used to the suave and debonair kind of men. God help you with your decision making.
Only time will tell. I'll also add that the both of you lack the fear of God to be engaging in fornication without remorse. Is this the kind of husband you want? Is this the kind of wife you want to be? Coz we all know marriage doesn't cure lust. What is the foundation of your relationship coz that's what you'll be building your marriage on. Is it on Godly values and standards? What are his values? How is his spiritual life? His relationship with the Holy Spirit? Coz trust me it's important when everything else is falling apart. If you remove sex from this relationship, will it stand another 24 hrs? No matter how long you date someone, only God knows a person's heart through and through and what they're capable of and you need to place yourself in a position to hear from Him regarding that. I don't support breaking off with him either just coz your Aunt said so. How does she know that? On what basis did she arrive at that conclusion? Unless there's things you left out in your story that she's aware of and you din't tell us. But get back with God and begin to do things in the proper order coz you've left him out of this relationship.
ReplyDeleteSeems you are used to bad guys,my boyfriend is just like this and I can't love him less.Erase all negative thoughts about him, just go with the flow with your eyes open and your head calculating.There are still good guys out there.Do not breakup with him until you find something incriminating,don't do something you will regret for the rest of your life.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm
ReplyDeleteWomen are something else. We say we want a good man and then when we find him, we think something is wrong with him.
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