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Stella more grease to your elbow.
Now to my chronicle, I have a friend let's call her Mrs E who I have known since my undergraduate days but was my junior in the university then. She is generous,caring,lesbian(started giving me green light during uni days),extremely extrovert, domineering,quick to anger and a mother of one.
Now to the issue at hand,this my friend Mrs E is separated from her ex-husband and planning to remarry a man who lives abroad.. the abroad to be husband came back recently and this made my friend to always miss work which has always caused problem between her and her second.
Because i am close to Mrs E,the two days she missed work,her senior colleague (he)who was supposed to have a field trip with her met me in my office telling me i should better warn my friend about her absenteeism and her being unserious (went to be with her to be husband)...I didn't want to act as if I knew she wouldn't come, I told him let me call her to know if she is on her way, and she picked...immediately her superior flared up that so she picked my own calls and that he has been calling her and even sent her text yet no response and for that he will report her to her HOD to give her query.
I had to start begging the man that she will come but he refused. I had to call my friend to tell her to apologize to her superior but she was busy shouting at me on the phone and I had to hang up.
The next day,she came to work and I didnt come that day ...was busy calling me hypocrite and a bad friend...telling people who cared to listen.Tho we have resolve the issue, i am trying to dump as a friend cos she keeps telling me to finger her cos of her being horny,I always help her but this keeps bringing down my spiritual life..having s#x with female in the dream and don't know if God wants to use that misunderstanding to separate us (has been my prayer to quit lesbianism)
Now her man has travelled back and she still wants us to be close...gisting and others,but I really want to avoid her but don't know hw to do that.
Lastly,was it my fault she was queried? I am also married.
Please make una advise me,have been emotionally stressed
Stella more grease to your elbow.
Now to my chronicle, I have a friend let's call her Mrs E who I have known since my undergraduate days but was my junior in the university then. She is generous,caring,lesbian(started giving me green light during uni days),extremely extrovert, domineering,quick to anger and a mother of one.
We work in the same institution...almost office neighbors.
Now to the issue at hand,this my friend Mrs E is separated from her ex-husband and planning to remarry a man who lives abroad.. the abroad to be husband came back recently and this made my friend to always miss work which has always caused problem between her and her second.
Because i am close to Mrs E,the two days she missed work,her senior colleague (he)who was supposed to have a field trip with her met me in my office telling me i should better warn my friend about her absenteeism and her being unserious (went to be with her to be husband)...I didn't want to act as if I knew she wouldn't come, I told him let me call her to know if she is on her way, and she picked...immediately her superior flared up that so she picked my own calls and that he has been calling her and even sent her text yet no response and for that he will report her to her HOD to give her query.
I had to start begging the man that she will come but he refused. I had to call my friend to tell her to apologize to her superior but she was busy shouting at me on the phone and I had to hang up.
The next day,she came to work and I didnt come that day ...was busy calling me hypocrite and a bad friend...telling people who cared to listen.Tho we have resolve the issue, i am trying to dump as a friend cos she keeps telling me to finger her cos of her being horny,I always help her but this keeps bringing down my spiritual life..having s#x with female in the dream and don't know if God wants to use that misunderstanding to separate us (has been my prayer to quit lesbianism)
Now her man has travelled back and she still wants us to be close...gisting and others,but I really want to avoid her but don't know hw to do that.
Lastly,was it my fault she was queried? I am also married.
Please make una advise me,have been emotionally stressed
*Why are you scared of her?if you dont want intimacy,tell her point blank and also tell her how much you cherish being just friends and not lovers....Good luck!
Lesbians can be very brutal when the issue of breaking up arises. Call her as a friend and tell her that you don't wanna tow that road again.
ReplyDeleteYou don't just know when/when not to use the brackets sign.
DeleteNawa
DeleteYou dint anyway get her into trouble, but friendships are not a must, you seem to want the friendship but not the touchy part, just tell her you feel guilty and want to face God, if she understands fine if she doesn’t that’s her business
But nawa o, she has a male lover but is still looking for who to be chopping her, things are happening and you too, you left your husband to be chooking her... okay o
Dirty lots, married and about to get married and you are fingering each other , I shame for una.
DeleteSo many closeted people.
DeletePoster is not being honest. She and the woman are lovers and she is only acting out and setting her lover up because she has a new man. Just be careful, Nigeria is not smiling with same sex issues
DeleteEnter your comment...don't even just friends with her poster, keep aways from her slowly but be consistent.
ReplyDeleteIf the intimacy she is asking for is making you uncomfortable then speak to her about it.Tell her that you are no longer interested in Fingering her.
DeleteI can assume from what you wrote that you are Bisexual and no longer attracted to your friend sexually.one of the ways to end it is by prolonging your fight with her and that way she may get the drift that you are no longer interested in her.
Don't drag issues with her,remember that you are married and she may become vengeful and ruin your home.
Apply wisdom as you deal with her.
LEP😛
married women gbenshing each oda !! anyway, its better than gbenshing blokos .....any by the way, you are also a bisexual
ReplyDelete😂😂😂😂 “cos of her being horny, I always help her”. Am I the only one who went back to read that portion a few times? Lmao!!! Wetin person no go read for here? Did you mean you were fingering her in a dream or real life? Because you’re confusing somebody here. You mentioned dream, real life, spiritual life all of the above. You should have just come out straight to say your a married lesbian, your engaged lover had a disagreement with you and you’re now worried she might let the cat out of the bag. What can you do to escape, chop and clean mouth? Isn’t it? Babes, break up real fast if you like yourself.
DeleteHahahaha! OMG! @Anonymous 22.10 - u r a sharp babe! Correct analysis of the situation.
DeleteI had to read that part again. U were fingering your "friend". My dear! That is correct "elelele" and lesbo things. Correct sinning. End of! Am pretty sure the fingering extended to sucking ponyor, pressing breast and sucking breast as well... Come here and be deceiving us with sugar coated story
This same lesbian story is what we are confused about. My sister got a help. Very good girl, well trained. Before you know it she became a sister, that you won't even know she not part of us. One church girl her age that do come around during weekends, yesterday she came to us complaining how my sis help tried touching n romancing her. I died n woke up, this a girl you can vow for, she too loved by us so returning her is not it oh. Cos she a sister now. My sis is scared cos of her little girl which we have taught her basic things like no body touches you n she very alert. Since yesterday we are so confused n I'm very disappointed n very sad. Does it really means no one is perfect? Cos she was well created by God n very good girl. Any advice on what to do?
ReplyDeleteTalk to her. Be straight so she knows you know. Warn her off little girls and let her pick on ppl her age. At the same time let her know the bad side of things. If she is who she is, you can't change her. I've told God I'm not judging anybody.
DeletePlease send that for away. Please i bet tou. I was molested repeatedly by our female house help as a child. Please send that girl away sister or not.
DeletePlease can someone be forced into lesbianism?
ReplyDeleteNa wa for this your chronicle.
Lol... no mind her... inukwa ‘I always help her’
DeleteDon’t go and help your destiny, noro ebe ahu na-agho nwanyi ibe gi aka n’ike
Exactly she is also bisexual
DeleteNa wa o.
ReplyDeletePoster stop cheating abeg
See how you are skirting around the main issue of being sexually active with another person while married
If your husband finds out, how do you expect him to feel
Dump that lady abeg, make she no cost you both your job and marriage.
Wonders!!!!!. A grown ass married woman being under pressure to finger a fellow woman. Please what has she got from you that is making you this scared. Make the necessary move and if staying away from her would give you peace of mind , please do. If she threatens to expose what you guys have been up to, threaten to also tell her would be fiance, and if possible, deny such happened. Me i just don't get. why would you be scared of doing the right thing for yourself?
ReplyDeleteShe is obviously helping the poster hide a secret because there is no other reason to be scared of her
DeleteWhat did I just read? U help to finger her when she is horny? That's hehn? U don turn lesbian be DAT? And u are married? Cheating loading. For your sake better cut off whatever u have with her.Stay colleagues. This lady will finally put u in trouble.
ReplyDeleteYou help finger her. ndi ike dirty. Ike ndi married woman, oga na esi yeeeeeeee tufiakwa.
DeleteFinger finger...na for hostel e dey start.
ReplyDeleteJust avoid her, doesn't mean you won't be talking to her, but the gisting, gossiping, etc should be curtailed. Greet her when you see her and pass.
And did I hear u say u are married and she is separated? I hope she is not the type that will go spew to your hubby all your secrets if u fail to oblige her request.
...and nne, u guys are not lesbians but bisexuals. I don't think lesbians fuck guys.
Be careful sha ooo maka 14 years.
And these ones will claim they are faithful to their husbands.You better put an end to that nonsense before your husband finds out.
ReplyDeletethey are very faithful to their husbands!!! this is what happens when men refuse to lick their wives ponyor - its very important to lick and finger your wife. Not just finger like say you are scratching korokoro from someone's body.......when your wife knows she can get head steadily from you theres nothing from another lady or man that will interest her shaggily
DeleteWetin concern faithfulness with lesbianism biko?
DeleteSo cheating with a woman is right,you know nothing Ed.
DeleteAnon how is lesbianism cheating bikonu? Explain....
DeleteShe asked you to finger her?, what happened to her own fingers or is she paralysed?.
ReplyDeleteYou are making me to suspect my friend for she has up to five lesbian friends and she always talks about men when she is with me.
Who knows maybe she does that so I wouldn't suspect. Can't a lesbian be friends with someone who isn't?, or why does she always try to make you engage in something you are not into except you arent saying the full truth.
Married women indulging in lesbianism practice in the office!
ReplyDeleteNothing one will not read here.... I don't even want to imagine the curse you are bringing on yourself and even to your household.
If you were spiritually fit, you wouldn't have gotten yourself into something this messy and abominable act.
Go and seek the face of God with all your heart and beg for forgiveness. Retrace your steps and turn a new live.
Tell your colleague that you are no longer interested in that devilish act and you no longer want to be friends with her (that doesn't mean you will stop greeting her).
I bet you are one of the numerous women castigating men and hyping the all men cheats hashtag.
Change your ways my dear and face your home.
OMG things we read. So you really fingered her then you still call your self Christian. When I said no one is a Christian but striving to be like Christ, you all will say no.
ReplyDeleteMy dear you need deliverance because of the sex you are having in the dreams.
Better pray to God to break every covenant, friendship with that lady.
Tufiakwa h
Babe you are bisexual and you are enjoying it. Tell me you got angry cos her guy came back and separated you from her for a while. The guy has gone back. Resume work accordingly. Forget her ranting to people about you being hypocrite and a bad friend. All na cover up so that people will think you are quarreling. Your guess is as good as mine how you people settled the quarrel. Who am I to judge you. But be careful because you are married and she is separated. Men hate competition in bed
ReplyDeleteLoll.
DeleteYou must be a learner.
Noone hates competition in bed more than the woman.
You have a problem, are you a teenager. Your own mate is taking advantage of you like this and you're still asking questions. Is friendship by force ?
ReplyDeletePerhaps you are a closeted lesbian yourself, because I don't know what would warrant a friend even suggest such act to you, moreso you doing it.
Does she have something on you she is using to black-mail you???? cos I don't get this.
Hahahahahah@ I have been helping her? How? At least your friend has accepted her being bisexual, but you being in denial???? I can't deal. Well, if you are tired of "helping" her, tell her.
ReplyDeleteIndeed she is a good 'helper'. *Yimu
DeleteU mean you dey wet for your fellow woman? oh devil anywhere you dey e no go better for you.
ReplyDeleteChai poster you are a very weak woman and say the truth you are a lesbian but because it’s not an accepted lifestyle you want to see if you can stop. Well let me tell you something you can’t stop it you are weak you will keep being her slave accept your life and deal with it.
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What will I not hear on this blog!!! Fingering your fellow woman...what satisfaction do you guys derive from these your sexcapades sef!!! When correct Amu dey on standby. Nothing like good bulalaa jare.
ReplyDeleteYou mean you insert your long finger nails inside?
ReplyDeleteMBA, it is the knuckle she use to put inside. Olodo.
DeleteShey friendship na by force? Tell her out rightly that yu don't want to b friends with her again...Abi yu r enjoying d lele? There's no need for this chronicle as far as am concerned...If yu don't want sm1 yu tell her. ..don't pet her feelings especially those kinda people who don't appreciate yu.
ReplyDeletebut who has faithfulness to husband helped... my faithfulness to a Randy husband has brought me nothing but unhappiness even when I pretend I don't care. he has freaking taken me granted. I have three kids I can lay my life down for. .and I am also deseparately seeking peace of mind and happiness... Right now it is whatever makes me happy.. What have I gained being a good wife to someone that said I am sexually unattractive. .Some one that in the labour room with me thrice but still doesn't appreciate me...hmm..i have stopped being good...i want to know how being a bad girl feels.. Don't ask me to leave because everytime I try, he stops me and promises to stop but it doesn't last for a week.. I am tired.. He has lost his wife if he doesn't know. .
ReplyDeleteThe issue with we humans is that we feel we are answerable to another imperfect human but no we are answerable to God.
DeleteYour being a good girl wasn't to anyone's benefit it was done to please God and nobody's ways should make you stumble.
People who cheat think they are hurting their spouse but no they are doing themselves for their case is with God. Don't allow him to spoil your relationship with Christ. It might hurt to see him do all those things but remember still if you cheat you hurt God too.
Thank you my dearest. They don't know every man will stand and give account to God. God will never ask you if your husband did it. You will answer God why you did it. .
DeleteYou don't hurt God by cheating, you hurt yourself. No one can hurt God. The commandments of God is for our own benefit.
Deleteare**
DeleteWhen you "sin" you break God's heart. Adultery is a sin so yes you are hurting him. It hurts him when we sin against him.
DeleteA lot of scriptures in the bible pointed that out.
Tell her you don't want anything more than friends and stay on your lane if truly you aren't into lesbianism. Use the issue that happened to your advantage by withdrawing gradually.
ReplyDeleteGod help you
Poster, bad company corrupts good habit. The lady is bad company and corruption is already created in. You shouldn't have been friends on the first place knowing who she is. Your friendship and closeness to her is already influencing you.
DeleteSo what do you do? Break off and stay away from her after you have told her I'm clear terms that you are no longer interested, not just in being her lover but her friend.
And you, u need to purge your mind and your thoughts. Is it possible to become bisexual after this tho u were straight? Yes. Influence. It becomes a habit. A part of you. But God can change all that. Repent of your secret sins and ask Him to cleanse you. Feed your mind daily on God's Word. His Word is water. Allow it cleanse your impure desires and tots.
And when you are back in the Lord, please invite your friend to church. That's all the 'friendship' she needs from you. She needs Jesus.
Na wa ooo, this is a dairy of two lesbians abi bisexual women, behaving like Tom & Jerry, I don't have to put my precious mouth in toh toh matter
ReplyDeleteMadam, I don't really understand why you're so scared of this your friend that you cannot be bold to stop this abominable act -"ARU", "IRIRA". Except you're enjoying the benefits that comes with it.
ReplyDeleteHave you thought about what your family, colleagues and friends would think of you as a married woman if your secret is out. This act can cause you a lot of things you don't imagine.
Tell her point blank that you no do again and ask God for mercy because you need it. Do not succumb or give in to her no matter the pressure.
Hmmm nothing wey adamu no go see for gate. Abeg how Una dey enjoy fingering from a guy not to talk of ur fellow woman.
ReplyDeleteTor madam LEP this one na ur speciality so come give advice o. Ehhn bv chocolate how u take discard that lesbo wey dey reason ur matter for office come give advice abi na u even be d chronicle poster sef.
Look this poster is lying and not telling the whole truth.
DeleteShe used to enjoy it but felt ignored when her friends boyfriend came into the picture and now she is only saying NO to her friend because she is still pissed.
No matter the advice people give her here,she will still go back to her friend, can she swear that she wasn't enjoying the intimacy between then.
She's a Bisexual married lady with a conscience....madam enjoy your Fingering and stop disturbing us.
LEP😛
This is messed up on a basic level. I would've said she's a bad friend and a bad influence on you but you are the same - married bisexuals cheating on their hapless partners, the only difference is that you have small remorse. I really dont knw what advice to give except to say you need deliverance from that lifestyle. Quit joking with your soul.
ReplyDeleteMadam, I don't really understand why you're so scared of this your friend that you cannot be bold to stop this abominable act -"ARU", "IRIRA". Except you're enjoying the benefits that comes with it.
ReplyDeleteHave you thought about what your family, colleagues and friends would think of you as a married woman if your secret is out. This act can cause you a lot of things you don't imagine.
Tell her point blank that you no do again and ask God for mercy because you need it. Do not succumb or give in to her no matter the pressure.
Birds of a feather
ReplyDeleteEnd the friendship today
lmao poster is simply jealous because the friend's man was around. Lesbians and jealousy na like lie and lai mohammed.
ReplyDeleteYou are helping her whenever she's horny,this is when the Deceivee stupidly becomes the deceiver...
ReplyDeleteHahaha crack ya ribs
DeleteJust start looking for another job now now now. You are on the path to destruction
ReplyDeleteYes. She must look for new employment. Once they are working in different companies the friendship will fizzle out on its own.
DeleteOP, you know you have done much more with this woman than mere fingerings. You both left uni and went to work for the same company, which is extremely odd. This tells me that you were deeply involved with her and even through both your marriages you are still having sexual interactions. You will continue to do what you are doing if you are still close to her. You love the sex just as much, don't fool yourself or try to fool us. You probably feel that if you cut her off completely she will tell the world what you are. You have been holding on because you love eating it just as much as she does, but you also want to keep your proper wife image. Handle the situation with care and pray that her husband take her to the abroad very soon.
na waho tell her u are not interested stay on ur own is it by force to suck ponyor
ReplyDeleteMe that love man like no tomorrow, i will now put my precious beautiful hands in another Vjay no wonder i noticed, i hate to see two women play some stupid play, like slap each others ass, drag boobs all those stupid jokes. Madam it's well with you please cut off every form of relationship with that your friend including good morning. This is Nigeria if i am your husband en! I don't know what my reaction would be if i hear this nonsense you wrote up there.
ReplyDeleteIrritating, disgusting and shameful. God created Adam and Eve, Totoh plus penis, to help scratch every corner wey de hitch you inside the Toto. Nothing like prick abeg. You go finger your friend for office toilet come go home go collect prick join, which one sweet pass? You are discieving yourself, you better stop before you destroy your life. Wawuya kawai.
ReplyDeleteAre you stupid, does she pay your bills? What. Is wrong with you? Tell her you don’t want friendship with her, be bold and face her once for all.
ReplyDeleteI had a friend, my colleague that carried my broken marriage on her head like gela and never spoke to me about it, rather she kept on telling people how my marriage broke. When people kept on calling and telling me she was the one who told them about my broken marriage.
The night I called her to give her federal warnings, the babe was mad, I unfriend her, delete her contacts, remove her from my life, I block her immediately. Na so me and her end it up, you better face her and tell her you don’t want such intimacy except you are enjoying her company and fingering.
what nonsense... Finge gini?
ReplyDeleteNawa
ReplyDeleteMore reason why you shouldn't start what you cant finish. flee from iniquity.
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