Thursday In House News

It's Thursday already?I cant wait for Winter to come because this Sun is eating me up..........Note that this Sun is worse than what gives in Nigeria!#winterpleasecomealready...

OMG #Cookieandcream.
Have a nice day yo!!!

RHODA REX TWINNY TREASURE BB COVERS IHN

Holla Stella, decided to send my face for IHN, hope I'm good to go. you're doing a great job,

Thanks dear!

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FUNMI COVERS IHN

Goodday maam,pls use my picture as face of in house as a member of bv.
I am your no 1 fan and your blogs keeps me going day by day.
May God continue to bless the work of your hands.

Nice Tee shirt baby geh!!!

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MEMO TO BV FLORA AND OTHER BVS

Dear Stella,

This is a letter to the Bvs and to Flora. I read her story and the way BVs were lashing her and i felt for her. Truth is i have lived with and through what she is going through now and i understand her perfectly well.



I got married at 24years and the first mistake i did was getting married because my mates were married and not the purpose of marriage. My bride price was paid in January and by March i was pregnant. During that period the beatings in my life started. The first thing i did was to hide it from family because i wanted to protect my marriage. My wedding was slated for August and i was happy to enter the hell. On my wedding night after all the pains of running about and being 5months and 3weeks gone I was beaten blue and black because i was too tired to have sex.



Did his family make it light for me? NO. His mum supported the beating that night and even told me that i shouldn't have shouted while being beaten. That should have been a reason to end the pains from the beginning but i went ahead. He was not rich so it could not have been money but genuine love on my part. I was beaten in that marriage, there were days i was starved because i had no job to show forth too.


Like BV Flora, i felt staying was the best thing as life could improve and the beatings will stop oneday and i will speak a story of past with delight. But it never stopped the beatings and before we could say Jack there was a second child. By this time i had dusted my certificates and was ready to move. In the course of all these, like BV Flora i was also adviced by friends and neighbours to leave because it was soo unhealthy. At times in the course of the beatings i had to hide behind my kids but we all will be beaten.


Yet i stayed.....because i had my own thoughts and believes...


1) What will people say? They will definitely call me a bad woman.
2) How will i cope in the world? I felt life started and ended with my husband.
3) Will i ever be admired again after 2children? Because my husband had told me that no man can give attention to a panel bated car.
4) What will the church say? Even the counsellor in church said she went through it and over the years things became better.


So many thoughts in my mind. At this point i felt that my life has been fucked up "7ways from sunday". But finally i got a job which brought exposure....Many people told me that i was beautiful. Alot of people said i didn't look like a mother of 2. Waoh that created a space for my inner beauty to blossom. I became a woman that could also provide. But i still did not leave.... i still went to work with black eyes.... i still had a man that felt he needed to know how much my salary was. My refusal brought more beatings and more violence. He stopped providing for the family. I provided while he ate without blinking. Yet i stayed.

During this period, i will still see used condoms in his trouser pockets from quickies in his car but i stayed. The beatings continued and i was almost strangled but my thoughts and believes kept working against my judgement.

Like BV Flora i didnt want to leave but the day and the time came. Her day and her time will come. I wasn't psychologically prepared but i felt i needed to leave. I didnt know what the world had for me but i felt i needed my peace and i needed to liberate my self. I took that step but was sceptical. At 31, i left with both kids, no house and i wasn't ready to go to my parents. My job took care of my bills and my children. Today we live better and funny enough he hasn't bother to check on them and for 6years now they have not bothered to ask after him too.

BV Flora will come around and she will leave and things will turn around for her. We have all spoken to her but she will need to speak to her self to make that decision. I stand strong with her because if i can do it, the SHE CAN DO IT TOO.

I hope she gets to read this too.

God bless you Stella..



He has not seen or heard from his kids for six years?JESUS who births these kind of men?are they just missing something or is it their upbringing?its scary and pathetic!

I am here praying that Flora finds the energy to do what is right......




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FROM THE COMMENT SECTION


Dear experienced mothers how do u cope with an abusive man who doesn’t appreciate ur efforts but rather insults u. I just gave birth barely 3months ago, via cs; nohelp from day 1. 


Ttc For almost 4years. My first experience with a newborn, no single help, an abusive husband,PND, I still get insulted from my husband that ordinary one pikin u de complain but u de cry before every night for pikin. He doesn’t do jack at home . He even dumps his clothes on the floor in the parlour for me to pick up. Washing , cleaning , cooking taking care of my over demanding son and still get insulted.

 I commented on the verbal abusive post but didn’t see my comment . There’s been physical abuse twice too. Should I leave my marriage? I have money saved before getting married what business can I do that’s if I leave



Where do you people see these kinda men to marry?I dont get it at all..dont you see the signs before you go in?I am not saying i am a mind reader but i know what i am getting into with anyone i come across,You only need a short time to tell you certain things about certain peeps....before you decide to take the plunge and if you know and go in,you dont complain......

Some of you Ladies are too desperate and end up with husbands from broken or dysfunctional homes ready to do same damage to you.Marriage is not a must,dont rush into it,you will rush out!!!

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BV MHIZ A HAS PUSHED OUT THE BABY


Stella nwanyi OMA, hmmm...I'm full of happiness. You might not know me oo, but I comment as Mhiz A..

So yesterday I was just busy commenting on almost every post, I never knew that the dull back ache I have been having since morning was sign of labour.

I had to call my sis to tell her about the ache she said she is in d church but would come as soon as she is through.

She came around 7:15 and asked about the pain, I told her I have back ache, though it comes and goes. She said let's walk to the hospital let them check me, that will also help to hasten labour.

For my mind, I was like which labour? I expected my baby on 22nd wch was my scan EDD, but no show, hospital EDD was 24th, Tuesday, still nothing. I was just waiting for Friday to reach let me go for another ANC.

Hmmm, SDK nwanyi oma, as my sister and I were taking the walk I kept having pangs of pain, I would want to stop but my sister kept insisting we move on, we reached the hospital, my folder was fetched, they checked me and ask I should go get my bag, my bros was called and he brought my bag.

Everything needed was taken into d labour room, pads, mucus extractor, tissue, olive oil, et al, mehnnn...I laid down and the nurse kept checking me and asked that I should push once I feel the urge to push is hardest, I pushed the first time...nothing. They said I was just busy shouting that I should push again when the urge is highest. Pushed the second time, still nothing, same thing on the third push.

I kept praying, asking God to for forgiveness for all the sins I committed, choi...I prayed ooo.

I was asked to push again and I did, I felt something voluminous leaving my va***na, heey, I shout, but God was and is still with us. Mehnn...My Ada just popped out, I don't even know how and when the placenta was brought out...lol.

Then came the stitching, I was given up to 4 injections in my VJ before the stitches were finished, it was painless then but as I'm typing this, I'm in my hospital bed, looking at MY baby crying and my mum holding her and giving her glucose solution.

I'm still wondering, so This came out of me?
Wooowwwza
I give God all the glory cos only him did this for me. My VJ still dey hot me sha but I'm happy seeing my baby, I know that one go soon heal.

Stella and BVs, join me praise the Good Lord cos he has shown me his mercy even when I deserved it not.

I pray for all TTCing mothers, I call you mothers cos every woman is a potential mother in the Lord. You shall all carry your bundles of joy...AMEN!!!



Congrats baby geh....I hope your ponyor has cooled down...Motherhood will hit you like a thunderstorm but in a good kinda way...LOL


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SEE WHAT A BV SENT ME ON WHATSAPP

Imagine this Nonsense?Look at the day Job a 29 year old has decided to embark on?Is this even because of poverty or is it just his state of mind?if i publish his number now thinking you will cuss him out,some Ladies will add him and give him exactly what he wants......SMH.

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FROM THE COMMENT SECTION

I have a situation on ground.

My daughter is a beautiful girl, 4 years old and dark in complexion. She has a friend who is fair in complexion and of the same age. They went out on a visit yesterday and this morning when my beautiful daughter woke up from sleep, she told me and the dad that her friend called her ugly yesterday. Although, I have noticed the little girl bully my daughter right in front on me when she visits and I warned her to stop that. 


My daughter will never reply because she is on the quiet side but I think this could affect my daughter esteem if they continue hanging out frequently. I want to stop my daughter from going to their house but my husband feels am over reacting. Sometimes, she will tell my daughter lets play a game, 'I'm the princess and you are the beast or rat' and I will tell her to stop that. Several, I will tell my daughter to reply her back if she hits or say demeaning words to her but my husband said am only teaching her to be violent.


 I don't know how to handle this whole thing without it affecting both parents involve.

Could you please advise me on the best way to go about this situation because I don't want to hurt her mum because she is my friend and lovely? Thank you all

*Nah this isnt right!!...You need to look for a subtle way to bring up the subject with her parents and if they handle it bad and it messes up the friendship,nothing spoil as long as your daughter does not grow up with this little girl bullying her emotionally....

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ADA MBAISE ALERT

Please if you want to conceive ,dont  drink aju mbaise.My colleague from  mbaise uses it as a contraceptive and it works for her.
Dont be deceived,those trying to conceive..
From BV


Ada Mbaise is a contraceptive?Are you freaking kidding me?Oh well let them try and if anyone notices it is,then they stop.....

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THE PROBLEM WITH NIGERIANS

We Nigerians are the biggest problem of this country. We are so impatient that we want everything to be done as soon as possible

We were rule for 16 good years without good infrastructures and development, unstable electricity, terrible economy and mismanagement of funds.

Seriously I don't know why a sane person is expecting all this to be fix   within a limited time.

We are clamouring for a good governance even when we ourselves are not even ready for it.

I understand perfectly how things has been so difficult for us in this country but cos of the difficulties we are facing we tend to get our sight of the real issues and problems.

I'm a practical person and always give examples to every of my article. Let say for instance,we nigerians always go through so many challenges and difficulties every single day.

So what do we do when we face our challenges,we still forge ahead to face it ,fight it and overcome it cos we know when we look for a shortcut it might be too dangerous for us.

We stand on our feet and face every challenges with hardwork and consistency cos we have set a goal we wanna achieve

Let's apply that to what is going on in our dear country Nigeria we are going through difficulties and challenges but we are not patients enough we want everything to work for us as soon as it can.

We don't want Nigeria as a country to go through re-processing.I mean how will a country, I mean the giant of africa,I mean the most populous black country in the world,not have a single thing we produce,manufacture and export.

See it took United State of America 241 years old to be great today,people we compare ourselves to,can you please remind me how old is Nigeria.

Before we can get the change we want we need to change ourselves first.
Are we ready for this change,do we have the zeal,strength to wait for this change to come to manifestation.

BY Ibitoye Taiwo Adebanji.



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