Things happen everyday and if people tell you what they go through at the hands of others,you will put your hands on your in excitement or shock....
What is the good,the bad and the worst thing anyone ever did to you that you will NEVER forget....
Oh wait..or was it you that did it to someone?
I have not so many bad and lots of good things but i think the worst happened to me recently..Someone was typing malicious things about me and mistakenly sent it to me instead of the intended person.....can you beat this?LMAO!!!
Hmmmm this post will be interesting.
ReplyDeleteSo many u can't remember
ReplyDeleteTo block me from marrying a certain Bloke in my locality, an Aunt of mine connived with her friends and printed a fake Hospital Test result claiming that am a Sickler. Not even an S-gene carrier o. Imagine.
ReplyDeleteDude was AS, ghosted me and bolted. Then he married her nephew only to find out durimg a family brouhaha I never visited that hospital nor conducted a test there. His sister spilled the info he got from his wife over a quarrel. He apologised and wishing he did make proper inquiries.
The scenario is from what my people call ENEMY WITHIN. The "ójata adu mee" group of relations.( let it happen, make we see). Wicked souls.
And people are chanting forgive in my ears? I'm in a better place but a decade plus, I ain't forgiving any Aunty. NEVER.
Forgiveness is a 2-way medicine;it heals both the giver and the receiver.
Delete@ xhirted p, this your story entered my blood and I feel your anger, God will punish that your wicked aunt. It will never be well with her. Evil family members all over the place!
DeleteLike in the movie.... Thank God you're in a better place.
DeleteSome people were born with a stoney heart.
Forgive her and let go, sometimes we don't just know what God delivers us from, the guy in question should be faulted also,he didn't even bother to ask or sit and discuss with you,he just bolted away,do you know if he would have done same if he were married to you?
DeleteYour choice dear, if that gives you all the joy and happiness you will desired in life.
DeleteI wonder how some people sleep at night with such mischievous wicked heart
DeleteForgive fire..
DeleteWicked aunty with a wicked heart..
Niece you mean?
DeleteForgive my nash...u are d only one dat knows how u feel
DeleteYou are even better off not marrying such a sorry ass shallow unintelligent man. You mean he did not even muster courage to breake things off properly with you? Only cowards do ghost mode.
DeleteIf you had married him he would have been an easy pawn to any malicious person against you since he swallows information without confirmation.
Even genotype test turns out faulse when not properly done. He did not evetry tou cross check. Good for him. Good riddance.
Forgive her jare,the man was def not made for u!!
DeleteMayb bcuz ur aunt knw dt u r mentally unstable
Delete*Niece jare. No mind my keypad.
Delete*during a family...
Forgive fire. She's getting it hot in her old age, yeye Aunty. Typical household enemy.
Mumsie nearly passed out the day we got the info. She went like "kpoolunum Fada o, atokwam o"(Someone please call me the Reverend Father). Hahahaha. She virtually forgot she was no longer a Catholic for decades she got married. You can imagine the shock.
He still comes around my father's house during Xmas in the villa but for DH's side? Naaaa. E no wan "familiarity". Hahahaha.
That aunt must be from your father 's side right? Mothers's side hardly hurt.
DeleteDear Xp,
DeleteComing from you who's always talking about how people write poorly, I'm disappointed.
It is I AM Not am.
You should know better.
Cheers.
Anon😁
Deletedont care what anyone does to you, if you dont forgive you cannot make heaven....dont even bother arguing with me cos i have had a testimony of someones near death experience and unforgiveness was one of the things God mentioned and i am totally convinced it can hinder you in alot of ways..I have known someone get healed just by forgiving, so my dear am not saying it to judge you, its your life but you will be better of forgiving your aunt..
DeleteI'll start from the worst down to good.
ReplyDeleteThe worst was my ex getting married to another guy few months(in less than 6months) after I travelled outside the country.
The bad part is I was in communication with her even till the day I came back yet she didn't tell me about the whole marriage stuff.
The good is that she gave me 50k when I came back cause I was very broke(I spent all my money travelling abroad as a novice). Maybe she paid me off with the 50k..but I felt good with the money.lol
Lol,so she paid you and problem solved.Lol
DeleteHahahaha...... Boss man you will never stop amazing your boy. So women also pay men off? Lols.... She would have given you like 200k na for the heart break.
DeleteKpakam!..@Firstlady. lol
DeleteTJ the 50k was like 500k o..it took care of many things then. Lol
Kikikikikiki
DeleteI won't do u like that baby.
DeleteCan u be serious for once?!😉 Lmaoooooo
DeleteOne day about four years ago, I entered a market to buy meat, I had no intention of buying tomatoes/pepper but a woman selling pepper beside my meat seller looked at me and said although I told her I am not buying pepper, she just wants to give me, 😳, I was shocked, she gave me her freshest tomatoes, tatashe, rodo and blended it right in front of me, it was a lot, my driver was with me and was equally shocked. The second one happened last year, my husband gave me a surprise investment that is TOO BIG FOR ME TO MENTION HERE! People are always doing good to me. I think it’s because I don’t think evil towards anyone.
ReplyDeleteMy dear that's how people pay my transport fee all the time and it just makes me happy but I can't tell why.I guess its part of God's blessings.
DeleteBecause you are a good person.... Being good is like a special cologne put in small bottles. It smells can be perceived from far away.
DeleteLucky you!!
DeleteAaaaaaah! Madame don’t be so happy about the gift of pepper o! Never take an offer of free pepper from anyone. Never ever!!!! It is used to spiritual transfer life’s problems. Ask any village raised adult from any tribe. Trust me that act wasn’t an act of kindness. She had an agenda. Tomatoes Yes. Pepper, never accept.
DeleteLolll me I never accept free things from people I don't know. Even the one I know it's very very very hard. Talk less of absolute strangers. If you only know what people do with their so called gifts to others ehn. Hmmmm. God forbid.
DeleteGood - My life is one of grace.
ReplyDeleteBad - Recently I was denied something that came to me legit. I was overly joyed for it but shit happens.
Worst - My aunt gave me her phone to fix her messages that were not delivering on WhatsApp. A message dropped from her daughter my cousin & besty. I opened to see what the issue was and their convo was all about me. It wasn't a funny read.
I don't keep things in mind that long I let go and just see it as one of those things. I love my peace God has graciously given me bitterness can't come and steal it.
Bravo Señorita! There is nothing better than having your happiness and peace of mind.
DeleteThose that always talk negatively about you, are not always at peace with themselves.
I tell you,Bitterness is a demon,I thought I would give up last year when I was scammed but God kept me,inspite of all that happened, His mercy saw me through and I let go of all hatred and now I can recall the incident and just smile.
DeletePls don't tell that your aunt and her daughter or other kids of hers whenever good thing is about to happen in your life. Pls I beg you. I'm speaking from experience. Just surprise them with your blessings.
DeleteMy own aunt and her daughter were using witchcraft it block my blessings. Any serious responsible man who showed interest in marrying me and I tell them, the man will just run bankrupt or dump me. Any good job interview that I go for, they will not pick me. It was when I left their house that I got a good job and got married to my sweet hubby. It was then that neighbors saw me in town and were telling about al the bad things they said about me. They even gossip bad about me to my people I. The village too. I just ghosted on all of them till today. Blocked them all on all my sm handles
Hian! @using witch craft to block ur marriage and job. Pathetic!
DeleteHave experience so many.
ReplyDeletewill be bk wen i'm in rite frame of mind
I have had a lot of bad experience with family members and friends, but I will never give up on them, I just try to forgive and avoid them.
ReplyDeleteTwo people I trusted so much almost wrecked me financially. I thank God for the kind of heart He blessed me with. My life is far better than their lives.
My own is that I was scammed, don't even want to talk about it but in all I give God the praise.
DeleteI trust people in life not because it is safe but for the benefit of doubt and the willingness to take a risk. So many battles I have fought in order to survived.
ReplyDeleteSomeone I was helping out financially years back planned a robbery attack on me because of the knowledge he had that money came into my hands.
As God may have it, one of the boys contacted for the job is from my community and has received assistance from me severally. He secretly downloaded everything to me. I embarked on an emergency relocation to my elder brother's house and stayed for two weeks. The idiot keep calling to say I am scarce ooh, did I travel? if all is well.. Till date I didn't tell him anything about it and my business.I stopped giving him help also.
Enemies within.. imagine!!
DeleteTeejay and ED, na wa oo
DeleteChildhood friend just got up one day n decide to snub me...I asked if I have I offended her, she ignored me, I was like to hell with u abeg, later I hears from a mutual friend that her boyfriend told her to stop being friends me that I'm a bad influence...I was like wow....where did DAT come from? Emi? bad influence? Funny thing is, if I bump into them, d guy will holler at me,wave n ask about family while she will just be looking ...e dey pain me o, but hell, I've moved...
ReplyDeleteBb,
DeleteThat thing can pain ehn!
My friend was also told to stay away from me not for being a bad influence but that I would make her leave him.
He used to hit her So, he knew I would definitely have talked her out of the relationship.
She stopped talking to me cos of him and now, they're no longer together.
When she almost died was when it dawned on her that he was gonna kill her some day if she didn't leave.
Shebi he has gone and I'm still here for her?
When that guy leaves tomorrow, who would be there for her if not You?
Nonsense. When some ladies go into relationships, they throw all friendships aside and the annoying part is, such relationships(the type that the man asks you to leave your friends for him) never last.
the man that came to do introduction to marry me ended up marrying my cousin. Till date I don't know how it happened.
ReplyDeleteWow!
DeleteNawah o
ChaiChai. He's a confused being.
DeleteEeya...nawa.
DeleteEnd time cousin.
DeleteJesus...are u a learner?? How can u say u don’t know what happened...I laugh in my village witches voice dat marriage will not hold....
DeleteU see one thing about all this evil people once u let them they will think they have d upper hand...which kind dull girl u be?
Ahhh!!
DeleteKaii, this one make me weak.
DeleteYou better find out.
DeleteTyping/saying the bad things people do or have done to me seems like I haven't forgiven.
ReplyDeleteExactly. I have moved on from all the bad done to me by my siblings and people.
DeleteLet me start with the good one, one of my aunt gave me my first car in 2012 which was really helpful for my business. The bad, a woman i was good to, introduced me to a man in 2013 and marriage plans kicked off and the same woman started bad mouthing to the guys sisters and marriage didn't hold after we have chosen date and made preparations. I wonder how some people sleep @ night.
ReplyDeleteJust like devil, they give you with one hand and collect with the other hand.
DeleteGive and take, your right man will meet you face to face
DeleteI look back and thank God for all the bad things people have done to me. It's made me a better person! The funniest one was when my former Paster's wife called me and forgot to drop the phone. I heard her and her daughter abusing me on top of the big favour and gift I was giving them. When she came to collect the gift I asked her to get her husband. Told him what I heard and I will no longer be a member of his church. There's more but I will stop there. Let's just say never despise the days of small beginnings. God is indeed a rewarder of those who seek him in spirit and in truth.
ReplyDeleteVery good...i like u
DeleteA lot of good things happen to me. I've been so blessed especially after the birth of my baby. I get free rides, free access to certain restricted places, get favours anytime I go out with her. They will say "na because of your baby o". I was particularly blown away the day after I posted her pic here, a BV abroad blessed us with a huge sum. Or do I talk about Angel Beautiful and Stella, how they have been of tremendous help. A lady who told me I will suffer if I don't abort my baby and live my life, saw us the other day. She couldn't utter a word because my baby looked so lovely and well fed. We're not suffering and I'm living my life. God is faithful.
ReplyDeleteBad and worst? Not today. I'm counting my blessings.
My former colleague who connived to get me to not have a job anymore now knows that I know all she did behind my back. A trusted friend of hers spilled all to me when she saw how I was going about simply doing my work and being extra chummy with her. Someone that would eat my food, we would go out to events, share private matters and have a jolly good time together in the office. I thank God for that friend of hers who let me in on everything. She knows I know and I have cut off all communication and held my peace. She is a very committed Christian and her type will make people to 'yimu' at Christianity. I have not forgiven her because my job was taken away from me. I do not think I can forgive her after all I heard. I pray her kids do not take any of her traits. All these people you will be caillca my egbon in the office, one should be very weary. It is well. Let me not go further as this is a touchy subject.
ReplyDeleteHmmm....be careful of these nestfriends that turn around to tell you stuff their own friend told them in confidence. Thats a very dangerous fellow and you shouldnt be happy about it especially if they are still friends. The "christian" probably no such thing and reversed might just be the case.
DeleteMy advice is confront the "Christian" and disclose your source of information.
You probably lost ur job cos you were harbouring bitterness against a wrong person.
I dont advice close friends at work. Lets be very careful. Oh God... 🙆♀️
DeleteHmmmm
ReplyDeleteThis touched home and I had to go and gather strength to share.
I've had both bad and good experiences. Be careful of that cousin, uncle, aunt, friend that is always coming to your house to seek for help and calling on the phone all the time to greet you. I once shared here how a very close relative shot my late husband on the leg in the dream and when hubby woke up, he started having problem on that leg till he died from complications on that leg even after it was amputated. The same man took all his land and other things and chased us into the world. I thank God for the good times, where he sent angels including SDK in form of strangers to assist us. He spared I and th kids lives throughout the whole attack and today we thank him. My kids look plumpy and healthy despite all, they don't look like what they had gone through.
Pls let us be wary of that close person, be prayerful and keep our future plans between us and our partners.
May God restore all you have lost Mrs Gee!!
DeleteI believe you!! Also, prayers work. Someone who my father could give his right eye for tried to assassinate him too. But for godly confusion and the person took to the grave unannounced. It is well.
DeleteMrs Gee you are so correct @ your advice. Pls women if you have a husband that opens mouth anyhow and tells his mum, uncle, brother or friend everything you planned to do like building house, buying a car, travelling abroad, etc. Pls enter serious fasting and prayers and beg God to change him because such a man can bring danger to his home with his mouth. After telling his mum, that one will tell her friends, sisters, brothers, etc bragging about how her son is doing well and then they will strike.
DeleteLet me stop here. This applies to women too, the ones who tell their mums, friends, sisters and other relatives everything happening in their marriage including on-going projects and plans. Tame your mouths.
Mine is an owerri babe i helped to stay in my apartment.some 2016 i met this babe at my place of work and she told of me of having issues with accommodation I asked her to stay with me and that was how I lost my relationship. Babe was gbenshing my Bobo in my own room.really don't wanna say much.bobos friend had to tell me cause to him I was too nice to be treated that way.Till today I dint tell them about it.just ended the relationship with the shameless he and she goat.
ReplyDeleteYou did well..they both deserve each other...yeye!
DeleteIf I start to talk ehn.
ReplyDeleteE no go pass fabu, please save yourself te stress. Aunty bigz geh wit zaron sippin on 'coffee rhum at 10am.' #yimu
DeleteI was betrayed by friend a colleague in the office. She kept coming close to me and I didn't kn it's bcos I worked in H.R. She wanted to know d salary of a particular lady that was sleeping with d m.d. I did not know is a trap ooh as she was sleeping with d m.d too. I foolislishly opened my mouth. She was jealous that d lady earns more than her. That's how I lost that job. My life has been a standstill since I lost job. D suffering nor be here. O learnt d hard way.
ReplyDeleteWhaaat??!! This is office brouhaha oh. Real one...
DeleteSorry about that.
DeleteHmmm mine was bae telling me not to go for service still thinking of that anyway. The worst he did was not assisting me to pay 24k for my convocation and certificate I have come to the conclusion that he doesn't want me to go foeward in life. Atleast even if he borrowed me the cash I would have paid when I collect my salary. He does not even see it like he did anything.I've told myself that if I don't end the relationship even if he is dying I will never assist him in anything.
ReplyDeleteYour dating urself ohhh-pls run far from the guy.
DeleteEnter your reply...
Delete@Omo, you see someone saying 'if' she doesn't end the relationship.... You are advising her to run far from the guy, did she tell you she doesn't know she supposed to end it? You want her to be boyfriendless? If she needs hot d*ck, will you service her? do you have another guy for her? Where do you want her to see another boyfriend this one that she is jobless and relying on a guy to pay common 24k for her certificate? you don't know that men these days don't want jobless ladies, they want working ladies. Pls let her stay and die there since they tied her destiny to the man. Last last she will get pregnant and the pregnancy will reject abortion.
I have every reason to thank God for my life. But one that really got me pained was my friend that I accommodated treated me like trash when I had accommodation problem few years later. When she stayed with me, I never bothered her in any way. She was literally like the owner of the house. I saw hell the period I stayed with her. Fortunately for me, some good people came to my aid and begged me to move in with them. They treated me far better than my own friend. Imagine that!
ReplyDeletePeople are so mean.
DeleteSo I'm married to this very handsome and awesome gait bloke. We're not rich but quite comfortable and are an envy of everyone around us, whether in our various families, in church, neighbourhood or around friends. Our love too sweet outside and we've been married more than 10yrs. But my fine boy na face he fine o, he's a 2mins man! Moreso he doesn't like too much sex and me my libido high pass kilimanjaro. Oh God!
ReplyDeleteI've endured this situation for so long, prayed, talked to him, prayed some more until I no fit endure again. Small small I started to cheat. First with an ex, it was just a one off thing... I almost died of guilt, I couldn't eat or sleep. It happened again and a third time and the guilty feeling almost drowned me.
Then one day, years after the cheating episodes a prominent man in church started to make advances at me. Me wey conji wan kill I fall face down.
Thing is, the man's wife became my good friend and the children love me and my children a lot they even spend some weekends at my end. The man de fuck me pass wetin mouth go fit talk eeeeh! He's much older dn my hubby and doesn't go close to my hubby at all in looks but very active and innovative in bed, nothing like a person his age. In fact we match each other head to head in bed.
Sometimes I feel bad that I'm cheating with my friend's hubby but I take solace in the fact that God understands. I've been sex starved for many years. I'd very much like to stop bc the guilty feelings are choking me but I'm enjoying the sex too much.
Y'all can cuss me out but you won't understand what it means...
He's WhatsApping me now and I tire to type make I go make arrangements for tomorrow fuck abeg. May God forgive me.
Oh my days, lafffing and rolling. Madam naw only you Waka come?
DeleteCan't condemn you. You are feeling guilty already. That's enough punishment
As e dey sweet you..dey sow the seed sha! Hope you are fully ready for harvest because it will definitely come...keep sowing the seed,plant and take care of your garden...await the BIG HARVEST!You cant miss it.
DeleteGalatians 6:7:
DeleteDo not be deceived, God is not mocked; for whatever a man sows, that he will also reap.
Your reward is coming. Just be expectant.
lol....you are living in fools paradise and you dare to insult God....he doesnt understand sin NEVER..sex is a big deal and honestly i understand when you are not sexually satisfied it can be very fustrating. but yes am judging you cos we need to help you before your disgrace go come...why your friends husband? you would have gone far from friends and family or better still get a divorce instead of allowing guilty conscience eat you up slowly...
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