Kay and Dee are lovers, Dee is a young fine boy, who can get any girl he wants with his good looks
The lady is also a beautiful lady, she had come to visit this boy one day when a misunderstanding happened between them and the guy did not only beat her blue black he added purple and green
He beat the living daylight out of her and stabbed her with something on her upper lips and threw her out that night, she sat down by the corridor looking like a homeless child, people in my compound were like sorry and were attending to her wounds it was late and the guy had locked her out.
She had to sleep so we invited her into our apartment and gave her words of advice, and asked why she allowed herself be treated this way, boiled water for her to bath, attended to her wounds. Gave her the pain reliever I have at home...... we all slept on the floor and gave her the bed.. thinking say this girl na human being
The next morning she woke up and was looking disturbed, I asked her what the problem was and she said her phone had gone off . I was like oh.. you need to call home or your people abi so you can go home safely , she answered and said No! I want to call my baby ..
To say I dey shocked na understatement, na so I open mouth no fit close am , make e no be like say I be bebeto I calmly asked her ''sorry which baby?'' And she said Dee my boyfriend of course .
Oh! Na so I carry phone give her and right there she punched the guy number on it and was apologizing to him that she is sorry she angered him to beat her, I could hear the guy raking on the phone and she kept begging.
I felt like strangling her but I kept calm. She finished with the call and handed me my phone and said Dee said she should come inside. Na so she comot for our room go meet the guy for him room .. I was speechless
Well she stayed with the guy for two weeks before she left. And avoided all of us that talked to her about leaving the boy like a plaque .. (lol)
Who don experience this kind of loving before ? me I call it ''We die there''
*WOW....hmmmmm this is the same reason some people do not even answer all these women who cry domestic violence anymore...Before you turn,they have gone back begging and you become the bad person that is trying to separate them!!
Lover of destiny, we die here. Sometimes it is ignorance that makes people like this go back to these beasts.
ReplyDeleteSo many woman suffering different types of abusive relationships and marriages Sometimes it's better to just look before you become an enemy cos whatever you say only comes out through the other ear. They prefer to figure out ways to please their partners and lose their voices in the process. Relationships should make you better not turn you to a slave
DeleteEnd time love.
ReplyDeleteIf you want to die there, stay and die there. Me I can't get involved in couples wahala abeg. I can't even stand anger from my partner. If face change I go move close to the door quick quick.
DeleteAll these girls na the same. Even those wey go come here dey shout "foolish girl, beech, bla bla bla". Even if boy beat them commot two legs and two eyes, them go borrow artificial legs, find person wey go lead them by hand as they waka back.
ReplyDeleteEspecially if the guy don promise marriage or them don abort for am.
Or suffocate for him?
DeleteWe die here indeed. Mama Nnuku how far with the accommodation now?
ReplyDeleteNa real wa
ReplyDeletethis isn't love bt stupidity.
mama nnuku na real we die here.lmao
Yes na in school....I just warned her never to tell me about her useless boyfriend again
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm
ReplyDeleteThey die there
I have a cousin who will rather die than leave the mumu husband....she said she can't leave with all the marks on her body.Her parents are tired Sef
Eyah.. No b so ooo.. When she no be goat wey chop yam..
DeleteHmmm some women like it the violent way.. It resets their brain and make them think wise 😷😷😷😷😷😷
ReplyDeleteYour name should be Ani Shame and not Sunday. Radarada!
DeleteYou can't blame him. No matter what you do or say to some women, they will still go back to collect more beatings. Our neighbours boyfriend used to beat and drag her on the street. By evening time she is back to receive more.
DeleteThere is this woman that her husband always beat her, rape her. Doesn't take care of her etc, the last one he threw her out I gave her tfare back to her family place a trip of 9 hrs, now she is back and doesn't talk to me, I no send na to make money nai dey my mind
ReplyDeleteJust negodu
ReplyDeleteThis is the lowest self esteem issue I've come across. I've had experience with ladies like this.
ReplyDeleteThere's this my colleague who's dating a baby daddy, she's aware he has a baby mama, even went to his house on the day of his baby's naming ceremony. The guy broke up with her at one point & she vowed never to go back.
Next thing I know, "my boyfriend this, my boyfriend that". She's back to screwing the guy, even told me she's planning to patronise Jaaruma untop his matter so that he can marry her.
The extent ladies can go..! Having a low self esteem is the worst illness that can affect a lady.
SMH
It happens everywhere jare. She may even marry the Dee guy.
ReplyDelete"we die here today" and them still dey die.
ReplyDeleteNa so e dey start... Before u know it, they don marry... When the guy start again after marriage, they call it domestic violence... Abeg the one that happened during courtship is called what? Courtship violence...
ReplyDeleteDeath dey smell for her head ni
ReplyDeleteLow self esteem
ReplyDeleteLet me add to your gist...
ReplyDeleteI had a neighbour like that o. He would beat his girlfriend until she bleeds. One day, na so i carry my two left leg go separate their fight only to return back with scraped hand. I now took the girl into my apartment and she told me everything that has been happening. How the guy used a '4 by 6' plank to hit her face, one time like that. How a splinter from the stick pierced her mouth and came out inside. She bled very well but he took her to a pharmacy and stitched it. She stayed with him till the injury healed. Even when she finally went home, she told her parents she had bike accident. This is a girl living with her parents o. She would tell them she wants to spend the night at the university hostel so she can read, but na the guy house she dey steady. She even told me that one day, while they were in his car, going somewhere, they had an argument and the guy just stopped the car close to a market and told her to get down from his car. Guess what, it was raining! She refused because of the rain. She said, guy man came down, went to the other side, opened the door and dragged her out, entered his car and zoomed off. Even tore her cloth in the process.
My dear, after all the gist, I now asked her what she wanted, if she was ready to walk away. She cried o, that she was fed up and she wants to leave. That what even caused that day's fight was that he told her he's in love with her classmate. I told her that I'm not an expert in love matters o but I'll refer her to someone who can help because at that stage, I knew that only a counsellor can talk sense to her. I called my youth pastor in church, someone I knew would not judge her and also give her good advice. We went to my church that day, spoke to my pastor and the advice he gave her was that she should stay away from the guy. We left the church together. She said I should accompany her to a lab because she wanted to do a pregnancy test. She did And it was negative(for my mind, thank God!).
I was in my room that evening when I heard an urgent knock. I opened the door and it was her. She said she came to carry her bag from the guy's room and she saw him sitting outside. She now begged me that I should follow her so that the guy will not come and meet her alone and beat her again. I told her i would follow her but I'll stand outside. Since he's outside, she should just dash in and pick her bag. As we stepped outside to go to the guy's apartment, the guy came and back. He called her to have a talk with her.hmmm.. I held her hand and told her not to. She looked at me and told me she just wants to hear what he has to say. I then told her, ok o. But if you need me, just run down to my side. Do you know that this girl never came back? I went out after 30 minutes, lo and behold, she was in his room gusting. You can imagine my anger. I just kept quiet and entered my house and locked my door.
After that day, she avoided me like a plague. The one that pained me the most was that if i passed by the both of them, they would whisper something and laugh, then the guy will hold her and kiss her well. For their mind o!
The day wey matter caste! I was in my room when I heard the shout again and boom! Them don use person head do tennis ball for wall. The guy was whispering 'shut up!' The girl was shouting my name 'auntie D***' come and save me'. I no even cross my door-mote! As it was going on, some visitors came to see me. They heard the noise and asked me what was going on. I sha told them in brief. See laff! We just sat in my room and laughed for her to hear and i guessed that was what broke her. I heard her tell the guy that he has shamed her enough. After that day, sister never branched that house again, till I moved out.
For me, people like that, you let them make their own decision, else, you will be 'westing' ya time.
Btw, how do I get my own blog name. Wats URL?
Geez
DeleteShaking my head
pathetic. some ladies are so broken right from childhood and front that they have come to accept their fate as its meant to be. they are scared of leaving. they are scared of being alone. some are scarred for life. they are the only ones that can pull themselves out of that space.
Delete😂😂😂😂 no mind her....foolish thing
DeleteLove kill me I die..kwakwakwakwa. My elder bro used to have a gf who was so closed to me.in fact I tell some pple that she's my sis cos of how closed we were.But dis my bro sabi panelbeat this babe eeh.After beating her d babe will come to me and ask me for advice..as in whether to leave my bro or not.I told her point blank that my bro doesn't love her that's y he's beating her like this.that me I can't stay with a guy that beats me.I came back from work & saw her in d house with a bag full of goodies she brought.in fact it looked like they gbenshed sef.when she saw me she was smiling like someone dem dey chuke finger inside her ponyor.me I didn't say anything.since then if she comes with her "pls advise me" I jst tell her to follow her heart.
ReplyDeleteLmao...Same happened to me. I didn't look her side again until he dumped her like a sack of potatoes after wasting her years and driving away her potential suitors. Some pple don't like themselves.
DeleteThis one na do or die
ReplyDeleteLolz I don't give Advice to any mature lady before I become Enemies of progress..
ReplyDeleteThis kinda shit happens when you have conditioned your mind that he is your all in all,he is your support & all etc. Ladies guard your heart, be mindful of what you feed your brain & heart. Sometimes some circumstances(poverty,joblessness,low self esteem etc) surrounding you can get you to this stage before you know it you don join the 'we die here gang'.
ReplyDeleteI was once in a relationship, the difference is that he wasn't violent, he doesn't raise his hand against me, but he acted like I couldn't live without him, saying he was the best thing that happened to me & I believed, he even said I couldn't leave him, no man would treat me better than he did, he told me he was the best i could get,always told me any other man won't tolerate my bad behavior & that they would beat me badly, & bcos this man was successful & all I desired in a man I almost started seeing him as my mini god, I believed everything he said, after 3years of enduring his stupid ego,failed marriage promise,amongst other things I borrowed sense, I had to be strong, told everybody I knew would help me get over him, they all helped me & pulled me out of such an awful relationship, now I'm very happy & when I look back I just smile & be like what was wrong with me, why did I feel I couldn't live a better life without him, like its crazy. These women in this kind of relationship need help. They need someone to talk sense into them no matter how long it takes to sink in, never give up on them.