IHN-MONDAY

Hmmmmm.....There is a story inside today's in house news that will either change how you treat people and bless you or make you cuss out at the poster for telling how he was zoned for being a broke ass...whatever you decide on,you cannot change his story..I hope the BV who messed him up has been taught some lessons......I learnt something too.
Kisses to all.....



#ThisLifeeh!!!

BIRTHDAY GIRL PEJU COVERS IHN

Hello Stella,
Today is my birthday(16/07/2018) and I'm grateful to God for life...The last 365 days didn't turn out that well but I realized that I shouldn't let what's happening around me weigh me down.Happy Birthday to me




Happy Birthday...May your day turn out right!!!
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TEACHER ON HOLIDAYS


I am a teacher and school is currently on vacation. I intend to spend the holiday reading as many books as I can. However, I can't buy all the books I long to read. I'm appealing to people who have books to either lend or give away in Lekki, Vi and Ajah axis to please reach out to me via 08052715844.



Reading as many books as you can?Wont you rest?Na wah!!!
Eko Joy what will you be doing?




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NIGERIANS ARE TOO WICKED

Dear Stella,

Don't know how to put this but I 'll just type anyway. I think Nigerians are the most wicked people among the black race. Starting from the heartless leaders to ordinary gateman in a company who thinks he's better than applicants applying for a job in the company. The worst group are those abroad who have relatives with them but turns them into slaves.


 They make the lives of these people so miserable that they are willing to do anything to get out. Some succeed in their endeavour and treat others the way they were treated and the cycle continues. A lady in a similar situation died last week and I see these people that made life unbearable for her crying like they would miss her...

How can you miss someone you are trying to eject from the house,a member of your family sleeping in a VACANT room in your house. Sometimes i am ashamed to call myself a Nigerian, the way we treat ourselves is appalling. 


Mexicans,Indians etc live together peacefully without being related just because they speak the same language. You can't even speak you dialect to a Nigerian, they will respond in English. This is worse among my tribe the Yorubas, they speak English like they coined the words used. The jealousy, "You must not be better than me" and "When did he come that he is doing so good" syndrome among Nigerians will keep stalling our progress as a nation. Let me just stop here because there's so much going on that people at home are not aware of, the fake smiles on social media is all they see.


From a Silent BV



You should have told us why you arrived at this conclusion and maybe some of us can argue that only frustrated people try to frustrate others....I do not agree with this your school of thought at all...We have our flaws as Nigerian but we also have a lot of love inside us...Or am i talking nonsense?





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ONE-CHANCE EXPERIENCE.

Please excuse any gbagaun. Na F9 I get for English Language.


Three Saturdays ago, on my way back from a vigil. At Gbagada bus-stop around few minutes past 5am. Myself and another unsuspecting passenger boarded a bus going to Yaba. There were about six passengers (no female) in the vehicle already before we boarded. I attempt joining the occupant of the front seat but the passenger himself told me that it's just a passenger that is allowed to seat in front even when i saw that the front passenger seat is designed to accommodate two passengers. I later settled for the first row behind the driver's cabin.


Before entering the bus, I asked the passenger close to the entrance to shift inside the bus so I could sit close to the door, instead he stepped out of the bus that I should go inside that he'd be dropping at the next bus stop which he never did. The vehicle stopped at Anthony Oke to pick another two passengers. Immediately we got to Anthony underbridge, the passenger in the driver's carbin turned back to the rest of the passengers inside the bus. I thought he wanted to preach or market a product not until I saw him bring out something that looked like a gun or so. I wasn't interested in knowing if it was a real gun or a toy gun. The only word I heard and understood from all he was saying was "CORPERATE". I couldn't tell if they were kidnappers for rituals or armed robbers.


From the back someone held me real tight whilst another applied aboniki balm in my eyes. I was in serious pain that moment. We were disposed of our valuables. immediately. They also took our atm cards from us and also asked for each person's debit card pin. After giving them they the debit cards and pin, one of them alighted from the bus. Few mins after dropping the person, a call came in and the next thing I heard is "who be Sunday Azubuike?" they almost plucked this man's eye because he gave them wrong pin to his debit card. The man later gave them the correct pin.


In the middle of this ordeal, as a result of the shock, pains and all, I started feeling funny. I begged this guys to please give me back my inhaler but they refused. I couldn't see anything so I don't even know who to beg. I was just calling the drivers attention to my challenges but he ignored me. I had to keep still to gather some strength to breath well.


After driving us around for about 50 minutes or there about, we were kicked out of the bus at Estate Bus-Stop (by the 3rd Mainland Bridge).


I tried calling my bank's help desk immediately I was able to get home but no response, all through the day I continue calling without any success. That was how I lost my savings.


To be honest with you, I am yet to recover from that experience. I thought I was going to die. Whilst inside the bus, I literally saw my mum wailing. She was crying bitterly. I was like; so this woman won't eat the fruit of her labour? I have never cried that way before. I pictured my brother in his condition without my mum to nurse him because I know there's no way she would survive if anything happens to me.


I just want to thank God for giving me another opportunity at life.


OMG.....This thing keeps happening to people,is there no way one can tell immediately that its one chance?no signs?The minute someone refuses to move inside is that not enough clue?

Thank God you survived.....Your whole savings was taken?Was it a savings or current account?Just wondering why Banks do not do two step verification for ATM cards..once you enter a wrong pin,it jams immediately!



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A LESSON FOR SIDE CHICKS


Good day Stella,please something happened that I will like to share on the blog so that those ladies deceiving themselves with married men will learn.....

A customer of mine came to me sometime last year saying a married man is asking her to be his wife and I was stunned,I asked her why and she said his wife just gave him only a boy and a girl and I was shocked because me I have no kid yet....I asked another question "nne,pls when exactly is he marrying you?she replied saying "after he finish building his house in the village".... house that this guy just wanted to start building at that time not that he is that wealthy sef...According to the man,the wife is useless and can't do anything,she attends a church that don't wear fashionable cloths and doesn't use jewelleries and she refuses to go out with him and it irritates him...


Earlier this week,I was in an office and this man came in with his wife and she is heavily pregnant,wore a short gown,jewelleries and a sharp red lip stick....I was shocked at her appearance but what shocked me the most was how they relate,man was all over his wife,giving her feedback on any business call he recieves (this shows she knows all about his business and they are quite close)...


I only pity his wife in all of this because this same man has been spending money on that side chick as she has been trying to conceive for over a year now all to no avail and the man hasn't gone to even do introduction,las las she will end up a baby mama and start shouting all over social media...



Na wah!!!






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Happy Birthday BV Daughter Alex

Mummy says
''The happiness you bring me while watching over you is greater than the wahala and stress I receive.A great companion indeed.
Happy birthday my Princess
I love you loads''.

Happy Birthday darling!!!!

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SINGLES MINGLES UPDATE

NEVER LOOK DOWN ON ANYONE
Hi Stella,

I decided to send you my experience due to a comment I read on your SnM Update post.


I am a very shy guy and I haven't been that lucky with love. My past experience had taught me enough and it kind of discouraged me from approaching ladies. Your SnM episodes have been helpful and I am grateful for the lovely and long lasting friends I've made through your selfless and thoughtful platform.



However, I've not been able to find love which I hope would change during your last episode. I met a pretty and interesting lady who was quite blunt, entertaining and funny. She was a great conversationalist and there was no dull moment with her. We blended together so well that we never asked for each other's names or pictures for a week because there was always something to talk about, which was cool.


One day, she got home really tired and wasn't in the mood to type, so she suggested we move on to getting personal. She video called me and I picked, she looked tired but still beautiful and attractive. We got talking and she found out I was a jobless geek who lives in Ikorodu while she lives on the island with a fat salary. I was dumbfounded when she told me she couldn't continue talking to me and that her attraction towards me died because I am not on her level.


I felt really bad and devastated which further reduced my level of confidence. Then, I met Dee-Girl (God bless you dear). She never for once looked down on me and was a friend, sister and companion when I needed one. She is in a complicated relationship and we agreed to be friends with no strings attached. She's been nothing but a blessing to me. She encouraged me to strive harder and it paid.


3 months later I got a job on the island with a fat salary and guess who my assistant is right now?Stella, she was numb, but was very professional about it, so what I did was to be professional too and assumed my duties immediately. I never made her feel uncomfortable or bad, as I knew her conscience would deal with her badly. It's been work and nothing more with her ever since and anyday she tries to be too cordial, I'll surely put her in her place.


I relished in the joy that I wasn't a low life looking for a working class lady to rip off and it was a good feeling. Not every jobless guy looking for love is a scum, fuck boy or scam, some just want love and a companion to encourage and take their minds off the negativity for once.


I may not be in a relationship now, but my ride or die friends are my pride, and I'll ever be loyal and grateful to them cos they were there when noone was.


*Stella abeg, when is the next SnM make I try my luck again.*


Dee-Girl, Triple Ace and my angelic friends. I'm blessed to have met you through these wonderful woman called Stella.

Pot of Soup, money and happiness no dey dry for una domot in Jesus' Name.



Hmmmmm this story is a big lesson for everyone and it can be anything not just love related!!!
One of the two posts you will encounter after reading this is from him,I encouraged him to try one more time..if you try to mess him up,I will come after you oh.....


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WIFE NEEDED FOR BV READY TO MARRY


I'm really ready to settle down. I've just not been fortunate with Love.

Ok, here goes. 

Hi, to all the Intelligent ladies on SDK, who are go-getters and matured irrespective of age. I am just a regular responsible guy, who has been unlucky with love but ready to settle down and finally have a home. I'm using this medium given to me by the wonderful Stella, hoping to change my relationship status from "single" to "engaged".
Kindly mail caedmonan@gmail.com if you're ready to settle down, in Lagos, smart, intelligent and between the ages of 26-30. 

Only interested ladies please. 






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HUSBAND MATERIAL ALERT


Gracias Stella, I'm a fan!

I need a small favour; I'm tired of the endless dates, would love to cut to the chase and meet a woman of substance. Can you please assist to anonymously post this on your blog?

I'm a man in my Mid thirties. Head above water career wise, and very interested in starting a family,

Would love to meet a 28-32 years old ****** based lady.
Intelligent, very Open Minded, and preferably non religious
Being fairly tall, not lepa, and not addicted to makeup are all big pluses in my books.******** is the number.
Many thanks

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RE -FRIDAY CHRONICLE


I want to weigh in on Friday's Chronicle. Am not the poster, neither am I her friend it happened to.

This post is not in anyway intended to disregard anyone's opinion, I just want some clarifications and answers to some of the questions I want to raise.


The chronicle was such a sad one and I really felt bad for the lady in question. I observed that most ladies kept on reiterating the fact that "all men cheat" and almost making a mockery of the situation instead of offering practical advise that will at least alleviate her pain(BV Retired Slay Queen,more wisdom fall on you)

Are they trying to say she doesn't have any right to feel bad because the one that swore to be faithful cheated on her in an unimaginable way?


Or that she should have expected that her husband will be cheating and doing 3some with other women?


Very well, they all cheat right?so that means you will willingly walk down the aisle with one? Why then do I always hear some of you say "am not married yet because am dodging a lot of animals in the jungle"


What sort of "animals" are those?Do they not include the ones that cheat? Or what sort of character do they possess that made you dodge them?

Alright,you are saying that every woman should have it at the back of her mind that her husband "MUST"cheat on her? That means you will not cry or feel bad the day you eventually get married and happen upon your husband's shady moves eh?


We should be careful with the way we make light of people's real life situations.


Some men cheat, I agree,but please we shouldn't give these men the guns they need to finish us off completely by always saying they all cheat.


Silent,but hyperactive Bv.





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ABOUT TO OPEN THE COOKIES JAR
I have made up my mind not to fall in love,but since I met this gentle dude it seems am in love already, I think about it each time am less busy,I dream of him,once I hear his voice he turn me on,if we are having video calls omg I will be wishing we are together, don't want o fall in love but dude swept me off my feet. 


I have not told him am falling for him,still playing hard dudet to get,I hope when I see him next time I will not kiss him,open the cookies have been saving for three years now,I may not be able to hold body when I see him.cos my body is already falling for dude.I love you Se**




Na wah............





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SUGGESTIONS NEEDED PLEASE
Please people, I really need to know if there are organisations in Nigeria where someone can take their children to as single parent where they can be taking care of them for me while I go hustle to pay them and provide for the kids?


If there is, please how do I go about it and where is(are) they located?

If there is none then I've got no option than to slope without them. They won't die by God's grace.


Stella, I almost did the unthinkable yesterday and should I continue like this, I might just poison him or end my life for everything to come to an end.


All your suggestions are highly welcomed.



I wish i knew what to say...How many kids are you giving up?I suggest you hold on or leave them with their Dad...I wish you the best...Stay alive,the fruits of your labour will make it worth fighting for..............



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OMG

Stella, I am here trying to make sunday jollof rice. I decided to add one sachet of tomato puree to 'red' the rice.
Thankfully, I prefer to dilute the puree in water before putting in the pot. As i opened it see what I saw..... expiry date says 06/2020 but the puree has moulds inside. So we cant trust expiry date again? Worst part is that - IT IS OOZING!


These people won't kill us in this coutry oh. Please share with others, so they can check the puree they are buying before they go and add it directly into the pot. This is what can cause food poisoning and we will say its village people. Especially those that have children. Sorry if the pictures aren't clear enough, i need to dispose ASAP.


BV Chikito


WOW....please bring this to the attention of the distributors.


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TEEJAYS CORNER
PERIODIC MEDICAL CHECK UP...

In the year 2009, a lady died in my vicinity, but before her death, she was so ill and was admitted at the hospital. She was such a pretty young lady full of life and a desire of so many young men. Suddenly she  started redrawing herself from people, she  began to lose weight and became moody always.

When we asked what the problem was, we were told she was poisoned. We kept praying for her to overcome but death was so  determined not to grant our request. She died!!!

After many months she had been  buried, we came to the shocking discovery that what actually killed her was a full blown HIV AIDS. I guess fear of  stigmatization was the reason the family came up with the story of being poisoned. Who knows if help would have come from people if they had known the actual problem.

Few months ago, I was at a private hospital to see a friend who was admitted in a private ward. His blood pressure was high and was placed on a bed rest. I sat at the visitors room, having conversation with a young man who came to donate blood for someone about undergoing a surgical operation. He was to be paid for the donation. His samples were taken but when the result were out he was told he can't donate blood to the patient due to the presence of hepatitis B found in him.

When he came out from the doctor's office, he approached me quietly  and asked "Sir don't be offended,  what is hepatitis B? The doctor said I can't donate blood because of it." I asked him didn't the doctor explain to you about it? He said no. I was kind of why? I  explained to him the best I know about it and he was like but I don't feel sick or pains in my body, I always use protection when making love and so on so how come?.

He left weak, though I don't want to compound his worries so I didn't go deep in telling him the effect of that virus but I advised him to run another test else where and seek for proper medical treatment for hepatitis is a very deadly virus capable of destroying the liver.

Dear, as you read through I want you to understand that not all virus in the body show up immediately or cause pains. Most of them take adequate time to grow to a stage that it becomes difficult to handle. Always ensure you go for routine check of your body and system.


Your health is your wealth.... Take adequate care of it.


BV TEEJAY.



Nice one Tejay,I love this!!!


RIP to my elder brother who would have been 49 years old this year but succumbed to the trauma HIV/AIDS caused his body in 1999...I still remember him with so much love and i smile every time i remember his Jokes....RIP to him and everyone else who died from HIV/AIDS .


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FROM THE COMMENT SECTION


Quick one. My husband just mistakenly called his ex a pet name. And I got angry...We just had a heated argument. He said he a book in the house belongs to her thereby calling her by a pet name he gave her and everyone that knows them know her with that name. He;s trying to justify his action that he didn;t mean anything bad but unconsciously called her by that name because he thought I was his family member or someone who knows her too. Imagine the rubbish. We got so angry at each other I called him names and he said I am stupid and should die of anger if I want.he called her Honey. Just imagine that!


'JESUS CHRIST madam give your husband a breather!!!!!...WTF,he called his ex honey,so what?no big deal,look at how you didnt use wisdom to even tell him you didnt like it....
Pray for wisdom to deal with martial ish like this..ah ah




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SELF CONTAINED ROOM NEEDED URGENTLY
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God bless you all





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