In 2011, Beautiful Nollywood actress and Former Sound city presenter, Juliet Mgborukwe married Denver based Nigerian man Chima Ojukwu but their Marriage only lasted a few months and even though Juliet had cited 'Irreconciliable differences' as the reason in early 2012,Insiders swear she had bolted because the beatings and suspicions were too much......
The couple decided to give their marriage a second chance and got back together in 2014 and Juliet dropped her career and moved to Denver but it looks like the beatings resumed or continued as she has shared photos of her battered face, and revealed the she has moved on with her life.
I choose not to talk about my personal life, that chapter of my life has been closed the day I walked with my kids months ago and it remains closed forever. My kids and I are in a happy place, and that is all that counts; i will appreciate if Y’all can please respect that as well as we have little kids involved and we are focused on raising our kids right.
Thank Y’all for your Love, concern and understanding, I appreciate
Sorry had to take down the first post, couldn’t stand looking at me Blood. ''
Juliet and Chima have two beautiful kids together.
'*I actually had this exclusive when it happened months back when she walked but i couldnt do this story because she was too broken and needed to heal......
When she walked i heard so many stories but she said it was all lies meant to frustrate her back to him.....
I let it pass and prayed to God she would heal fast....When a woman steps out like this then the healing process has begun....I am so happy for her..
NO WOMAN SHOULD SIT DOWN AND BEAR DOMESTIC VIOLENCE because of kids or love.....You will wake up dead or handicapped!
Some of you reading this have just had your daily dosage of beating but will come here to type jargon...TAKE A WALK!
This couple?
ReplyDeleteOh, what is happening to marriages?
Domestic violence has been in marriages for decades. Many of our mothers experienced it . Is just that they didnt have the courage to leave because of what society will do or say. And many will say is because óf their children.
DeleteBut thank God that women are bold and the society is getting to understand that marriage ís not a do or die affair.
I use to tell my mum that the shit she took from my dad, i as her daughter wont take it. Not because am stub or dont understand marriage, but because i am very fragile to allow someone make me feel bad about my self
the healing process has *begun
DeleteStella please do take note. Thank you
Na wa
DeleteHmmmm the thing is this their marriage has always been shaky. She left at a point and came back again to "work things" out.
DeletePls we need to start training boys of this upcoming generation well. Father's need to take a role don't leave it to the mother. Teach them how to be men. Teach them there is no strength in hiting women. Should start from never condoning hiting or mistreating their sisters.
Many men were spoilt. Alot of these first son or only son syndrom where they have this mentality women need to worship them because that is what their mother and sisters did. The worst is the ones the father has money. I have met many like that. Very self entitled lot.
*syndrome
DeleteShe will heal fast because she heal first beating and went back again to collect second beating,juli juli pele ooo..
DeleteIt is well
ReplyDeleteEven in the well
DeleteDV.....i hate men that beats women....there are ways to resolve things than disolving
ReplyDeleteMc pinky
I also hate women that bear men.
Delete***beat***
DeleteLmao at some of you have just had your daily dosage of beating .
ReplyDeleteStella they always console themselves with the phrase "it better to cry in a Porsche"
God heal you Juliet.. So this fine boy like this dey beat woman . tufia
Say no to domestic violence
Women run .. Marriage is not a do or die affair ..
Yetunde iyawo footballer I hope you are reading this post. Stop making excuses for that your husband that beats you.. Come out alive
Cry is cry.
DeleteIf you are not independent. Please cry in your porsche until you get something tangible
And while waiting to get some thing tangible, write a will and include funeral services.
DeleteWhat if you die while crying in your Porsche, hope you ride your Porsche to hell.
DeleteRide (sic) 🙄🙄🙄🙄 drive to heaven
DeleteSomething must kill a man
Better to die naturally than to be beaten to death in your Porsche
DeleteDomestic violence in marriages is the order of the day. What is really happening? What is wrong with men hitting women at any slightest opportunity? What happened to tolerance, understanding, love, love,and love??? Chineke napu ekwensu Ike!
ReplyDelete"Some of you reading thisthis have just had your daily does of beatingsbeating but will come here to type jargon"..hmmmmm
ReplyDeleteGod please, don't dash me a wrestler.
as they like macho guys na, 6feet & biceps.... he'd use it all on you
DeleteGood she walked away.
ReplyDeleteDid the beating make her nose flat or what
ReplyDeleteAnyway, good thing she walked away before he ends up killing her
Must you comment on how ppl look? What have you created with your body dysmorphia personality?
DeleteWhy are you people like this?
DeleteSomeone gets beaten up by her spouse and all you do is analyse the beating and the shape of her nose.
Don't be insensitive dear.
Deleteyou are foolish.
DeleteI took a walk with my 3kids and am so loving and enjoying my freedom.Take a walk Today to live for your kids.... OK bye
ReplyDeleteYou are wise!
DeleteSay no to domestic violence 👇
ReplyDeleteThe way the devil is roaming around to devour homes, May God take absolute control
I pray those still in such violent relationships will take a walk.....it's frustrating and depressing too
ReplyDeleteStella any woman that comes here to say its because of her kids is a bloody liar from the pit of hell.
ReplyDeleteThey stay behind because they dont want to be single,or think of what people will say,or how will they get a new prick to shine their tortor.
Stupid women.
And they have used their battered mouth to curse out single ladies or those that left their marriages.
DeleteSometimes there isn't any support system,there family will tell them to go back and these doesn't have something trangible doing,even those with business sef, the money cant afford to take care of them
DeleteCorrect @9:22
DeleteI have an aunt that left her abusive husband in 1992. I use to go to school with the kids. Met her in the compound wearing the suit she wore to the office day before with blood stains allover the white shirt. The man had locked her out after beating her.
DeleteWhat did I hear few years ago that they got back together few years ago. Mind you two of their kids are married. Tell me what kids she is doing it for.
And I am too sure that man hasn't fully changed. He was still harrasing me for beer at a relative wake-keeping service. Like they serve alchol there.
Domestic violence is real..please ladies run. He will say i'll change..it's the work of the devil. But trust me they never actually change. So my dears forget people's opinion on the matter and love yourself enough to say No to domestic violence. "If a man hits you once,he will hit you again ". Our God is good all the time.
ReplyDeleteThe day I overpowered my husband and gave him the beating of his life was the last day he laid a finger on me...I think he's still in shock at how that happened! Lol
ReplyDeleteThat will definitely be the last day. He cannot afford the disgrace again. Well done!!!
DeleteHahahahahaha I hope you bent his neck to smooch his ass. But be careful Nigerian men never recover from such bashing of their fragile egos, he will find another way to get you.
DeleteMy dear kudos to u. U gave urself salvation. Not all women have such capacity. I hail u
DeleteMe I don't understand women who don't fight back.
Deleteif it is even his balls I will grab and wont let go, I must do something back.
Why not be the bigger person and take a walk instead of breaking his balls n then turning around to probably stab him n then be sent to prison n have your kids taken away from u. The sane thing to do is leave before it escalates, fighting back will make him more violent and you never know how that fight can end, don't let the devil use you.
DeleteYou only leave when you are dealing with someone who has small sense, who maybe allowed village people to play kalu kalu with his brain for a few minutes.
DeleteMajority of these men are simply stupid, always wanting to form little tin god and professional bully in their homes. Meanwhile see them shaking like worms in their offices and kissing ass upandan.
When you run away and come back, they have recharged their batteries to give round 2/3/4/5/6 of beating to infinity.
Mba nu. Best to give him a taste of his medicine. Beat him to the ground, pack sand enter his mouth join. How will a grown man beat me, an adult??? How?
My father brought me up to avoid trouble. But if trouble insists on shaking nyansh to my front and pokes it's finger in it's eye, I WILL GRIND TROUBLE TO DUST.
This is 2018 women, if you behave mweun mweun, men will treat you mweun mweun.
If you show respect, and you are treated like a dog, take the leash, put it on the man, join him in the barking ministry. Let us see who will first to crase.
Simple.
Gbammmmmm
DeleteI was at my breaking point that day o my dear sisters. .the funny thing is that he became reasonable after that incident. He prefers talking and working things out instead of having a fight....we've had peace for 3 straight years now ad impossible as it sounds.
DeleteI said it before about the benefits of marriage and some fools did not understand me , I said they get you pregnant and have a side chick , while you keep the title as a wife with beating and chick gets the good sex 😃 the lucky ones comes out alive and the unlucky dies 😃😃😃😃 it not by force, divorce is there for a reason.... pls no body should come for me , it's just a comment section ooo #myopinion
ReplyDelete@ 9:17 what are you saying? Are you sure you are not high on some shit. Why all the happiness over this news.You must be a kid or an adult with mental issues. Which is it?
DeleteAnon 10:30 that Anon had an opinion and NO SHE IS NOT A KID.
DeleteThe shit she is high on ensures she is 100% accurate half the time marriage has no special benefits.
Marriage sef, you marry ,born pikin then lost our pre-baby body, become a maid for a grown man, he treats you like trash and like a slave and people will tell you to endure, you get treated like an animalhe orders around,beat you ,insults ,you can't even defend yourself even thou it is clearly you are right, you become a slave to a master just for marriage.
ReplyDeleteseriously...its better being single abeg. I cannor...
Delete@9:20, it is what you think about marriage that you will eventually get. I am married and God is my witness all what you wrote up there I have never experienced any of the above instead I keep getting blessed by my husband (he got me a lovely car recently and I was not celebrating anything). Now if I was single which guy will just get me a car for nothing huh? When you want to marry shine your eyes and make sure the guy loves you o if not na suffer head be dat
DeleteIts not like that for all marriages,though each has its own challenges,some are things you can live with while some are not e.g Domestic Violence.
Deletesome fools will even collect the womans money join.
Delete10:26, yea, not all marriages but sometimes some of these abuse starts one day, I don't pray for anything bad to happen to your marriage but the fact that your marriage is working today doesn't mean that one day it won't get so bad. Some women never believe that they will be separated from their husband but it happened l of a sudden ,there are bvs whalo experienced it recently.
DeleteWhere do some of you find all these yeye and iberibe horsebands
DeleteAnon 11:35, what do you mean by one day, you mean my calm hubby will one day slap me? You are joking, stop wishing people rubbish. Most women saw the signs of domestic violent men but chose to stay, so no! It doesn’t start one day, my hubby can never beat me, I am not boasting but I kuku no well, so no! He can’t beat me.
DeleteBy the grace of God I am walking into my 6th year and I know I dint marry a violent person. Yes! I am enjoying my marriage, take your sadness away from this post, my immediate elder sis has been marriage for 10years no beating either. It’s not all men that was raised by foolish women.
I have always loved to be treated like an egg, so I cannot see an aggressive man and chook head. Most women saw the signs, a man who punches the wall when angry will punch you one day.
Twale to my late mother in law, both her sons are calm, she did a great job, today I don’t let my son touch my daughter, I keep repeating “you don’t beat a woman nae nae” not even his sister. When she does something to him, I tell him to report to me, I will be the one to flog her, so not all men are beasts
Gbam at push up! Most of these ladies will see fire, still put their heads inside, only for them to come out years later shouting domestic violence.
DeleteI have been married for 9 years and my husband has never lifted his fingers at me. I'm a very stubborn person(yes i know and I'm working on it) No matter what I say, my husband will never list his hand on me. I have said worst things out of annoyance and he has never ever touched me.
Push up, 13:17, we don't pray for a broken home but some people have spoken like this and they are divorced check ihn,no one saw that coming to that blog visitor
DeleteThat's how my neighbour and his wife throw blows every night. I have advised the wife to take a walk but she won't listen to think the man will beat over a piece of meat. Why she finish garri, me don talk tire I beg.
ReplyDeletesome people are masochists do you know? They say fighting enhances their sex drive... #sicknes
DeleteIn know that the stupid man will bring up allegation of her cheating
ReplyDeleteWhy do we have to keep begging them to a walk?
ReplyDeleteNo, don't take a walk.
Stay back "for your kids."
This is so heartbreaking how can you beat your wife to a pulp? Fine guy like this,it is well with them
ReplyDeleteBe strong Juliet, it's a good thing you left.
ReplyDeleteAs for Chima, may God deliver you from the spirit of anger and laying of hands wrongly on women.
Young guys, we shouldn't wrongly lay hands on our women, no matter what. Try to understand the kind of woman you are with. If the argument is turning to something else, know when to slow it down or take a walk outside.
May God bless all marriages...
So you have sense like this. Idiot
DeleteWomen will not learn, you will go ahead and marry a nigga raw looking kind of man wearing dog necklace (leash),what do u expect from such men, cheating, beatings etc! Women should marry responsible gentlemen to avoid stories like thi. If he beats u while dating take a walk, he dates multiple women while engaged to you and u are feeling fly as d chosen one!
ReplyDeleteDid we not read about their break up here when they were still dating. How she broke off their relationship because the guy was violent. Why did she go ahead and married him|? Desperation to live in America I guess. These two fought dirty back then before they got married.
DeleteThank you for writing my sentiments. It takes an irresponsible woman to marry an irresponsible man. When either partner begins to manifest his or her attributes the other shouldnt complain.
DeleteSomething is not right with the women and men of this generation! For there to be this much domestic violence, then something is not right! Women and men aren't properly brought up. DV isn't just the fault of men but of women too. For there to be this much DV, then both men and women share in the blame. People aren't raised well!
ReplyDeleteMy dear DV didn't start today. The only thing is it now has a name and it is preached against now and there is social media to take the battering pics and post as evidence on SM.
DeleteMany men of yesteryears even did worse, some will say they are simply disciplining/correcting their wives as they do to the kids.
I know it didn't start today but it doesn't change the point l made. The men and women who perpetrated DV ages ago weren't properly brought up. Same for the ones of this generation
DeleteGbam! Bed n Roses, you got it right. When people say that DV started in this generation I laugh because it has been in existence long before now. I and my husband went to visit my grandma this past Christmas and she was just admiring us and saying to our hearing that if she comes back again to life she will marry a man that loves her and she will also love him, they will be doing things together. From that one she moved to stories of how men will be beating their wives during her younger days. She was even mentioning names but most of them are dead already or very old. So DV didn’t start today, just that social media has made it known.
DeleteJuliet after all the instagram show off,so this is it.Indeed there's no perfect marriage.Like you said things are not always how they appear to be,social media is just a sham.
ReplyDeletei can vividly remember her first constructed post after they got back together after their first seperation.They post sounded so sweet.
One of the Igbo's adage says echi di ime".nobody knows what the future might bring.
Move on Baby..Your life first,if he could give you those eye bags during the fight,he can as well kill you one day..Kpele!
Nature your babies😂😂
DeleteAll that glitters is not gold...so all the cars and fancy lifestyle was shrouded in daily doses of punches?
ReplyDeleteKeep walking like Johnny walker dear, better to be single and be alive to love and nature your babies than die whilst answering a "Mrs".
Nature your babies😂😂😂
Delete*nurture
DeleteNature oh nuture oh...have you eaten today? Seeing as it tickled your fancy go and do something productive 😛
DeleteThank God she finally decide to walk away. Marriage is nt a do or die affair.. If your man hit u once, he ll definitely hit u again and again. Domestic violence is real and exist in different forms. God help us
ReplyDeleteNawah for some men and women
ReplyDeleteStella so this girl has been chopping beaten all these while but will come on her IG and be displaying PDA and people like us was admiring it.one thing I know is that her husband is a very childish person if you see his posts you will know and I also heard the beaten was BC of infidelity on her part but the most important thing is that she came out life BC I saw a picture of her face covered with blood.
ReplyDeleteWhat if the man wasn't beating her during those pda
DeleteThe breakup in marriages start from mistrust, goes to suspicion, ego and pride come in especially in spouses that are educated and come from wealthy homes, interference from family members, beating of spouse, abuse and disrespectfulness as a result of bad mouthed spouse, financial pressure, infidelity from spouse,family pressure of having children, intolerance, lack of sex, lack of love, lack of prayer in the home, all these and many more lead to
ReplyDeletebreakup in marriages.
May God strength her
ReplyDeleteGood to know, may God strengthen her.
ReplyDeleteWent to make my hair but did not return on time to make dinner, hubby used his hands and forcefully removed all the Ghana braids I made, One of my arms got dislocated that day while struggling with him. I lied to people that I went to separate husband and wife fighting and the man dragged my hair mistaking me to be the wife. Till date, my hair has not grown back. He swore with his life never to do it again. Few months interval, while bathing, He dragged me out from the bathroom naked to the palour in the presence of his younger sister and beat me like a child. What was my offence, I went to visit his friends wife and he claimed I left his sister and went to gossip. Wow.. Thought I will die that day. Carried my bag again and left. He begged as if his whole life depends on me. We reconciled. A year later, He said his elder sister said she did not see the money he asked me to send to her. As I opened my mouth to explain, All I heard was a mind resetting slap. JESUS!!!!!. The guy started pounding me like yam.... We had no neighbor. When he got tired, he left me and went to his base. That last word I heard from him that day was.... He Goat, You can die if you wish.... He goat?... why?.. am I God that gives children? so you want to kill me because I have not given birth?.... That was the last time I saw him... He made every effort after to see me. But I ran too far from his location. Its been 4 years... Heard he has remarried. God saved me... God saw my heart, I could have died. The thought of him still makes me shiver....
ReplyDeleteWoman, wife beaters have very sweet mouth. If he has beaten you once... Its only for a moment,, He will beat you again...
Thank God you didn't have a child for that kind of evil man.
DeleteFrom the very first hair pulling you should have left, so sorry, you will get someone better, let him marry his sisters since he cares about them so much. Men that bring food for their wives in saloons do they have two heads? I wish I can see a man beating his wife, the insult I will give him through my window enh, will leave him in tears. What was his stupid sister doing when he was beating you naked? Ahh Jesus take control
DeleteThank God for your life.
DeleteMay God see you through.
Be strong, it is well with you.
♡♡♡
It is well with you my dear sister. God will make you laugh again Amen
DeleteThank God for your life. That man would have surely killed you one day.
DeleteI have never heard that one before. Uprooting a woman's hair. What an animal.
As push up said,how about men that bring their wives food at salon. My husband will come drop me at salon to make my hair,bring food and even chill with me till I am finished and pay for it.
That man sees you as a slave walahi. He can't cook small indomie to eat pending when you come back.
Awww.
Deleteso sorry dear.
But did u guys court b4 wedding?? you ought to have seen d signs that he is d tempramental one.
Kpele...it is well.
Etsako Pearl it is like you don't know that some people are the definition of PRETENDERS!! Lucifer never begin learn work for their side!!!!!
DeleteLeave that your local Agbede village in Etsako. Go out and see the world. See human being, open mouth.
Anon 13:57, you are right to an extent but the truth is the signs are always there maybe just subtle but there are there.
DeleteOne guy pointed his fingers at my face the first day we started dating because I asked him who he was talking to, immediately on the spot I broke it off.
My friend says am too intolerant only for me to later hear that he has anger management and gave his new girlfriend a black eye.
If he shouts at You, shoves You, or playfully mocks you, put him in check or leave, which I think is better.
It doesn't start from beating, it starts from little disrespect here and there before you know it na you sabi.
Push up. Jeje o don't goan jam the kinda man that beat corsy with his wife. Yours may be worse
DeleteYes I agree there is a fundamental troubling issue and generational problem with the upbringing life and family dynamics of how many Nigerian boys are raised and the type of homes where they come from, which is directly affecting how they become as adults and grown up men in society.
ReplyDeleteIn Nigeria we have this culture where they boys are treated as special, almost worshiped like gods in their homes and family and entirely depended on by their mothers, sisters, aunts, cousins, nieces and extended family members for inheritance and survival of the family. Then serious issues with implications like mental health, capabilities and abilities, intelligence level are not taken into consideration. This have created a cycle of woes, loss, failures, decline and even ending for many Nigerian families where they have neglected girls and women in the family who can do better, have the potentials and capacity, only to focus on the development of boys or male child who is not intellectually capable, or have good character and temperament, or mentally stable and balanced to be depended upon.
Shame!!!
You must raise boys to understand and know to walk away from violence, never turn to violence as a means of power, authority, expression, control or dominance over another person!!!
Same way you must raise girls never to tolerate or become object of violence, living in fear and walking on egg shell in order to survive. Then your female children will never find themselves or ending up in that way. It is a cycle, and the children raised and brought up in such violent and disgraceful homes are high risk of reproducing, growing up and continuing with the same pattern of culture, values and way of life they know as children.
For this actress, Juliet Mgborukwe, the lesson here is that:
* You don't have to be with a violent man, violent person or violent family in order to marry, or to have children, or to drive a car, or to live in America, or to raise children, or to have a house, or to survive in life!!!