GOOD MAN OF GOD NEEDED FOR PRAYERS.
Good day Stella,
Bvs, please help. I've been married for 3 years now and it has been from one problem to another.
Good day Stella,
Bvs, please help. I've been married for 3 years now and it has been from one problem to another.
I moved in with my husband in another state some months after the wedding, no job. Things gradually became so bad that we sold our car. No properties like TV, parlour couch, etc. We don't have because we've been squatting from his sister's place to my parent's place to his father's house.
Now, his older (step) brother has thrown us out of the house (dad and mum are late) because of a disagreement they had. I'm back to my parents. My hubby's business has folded up. He's now squatting with a friend in another town and hustling for five months now. Still, nothing. Who did I offend?
No favour anywhere. I served God with all I had while single. Why me? Please someone should recommend a good Man of God that can do deliverance for us or give me prayers to do. Please.
*Hmmmmmmm hope this isnt coded what i think it is oh.....eh hen!
why did you get married without doing your home work?I really dont think it is worth doing at all if it isnt well....You want to tell me you didnt know his business was not good enough?You didnt see signs?
Anyway since this isnt a plea for help,suggesting a good man of God is not a problem but what exactly is the man of God supposed to do for you?Pray?
God take over
ReplyDeleteThank God you Neva born.
DeleteWoman get on your knees and pray unless you want someone to turn your head up-side-down.
I don't like reading things like this abeg. I don't like it when two people that aren't ready for marriage get married, and i bet poster is below 25.
DeleteI'm sorry to sound harsh, but this is not about Man of God or deliverance, you people did not have a plan before getting married.
No one is finding it easy presently.
What was the rush ???? As it is both your family and your husbands family will never respect that man as a ''man''. His relative threw him out he's squatting with someone while you are back at your parents.
You knew this man wasn't rich, you should have gotten a job before considering marriage, so you can support. E for pay you to seat in your papa house for 2/3yrs as a working single girl, than returning back as a married woman.
I have a junior colleague that did his introduction since last year October, we have been asking him for date. He just opened up that they have moved it to early next year because he is still trying to gather money, he just got his own place, furnished etc. That he doesn't want to bring in someone's daughter to come and suffer. He has told them and they understand and have agreed for jan/feb 2019.
poster you are already in this marriage, try and find a job and above all don't think of getting pregnant. Do any small business for the meantime. i really hate the idea of a married woman returning to her parents house. if a man cant provide shelter and basics food for a woman adequately, he has no business getting married.
nawa ooooooooo
ReplyDeleteStella, I think yu are getting something wrong.
DeletePeople have bad times that come on them suddenly
It doesn't mean they did not "do their homework well"
That you have everything going for you does not mean
people everywhere have same. The recessions that the western
world have endured wiped out a lot of people's business and
savings not because the "did not do their homework well".
If you don't have a piece of advice, keep mum.
People on the streets/asylum some of them are genuses
but they did not plan what happened eventually.
Please your platform is a veritable tool for social justice
and you should not give it a vain coloration.
agree with you anon 15:55. OP, run to MFM camp for deliverance.
DeleteI no see anything wrong with stellas comment o. Whats the rush about? My coz who's bride price was paid since 2016 is still in her fathers house, church and court wedding put on hold till the groom and she herself have found their legs.
DeletePoster, i just use God beg you; dont get pregnant yet o. I know you fell for the saying that "marriage opens doors"...torh. Dont fall for "children come with blessing" o.
Anonymous at 15:55 Thank You. This Stella can be ignorant shaaa. The poster said she is not begging but that things went bad and you blog owner decided to humiliate her further. Shame on you Stella. E be like say dat Germany wey you dey don make you forget your humble beginnings. Nigeria is hot right now in this Buhari times so, show respect and empathy.
DeleteThere's a problem somewhere.
ReplyDeleteYou need spiritual help.
If you're in Lagos, I know someone that can help. Infact, he has a programme tomorrow tagged 7-7-7
That is:
The 7th day in the 7th month with 7 men of God.
Pls @chocolate am interested. Address pls.
Delete...and 7 demons, 7 liers, 7 extortion, 7 opportunists, 7 thieves.
DeletePoster, you are not poccessed. You just need to change your mind set to positive in gratitude for all u have already then go out there and hustle.
It is well... Aunty while praying, do you know you can do something's to help yourself out. If you can throw away shame, hustle. Food biz is moving right now. Corn is in season, buy from major markets, cheap and cook and sell in your closest surrounding. Reliable 100% minimum ROI, snacks etc. Oga can do some small menial job till you both and stand on your feet again. Many people aren't finding Nigeria so easy now, its just God's grace.
ReplyDeleteThank you very much for this advise.poster throw away shame and work.
DeleteThank you Nwunye Doc! No wonder you marry doctor. U too get sense. Let her go and be looking for 7 brainwashers and 7 liers to do her deliverance.
DeleteEven those 7 god of men are in that biz to make economic ends meet.
where do you reside @poster u didn't state it. Anyways if u are in Lagos,there's a church i will direct you too Called RADIANT ARMY DELIVERING MINISTRY @OGBA BEHIND COUNTY HOSPITAL, the Pastor -name Anthony is a strong man of God. He might be of help. Good luck.
ReplyDeleteNigerians and self pity and men of God. No wonder churches are boomimg. Has it ever occurred to you that it may not be a spiritual problem but could just be that yoy are going through a down period just like anyone else. Look let me use my parents as example sef. I and my six siblings were all born in Ajegunle o. My parents suffered, i remember when we would eat only twice a day, my parents wont even eat. We used to eat rice then once a month thats how poor we were... My parents persevered. Dem manage struggle my mama go hustle for london while my dad stayed back in naija to take care of us. Like joke like joke their hustle begin change, we moved out of ajegunle then to ilasamaja, from there we go Isolo.i remembered our landlady then was a piece of work. Always found any reason to belittle and remind us that we lived in ajegunle. Like joke like joke popsie buy im house for isolo. Right now as i am speaking popsie get im own house for Lekki phase 2. All of us get citizenship for several different countries now. Each have their own house.my dad turned even his own siblings lives around. I just give u this encouraging story not to boast o, (afterall yoi dont know who i am) but stop seeing everything as who do you. In this life we all have different race to run in this life. You are going through hard times. Every one goes through hard times. If u feel cursed or hubby is cursed, its time to refocus and reexamine your life. If u like go from prayer house to prayer house. If you or hubby decide not to let pride be, refocus re-examine and restrategise. All these so called men of God when everybody dey recommend you to can do nothing for you. The power to change our lives start with us. Plus as africans we really really need to change ourmindset towards churches and men of God. Its all a scam and the money wen u no get na im you go carry go give man of God.
DeleteRadiant army!!!😂😂😂, that man that told me to bring 125k for deliverance and my other friends to bring other large sums. Yes he sees and all but when a supposed man of God starts requesting for money, then something is not right. He went on to say I should go and steal if I didn’t have the money and when I told him I couldn’t, he requested for my gold jewelry amounting to almost the same sum he requested. We told him we would be back and never visited again. That is no man of God, excuse me!
DeleteThank you.
DeleteThe money you will give that man of God . Use it to start selling buns or puff-puff in front of your house. You may not believe me, even as kids during the holidays, we use to make chin-chin and cupcakes and give it to a salon on the street to sell to their customers. Just for small change and the fun of it. Na still chochlate and novels we go use the proceeds to buy. But our parents were proud of our efforts.
You can still pray alongside doing a small biz. Right now what you need is work and not MOG.
👍👍👍👍
DeleteProblems with wrong foundation that is where all these bad lucks are coming from.
ReplyDeleteYou and your husband need to fight it well and be set free. The problems with you people is una too use native sense to follow God.
May God help you and your husband Amen.
If you are in Lagos let me know, then I can help
You might ask Stella to give you my email address then we can talk and get your breakthrough fast.
I know how frustrated this might be but am happy you did not run leave your husband, for that get my email
Poster I advise you to visit MFM prayer city for deliverance, prayer with dry fasting. You don't need the help of man of God, do it yourself and God will reveal to you what is troubling you.
ReplyDeleteIt is not just ordinary, go and pray till something happens.
Stella no IHN. Kilo happen
ReplyDeleteIs there something you didn't let us know? So painful seeing people falling from good to bad. After selling the car and some other property, didn't you guys invest with the money? Things like this got me weak after reading them.
ReplyDeleteYou've not heard that times are bad.,
ReplyDeleteWhat did u think it meant?.
You people should not have kids now. I take God beg u.
Stop being lazy. Dust us behind and get a job.
Not necessarily white collar oo
Lazy people be blaming everything on spirit. Smfh....God is your strength
ReplyDeletePray and fast by yourself, pray ceaselessly and triple your hustle and please take a step at a time.
ReplyDeleteWas there a foundation before marriage? Career/job, working business, financial and/or skill/knowledge foundation? Or was it only love foundation you guys had?
ReplyDeleteI really don't know what to advise though, but it seems to me that you guys had no plan AT ALL before marriage, and you didn't wait to have one (which was already working) before marriage. And by so doing, both of you -2 adults have become responsibilities for other innocent people.
I hope you find the help you need.
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ReplyDeletePastor TB Joshua, pastor adeboye, pastor ibiyeomie, pastor Chris, men of God plenty. Na money u need no be prayers.
ReplyDeleteposter I would have advice u but there is no space for me to write my comment, maybe let go and come back first
ReplyDeleteI need one in uyo pls
ReplyDeletebv if you need one in uyo. Tell a keke man you're going to mercy and hope hospital if I'm not wrong cos I don't know the name of that street, the street is opposite Church of Christ, immediately after goat market at idoro fly over, immediately you enter that hosp street, the church is the first building opposite a supermarket.it along teaching hospital road. He Prophet Samuel it a fellowship every Friday by 12pm.he a prayer band in Apostolic Church, you should know what I mean, young guy of about 24. Go with faith n thank me later. No water washing face oh it pure pray for yourself.
DeleteDear poster do Ben Johnson race to MFM asap, go to Rccgcamp as well especially today , all will be well
ReplyDeleteIt is well.
ReplyDeleteDear poster do Ben Johnson race to MFM asap, go to Rccgcamp as well especially today , all will be well
ReplyDeleteLife happens my dear and although prayers work wonders, you need to know that even after the deliverance, if you don't get a handwork or job, the deliverance will not manifest. Take one day at a time, pray tirelessly and be patient.
ReplyDeletePoster, let your eyes be opened to the revelation of God's word that says whoever finds a wife, has found a good thing and has obtained favour from the Lord.
ReplyDeletePray on your own for that divine favour on your husband always. Dear, it works wonders.
Take your husband's hands and say positive words into them, then watch how things will turn for you.
In Living Faith Church, aka Winners Chapel, we are taught not to pray for what we need, forgetting our needs and just keep praying kingdom prayers and for souls to be saved. When you do God's own, He turns things around for you. Locate one near you and attend today if you are ok with it.
You will testify soon. It is well with you dear.
There was obviously no established financial security. Just pray and work hard.....you will be fine
ReplyDeleteThis is how people walk into bondage. What happened to your own knees? You don't have faith that you can talk to God, your Father and he will listen. So you feel another person has a better conduit to God than you. You want to put your faith in another human just because someone said so.
ReplyDeleteAlso, what foundation did you start your marriage? A couple jumping from one persons house to another without contributing anything and living of people's charity indefinitely are bound to have problems. What have you done to improve on yourselves to make you more marketable in society? If you don't have a skill, find a way to acquire one. Do this before you start accusing spirits upandan. And while you are at it, don't get pregnant yet.
Thank you Zukky.
DeleteI'm a hundred times most re irritated than compassionate. It's obvious the two of them didn't think about the financial part of marriage. They had not attained a level of independence and responsibility themselves before doing "wedding".
Now they are reaping the fruits.
I hope you guys go back to the scoreboard, because I'm sure there are no village people anywhere.
I hope you get the help you need and things turn around for your good.
ReplyDeletePoster, do you have a complete King James Bible ? If you do, then your problem is solved. The only help you need now fast and urgently is God and not Man of God. If you can look up to Him in sincerity and truth He will turn around everything. Please, men of God are important but it still God that answers the prayers.
ReplyDeleteGet your bible, settle for a place where there wont be any form of distraction. Ask God for His mercy, ask Him to reveal to you the source of your problem. Use the bible verses on the promises of God for your life.
If you can wait on Him for like 7 days in prayers with midnight prayer.I tell you you must definitely rejoice.Also, forgive people that offended you.
No matter what happens do not leave your husband and look for what to do. Do not despise the day of little beginning.
Increase your prayers, wake up in the middle night and pray always until things get better
ReplyDeleteNIGERIANS, so lazy.
ReplyDeleteMadam do you work? Do you know that tide changes are normal? Your husband was not as affluent or well placed so any small change will result in a major issue. The issue with his step brother can happen, two adults (with families) living in the same house can become stifling.
Aunty before you go and meet someone who will dope you, let me ask you:
What are you doing to better the lot of you and your husband?
What are you both doing to ensure the future will be brighter?
This internet that you accessed to send email to Stella, you can use it to learn SO MUCH.
Stop being lazy biko and get to refocusing your future.
Moving from one place to another can affect your business negatively except it's same area and you can maintain your place of business.
ReplyDeleteThree years for all these wahala? God will help you poster as you seek His face but you and your hubby should start up something no matter how small.
Woman your problem is not spiritual, your problem is mental. You need to start doing something don't be lazy, even if you served God diligently as you claimed, he never promised you money as reward, He said I will give you power to create wealth (wisdom, sixth sense). Dig deep there is something God has deposited in you that can fetch a lot of money. Even they pray for you and you don't put in work nothing for you, or maybe you're waiting for favor or miracle.
ReplyDeleteYou skipped out some details deliberately. You know that if those details were included it would have shown you in a bad light. You did not mention the business your husband did before it folded up and what led to the disagreement between him and his elder brother. You did not mention if you have any qualifications. You had the chance to attach a mini CV of yourself or your husband but you didn't. BUT, you want deliverance from a good pastor. If you apply all of these your logic to other areas of your life, your present condition may never change. Not a curse.
ReplyDeleteI am afraid I have no suggestions to your problem because I don't know any strong pastor.
Ps.. serving God is not a prerequisite to gain wealth. Dangote and Jeff Bezos have not been seen receiving deliverance. And no, they are not "cultists", "illuminati" or any other obscure, conspiracy theories you console yourselves with.
Sometimes things like dis happen whn we haven't made peace with our past d fault can be from ur hubby not u,if u will listen to me pls put ur faith at work and run to synagogue church of all national i know and understand many of you hate dat man of God but in d truth ur deliverance may be waiting for u over there go and you will testify...
ReplyDeleteSometimes things like dis happen whn we haven't made peace with our past d fault can be from ur hubby not u,if u will listen to me pls put ur faith at work and run to synagogue church of all national i know and understand many of you hate dat man of God but in d truth ur deliverance may be waiting for u over there go and you will testify...
ReplyDeleteRecently, I learned that most times, the reason we don't progress after we pray is because an answer may have been given already but due to worry, anxiety or unbelief, we fail to hear. Another major reason why we don't hear from God is disobedience. Not necessarily sin but disregard of an instruction God gave to us. Poster, having pastors pray for you is good however nothing beats hearing from God yourself. You said you served God well as a single woman so it's safe to assume you at least still have a good relationship with him. There is power in agreement prayer especially between a couple. You and hubby need to hold hands, get down on your knees and cry out to a father who hears, listens and answers (1 John 5:15). I know that circumstances can shake our faith but my point is the both of you can win this battle together. One word from God can change your lives forever. We have to be careful after we pray, to listen, grab on to the word of God and obey as it comes to us. In all, there is one person who know the answers to your difficulty and if you are a child of God, you have him inside of you to lead you- the Holy Spirit. The ball is in your court.
ReplyDeleteLook for ‘When Women Pray’ in your state (google). It’s a nationwide non-denominational prayer group of very spiritually supportive women. You may not get financial help or anyone seeing any visions for you, but you will hear from God whilst praying your way out and faithfully serving him.
ReplyDeleteWhat I will say is: when Christians come with this whole ‘I have served God all my youth’ you sound as if because you serve God, you won’t go through tough times or your life will be perfect all through. Not so my dear! Sometimes, we go through such times because He has better things in store for us and you can trust that He is with you to guide and instruct you on what to do. Other times, we go through tough times because we didn’t listen to *specific instructions*. Yes, maybe God brought you a husband when you prayed, but are you sure He didn’t ask you to hold on the marriage and you rushed out of impatience?
Ask God to give you specific instructions on *WHAT TO DO* if you are child of God. You don’t need any particular minister, lest you enter one chance - especially on a public forum. Take time off, fast and pray and ask him what to do concerning this whole drama. He will instruct you. Maybe you were not even meant to leave the state you were in and your husband should have joined you instead. When you begin to see the benefits of putting God first in EVERY decision, you will understand how fragile life is. And tell hubby to join you too oh... it’s not your cross alone. And please, DONT CARRY BELLE YET!!!
Over to the Yori Yori of this blog
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