Hmmm.....
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
FRUSTRATED IN MARRIAGE
My husband will be 47 this year thou he looks 30 and we have been married for five years now and he isn't still ready for kids yet, I brought this topic up on Friday and he gave his physical presence as if I am disturbing him with this issue,from one story to another and now he is talking about taking care of his mum who is old and how salaries are now being delayed by few weeks bla bla bla...
he is being paid the highest cos he is the boss and almost every one is married and has kids,some even have kids in university, he has never been married before nor have kids anywhere, and I am almost close to 30 yrs, no job cos i have searched and searched and no business cos he claims he never has it anytime I ask cos it all goes to his mum...
His mum lives alone in another state becos she refused to stay in the big house her husband built before he died, my husband pays for everything, house rent,light bills,food money everything. So I just sit at home doing nothing ...
I live in a residential area where you hardly see people ,I got some people where I advertised to teach makeup and he said he doesn't want strangers in his house, I want to go into renting wedding gowns he brought up the same thing. I have not been talking to him like that for some days because I have been thinking I don't want to waste my time and life like this....
A lady told me that if anything happens that I lose in this marriage, I have been thinking, no child,job or business....This isnt easy.
*Hmmmm this is not easy at alll.....seems your man was not ready for Marriage before he went into it or he cant produce babies and he knows and looking for different excuses.......
This situation you are holed in can lead to miscarriage if care is not taken...Please find a good time to discuss this with him again...Not talking to him will not solve anything my dear!
Na wa! It is well.
ReplyDeleteMiss Ess,
DeleteHow about my proposal, I'm still waiting for your reply
No it's not well!! ! Oga de shoot blanks
DeleteWhat I will advice you is to be prayerful since he doesn't like strangers to investigate and give you update about him, so be prayerful. Make you no go die one day now and no one will know what happened. Just my mind...
DeleteCome up with you bringing your relative to come live with you and look for something doing. Then hear what he'll say...
He doesn't release inside you or does he has a low sperm count?
Another thing try become his mum's friend and see whether she'll tell you anything because from your write-up the woman doesn't disturb you of grand kids. #Think and pray that God will reveal everything to you.
This one strong biko!
DeleteMadam somtn is wrong with ur hubby and he knows.or has a ritualist. How can a Naija man be married for 5 yrs and still not be ready for kids at 47 for that matter. Plus if u needed kids on really, how come uve not taken in without him knowing abi does he use CONDOM with you?
DeleteYou don’t sound like you guys are friends, you sound like you got married just because you wanted to and he also got married for the same reason, he even seems like a sadist.
DeleteHe doesn’t want kids, doesn’t want business, he doesn’t want friends either, he prefers you sit at home like a furniture, what kind of marriage is that? Better start something cus marriage is not a gaurantee that all will be well
Pushup Google the meaning of sadist. Come back and correct yourself. It would have even been easier to get pregnant for a sadist
DeleteRitualist Alert oooo, madam flew oo blood of Jesus how can a full grown man said he does not want kids at his Age, this is serious
DeleteE mere ya eme??
ReplyDeleteOnye ma, maybe oh
DeleteAs in. very strange
DeleteE mere ya eme!
DeleteWhen a woman have problems getting pregnant, everybody will be in the know but if it's the man, everybody will be quiet. Madam, better start thinking o.
DeletePlease let me perch here biko-sister Wat did you just narrate? Your husband is almost 47 49 50 and you are consoling yourself with the fact that he looks 30 and does not want kids.my sister let me tell you Wat my mom use to tell me in all honesty.see ba weda you like it or not the plain and cleanest truth is that "never you allow your mates overtake you in life.you must struggle and do things when your "mates" or age grade are doing things because once they overtake and you are lagging behind it will be hard to catch up.my sister are you aware the woman body doesn't function like the man body???? Ebi like say you be illiterate oh bcs if you know say e easy for 70years old man to comfortably give woman belle but e go hard for some 40 something years old woman to carry bell without doctor advicing her upandan then you will sit up.so in your mind now your husband tells you not to have kids and you are folding hand 5years in marriage while some of your age mates have their first child In primary 2.see my sister let me whisper to you bcs I don't want any body to hear this one .oya come closer :na woman get children for this life.nothing concern man concern children oh.na mama own children.yes they bear the man's name but go and ask pple Wat I mean by "na woman get children".if that man decides to leave today You loose! No pikin no work.wasted years In life you will never get back.please it's a different thing if a couple is trying to conceive but when man get sperm and he decides to practice withdrawal in marriage of no children then please ask that man if he's a gay or he belongs to a cult.so in the morning he will drive off to work and you will be in the house doing Wat coupled with "no children"? You are suffering oh.oh you think couples who give birth in marriage have 50million in the account? Are you aware kids come with their own blessings in a home? Do you have a family? Because if na my mama she for Don con sing song for our house "when will you miss your period na" my son when will you find your wife a job because this school fees we paid on her will not waste oh.as I read your story I remembered a man who I worked with.this idiot did the same thing and didn't want kids after marriage.well he's well over 67. Retired and his first child just wrote common entrance exam.all his mates have grandchildren.sit and plan your life my sister'you want to go into bridals/makeup? FUCKING DO IT! BEFORE THIS YEAR RUNS OUT MAKE SURE YOU CARRY BELLE IN FACT TWINS.if he wants to divorce let him divorce like I said "na woman get children"
DeleteAbi na ritualist?
DeleteAnon 17:12 I couldn’t read all you said, this distracted me :
DeleteWat my mom use to tell me in all honesty.see ba weda you like it or not the plain and cleanest truth is that "never you allow your mates overtake you in life.you must struggle and do things when your "mates" or age grade are doing things because once they overtake and you are lagging behind it will be hard to catch u
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This mindset is flawed! Creates room for envy,greed and every bad vices there is. People should work at there own pace while facing front, as long they are focused, consistent & hardworking they’ll surely get to their destination. It’s not about the “distance to” but the “longevity of “
Anon 19:34 for some ppl life is a constant competition. They compete with siblings, parents, friends, and anybody they think is worthy of competition. Ppl with that kind of mindset can never be contented because anybody that comes along with more or better than they have they have to go in competition mode.
DeleteThank you anony 19:34 that mind set is so flawed,Bikonu this life is a journey not a competition!
DeleteSo so flawed. I lost interest when I read that though I managed to read till the end. That is why people fall into a lot of problems trying to keep up trying to compete trying to do what others are doing not because they want to.
DeleteI stopped reading after I read what her mum said.
DeleteGod forbid I compete with anyone but myself. Let's not even go into the fact that I don't consider anyone my "mate". Life is per head.
In life there is room for overtaking, you overtook someone doesnt mean you will get there before the person
DeleteYes, I was saddened to read that. I'm sure her Mum had the best intentions but it is very wrong advice. Unhealthy competition and followmymates have destroyed friendships, relationships, marriages, dreams...leads to envy, greed and low self esteem. no two people have the same life or same destiny. Nobody is better than you, you aint better than nobody. Learn from friends and shine with them, but compete with yourself only. Be brave enough to stand for yourself and live YOUR life, a purpose-filled life. With light and hope and courage. Everything good will come.
DeleteAnon 17:12, Look at you making fun of someone with this statement amongst other myopic statements in that stupid novel you typed up there"I remembered a man who I worked with.this idiot did the same thing and didn't want kids after marriage.well he's well over 67. Retired and his first child just wrote common entrance exam.all his mates have grandchildrena 67 year old man whose child just finished high school while his mates have grand children"
DeleteHow is it your business? Did the retired man begged or borrowed money from you to train his child? What about those that married early but children came late? Would you make fun of them too for still training children in school while their mates are gran parents? Should they go and die because of judgemental morons like you!? What is wrong with some people in this world when it comes to marriage and children?
If you must know, it is not how far but how well. The race is not to the swift. Some people had children early in life and still financially supporting their children and grandchildren at old age, so what is the difference between them and the 67 year old man you are mocking? Na so una go dey compete with others over everything in life and enter fire. shior!
Real Hmmm
ReplyDelete47 and not willing to have a child, some orientation though.
ReplyDeletePoster are you sure your husband is not in secret society? I'm surprised ooo
ReplyDeleteSeriously
DeleteI thought about this too. he probably belongs to a cult
Delete#Anotherangle
DeleteYou may be right 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
Are you still having sex with him?? Please get pregnant.If he's normal he will happily accept his baby. At least a baby will keep you busy until he changes his mindset. Good luck
DeleteVery possible, someone that got married at age 42, what was he doing since?
DeleteThat man has secret baggage. Unravel it and then take your decision
ReplyDeleteUnravel what? Better make your decision and face front. Not juat about having babies but trying to make you useless.....pardon my harsh word.
DeleteIgnorance atimes pays. Do you watch nollywood epic, Yoruba and igbo? You should understand.
Do you and he have parents?
ReplyDeleteI know its not good to involve third party in your marriage, but some cases call for it. This is a very serious issue especially that of not wanting kids, and you need to resolve it asap. If he doesn't want kids he would have laid his cards open before marriage. I know some people are that open about it, so you know what you getting into.
Can you request a family meeting?
Hian
DeleteHe have parents! Na wao!
DeleteNa wa. This your case na wa.
ReplyDeleteMan that is supposed to take care of his family is facing mama very well. Abeg ask mama writing be the mumu button of his son because you don't know it
Not everyone wants children as strange as it sounds or perhaps he feels he can’t afford to now. There are many people who see feeile but don’t want kids.
ReplyDeleteYes, that is what he said, that he can't afford having a child now, that having a child requires more money
DeleteHe should have married somebody who doesn't want children then, that's if he doesn't want children.
DeleteSince he doesn't want children please leave him oh. Let him continue taking care of his mum.So he cannot afford to take care on 1 or 2 kids? Mstchew. That man is a joker.
DeleteDID YOU DISCUSS HOW MANY CHILDREN YOU WANT AND WHEN DURING COURTSHIP????
DeleteIF NOT, YOU HAVE NO ONE TO BLAME BUT YOURSELF.
47 years old man and doesn't want a child?it is either your man is impotent,in cult, has a family somewhere.Please go on 7days fasting and mid night prayers.Jere 33v 3, Psalm 27,Psalm 91 Psalm 51.Wake up every 12 am to 1am nicked and take to your heavenly father.Tell him to reveal the secret things you do not know about your marriage to you.
DeleteAbegi!!! He can not afford it, but will not allow you to work
DeleteExactly, its ok not to want kids but your partner must know before marriage. Jeanine Mia doesn't want kids and her partner was aware before the marriage. Though he later wanted kids but she divorced him cos she still didn't want. But its counter-cultural for a Nig man who can afford not to.
DeleteI am quite confused, do you have a husband or a flat mate? While I don’t believe marriage is for the sole purpose of bearing kids it’s just funny that he wouldn’t let you work and takes care of his mother more than his wife. You married a mama’s boy and don’t be surprised to find out the idea of no kids for now came from his mother because she is only thinking of her self.
ReplyDeleteWhat if he has fertility issues and just married you to warm his bed or how exactly has he shown that he isn’t ready for kids? Does he use a condom every time you lay together or are you on a pill because I don’t get that part. Anyway, open your eyes and weigh your options. Also ask him what he really wants from the unio because you can’t continue to live off him.
Doppel, point of correction he has never said that I shouldn't work, I have applied for jobs and I get no reply, or after interview no reply and there are few jobs in this state, His mum wants grandchildren and he practices withdrawal method
DeleteSorry madam, he is probably looking for a job for you in his office. So just be patient ehn they’d soon call you. He practices withdrawal method? Lol, you’d be fine. The matter is not pinching you hard enough. All the best 😘
DeleteThen pray more that whoever is blocking you not getting a job... Holy fire... Midnight prayer.
DeleteChange position during the act and see how he would withdraw...
Welcome back Doppelganger
DeleteHe withdraws? He must be an expert in that 🤔
DeleteIf the nail you are standing on really hurts no one I mean no one will tell you when to remove your legs....
DeletePoster
Delete- Pray to God
- Follow Aminat secret on Instagram and get her products.
- use it judiciously
He will go several rounds with you. Even if he withdraws all those times, some sperm will enter.
That's assuming he is fertile o
Tested and proven
Miss world, thank you 🙏 I appreciate.
DeleteHian all of una using black magic in the name of aphrodisiac...make una continue ooh.
DeleteSteal his sperm and go check if he is impotent. Maybe see if you can convince him to use a condom one time, take the condom to a dr and check his sperm
DeleteWelcome back doppelganger...I missed your comments. I'm a big fan.
Deleteyour horseband is a selfish and infact wicked man.he has kept you in bondage if you don't know.but woman you have a choice, act fast.
ReplyDeletePoster, see you see menopause
ReplyDeleteHe might have fertility issues that he is hiding from you
Please insist on going for med checks with him
The bigger problem here is that you are totally dependent on him
You have to fight hard for financial independence so that you can make decisions without fear
How come the husband doesnt want kids... Its it that he uses protection or he doesnt sleep with u at all... I hope the husband is nt sterile sha?
ReplyDeleteSomething is definitely wrong some where intentionally or unintentionally
ReplyDeleteWas there courtship before this marriage?
ReplyDeleteWhat did you both agree?
Or a man just says marry me and boom it goes?
What contraceptive does he use while having intercourse and
how can it be navigated around?
There is need for proper courtship before marriage; a courtship devoid of sex
which most times is a distraction from meaningful interaction to know a prospective
spouse's mindset.
Courtship in Nigeria is just for fuck na. To see how many sex styles they can do, and the woman, dummy will be bending like acrobat. Talk of the future mba. Discuss how your marriage will be no.
DeleteBy the time the man designs the woman's body with iron etc, you will see them running up and down headless chickens.
NEXT!
@16:58
DeleteYou sabi wetin dey.
While you're free to lament from now till eternity because of this issues, please leave your mother in law out of this! Did you know how your husband was brought up? Did you know the stress your mother in law went through to raise your husband up? I don't understand why some ladies would go against their husband helping their mothers. Imagine what you're saying 'he's paying for her water bills, light bills etc' so he should allow her to wrought?!
ReplyDelete“A man shall leave his mother and father and cleave to his wife” Didn’t she mention in her chronicle that her mother in law’s husband built her a big house? She isn’t saying the man should not take care of his mother but not at the detriment of his own home. She wants to earn her own money but he isn’t allowing that yet he is not taking care of her either. She is his wife, just as his own mother was a wife in another man’s house.
DeleteParents should stop bringing in kids into the world with the notion that your kids MUST provide for you.
Oshey fighter of Motherinlaw...so its good as the guy is not taking care of the wife abi?
DeleteSpotlight I never for one day speak Ill or think ill of my mil, I mentioned her here bcos that is what dh said and I know bvs will ask a lot of questions and I had to go into details
DeleteLol @ fighter of mother in law.Yes he should take care of his mom but not at the expense of his home. Meanwhile is he the only child?
DeleteBut why can't her mother Inlaw stay in the house that was built? WTH this is highly wasteful.
DeleteThis doppelganger is just too intelligent
DeleteDoppelganger, it's very okay for one to cater for one's parents, especially when they're aging. So they did everything for you while you're growing up but you can't take care of them later in the day. A lot of political correctness!
Delete@chylive maybe it’s jazz maybe the father in law did jazz that’s transferred to the son?? They should sell the house and youbusebhalf the money for business the other half to buy small flat for mama
DeleteParents have not done than their children a favour by bringing them into this world. It is your responsibility to take care of your children, and u must not expect anything back. Your children will also take care of their children. How would they be able to cater 💯 percent for their own nuclear family, and 💯 percent for parents? Doppelganger, ubare spot on.
DeleteLooks like he, s an ogboni man or something 🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃 never seen this kind of thing o.
ReplyDeleteYour husband has kids outside.you are the losser.losser.run ��
ReplyDeleteYour husband is selfish!!!
ReplyDeleteYou're at the losing end.
Wake up & smell the coffee.
Does he use withdrawal?
ReplyDeleteA lady during her ovulation once timed her horseband during attempted withdrawal
and held him tight. The man was beating her and struggling to
free himself but nothing worked, he offloaded everything inside
the goal post and that was it.
I didn't say you should do it o. Make you no come receive blows instead
of babies.
haha haha haha 😁😀😁😀
DeleteThis comment of yours just made me laugh. Na wah!
DeletePoster, you have to talk to him. Him saying it's expensive to raise kids is only creating excuses, even if its just 2 kids, you need to have them. I hope you're not afraid of him? Please relate with him as your better half that he is. Involve your parents and his mum if no changes, he can't use his raggae to spoil your blues.
Lol. Now this is funny. I actually wanted to advice the poster to do this o just changed my mind
DeleteHahahaha very funny. I just imagined the woman holding tight and recieving beating at the same time lol. What was the guy's issue and did he accept for her to have the child? Come and complete your story.
DeleteHahahahahahahahahahah poster pls be careful of this advice ooo
Delete😂😂😂you're so funy
Delete@Kiks
DeleteI know say na this kin tori dey sweet you pass
You no dey take eye see drilling rod
Tomorrow now ya husband go talk say make una space una kids
you go hol am tight.
No talk say na sdk you learn am o.
Poster🤣🤣🤣🤣 please do not try the above oooooo...so you will not land in A&E unit🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂
DeleteHahhaahhahahahahahaha I don laugh like mad person...poster abeg try this one 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂🤣
Delete@Fuck you
DeleteAbeg make you no tear pants and bra enter market o
Like play like play na so butterfly dey take enter bush.
Na big wa and his Mama is so comfortable eating proceeds from her son without caring to his children produced in this union.some things are just best imagined really. Are you sure its ordinary
ReplyDeleteLol. Change ur period jare. Start putting pads 5days to ur ovulation.
ReplyDeleteWait ooo.
Are his friends d same?
why is his mother not complaining like a typical naija mother.
I smell a rotten fish.
And she refused to live in her husband's house.
Hmmmm. I smell a big rotten fish.
And he got married very late oo.
Mention it to your MIL and watch her carefully as she responds.
U can put your phone on record discreetly while u talk to her.
Listen when u are alone and try and add 1+1 from it.
Don't show it to another person oo. Ever.
He probably has the some coackroach in his cupboard that he cant open up to, using his mum as a distraction and making u totally financially dependent on him so that u won't escape the day the truth will be revealed. Seek God intimately and tell HIM to reveal whatever is behind ur hubby's action to u. Trust HIM, HE will
ReplyDeletePoster don't even think of having kids for this man cos you and the child will suffer. Concentrate on your financial freedom first. Like Doppel said, this no kids talk 'might' be from his mum.
ReplyDeleteLadies, these are thing you discuss while dating. This man is almost 20 years older than you so I am guessing you dated while in University and hence did not discuss matters just money.
ReplyDeleteYour husband has an issue he does not want to deal with aka he can not have children. If he could, your MIL would have been on your neck. If this is not the case, he does have children you know nothing about.
You have no job and you are pushing for children with a man who will not let you open a business? A man who focuses on his mother squarely? I am trying to understand why you want to force kids and feed them with MRS title?
Honey your issues are:
You need a job
You need to call a meeting and understand the future, you and your husband are obviously not on the same page. If you dare get pregnant, you and those children will suffer. He is 47 not 27 so his mind is made up. Do not make any foolish moves.
You need a job
You need to know if this marriage will work.
Good luck!
You were in your 20's when you married a man in his 40's and he is not talking kids. Have you asked him why he married you?
ReplyDeleteDid he spoil you with money and material things before marriage thus you thought the trend will continue after marriage?
Talk to your parents and his mum, you seem desperate for a child - But there are things he is keeping from you and he is only using money and his mum as an excuse.
May God reveal the mysteries to you in due course.
Poster take this to the bank and withdraw money with it. You husband is HIDING SOMETHING from you. Someone I know was in the same situation till her husband came clean. He threatened to leave the marriage before her husband told her he can't father a child. He's impotent.
ReplyDeleteThis na Naija. Any man at 47 that said he doesn't want a child in his marriage is lying.
Go for fertility check, or bring it up with him and see his reaction. Something is so fishy.
DeleteGo for fertility check, or bring it up with him and see his reaction. Something is so fishy.
DeleteInvestigate about your husbands family. Ask his mum more questions she may give you a clue. Why did she escape from that house, is it hunted? Are there skeletons in their cupboards? Are they occultic? Cos I smell a big fat rat.
DeletePoster, do you want to hear the bitter truth? okay, your husband and his mother have what is called SOUL_ TIE COVENANT. They are spiritually married. The mother is aware of everything. Have you pondered on why she's not heating up on you for grand children after five solid years of marriage? This is not normal motherly and son's affection.
ReplyDeleteYou cannot conquer this battle by complaints and nagging but asking God to reveal to the hidden secret between your husband and your husband. use Dan 2 vs 22, Jer 33 vs 3. Ask God for direction.
My thought exactly
DeleteChai! I thought about this too
Delete*** to you***
Delete**Between your husband and the mother**
Brainwashed madam, have you stopped to think whether this guy had a childhood disease like mumps that rendered him infertile and the mum is aware? How come oyibos don't have spirit-mother-tie-marriage-wareva
Delete@18:43 don't mind these fools.
DeleteSpeaking thrash. It's only in Nigeria you see there type.
You couldn't think of an unfortunate illness the guy might have suffered during childhood. Educated illiterates everywhere.
Soul-tie-covenant indeed!!!.
Smh at y'all.
Newly Janded
The big house your mother in laws husband built where is it? Why is money not being accrued from it if it was not sold off?
ReplyDeleteYour husband does not want children that is if he is not impotent.
I'm sure his mother knows otherwise she would have been hassling you for kids.
No woman with a grain of sense in her head should go into marriage without a means of income.
The men of these days are not men of Issachar. They are men of Indomie carton.
Don't allow any man treat you like trash because you managed to marry him.
But when you go in without anything, that is what will happen.
He does not want people in 'his' house.
So that means you too na tenant.
Buahahahahahahahahahahahah
Did you discuss how many children you plan to have, spacing, where they will school etc?
I wonder what people do during courtship apart from fucking like rabbits?
At 47, he has NO plans to change.
Do rabbits fuck a lot
DeleteAnd you don't even have enough sense to coat the head of a pin.
ReplyDeleteSo when you have the kids, how will you feed them, how will you clothe them? Drugs and toys nko. Or you will just give the child or twins or triplets breast to play with from morig to night? If he wakes up and throws you and your jigida out for the night, do you have enough t stay in a mid priced or even cheap guest house while you sort yourself out?
You still plan to go cap in hand to beg for everything abi?
Issokay?
So you didn't discuss finances or kids before you got married you saw rich man and just jumped in
ReplyDeleteSome in the rush to marry forget to investigate their to be hubby and when things start unravelling during marriage they're startled back to what they ought to have done before marriage.
ReplyDeletePoster.......smell the coffee...something is fishy...
your husband is a cultist who has been instructed not to have children under any circumstance. There is something wrong with the family. Why did the mother refuse to live with her husband? At 47 - no children, never been married? He just married you to stop tongues from wagging.....
ReplyDeleteMaybe he is waiting for his mum to rest in peace before having kids, my advise for you is to get him very drunk when you are in your ovulation and make love to him very well. Clean him up with warm water,soap and soft towel, do this every time before 4 months you go get belle. On the other hand if you really know how to make people up use yourself as a model, post the pictures on instagram, facebook and whatsapp, and start offering home service so that you can have your own money. Also be very prayerful it might be an affliction on his part.
ReplyDeleteGbam!!!
DeleteHmmm.... Aunty he can't have kids abd he doesn't love you enough to tell you that
ReplyDeleteSomething isn't right my dear, don't buy the excise of him saying taking care of kids is expensive but he cab use the money to take care of his mum who has a house and couldn't live there.
ReplyDeleteYou should even be the one to be saying you don't want kids for now not him, you are still young and no job at hand. I don't know what to advuce, but pls pray that God should reveal to you what you don't know. And go and talk to his about having children and see her reaction.
Are you sure he doesn't have fertility issue that he doesn't want you to know?. It is well with you. Does he have any property or investment?
One of these is true.
ReplyDelete1 he has kids outside marriage
2 his something is dead
3 he is an occultist
4 he just doesn't want kids and can't tell u the truth.
Either ways u will still lose at the end if u don't seek to unravel the mystery.
Poster, Please do not get pregnant without the consent of your husband. He will not take it lightly. I suggest you get something doing, save up and leave the marriage. You can still find love with someone else who wants all the same things that you do
ReplyDeleteDid you pluck this your husband from a tree because all these your questions should have been sorted durin courtship.
ReplyDeleteThis one you are asking us jamb questions after the deed is done we run you want make we talk?
Please not everything is spiritual or blood covenant or cult! Why are most Nigerians wired to think that way? This sort of thinking irks me out.
ReplyDeleteIt could be occultic. A family thing which he wants to end. Is he the only child/son? Why is the mother not interested in the big house? He could also be sick or have children outside. U've married him sha so just pray God to reveal the truth to u. Agree on what line of biz will be acceptable to both of u.
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