Wednesday, July 18, 2018
Alibaba Explains Why Some Side Pieces Are Winning ....
This info shared by King of comedy Alibaba may be just what you need to stop being that nagging woman you have become and understand why his side piece has an upper hand...I know someone who needed this info and i have forwarded it to her......
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🅰lot of people on this table..make una shake am with care cuz its still useful
ReplyDeleteⓂc pinky
Mtchew
DeleteI hate when they say all this, someone that has kids running up and down her body, spilling things all over the floor, feeding them almost every hour, will have time for mushy mushy
Men don’t always like mushy wives, I am not saying you should maltreat your hubby or disrespect him or not speak politely to him, but your hubby should sometimes know their wives are super stressed and not expect too much
More over men have cheated on women that have knelt down to give them good so there’s no rule book
old papa youngie, is a man supposed to have a side piece? you guys make abnormal things seem right. there is no advice here, if a man wants to have several women then he shouldnt marry. let that side piece become wife then come back and tell us the tone of her message
DeletePush up, your head correct die but as women we still need to pamper our husbands as well and find time to spend alone. People in Nigeria have more advantage cos you have family members to leave the children with.
DeleteI will say communication is Key in any relationship.
Only God or poverty can make a man faithful
Delete@Anonymous 12:29. The convo was interesting and logical till you took away the tire from the vehicle. Abrg Go one side!!
DeleteYea,I know this
ReplyDeleteWe will never see anyone making excuses for a cheating woman. NEVER.
ReplyDeleteIf the wife is so bad, why not divorce her and marry the side chic? Cheating can NEVER be explained away.
What's my own though, they should keep giving excuses for their cheating selves. That's why karma is dealing with them by giving them women who give birth to other men's children under their roofs. #continuesfilingnails
Vex just dey worry you this morning, cool down.
DeleteSuch happens when u are too clingy on d man...u wanna close mark him. U see these men, give them yards of space, whilst doing that, don't kill urself with thinking o...as I am, I'm too selfish to carry man matter for head, I come first, me comes first..the only person that will come first in my life will be my child/ren...
ReplyDeleteChoi why do we reason alike? Are u sure you ain't my twin sister who was stolen at birth? Lols
DeleteThe only person I am capable of loving unconditionally is myself and my two munchkins. Am I selfish? yes I fucking know.
Ur mother gave birth to a wise woman.
DeleteI am proudly selfish n I don't bloody care.
Haaaa! That sweet selfishness *stretches relaxingly* Me?? Police you? Except you are supppsed to be coming to my house to drop some cash. Lol.
DeleteHe is very right tho,but I'm tired of people dishing out advises for women. Everywhere I go...how to love a man,how to keep him,how to make him marry you,how not to be a nagging wife etc . I must confess I'm becoming irritated!Enough!! Pls sir,do us a favor and use your handle to councel men -on how to be a good husband, how to protect and love your wife,be responsible,take care of her so she doesn't cheat, how to forgive her when she cheats ...endless list Enough of women walking on eggshells to keep an overgrown baby. *sorry I had to vent*
ReplyDeleteObiageli
Abi oooh? What's wrong in teaching men how to keep a woman? See this world people have succeeded in making men feel superior or some kind of a demi god who women can't live without hence the reason why they misbehave all the time.
DeleteLOL This got me laughing!
DeleteVent is in order!!
Obiageli kedu? Ibolachi??
DeleteOby daalu Women train your sons oooooooooooooooooooooo
DeleteSTOP Passing on YOUR UNTRAINED wild animals to young innocent women to marry.
I wish some women could marry the animals they raised as sons!
Dalu umu nnem...Its high time women knew their worth! They keep advising the female child from childhood till old age on how to do this and that while ignoring their male counterparts.. So many women are single today,not because they can't find a man but because there are a lot of "isi akis" parading as men just because they have a third leg. I have promised myself to train up my son in same manner I would a daughter.. God help us
DeleteObiageli
This table will soon break. Anyways, he is making a lot of sense.
ReplyDeleteHe us making a lot of rubbish sense
DeleteRubbish!!
ReplyDeleteGood to know.
ReplyDeleteNice one but why is it that the advice give to women is so lengthy but that give to men will just be two lines? Just saying, it goes both ways Sir.
ReplyDeleteCynthia ama tell you why?because you ladies like the line : you are a man, so behave as such! Alibaba na MAN and behaving as such.
DeleteYou guys were famzing @davido days back because he was lavishing gift at Chioma, do u Knw that he wu plays the pipers dictate the tune? Do u fucking think Chioma and davido are equal in that relationship? NO! You cnt be nagging and ridiculing ur commander in the house. You are to be advised on how to be a good subordinate in the union else u fail on ur responsibility. If you want yah man to act as a MAN u gon perform as a WOMAN
*given
Delete*given
I've seen this post before and I'll make the same comment. The way people easily put down and judge wives is disgusting. First off, the wife struggles with this man on a daily basis. She knows his good and bad sides. You don't even know if that's how they joke or they had a fight in the morning. She has been with him through good and bad. All the side chick sees is a perfect man! She doesn't know him as well as his wife does so she can be sweet and romantic. Let her wear the wives shoes for sometime and see things for herself, Soon she'll start talking and acting like a wife . It's quite sad how women put pressure on themselves. It's always about what the woman does wrong or how she's not keeping her home. What about the man?? Most men don't show love and care to their wives. No romantic messages, calls or even lovely gestures. A woman who doesn't know what love is, how to you expect her to show it? Again this may be how they joke around (hubby might even reply mango face I'll be home soon). Until you've walked in another woman's shoes, don't judge them. Most men look perfect from afar. Get to know them and you'll see the Prince charming is nothing but a fake persona!
ReplyDeleteone million likes for this comment,only the woman knows the husband character.
DeleteThank you....so much pressure on the woman. I refuse to be pressured into loving someone who does not deserve my love...love is not by force, marriage is not by force. If you cant contribute on the love...give way.
DeleteThanks so much for this. Let the side chics get married, go to work same as the man and get back home same time with the man, head straight to the kitchen to make dinner, clean and do the laundry, serve the man and clean up after him and the kids, prepare the household for the following day without any "help" from the so called man and let's see if she will be as loving and sweet as before. Stress makes one age fast and grouchy!!!
DeleteThis is not to say some married women are not sweet and nice, it all depends on how her man treats her. Imagine if they did the chores together or she had help. Less stress, more love.
Men should learn to treat their wives better if they expect her to be sweet all the time.
Same way most women cover their evil d devilish hearts, with heavy make ups. Some of them are extremely dirty but will appear extra gorgeous outside. It goes both ways
DeleteWhen u allow yourself to be put under pressure, u feel d pressure. To hell with all these advises on How to please a man o, u didn't leave ur father's how to babysit an adult, u left daddy's house to enjoy further, not endure.
DeleteGood one!
Deletewomen do this, women do that, haba,it is getting tiring bikoo.
I disagree to some extent. Some marriage are so transactional and lack true harmony. People that have gotten it wrong in their choice of a life partner can also create such tension in the marriage. The same goes for those that married for the wrong reasons other than true love. This isn’t ruling out the fact that some men are perpetual cheats..
DeleteGod bless you jare
DeleteMtsheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwww 😎😎😎
ReplyDeleteWomen shld take time to understand their men, we need love and attention too, my wife almost lost me bcos of her pride, I found love somewhere else, a young doctor scattered my head with care and love, she has the most amazing smile, young and full of respect. I just don't want a second wife, the doctor ticked all my boxes. I am still in love with the Doctor B.
ReplyDeleteWhy did you not take your advice and take time to understand your wife. You think that so called young doctor is it abi? Not to burst your bubble but the so called doctor can never be decent (no decent woman goes after a married man).
DeleteIf you are tired, divorce your wife and marry her. Then you will see her true colours and she is most likely going to cheat on your arse because women who date married men have no conscience thus they can sleep around when married. Hope it won't be too late before you realise that you have gold already but you are searching for it in pig's style
Anonymous 9:15 you are a Stupid man. Come back and write this nonsense when she enters your house and meet the other side of you. Idiot!
DeleteI pray your wife finds a worthy man and dump your useless ass. Good for nothing fool
Humans love ready made people. Your whore does not love you she is after your money ( when you spend they form love).
DeleteMy husband is one of the major people that made me today (God is the main). He bought me a bad arse car recently. Any time I drop from the car, I notice male admirers. Some even have the effontery to approach me talking rubbish and forming love. Hahaha, you see the only reason single people are interested in married people is because of material gain. I understand this but most men don't seem to. My hubby is not perfect neither are the young men forming perfect and forming love.
Mr cheat, the sooner you realise that that side trash is your destruction the better for you. Pay attention to your wife because another side dude might be forming love to her and she might fall not every wife cam be assertive to reject an admirer especially if the hubby is not showing love and giving the love to a whore.
Lmaooo...ur wife don't have ur time cos u don't understand her...same way d doc ticked all ur boxes is the thing that is keeping u blind...remain blind abeg..ur madam be receiving correct attention...deny with ur phone.
DeleteOga just shut up dere and stop giving excuses for your cheating ways,m sure it's same thing you said about your wife before you married her no be only lost you because of pride.M sure when you wrong her you expect to always be the one trying to make peace,what effort did you put in or you expect her to always be the one?So biko stop making excuses for your ways
DeleteLmaooo' @my wife almost lost me.
DeleteSomeone of you need someone to look you in the eye ad tell you lot the obvious truth. 'you aren't even worth keeping, and the only reason a lot of women are in a union is because of the ring.
Hahaha. Oga , I laugh at your ignorance. Aunty Dr is being nice because you're a PATIENT and probably an affluent one at that. Marry her first and you will know what the husbands of Drs go through, one exam after another. She may not have your time! Still laughing at you....����
Deletesomeone is taking care of your WIFE ooooooo!
DeleteA viral man is loving her!
You have lost out terribly..I pray you discover this before it gets too late and she brings another mans offspring back home to you!
Wife of DR.B's lover...Kep your game tight!
She almost lost you.... Mr. Diamond !! Osheey baddest 💪💪
DeleteOh Please! Enough!
ReplyDeleteThe key is carrying your spouse along in whatever you do
There are some men that do not carry their wives along in their business or career
If your wife knows and understands the kind of work you do she wont bug you with calls
If you are a driver that ply Lag-Abj, she knows not to call you during the day cos she knows you are driving
It when you start being shady like not calling or picking up your calls at night or your expected free time
You people should stop vilifying wives and glamorizing side chicks
A wife or family is not what your get in touch with at your convenience or when you please
It is expected that you keep her abreast at all times, she is your partner
That is how marriage should be
If I don't hear from my hubby or he does not pick my calls over an extended period of time, he knows he has some good explaining to do
We hold each other accountable. It is not a master/slave relationship
Anyway, they will post anything for likes
They will put wives under the bus to score cheap points
Side chicks winning where? Lol
Wake up please.
Don't mind the fool
Delete👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
DeleteSebi side chic wants to become wife too?
DeleteSome side chics that are wives now are seeing the true nature of those lover guys.
Men should appreciate their wives efforts, not easy to cook everyday abeg.
Thank you
DeleteBeautiful!
DeleteThank you for you comment. I am not the clingy type but of my hubby start getting distant, I act immediately. I talk. Some may view that talking as nagging but it works for me because he know I am a peacr
DeleteContd.
Deletebecause he know I am a peace loving person. He adjusts. I love my peace so much that I rather be alone than unhappy which is what I always tell me . If you deal with side trash you will make me unhappy and I rather stay on my own with my kids. So far so good, he seems clear on that.
Ali baba na konk ashy...
DeleteSome women understand their husband hussles but still behave funny, some men out there are beast by the way, some women are angels too.
DeleteNa that cooking be your own problem. Won't you cook for your children when you have them?
Delete👌
Deleteaptly written!
Tea and bread with egg.don finish for market. Some men can't do without swallow n you must cook difft soups. Bread n tea not in their menu. Lol
DeleteWork to market then cook... E no easy.
Winning indeed. How many of them actually displace the wife in the house. They continue to be side pieces until they enter menoupause. The smart ones know to leave and find their own hubby. If you like waste your whole youth on a married man sending text and bringing food. That man will still go home to his nagging wife and kids.
ReplyDeleteBesides I don't even see why i should be using phone to chase a man I am still going to see at home. Is it not the same bed we will still sleep.
By the time you get home from work, cook and tend to the kids I wonder which time I have to be chasing a man with phone. Maybe these are housewives that have nothing more to do with their time.
Always blaming women since 1900. If you like be mother Theresa with a man if he will cheat he will still cheat. Tired of infidelity always being the fault of a woman that is sacrificing her whole life to the family.....
very tiring something my dear!
DeleteNice comment @Beds&roses.
So if husband picks his phone and call wife to inquire about how her day is going, he his penis will disappear abi???
Nonsense talk 😠
Long post alert
ReplyDeleteYou people will just be looking for excuses to cheat,do you think thw wife is dumb and stupid ? She wont call to be disturbing durring work time cos she knows you are working ,durring work hours she will only call to check up on you and the husband might not even do the same, whime they r both working o,wben its closing hours and u expect your husband to be home to almost home and he refuses to pick calls and not even return them,wont the wife be worried ? When you know normally he picks calls in ur prescence while driving, so y he is suddenly not able to pick the wife's calls,we know when our husbands are been shady ( yes am a married woman) cos we have lived with them ,we know what they r thinking when they blink thier eyes,to show that we know everything about them ,we know how they started when he just got d job, so y now start been shady.No body gives excuses to a woman that cheats,they will call her names but when a man cheats, you start hearing things like, the wife isnt giving him enough sex,she has stopoed been sexy ,she is this ,she is that,,the side chic that doesnt live with him, she doesnt no how his mouth stinks early in d morning,she doesnt no ,how many times he wears his boxers bfor washing, she doent no how much he has in his bank account,she doesnt no anythhing,all she sees is his good side,hang out and sex ,side chic has other men hanging around her ,giving her attention so she cant bother herself much abt d man, but d wife has no other man hanging around her, she hasnt given any other man the room to give her attention cos she is striving to be a good wife to the husband ,good mother to her kids and also good wife to her in laws , the least d husband can do is to be supportive,weeknd they should hand out,go to movies, club, order in pizzar ,do fun stuffs and see what happens.
Ps: am a married woman with a kid,have just been married for a year and i have never caught mt husband cheating just yet but i know how alk these things works,saying this for tbkse that will want to spill rubbish under my comment
From most of the comments I read on this blog, women don't just want to read or hear anything showing them how to improve on anything, no how matter caring or lovely that thing is done. If you have negative attitude and expect someone to accept you the way you are, you should also be ready to except the other person the way he/she is. The consequences of all these mentality are out there for all to see
ReplyDeletewhat do you do for the woman in your life ?
DeleteWork on that! Teach other men too..you guys suck at relationships
Men should take time to understand their wives. They should leave women alone abeg! I’m a man and I’m tired of hearing this rubbish about always blaming women. Men also have thier own blames.
ReplyDeleteAli baba why are you encouraging extra marital affairs. In the first place should a married man be having side chic? If you say that is the society we find ourselves then pls tomorrow, advise men also after all some side dudes are also winning in this same society.
ReplyDeleteEveryday, men men men, haba. I hope the man too does the same and speaks to the woman gently and lovingly. I hope it goes both ways.
ReplyDeleteSide chick go dey happy now
ReplyDeleteI have been married for 6years now with two beautiful daughters. My husband has been the one holding the marriage. He worships the ground I walk on. WTF. Who invented this rubbish? Please men should be taught how to keep their wives too. What is good for the goose is also good for the gander.
ReplyDeleteMy moral in life is very simple,you treat me good and i will definitely treat you better.
ReplyDeleteI really understand the moral lesson that Ali Baba is trying to pass,but hey it goes the both ways sha!
In marriage,We women are home builders,yes home managers.Proverb 14:1,Prov 24:3 and Prov 7:11 says it all.To build a successful home we women need WISDOM,if not,you will be so frustrated.African men most especially are bad eggs,only few of them are worthy..so we all have a major role to play in their lives,which is why God created and equipped us as managers...
I'm not gonna be defensive here,i'm only saying the truth which says a Godly wife is a strong and capable woman..#ifyoudontlikemycomment# #wakapass#
Abeg am not doing again... when am nice he cheats on me, when I threaten am leaving with the kids, he arranges himself. For the last 20years he has gone through so many changes and he is not as charming as he used to be but I still love and respect him... I ask him the reason he cheats on me and he answers nothing... I used to think it was a weakness and as a Christian I try to show love and accept him as the Heavenly Father does but now I know it's sheer obsession and greediness. He just wants more than enough and I can't deal. What would I do now. I must arrange for my Canadian visa quick and leave. The heart breaks, the betrayal etc is just too much. I am losing myself and it mustn't be so...
ReplyDeleteI think the issue here is over expectation from these male folks. During wedding you see brides shedding tears of joy, more than grooms. Overposting on social media with epistles, when the grooms are chilled. How wont men feel like trophies? Men would like the attention while you are dating, but once you marry that same attention is seen as the woman being a nag.
ReplyDeleteYou see me?? Any man who cant carry me like egg, i wont even date not to think of marrying. Man that cant call me at least 3 times a day is that one man? Man who cant call me during break time is that one man? Before you go for drinks with the boys, call me and report yourself. When youre having a bad day, you can send me a text and tell me about it. So i know how to arrange the home for you before you come. Dont turn me into a guesser. Because if you're waiting for me to dote on you, you're wrong. Wont do it while dating sef not to talk of marriage. Will put my life on hold to be policing soemone? If the communication is that bad, I wont even agree to marry you in the first place.
And at the end of the day, i am one of those who would take a fast walk if the marriage isnt all you promised it would be. Who has time to die there and be struggling for attention with side chics? Just dont stop me from making my own money, simple. Even in relationships, i make the guys know i'm not here to die. One small argument you see them begging you not to walk, even when thats not what you said. Its when you carry these men like egg that they become ballooned.
Hmmmm Alibaba wants to cause trouble.............. Most women know their husbands schedule, hence why they ask questions when he doesnt pick. A man who you see is online for minutes only to tell you his phone shows he is online when he unlocks his phone not when he opens whatsapp! A man who tells his wife that he left his two phones on silence or in the car at night all because he works outside lagos......but when he is home and wants to sleep the phones are never on silence or he puts off so their calls dont come in! A man who picks calls and even when there is no issue talks to you rudely like he is proving a point to a side piece? And his stupid family/mother will say you made him carry women! He too begin to sing the same chorus acting like the victim. Well they used to say you dont know what you have till you lose it, but it truly is, they know what they have(they know they have good wives, they know the side pieces cant be good wives)...........THEY JUST NEVER THOUGHT THEY WILL LOSE IT! Well na siddon look i dey..........one day i will tell my story, one chronicle day will not be enough.....so i may tell it as Mrs Kay's. But for now lemme focus and make so much money cos the little i get na borrow without paying and when you dont borrow him he talks to you nastily and tells you any info you ask is personal and his business. Sometimes i wish i wasnt a christian just so i deal with him for all the hurt, pain and ridicule from him, family and side chics. I still dey watch! Silence is golden until that day!
ReplyDeleteMr Alibaba or whareva, jus' stay in ya lane.
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