After apologising for publicly calling out her footballer husband, Rasaq, over domestic, Nollywood actress, Bose Alao, has revealed that they were both violent towards each other.
In a recent chat with Punchng, Bose maintained that her marriage was intact. “I want to take my family off social media because it is not helping me.
My husband is not someone who addresses issues on the Internet; it seems like I’m the only one talking. It is true that we had issues’ she said
On that particular day, which was our 10th year wedding anniversary, we had a fight and he smashed my phone and I was very angry. It wasn’t even the fight we had that angered me; it was the fact that he destroyed my phone. Because of that, I poured out my anger on my WhatsApp status, where he would see it. I didn’t want it to be public knowledge, initially, but a journalist on my contact list screen-grabbed my updates and posted them online’ she added.
Bose Alao also said they are both undergoing therapy at the moment, ‘that type of news actually affects my husband’s career. To be honest with you, I and my husband are violent towards each other and we’re trying to get help. Whenever he hits me, I retaliate but everybody knows that he can beat me.Every marriage has issues but we often expect too much from our partners.
There was a time my pastor even told me that I should put water in my mouth whenever I am angry but it didn’t work and I spat out the water when we were fighting. We are both undergoing therapy right now. Now, I am very quiet; even when my husband is upset, I keep calm. I thank God that there is peace in our marriage now and I pray there wouldn’t be any incidence of domestic violence again’.
‘When you beat a woman, she develops unbridled hatred for you. I believe a woman has the power to mould her husband into whatever shape she wants; anybody can change. When we came back together, we were both sorry and are both looking for ways to coexist peacefully because of our children. All our offspring are girls and a lot of men don’t want to marry women from broken homes.”
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I thought we have moved on from this saga?
ReplyDeleteWhat is she even saying? Just contradicting herself up and down, just to give an excuse for domestic violence. Only you dey quite and calm, only you dey fight and can’t hold water to keep you from talking.
DeleteThe issue isn’t who can beat who more or who retaliates when beaten, the issue is the fact that violence is being condoned. You can kill him or he can kill you, after all most spouses never plan to kill, it just happens. Aunty being alive and single is way better than being in kiri kiri or being in the grave.
Shameless couple
ReplyDeleteVery shameless, I'm ashamed on their behalf
Delete*Larry was here*
She's just been honest here, someone like you two would have said 'I don't want to talk about it '
DeleteAs it is they might not have a repeat of the violent again in their home because of her sincerity
I pray you both heal
ReplyDeleteBose you still love toyosi
Stupid couple. Wife bridle your tongue, Husband bridle your fists. #stupidityatitshighest
ReplyDeleteHaba, sef bridle ur tongue!!
DeleteOk o
ReplyDeletePlease, go and sleep. Nobody cares.
ReplyDeleteNot sure this woman is ready for this her marriage...
ReplyDeleteWhat is the explanation for now?
Na wa oh...
Smh for this woman ....whenever he hits me i retaliate ..bawo....is he suppose to hit you in first place ?? ...women try stop these excuse for abusive men..try and hustle so that fear of suffering will not keep you in a terrible marriage
ReplyDeleteThat is it. The minute he raises his hand, he has failed.
DeleteThose young girls are broken already watching all the fights. People without shame talking nonsense on social media.
This one sounds street. No dignity.
Thank you for saving me the stress of writing comments
DeleteWhat concern me? If you like bring your family to social media, is your cup of tea.
ReplyDeleteI can imagine how she spat the water out in anger.two violent individual. I wonder if their kids are always there when they start fighting. God help you, but just stya out of any interviews and social media
ReplyDeleteIt is well with their Union
ReplyDeleteYoruba actress with drama
ReplyDeleteIt is well with this marriage!
ReplyDelete#Your past was never a mistake, if you learnt from it*
ReplyDeleteShe should shut up and go off social media . She should go and fix her life.
ReplyDelete"There was a time my pastor even told me that I should put water in my mouth whenever I am angry but it didn’t work and I spat out the water when we were fighting."
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