Domestic Violence is getting out of hand these days!
The 24-year-old mother-of-two, Abimbola Olamide, said she stabbed him in self-defence, after being pinned down by the deceased, who was notorious for always beating her.
Her words: “My husband was always beating me anytime we had an issue. I didn’t kill him intentionally. Yesterday, he pinned me down and started beating me again. I picked the knife to scare him, but I mistakenly stabbed him. I couldn’t have killed my husband intentionally.
“In the past, I used to run out of the house when being beaten. But today (yesterday), he locked everywhere to prevent me from escaping.
“My family had told me to divorce him, but I didn’t want to because he is the husband of my youth and we already have two children together.
“You can ask around; everyone knows he beats me always.”
A neighbour, who declined to reveal her name, said the fight between the couple was because she asked the husband, a 28-year-old mechanic, to give her N50 for her transportation to her school.
She added: “The suspect had suffered domestic violence in the hands of her husband before the unfortunate incident. When the beating was becoming too much, the parents of the woman told her to divorce the husband.
“The woman chose to stay with her husband because of the love she had for him and their two children.
“It is known on our street that the couple was always fighting and the husband is fond of beating her on the slightest provocation.”
Another resident, who gave his name as Adeolu, said: “In the past, whenever they were fighting the wife of the deceased used to run out of the house. But on this very fateful day, the deceased locked their doors to prevent her from escaping.
“We always intervened in their fight anytime they started. The deceased and his wife were both youths in their 20s. The incident is an unfortunate one.”
Policemen from Igbogbo Police Division have arrested the suspect, following the incident, while the remains of the husband had been deposited at Ikorodu General Hospital mortuary.
Confirming the incident the Lagos State spokesperson, SP Chike Oti, said the case has been transferred to CID, Panti, and that investigation is still ongoing.
from Vanguard.
The killings happening in marriages and relationships now is getting out of hand.
ReplyDeleteA good lawyer can reduce her sentence from murder to man slaughter if her story is true
But if the other side have a good lawyer, they can also say its premeditated murder. Because they will ask her how she was able to get hold of a knife when she claimed she was pinned down by the man beating her.
This is hard. Please walk away people. Walk away. Don't stay for love once this beatings start. Don't stay for children. Now her kids would be tossed from one home to the other.
In their 20’s o, just see how the devil made this man lock his doors to carry out his plan, only if he knew, all because of 50naira, it will never be well with poverty. Ahh i cannot be poor in this life. Chukwu aju
DeletePeople try to fight poverty
DeletePoverty is really a disease
WALK AWAY, WALK AWAY. Look at how this one has put herself in trouble. Even when her family asked her to leave which is scarce. Haaa
DeleteMy dear,Manslaughter is still life imprisonment...i pity the poor girl
DeleteAnd the kids. Chain.. Walk away people walk away stay on ur own and be loving him than staying in his house and die
They should free this woman abeg!
ReplyDeleteFree her ke?, Biko sister I don't agree. She should have quietly left that marriage in peace, remember she has her family support? Her family asked her to divorce him, yet she stayed. And she's a teacher who can fend for her kids not that she's a jobless house wife
DeleteAmanda it's easy for you to say she should have queitly left, though I don't subscribe to staying in an abusive marriage but my dear it's not easy.
DeleteI watched the video and I believe this woman, the devil just did over time in her household.
Woman let's learn to walk away, I know it's not easy but please walk away or seek help, forget what the society will say, look at this woman now, she did it mistakenly in self defense but no one will believe her, it will only take God and a good lawyer to bring her out of this.
RIP to the dead.
Amanda,it’s not easy to leave an abusive marriage oooh especially when kids are involved!...
DeleteMen that abuse their wives manipulate them emotionally and can beg,cry,roll on the floor for Africa!...
Don’t blame the woman abeg...
They should free her Biko, Amanda you don't understand the pressure some of these women pass through.
DeleteThis Amanda again
DeleteThey should free osiso,she did it in self defense. Its high time men too should take note that they cannot be battering their wives and go Scot free as usual.. Women should defend themselves too. The men too can walk out of the marriage instead of taking out their frustration and poverty on their poor wives..
DeleteRip young man.
@ madam B, we are saying the same thing now.
Delete@queen and Amy, God forbid, but if my husband starts beating me, I'll pack my bags and children and run to my mother oh, I know some stay because of what family and society will say but this woman has her family's support yet she still stayed, anyways I wish her well
If he were your brother, would you maintain the same stance?
DeleteSuch insensitive statement
Most peoples’ brothers do not constantly batter their wives or lock all doors so that no one can come in to rescue her while he’s beating her. Kwikwi, does that shed more light fir you? How can anyone even try to defend this guy?! Look, if your brother is presently beating his wife on a regular, you better seriously advice him or seek help for him before he either kills her or she kills him. Or were you wishing it was the husband that killed the wife? So you can continue blaming her saying she should have moved out. Either way, you would still blame the victim. Knowing fully well how our society treats women out there. A lot of women in her shoes are still staying because of this, some say they would rather have one man abuse them in a marriage than get exposed to several men outside of the marriage. The abuse also continues with other women, sometimes even parents etc. they suffer physical, mental, emotional and societal abuse as a result. It’s even worse when they have children who could also get abused outside. Or who told you her parents’ environment is safe for the children too? So it isn’t as easy for everyone to just pack out of a marriage in our society. Instead the men should be strongly discouraged from battering their wives with different measures and I guess what just happened here could serve as one. Because the woman will walk free. Enough of the suffering abeg!
DeleteSome men are wicked!
ReplyDeleteThey will lock the doors and be beating their wives blue black
What if he was the one that beat her to death?
If their neighbour's can confirm that he's known for beating his wife all the time then I think the woman did right.
Self defense is all I see here
#Freeher
husband killer spotted...
DeleteThe wife did right abeg! I don’t know how anyone can defend this man or try to criminalize the wife. Even his neighbors are testifying of his constant violence. They say they usually go there to intervene but he locked all the doors this time around to beat her. What if she was the one who was beaten to death? Let them free this woman abeg!
DeleteAnno i do not support killing but mehhhhhhh it could have been the woman
DeleteYour family told you to divorce him yet you stayed put, I must answer Mrs by fire by force, now you have killed him. I just pity your kids in all this... SMH
ReplyDeletesome of these men that beat up their wives will continue to die if they don’t stop!...
ReplyDeleteWith a good lawyer,she is good to go!...
Kikikiki!,..
Nyorr to the dead bastard!,..
Let him rest in pieces!...
Whether u are right or wrong avoid tainting ur name with bad nickname, a killer is always a killer.
DeleteAnother husband killer spotted...
DeleteAkpa amu,where did u erupt from, this blog has been peaceful without your silly comments
Delete@Queen and Boss of ndi Agboro
Queeeeen ooooo, which one is Nyoor to the dead again. Kikikikiki.The recent happenings should serve as a warning to violent partners.
DeleteRegardless,a life was lost and the other ruined,how about the innocent kids??
DeleteI feel sorry for both people
ReplyDeleteToh tell them to leave an abusive marriage and they will tell you wait till u are married bcoz as a single lady you don't know what marriage is see yamm now. She has ruined her life.
ReplyDeleteThe woman said she stayed due to her love for the husband and children, upon the whole beating. Now see where the love has landed her to. She is now a murderer.
ReplyDeleteMadam you would have walked away than killing him. See now you have to pay for your crime. He who kill must be killed.
ReplyDeleteI pity your children.
Walk to where? Is she Rentaghost?? He frigging locked the house! Did u read that part? The Man sef! 😡
DeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi(Stellz Cousin)
She ain't paying for no crime, even with a charge and bail lawyer, she walks with her head up high. They are witness, she did it in self defense, if she had not done it, she might have ended up the dead victim.
DeleteOga cutest Pat, which planet are you from biko? The highest that lady will get is a Jail term, that's if her lawyer is not a bad ass lawyer
DeleteDon't you know if they follow due process she won't go free @Chukwuemeka. Forget about our judiciary it sucks.. because I know soon she will be out because her lawyer will defend her.
DeleteI hope we all know even if she says self defense, she's not walking. Understand the law. I think her charges will just drop from murder to manslaughter. She can't walk free. Because at the end of the day, someone was killed. Someone died. Also, the way she got hold of a knife will be argued seeing she said she was pinned down.
DeleteI pray she has a good lawyer, because with a charge and bail lawyer, they will argue premeditated murder
Fab Mum its like you an an ID addict like me. Lol
DeleteWhen they ask women and men to leave their abusers they’d tell you “what about the kids, marriage is about praying and fasting”.
ReplyDeleteNow father is dead and mother might rot in jail because the Nigerian judicial system is crap. I pray she gets a good lawyer to defend her but this could have been avoided if she had just walked away.
Divorce won’t kill you, yes you it won’t kill you. Stay single and be happy but no you want to be a Mrs. even when you’re miserable.
2 witnesses corroborated her story,so, she is good to go.
ReplyDeleteToo bad for the deceased.
A whole neighbourhood can say they are aware he beats her. That will help her case well. And that would now be manslaughter not murder charges from my understanding of the law. Doesn't mean she walks. Well except a miracle happen
DeleteI actually feel sorry for this woman. With all the witnesses as to the dv she has been going through, it shows that she has endured a lot. God help her. She's really broken.
ReplyDeletepoverty is a bastard, thats why i still need to make enough money at least another 10million before getting married. BABY u said i am a time waster but yet u still collected a car gift from a time waster? why do some ladies sound desperate into marriage, baby i will give u a ring on ur next birthday but if u insult me and threaten to leave the relationship again coz i havent propose after two years to u, i wont beg you but will pick a better lady and delete
ReplyDeleteyour name from my empire which is loading. MONEY MAKES A HAPPY HOME, love without money will die slowly and the effect is heartbreak. Rich men nuture love and make it comfortable while broke men preach love rto cajole and win u with no financial security in place. i am all about money and will never beg any classless pussy that has nothing to offer apart from fucking.
Water runs dry. The money in the bank can finish. You need to deepen your source so that it always produces. That’s the key. My girlfriend thinks we should get married just because I have 10 million in the bank. That’s not enough! My base has to be solid to a comfortable extent before taking that plunge. I hate the discomfort that comes with lacking money. It’s such a nightmare and these women are the first to throw tantrums when money issues set in. Their desire for marriage is overwhelming. As a man you should stand your ground and don’t be swayed.
DeleteLove gbakwa oku!! Your family adviced you to divorce the guy but you refused now look where it has landed you. I feel sorry for you though
ReplyDeleteWicked men everywhere, let this and others serve as a warning to his type out there.
ReplyDeleteOMG!!! This is so sad
ReplyDeleteThis will haunt her for the rest of her life even if she walks free. Rip to the deceased
ReplyDelete‘Husband of my youth’ indeed. Now you have converted it to ‘ Widowed in my youth’.
ReplyDeleteThis I must remain in marriage syndrome has got to stop.
You to receive your punishment dear.
If this is truly the situation, this isn't murder, it is self defense and no crime committed
ReplyDeleteI don't feel any atom of pity for both of them and even yesterday's chronicle poster.
ReplyDeletethe sign is always there but you all choose to ignore.
you killed him, good for him.
you go to jail,good for you because you refused to divorce him.
yesterday's chronicle poster you noticed your wife's demonic behaviour but you overlooked it because you don't want to have a child out of wedlock, you deserve the pepper she is giving you now. carry your cross.
i gat no sympathy for you all in abusive relationship because advising you guys is like pouring water on a stone, it won't enter.
I don't feel sorry for the man atall
ReplyDeleteSo sad for this woman, she did it out of self defence, with a good lawyer in this case,she will not be jailed.
ReplyDeleteHer family should get a good lawyer for her asap.
ReplyDeleteSee ehn this kyn man will still frustrate her even if she leaves, there are kids to connect them.
ReplyDeleteImagine locking the house just to beat a woman(his wife), it could've been the woman in his position if she didn't act.
My only worry for her is our judiciary system, I hope they favour her.
The man is simply wicked, testimony from neighbours says it all. His plan backfired this time he ended up being the victim.
I'm sure he's not resting anything, wicked people don't rest even after death.
So sad,a journalist already took up her case dt it's a self defence,i pray she go scot-free.
ReplyDeleteYou’ve now killed the husband you never wanted to leave. Now the kids don’t have a father and you don’t have a husband anymore. So you should have left in the first place..
ReplyDeletethank God he didnt kill you sha....he got what he deserved.you locked the door to beat her so nobody can rescue her but look how the table turned..men and their entitlement mentality
ReplyDeleteWasted lives
ReplyDeleteNow that you killed your kids father for self-defences people will see you as a Murder o madam. you could have left since to Avoid this Wahala,Abegi they should free this woman why did man self lock every..
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