Tuesday IHN

Hello!!!!...

BIRTHDAY GIRL IJEOMA VIVIAN COVERS IHN

Stella nwanyioma, I love your blog and how you are always keeping me glued each day. Today is my birthday I would love my pictures to grace face of ihn for June 12th as a June 12th baby that I am...I thank God for life and family, happy birthday to all celebrating today and this month

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CYNHAMS CAKES CEO CYNTHIA IS A YEAR OLDER TODAY...

Good day Darling King Stella, so today i add another year to my thirty something years on earth.

Today i start i new year, today marks the beginning of a new phase of life for me as i have finally come to terms with the reality of things.

I wish things were different and happened differently but then since its the way it is, life must go on and i have to move on and i hope fate and life smiles on me so that which i so desire finds me.

Happy birthday to me.

Happy Birthday Cynthia..You tried your best and it didnt work out...Sometimes it is better to move on and find happiness within yourself before you become depressed...I like that you are strong and striving hard to be good at what you do......
Cynthia is single again after her Marriage crashed and she is strong again emotionally and ready to mingle.Her contact is on her Blog ID if you like her...
*wink*...She is a Single Mother!


There are so many BVs going through divorce right now and I pray that God gives them all (both Male and female)emotional strength to overcome whatever shame they might feel..
If it doesnt work out dont blame yourself,dont get depressed,get up and live again!....THERE IS NO SHAME IN BEING DIVORCED............................................................................................................

TUESDAY MOTIVATION
POTENTIALS

The heart is pumping so heavily, so fast, and the owner is struggling on his bed, his death bed! As he lay there, with all his veins visiblly revealed on his fore-head, and his hand clinging tightly to the bed sheet. It’s so obvious that the man is hearing what others cannot hear. He opened his eyes wide all of a sudden and yelled “please! One more chance! 

Just one more chance! 
(Sobs) please!” then a voice sounds, ‘how can you do this to me? I’ve been with you all these years, but you chose to put me in the cage, only for you to free me now that you are…………… you are so useless. Unfortunately my freedom makes no sense, my liberty has no meaning. For you made my lot to be in the cage, and now, I must die with you, poor soul!’

As the voice stopped, another one yelled ‘why cry now, evil soul! Why? Did I not make myself lovely and enticing enough? Who else could have given you much more rewards as I promised? I dwelled in your imagination and lifted the curtain of your reality faintly to gaze into the world of fantasy, you should follow your heart, but alas! My wings you broke when you caught me, and my hands you tied backwards, pilling unnecessary endeavors upon me! Today, poor and evil soul! You chose to untie me and my severed wings you restored, but where shall I fly to? To who? For what? I was made for you and for you alone. So my freedom of flight is a disaster in reverse, poor and evil soul you are!!’

The man faced with the pain of death and the whole body full of sweat as his eyes is wet with tears. The beloved ones around were trying to calm him down but to an avail and yet another tormenting voice speaks, ‘look at me now, I rather torment you with soft words than the harsh ones they used, for in such a way you dealt with me, you neither screamed or yelled at me, and neither did you cage or break my wings. You simply corked your gun and made me your target with smiles and sometimes with fear you shot at me your painful bullets of procrastination. The more I screamed, the more you said, “later, not now, I’m busy, I can’t do it, it is impossible” but your worst bullet on me was that of inferiority complex. Today, how joyful I was when I discovered I have been removed from that spot! I enthusiastically ran into your abode to continue our journey, but as I got into the entrance of your chamber, the last enemy I met was one who called himself Death! He told me your time is up and so is everyone whose life is knit to yours. 


I am not here alone to die with you! Look around you, see your relatives and loved ones crying, for their beloved is passing away, but little did they know that they are not just losing you, but they are losing us, though we are unseen because you never gave us life!

We are the books you never wrote, songs you never composed nor sang, places you never visited, drama you never acted and poems you never developed, visions you never achieved, intentions that never became inventions. We are your potentials!

You never used us, but now wicked soul, we must perish with you. Before your eyes are closed in death, may we torment your soul one more time to see beyond your naked eyes and look in to the future! Can you see that lady swallowing those pills over there? She would have been saved had she heard your music. Can you see that man drowning himself? He would have had a rethink, if only you had written your book, for before committing suicide, he earnestly look for an answer – the answer you carry within us, but now to your grave! See that innocent nephew of yours? Yeah, that little boy of twelve; he’s grown now, but can you guess where he is now? He is on his way to rob a widow – his last operation before he gets killed. You are leaving money wealth and riches behind, but the values that got you this affluence, you never passed to the next generation. Here are our last words and together we say them:

HERE LAYS A MAN TO BE TERMED THE RICHEST POOR THAT EVER LIVED! YOUR LIFE OUR PAIN, YOUR DEATH OUR DOOM. YOU ARE THE WORST THE WORLD EVER HAD!

This calls for sober reflection!
BY BV COSMAS




Na wah!!!


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I dont know what to say to this?I guess bedwetting is a state of mind.....Sir you need to train your mind to get up,once that toilet dream starts.....





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PINKYS SIDE TALK
TALENTS REVOLUTION


Gentlemen and ladies! Wake up the adults, the adolescents and babies!


 I must tell you what i know, and if i say yes, please don't say no, for the "reluctants", excuse me, i dare say, will be buried in the coming revolutionary volcano. You all know that Nigeria is dying. In sports, economy, education, security, education and culture, our strength is being evaporated and drying. Our late heroes and unborn victims, on the other side are crying. We never stop to claim we're trying. "We're almost there!" our government will always be lying. Ah! If that's your stand too, i swear I'll not be buying.


They said our true freedom will come through democracy. Years have passed and yet, see the hell of troubles we're facing. Our fathers are greedy and money has made them so crazy. Even we the children cannot deny that we're ignorant and lazy. When i was called a terrorist by an American friend called Tracy, despite the anger and violent breath that laced my Monitor hazy, i had to accept the truth, Boko-haramism, Niger-Deltalism, Sokalism, Gerigerism, Okijalism and others in one country alone, am i truly not a terrorist in a world of crazy democracy.


Undeniably, i love Writing, but, where are the books that many of us have written and intended to publish? They've been eaten by cockroaches and rats. There are many who are skilled at painting, nobody appreciates them, their paintings are fading, their wills are fainting. Sculptors that moulded the statues on our campuses, they're not celebrated like Bernini or Michelangelo, their names pass prison times in satchels and arm purses. Music... The medium through which Satan touches our souls is the only Art we appreciate, and unfortunately unaware of how it makes our morales depreciate. J. R. R. Tolkien, C. S. Lewis, James Hardley Chase, Agatha Christie and others were foreign warriors in writing. Dan Brown, John Grisham and others are contemporary foreign valids in writing. If Wole Soyinka, Chinua Achebe, Buchi Emecheta, D. O. Fagunwa and others whose works were internationally renowned are the old writers we have, aside Chimamanda Ngozie Adichie, give me another name of a current internationally renowned Nigerian writer. 


What do they even teach us in schools? What do our parents want of us? To be brave and liberate our oppressed world or to pass exams, get presentable certificates and find jobs to raise families in cowardly peace. Wrong? If you still talk of endurance, believe me, it's a product of your ignorance. If i talk of revolution and perseverance and you're still overwhelmed by reluctance, i will consider you a nuisance, guilty of extreme ignorance. Have i what than to recommend repentance? The fourteenth and sixteenth centuries of the Western world enjoyed renaissance, men of Arts, rise up, you have my insurance.

#Bv Adeniji#




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MRS DEES CORNER

STRUGGLING WITH UNFORGIVENESS 


Before I proceed on this topic, please I want you to know that I am in no way undermining God's command,  I just want to express myself in an honest way.  


Forgiveness is hard,  really hard. Most times in my times of reflection, I ask God if it's really possible to make heaven.  When you think you've overcome all the 'big sins',  the 'small ones' hold you down or perhaps we allow them to hold us down.

When I talk about struggling with unforgiveness, I don't mean a case of when you are insulted, accused falsely (depending on the gravity of the accusation),maltreated,  rejected and the  rest,  those are easily forgotten within a few hours or days.


 Let me use this as an example; somebody is living with you, eating your food, knows every single bit about your life and you never suspected the person was behind your predicament .When you are being carried up and down from one church to the other, visiting different hospitals,  slowly dying and this insider keeps being sympathetic outwardly but using spiritual wickedness against you until God remembers you and for no reason this person starts avoiding you in your own house, each time you see face to face, the person's face is full of great fear and trepidation, each time he sights you coming, he runs inside and finally one early morning, you wake up to find the room he occupies empty. He's packed out. Gradually,  with time, healing is restored, all the strange sicknesses are gone.  Your eyes are opened and you realise that he was probably behind all the calamities that befell you.  The  hurt sets in,  the pain,  betrayal, the thought that "what if I had died?" the clear and visible look of guilt on his face when he comes visiting and Hezekiah Walker 's "God Favoured Me" is on repeat. 

Another scenario, how do you forgive somebody who plots how to r#pe you and carries it out and you cower in shame and nobody knows about it but each time you see the smug look on the person's face, all the hurtful feelings come flooding in again. 

How do you forgive somebody who you know in a thousand years will never ask for forgiveness and they go about their normal lives without a care in the world ,  while you strive to be free from bitterness and hatred? 

Are you justified in your unforgiveness because they never asked? 
To think you've prayed all you know how yet you're still battling with these negative emotions.  
Each time you go to church, the topic is always on 'forgiveness " it's as if the message is for you. 

Before I wrap it up,  David in the Bible commanded Solomon not to allow Joab's hoary hair go to the grave in peace because he intentionally slew Abner and Amasa who David planned to replace Joab with. He also disobeyed David by killing Absalom. Does it mean David never forgave him, is his unforgiveness justified? 

OMG.... this is deep!



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THE DECEPTIVE NATURE OF MAN.....


It is the ultimate height of irresponsibility and stupidity to blame someone else for your failures in life. Only a fool and a weakling would come up with such assertion. 

At the age of 26, I thought of going into business supply.  With the help of some  training received, I  picked up some knowledge in supply. 

There was this company I almost approached for enquiry about supplying products to them but was discouraged by a friend I told about it. 

Months later I discovered someone started supplying the company the same products I had wanted to go into. When I enquired, I found out it was the same friend I told who became the supplier. Wow!!!! What a world...

Have you ever notice that some people won't venture into anything productive but once they see you going into one or doing fine in one, they will jump into the exact thing you are doing just to compete with you and even frustrate you out of it if you aren't  strong enough to withstand competition.

It will be so disappointing and frustrating disclosing the profit you are making in business to anyone.  Most people aren't comfortable with your progress and happiness in life. All they want is to see you fall and will go to any length just to see that achieved.

So lot of people today are victims of their hasty pronouncement of  blessings in life. Sometimes you need to keep the good news to yourself and stay focused, not everyone is genuinely happy for you as you take them to be. Some things are better kept secret if you must  succeed in life.

A sure guaranteed formular to be distracted and discouraged in life, is showing people your plans and proposals. One bad trend with humanity is that, when they see you succeeding they becomes jealous and envy, and would wished it was them.

Why must it be you? Why not them? They will never see or say anything good about you. Already you have been labelled an occultic person and all what not. Some will even want to dig up your past because they see your presence has become  good and they feel intimidated by the success they see.

Refuse to be distracted so that your distractors will be disappointed. You are very much unique to succeed with the right frame of mind.

BV TEEJAY. 



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