Good Morning,I hope everyone has a positive and stress free day today!
Hmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!
Kisses!
Thursday, June 21, 2018
Spontaneous Thursday Post
#colwarmday #thursday #throwbackagain #nothingspoil #vouchforyourselfonly #leowoman #endofdiscussion #stillsosleepy #hmmmmm noconditionispermanent #hashtagwithanattitude #nobetodayyanshcarryfacefaceback #staypositive #hustlealertday
Good Morning,I hope everyone has a positive and stress free day today!
Hmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!
Kisses!
Good Morning,I hope everyone has a positive and stress free day today!
Hmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!
Kisses!
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THE LIGHT OF THE LORD ALMIGHTY SHALL SHINE UPON YOU AND SINGLE YOU OUT FOR A MIRACLE THIS WEEK IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME. Isaiah 60:19
ReplyDeleteAmen!
DeleteAmen
DeleteAmin Jesu
DeleteEmjay I saw your pix yesterday. You 'is' a fine lady
DeleteAmen
DeleteAmen...
DeleteAmen
DeleteThis is the first comment I am making on this blog.........As regards the chronicle of the girl who was asking on whether to marry the broke guy who she likes......Reading through the comments of most of the female Bvs on that post I shake my head! ....they all want "already made" successful men. That's the reason plenty of them are single till date. Beware of the advise you receive on social media forums like this. Plenty very wealthy men we see today married their wives when they were nothing but with God's favour, ambition,hard work and SUPPORT FROM A LOVING WIFE(which unfortunately some of the female commentators on that post lacked!) their story has turned around for good. I'll just leave some tips for you. (1) Seek God's guidance on this issue! He alone knows the future,Pray tirelessly on it. Some men appear broke now, but will be billionaires in 20 years.....some other men are millionaires now but in 20 years they will be poor church rats...be guided in prayers. Not all that glitters is gold. (2) watch him very closely, how ambitious is he??? How motivated is he?? Does he have the hustling spirit? These will give you an indication of how desirous he is for a change in status. (3) he should take up some responsibility eg. source for certain part of the accommodation money, that's if you decide to contribute to it. (4) Finally DONT and I repeat DONT GO INTO MARRIAGE with him if you are not 100% convinced he is the right man for you. If you decide to marry him as he is then be prepared with your heart and soul and resources to support him until he stands on his feet and becomes something for himself. It's better you don't go into it at all than to enter and start regretting after 6months. Your full heart needs to be it. I speak from a profound well of first hand experience on this issue. I used to be engaged to a classy beautiful banker babe who met me at a downturn in my life, ie things were not going great with me at that time....she was earning more than I was, but I really loved her and wanted to marry her. At first she was fully with me and ready for us to sail, but later her attitude changed and she broke the engagement and returned my ring to me. ( she sought opinions from people like some female BV commentators) who prolly told her to run away cos I was broke. Later when things turned around, I rented a 3 bedroom crib for one million, furnished it, bought a car (all in a space of 6 months). She started entertaining thoughts of coming back,because the grass was now looking greener....but after thinking it through I moved on and married someone else. ( the wonderful woman I finally married, didn't even have a job as at the time we got married, but the reason I married her was that she had the heart of a wife, gave all the little she had into the relationship and believed in me and my potential to rise! .....the rich banker girl who had the money didn't support or believe in me. I and my wife are trying to grow together, we are not yet where we want to be, but we are in it TOGETHER 100%. God bless faithful women who stick to growing men and support them......As for most of these female BV commentators looking for Mr silver and Dr Gold, I wish all of una your hearts desire. Poster hope my two cents help in your decision making. On 2 the Next!
DeleteAmen o
DeleteAymii, read to comprehend.
DeleteNot to find a reason to buttress why someone dumped you. Okay?
Bottomline, what people said yesterday was, "Look before you leap." "Plan how you want the marriage to be", "Plan your finances". "Plan everything". "What are your plans?"
Yesterday, many women wrote down real life experiences they had after being in the same situation as the poster. You didn't see that Mr Oga Aymii abi? You only remembered the one still paining you as a man.
A man pushing for marriage when he is NOT financially ready for the responsibilities is irresponsible. Simple.
Why PUSH?
He can quietly engage/ do introduction with the lady in a small ceremony and then project the NEXT ONE YEAR in partnership with the lady, in building towards their wedding/marriage and settle in. I'm not even concerned about the wedding, they can do it at the registry. It's the marriage that is the issue.
If you are married as you claim, I'm sure your realise by now that marriages cost MONEY.
If the breadwinner is sacked what happens? If the lady gets pregnant what happens?
That someone dumped you is because she didn't see a future in you.
Simple.
If you had CLEARLY articulated what your plans were, how you PLANNED to execute them and how she tied into all that, and she STILL left you? She wasn't meant for you in the first place.
Nobody has time to be chasing pot of gold after rainbow. Let's leave storybooks on the shelves for little kids to pick up and read.
This is reality 101.
Live it.
@Aymii, you have spoken well. I won't add much but from what happened on IHN yesterday, I think now one should know the kind of "advice" one takes from a faceless social media platform.
DeleteGood morning lovelies 😘😘😘
ReplyDeleteDon't make fun of people's hustle when the only thing registered under your name is Sim Card. Sit down and be humble.
Bvn is registered too.
DeleteGud Morin House,am TTC...bt I noticed anytime I hv sex wt my hubby,i always see part of his semen on bed,or if I shld get up,i will feel it comn out,pls is it normal?or do I need to gt worried? Thanks
Deletehahahahahaha. @Olori good morning
DeleteGood morning @Olori, don't mind them. @anon 08:41, is not normal at all, you and your hubby should go and see a Doctor.
DeleteFirstly Anonymous 8:41
DeleteHave you guys gone for sperm analysis to ascertain that everything is okay.
After that, you can assist yourself with pillow,lay down on the pillow and raise your leg well. Infact hang it on the window.
And do not stand up till after 30/45 minutes.
The top of it is prayer.It will end in praise.
Is not normal atall. Ur and ur husband needs to visit a doctor
DeleteMy dear, it is normal as everything can't go in. What comes out of you is semen while what goes in to you through your cervix and fallopian tubes are sperm, and all you need is just one sperm to fertilize your ovum.
DeleteBut if you release more than one follicle in that cycle then you need more than one sperm to fertilize them or your ovum divides into two and form twins. Just go for medical investigation if you are above 35 and trying for 6months or below and trying for one year. above all put your mind at peace as anxiety can effect your fertility too.
Goodluck to we all TTC in Jesus name Amen!
So today I decided to turn my face into a colouring board. Makeup is an art I must acquire 😂
ReplyDeleteGood morning BVs.
Hope you don't scare kids away today
Delete😂😂😂 I hope so too @Lolo but I don't think I'm that terrible with makeup.
DeleteI just tend to get oily on my face real quick and it distorts the whole thing and then I end up looking like a masquerade😩😩
Use gascol before applying make up
DeleteSelene use mismag as base. Thank me later. Stop being ojuju before you scare the little ones mbok.
DeleteThanks Lolo & Anon
DeleteThis is aimed @Anon 10.16......I did read and I comprehended the post properly......you asked what happens when the husband loses a job .... Haven't you heard of prosperous men working in IOC's and the likes who for downsizing or one other reason lose their jobs??? Does it mean that the wife runs away??(obviously your type will)...isn't that when she should support her man the most?? All I am saying is that the future isn't cast in stone, certain men who you throw away today because you don't see a future in them can become kings tomorrow.....things turn around....mine certainly did. As for your talk about me being dumped..Lolz.......I am not the first guy who has been dumped in life lol (even Jesus was dumped by the jews) ...When you know your worth,keep your head up and strive! Success is the best form of revenge.....incase you didn't read my post well, she did come back,wanting me again, and I was really tempted to try it again,but by then I had learnt my lesson, I wasn't interested ..........thumbs up to peeps like Chikito, cutest pat and some others who gave reasonable advice on that post. #Madam Stella, I hail.....i love your blog..its humane and humorous. On 2 the Next!
DeleteThis comment is for Ayemii.
DeleteWhatever happens in the future is not the issue at stake. Where the trouser first before wondering if it will fit your waist. That's why I said, READ to COMPREHEND not to buttress the fact someone dumped you 10 years ago for her own reasons.
Marriage is full of ups and downs, every right thinking adult knows that. Together, once you have taken the vow as partners, one deals with them step back by step.
I repeat, no one enters a marriage without clear cut plans. No one enters a marriage without clearly being financially able to bear responsibilities within ones abilities. Life happens, people fall I'll, accident, sack etc. Even an upcoming dunce knows that. How prepared are you to bear responsibilities without relying on money from people who will spray you at your wedding, daddy and mummy, begging friends and neighbours, etc.
If you and your type feel that's the best way to start marital life,when you clearly cannot shoulder basic responsibilities in a home, well what can I say?
Hopefully, my comment will save at least one lady from abject stupidity.
Oga go and hustle abeg.
DeleteHi beloved how do I prepare my rice water
ReplyDeleteWhy do you have internet if you cant visit youtube
DeletePls,someone should teach us how to use rice water to cleanse the face. Is it the parboiled water? Or the one used in washing the rice? Is it hot parboiled water or we allow it get warm or cold? Pls,teach us ooo. Thanks
DeleteGood morning beevee
DeleteA beautiful morning to us all.
SAME GIRL, now that they have pitied you in signing the budget,abeg where are meeting????
To prepare Rice water, just per boil rice normally and pour out the first water shikina, though some people soak in cold water for 24 hrs shaaaaaa.
To make an orange peel powder, just try to get an organic orange, peel it, dry the peel and grind to a powder.
The beevee that asked of DIY baby organic cream.mix shea butter, coconut oil carrot oil, olive oil,Aloe vers and honey(glycerine and vitamin E) optional.
Please note that Orange peel powder is not to be mixed in your body cream, either you mix in your black soap or your body or face scrub. thank you
Blessed I wrote it down on in house yesterday oh.
DeleteBut let me quickly summarize it again.
The rice water is the water you normally throw away after parboil'ing Rice. Collect it and splash on your face. The result is seen on the first use sef.
I watched on YouTube how one can grow hair using rice
DeleteThanks Lucille and beloved
DeleteI will prepare mine today
motivate yourself
ReplyDelete#GOAT™
Good Morning BlogFam..
ReplyDeleteIssa cool day.
God's blessings all the way 🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤
The face mask you where talking about yesterday
ReplyDeleteGoodmorning guys. So this morning on my way to work, I saw a self acclaimed prophetess living on my street beat her husband in their car, telling the man to shut up as she was raining slap on him. Domestic violence I now believe is both ways and people run to her church for deliverance. God help us.
ReplyDeleteIsn't it too early to tell lies?
DeleteMay God help us.
DeleteAnon, please tell me what I stand to gain by telling lies. You need to change the way you think. Not everyone have the time to lie. Have a good day.
DeleteSlimqueen dont mind her. Please enjoy your day
Deleteits possible she has charmed the man. some women do it to keep him subdued..side eyes at queen of knacking pigeons..lol....the same she is probably using on her gullible members.. no spirit filled person will beat their spouse, male or female
Delete"Person wey dey pursue bird pikin dey teach am how to fly".
ReplyDeleteKpakam!
DeleteMake the bird fly o before we roast am
Deletehahahahaha 2 funny men. Both of you should enjoy this friendship jare
DeleteYori yori I and Sky aren't friends rather we are brothers. Honestly we came from the same place. We spent some time gisting outside the blog whenever we are less busy.
DeleteHahaha, Nigerian proverb
DeleteThank you Lord for a good life. I'm so grateful.
ReplyDeleteI'm so happy for my Ororo (CR7)
Ororo is the real deal
DeleteSo i had a dream last night.
ReplyDeleteI visited banky in his hotel room, excused to ease myself, came out to find banky lying on his back naked. He beckoned on me to give him head but his peepee was like that of a biro cover.
I refused in the dream. Next thing was a bang at d door. I had to go back to the loo. I peeped through the door and saw yvonne jegede n another actress gisting with him. ( they must have been together for a movie). I came out of the loo (they were surprised), explained myself, chatted with them, walked out and then i woke up.
I think we left together except banky.
What could this mean?
Lumapil!!! *in blackberry's voice*
DeleteYour about to become porn star or headmistress my cent tho
DeleteLolo i love you so much. This might be a calling to join Nollywood. Reply me and i'll give stella my number for you. I'm a movie director and have many cinema movies to my credit
DeleteVery funny dream,it's a good thing you refused him though.
DeleteStop thinking about Banky. He has a beautiful wife. See the way you described his THING. hahahahaha lolo the lolo, nothing do you
DeleteLumapil
DeleteHahahahahahhahaha thanks guys.... yori unfortunately, i'm not a fan of banky
DeleteMalaria symptoms
DeleteHahahahaha.Adesua will arrest you oooo
DeleteGood Morning One Big and Happy Family, hope we all had a good night rest?
ReplyDeleteYou can't talk of a more complete Player, and not mention CR7, 4goals in 2 matches, who can beat that in this Tournament.
1st goal-Penalty
2nd goal-left foot
3rd goal-freekick
4th goal-header
2match-2 man of the match award.
Well before this tournament I know my first team is Portugal, before Nigeria, thinking of sending my own Portugal Jersey pictures..
have a nice day guys, one love
We are in the same watsapp group oo
DeleteCR7 to the world.... .Ororo👏👏👏👏
Good morning beeveeleons..😎
ReplyDeleteHow you na dey enjoy this cold?
I want y'all to thank God for us, Street thieves or thief (dunno if na one or two sef) came in to steal yesterday morning.
Hammer was used on the fence, just at ground level, removed like 2 blocks, came In through there, removed my burglary, entered and ransacked the whole house..
Thank God nothing much was lost, just laptop, old phone, charger, then my GLASSES..😂😂😂 a won weyrey.
And do you guys know wassup, I had over 100k plus(customer money)😉😉 in my room on Monday/Tuesday..😂😂😂
I for just dey roll for ground dey weep like monkey wey lost banana..
But we thank God for everything.
Things are back to normal..
We give God the glory.
I told one of my customers, she said, 'aaaaahh'😄😄.. I said no worry, I don't send your goods already no fear ma..
Was so so lucky.. And I'm grateful for that..🤗🤗🤗
They're now robbing all of you on this blog. Issorai!
DeleteThank God
DeleteThank God for you..
DeleteThank God o
DeleteThank God for you. The economy is not smiling at all on people. But I know God will save everyone Amen.
DeleteShooter na wa for you, hope you wont fall victim and dont come and tell us on this blog because i wont believe you
They did not steal your ankara? Praise God for his mercies. Please buy a dog and invest in gun.
DeleteThank God for you
DeleteI remember how thieves came to my room when I was serving in Ondo.
I had gone to the next town to stay the night with some corpers there, so the thieves struck. I lived in a BQ with jam-lock door (if I got it right)so the boys came through the roof, removed the PVC and entered.
I was about to sleep when the corpers in my town who lived in the corpers lodge called to inform me. My heart broke into many pieces cos I had so much in the room: TV, DVD Sound system, Ox fan, table top fridge, camera, infact anything you can think of in a home. It was a complete home (thanks to my girlfriend who helped me).
When I got in, the rooms (2 rooms) were in a mess. I looked around and noticed they stole 4 of my brand new white tee-shirts,beret, pants and bra, gold and silver wristwatches,Sony camera, DVD movies, broke my glass cups, they even licked my peak milk and Milo. Chai
I just sat and floor and stared crying by then villagers had gathered.
I was told to go back to the next town and sleep, and they'd sort it out tomorrow, but God knows I couldn't sleep.
The next day, the landlord's brother (in charge of the house who lived in his house) came and took me round the village. The village chief was informed and he promised to use juju to find the thief if the person didn't confess within 24 hours. Many people also promised to help me use juju to find the thieves. That was how the news spread round. People started looking at me and feeling pity cos I was traumatised. I refused to sleep in the house until the thief is caught.
Luckily, the next day, I was called to come to the village s the thieves have been caught. When i got there, I saw that the Chief had called Policemen from the LG who came in 2 cars.
I joined them and we went to the thieves house.
To my greatest shock, it was the landlord brother's son and his friend. JS 2 boy I teach in school and feed sometimes. OmG! I was shocked. He confessed, told us how he planned the robbery with his friend. He was taken to the station thereafter.
The police helped me recover some movies, my gold wristwatch and Sony camera. He said he gave my cloths and undies to his girlfriend. I was hurt deeply.
I was told to estimate the unfound items in cash and his family would pick the bill, but after much plea from the landlord, I decided to let go.
I went for prayers after that incident cos I don't understand what they did with my cloths.
Thank God they didnt harm anyone
DeleteThank God oo
DeleteChocolate hope you did not take the clothes back? Dont take it at all. It is well
DeleteThank for you.
DeleteWow,thank God the customer money was not home oo!!!
DeleteThank God o.
Deletethank GOD you're safe ola
DeleteMy nephew too in Uniben told me some people broke into his room in the hostel to steal his textbooks, and other things. I just told him it is his friends and should be careful with them.
DeleteMay God just keep everyone safe from thieves Amen
tankGod for u
DeleteOla my man, sorry for your loss.
Delete
ReplyDeleteA woman knows when you are crushing on her, especially seeing those look and smile from your face.
They won't let you know or give you the impression they are aware of your moves, but believe me deep within their heart is like "Can't he just be man enough and walk up to me, even though I will play hard at first but definitely I will give in" Lols..... I love women like that.
Sexy Fido dido, We already know you love women from your rumoured escapades with both single and married bvs here. Btw, these your gbagauns, how do the women cope with them?
DeleteOshey, Spokesperson for the women affairs/community, Sometimes I wonder why God didn't give you Otu instead the blockus thats obviously a waste. Disgrace of a man. Tueh. Crush kooor, Candy Crush ni
DeleteYori yori whatever plans of the enemies against you be turn into thunder and crush them even while they are still contemplating. Abeg if that your tea still remain make you send across to me.
DeleteThe daft I.Q reducing comments you make like a local bingo, does it bring anything to YOUR own account?? Did the anon call your name? Or is agbekpo your name? See how you just jumped into something that doesn't concern you because you want to practice your English. Aunty drink your tea and eat your puff puff or eba whatever. Defender of your local government. Don't poke snout where you are not invited. Let people sort out their ish as they want. I am not the anon o, nothing concern me with tjay matter.
DeleteHahaha, yori yori your comment is bae.
DeleteSo Teejay your new crush is doing you strong Thing, and you're consoling yourself.
Worry not, we know!!
Anon let me defend him. EWU
DeleteOmg!!!!! Stella your people here are case o! I don laugh really hard this morning. Cha! Anon and co una well don o?
DeleteThis is really getting out of hand o.... calling someone a disgrace. pls u people should leave him alone
Delete...GAMBIA to you. Aunty dididnrin.
DeleteBack to reality!!!
ReplyDeleteOmugo over😎
How is baby ? Congratulations
DeleteCongrats
DeleteSpiritual forces exist o. I wanted to drink water tonight, I got up and went to wash my cup,after washing d cup,it fell down,I had to wash it again but while washing it,my instinct told me that there must be a reason for this cup falling down(women always trust your instinct oo). Immediately, I just started hearing something like strong whirlwind, chants which wasn't normal.My head just swell and I became afraid,I just ran inside the room praying and shivering. I couldn't sleep for some hours o. I didn't even go to urinate at night,I used my children's pottie o . it was later this morning my neighbours told me that its the oro cults carrying out their activities. I just started wandering that what of those passing through the road at night with females inside the car or what of if they see a mad woman,will they turn them to sacrifice? I was just so afraid because am living beside the road and I was looking outside the window because am annoyed at the noise of my neighbours generator. What of if I had mistakenly seen them but God forbid. Well,thank God I woke up safely. That's my midnight story. Still trying to get back my blog ID............bye all
ReplyDeleteDont worry, God is with you even if you see them, they are not bigger than God Almighty that you serve
DeleteHmmmm at this age and time Oro is still being carried out.
Delete@Yori,Amen jare. Tkanks. @Stella,I wonder too oo
DeleteWhat are u washing cup at midnight for? Give us another lie abeg, this one no enter. Abi na only one cup u get for house
DeleteOro is still in town o. Thank God for your life OYO
Deletewhy are some anonymous so quick to say someone is lying? so childish and irritating abeg...if na joke so not funny
Delete@anon,I don't have your time,you hear. I am neat freak. What of all these flying insects or crockroahes? OK,what do I gain from lying? May God have mercy on your bitter soul
DeleteStupid comments laced with even more stupid belief. Instincts told you about Oro cult, has it told you how to invent anything or become a billionaire or save all the dying children in the world or even how to browse the internet for free? I beg go sleep!
DeleteThe way this year is running ehn... June's almost packing up. Baba God.. na your hand I dey oo
ReplyDeleteLord help us not to lean on our own understanding but in everything acknowledged you so that you can direct our path in Jesus Name.
ReplyDeleteAmen..
DeleteI don't know why each time I take tea I must have running stomach, i will purge and purge, I have try Milo, Lipton, bonvita still is the same thing. i Don't know how to take tea without milk. Has any experience this body system?
ReplyDeleteI take tea all the time and i dont purge. Maybe your stomach dont like tea, milo, burnvita and etc. May be you should try longrich tea or green tea
DeleteEyah Pele. Go for Nido or Coast milk they are one of the best milk
Delete@Anon, is because you add milk. Avoid milk for a while.
DeleteMight be your brand of MILK,try another!!
Deleteyou might be lactose intolerant...stop taking milk and google the kind of milk u can tolerate
DeleteAnon 12:27 on that Blood Oath post of yesterday whose friend took Bible oath with her late boyfriend.
ReplyDeleteIn my own case, I did not agree to the Bible oath o, I rejected it. Pls your friend's case is different from mine, take her to a strong man of God for deliverance. I think I experienced what I experienced because of the strong connection we had. We were so in love and were like very close friends, I even did abortion for him too. The night he died in that accident, I had a serious headache I couldn't sleep. Morning, his bro called. So I did not agree to any Bible oath, I rejected it.
On a different note, I think Nigerians play too much. I was reading a post shared on Facebook yesterday and when I got to the comment section, I read a guy's comment that got many readers upset.
ReplyDeleteYou have to see the response he got from people. Such as ;
"Idiot, ewu Gambia hahahaha. Pls how does ewu Gambia look like? Sky white any knowledge? Pls describe if you do.
Adding to it, another said " Your family have forgotten you long ago and if you deny it I will stake a bet with you on that". OMG!!!
A more furious reader went on to say "Your parents could be wishing oh if slave trade wasn't aborted in Africa, we could have made some fortune in you". Hahahaha..... That was the height of it I swear. Why are some people like this? I won't be surprise if those guys are from this blog lols...
Ewu Gambia hahahahaha, maybe the guy is from Gambia.
DeleteLols..Ichie TJ ask me anything concerning Biafra. As for Gambia, Ladybug will have some explanation cause her Ex is from Gambia.
DeleteYou will not leave ladybug out of your filthy mouth now.. ewu
Delete"We need to talk" he texted his wife.
ReplyDeleteShe wondered what was wrong, men rarely use that "We need to talk" line.
"Is everything alright?" she asked.
"Let's talk when we get home" he texted back.
"You're scaring me" she replied.
"Is there something you should be scared of?" he texted her.
She called his phone, he didn't pick up.
She got home after work, anxious.
She stretched her hand to open the door, the door opened before her. Her husband opened the door.
She looked at him dressed in linen, wearing his smile.
Soft music was playing, the house was warm, it felt pregnant with romance.
"Hi love, welcome home" he said as he kissed her lips.
She stood there at the door surprised.
He took her handbad and placed it on the seat.
He closed the door behind her, knelt down to help her remove her heels.
All she could do was smile. Something about a woman being served brightens up her face no matter how busy her day has been.
He gently placed her heels next to the door.
He removed her coat, placed it on the sofa, he unbuttoned her blouse.
"The kids!?" she said.
"The kids are at their grandma. Sleeping over at my mom's"
He took her hand and led her to the sofa.
He made her recline on the sofa.
He placed a towel that stood at the table on his lap, placed her feet on his lap, took a warm towel that was in a basin next to the sofa and wiped her feet.
She looked at him giggling covering her face.
"I love you" he said.
She felt those three words go through her entire body.
"I love you too" she said smiling.
"You said we need to talk?" she asked.
"Yes, tell me how your day has been, how is your heart, how are you?" he asked.
"You mean there is nothing wrong?" she asked.
"No, there is everything right. You are the right woman for me. I just wanted to talk with my wife. I miss you, I really miss you. Even though we sleep on the same bed, it feels like we don't really talk" said he.
He said, "Today my love, no Facebook, no TV, no children, no cooking"
"No cooking?" she asked.
"Yes, I ordered take away. It's in the kitchen" he answered.
"Wow! You had this all figured out" said she.
"Darling, I strategize at work to get profits, surely, I can strategize to please my wife" he said.
She relaxed on the sofa.
"Your hairline is receding" she said.
He looked at her.
"You mean married life has been so busy I haven't had time to look at your face in such a long time; I mean really look at your face. You are quite a handsome man" said she.
"You know how to pick them huh? You got taste in men" he teased her.
She paused and looked at the man she loves as he rubbed her feet.
She told him how her day has been, they shared thoughts, they laughed, they reminisced, she opened up about a painful part in her life and teared up, he opened up about his frustrations as a man... they prayed. Some things about your spouse you will never know until you two create ample time to talk.
He served her dinner, they ate remembering their dating season, there was a spark in their eyes, they went to shower together, washing each other's body, he saw the spot where she burnt her skin while cooking three weeks ago and kissed that spot.
They turned off the music and the lights, they got to bed and had an intimate pillow talk. There they told each other how much they love each other. They cuddled, their toes danced together. He talked to her until she fell asleep. He kissed her forehead, watched her sleep then he rested too. No making love because all he had done was not some sweet acts to get sex but because he wanted to connect with her much deeper. So many women feel that a man only puts his best effort when he wants sex.
In the morning, there was a glow about her. She looked like a loved up woman.
Maybe all your marriage needs is for you two to talk; not sex, not arguments, not complains, just talk!
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got me dreaming...lol
DeleteI love this
DeletePlease house what are the sign that a person has BP issue? My friend saw me on Monday and told me that I have BP, just by looking at my face, that I have eye cycle or so she called it, I did BP check last month and my BP is normal, i even saw my doctor which he checked my heart beat and told me am good to go. He referred me to go for a scan of the heart, do they call ECS or so scan, my heart, chest are all doing great. Please someone should tell me major signs of BP, I sleep well, i guest due to the last heart break I got she may be thinking am still thinking about it, But I have moved on.
ReplyDeleteSince you are ok, dont let anything worry you. She is worried about your heartbreak. Dont let any negativity affect you. It is well my dear. God that sees will bring joy to you Amen
DeletePls walk in to any pharmacy around you and tell them you want to check your blood pressure then ask if the value is normal.if it isnt pls go see a doctor.its done for free in most pharmacies.
DeleteGood morning everyone. Have a beautiful and blessed day.
ReplyDeleteCold day here in Kano.
Good morning people!!!
ReplyDeleteLongest time lady. It has been long. Welcome back and good morning to you too
DeleteHello beautiful people! may God bless our day.....Amen
ReplyDeleteWhat a cold thursday morning. Have a nice day yall
ReplyDeleteNa wa i don troll small. May God deliver us from spirit of trolling Amen.
ReplyDeleteUna good morning. Good to see you all. Lets have a lovely day.
Eating puffpuff. Saw it on my street this morning and very very hot. ko bad at all
Haha 😂 😂 😂 😂, yori yori nwa good morning to you. Biko send me small puff puff
DeleteAAAWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWwww, Bv Platter, may God bless you richly. I was all over the place yesterday 'hustling' (God punish poverty) without knowing that God has set a table before me on SDKBLOG. I couldn't visit the blog till late last night. Infact I am short of words. I love the shoe and to say the shoe is beautiful will be an understatement, but to tell you the truth, I am an AGEKPAKO , If I get on those heals, na IGBOBI straight. Please I will prefer the money instead. The money will help me alot. BV Platter, for remembering me, I pray that Gods blessings pressed down, Shaken together and running over fall on you now and remain with you for ever. To all my people I saw you guys comments and appreciate everyone. The love you guys show me on this blog is amazing. Let me go and send BV Platter mail asap.
ReplyDeleteCongrats. Good you need the money. Enjoy jare. God has started with you
DeleteEnjoy!
DeleteYour feet are like Cee-c's own, so you can't wear these shoes. Nonsense.
DeleteMany more blessings fall on u madam,just noticing u changed ur ID....
DeleteThanks everyone including the annonyMOUSE
DeleteNwanyi oma...enjoy. More are coming your way, and very soon God will make you a giver. Jisike!
DeleteStella post this my comment this time around please, I don't know why you always swallow it.
ReplyDeleteSo ....... I finally meet with someone from SnM, cool dude, very handsome and quiet, exactly my type, but unfortunately, we are world apart, he is from the very wealthy one, while I am from the very poor one , during our discussion I found out he has been to so many countries, and I have only been to two states in Nigeria, I really did like him, but I don't see this working out..... Has any one been in a relationship with someone from different background before, how did it go..... I haven't pick his call since how date because i am really scared , please what do you think i should do.
You already defeated yourself even before you start the journey. Abeg leave the guy alone before overlow esteem kill you.
DeleteWe read about this very post last week on this blog and so many advice were given to you.
DeleteMadam, don't belittle yourself picK his call and play along with him.
I think your comment was enabled some weeks ago if not last week. I remember reading it here and so many persons gave their response that day.
DeleteThanks Cutest pat and teejay. I will look for the post right now. Yori yori , its not everything that has to do with low self esteem, I am a practical person , I don't like wasting my emotions thanks all the same dear.
DeleteI think this post was on IHN last week. Work on your self-esteem, pick his calls, be yourself and enjoy.
DeleteTabitha, thanks dear.
DeletePlease can anyone tell me the exact post, I just went back to all SP for this month and nothing and I know I didn't post it on ihn. Thanks
Sorry everyone: that I am littering this post. I just saw the post. I didn't know Stella made it that big, thanks Stella, God bless you king Stella, all those who advice me to work on my self it noted, he has been calling persistently , but sent msg two days ago that he is traveling out of the country for a month. I will definitely talk to him when he returns. Thanks all.
DeleteGood morning Stella, Good morning Blog Visitors,wishing everyone a great day
ReplyDeleteTo whom it may concern:
ReplyDeleteBefore you jump into fire to defend someone you don't know from Adamu or Ivie, make sure you know the person very well to prevent epic disgrace. Ikwakwakwakwa ikwa ikwa ikwwaaaaaaaakwakwa
To whom it may concern:
While on your daily oversabinus grind as usual, please note that on every post like Chronicles, people are entitled to their opinion. After carefully reading through over a 100 comments, don't make a comment first denigrating other people's opinion (as a childish dummy that you are) and then proceed to offer 8 paragraphs of utter balderdash. See that nobody said your comment was dumb? See as everybody respected themselves? Learn.
Awwwwwnnnnnnnnnnn isn't it such a beautiful morn'?
Roll call anyone?
Bvs.. pls help! Can i dip a cotton soaked in vinegar up into my vagina as a home remedy treatment for warts. I am 3months pregnant and worried cos I dont want to hurt my baby or affect my pregnancy in anyway. Thank you all..
ReplyDeletemadame warts, go to thé hôpital pls. Doctors will prescribe à prégnancy frendly treatment
DeleteDo not.Go see your doctor
DeleteThe Word for Today!Even when our hopes are dimmed, God's light still shines brightly. Trust God and walk in His light. Good Morning, have a fabulous day........Ahead
ReplyDeleteGood morning.
DeleteMorning blogfam, wishing us all a wonderful day ahead. Stella Nwanyioma your hastags are always on point.
ReplyDeleteGood morning beautiful people wishing you guys a fruitful day. Everything kitchen @Omoslin
ReplyDeleteYesterday somebody called Stella à défender. I laugh tire. Stella sorry you hear this blog visitors have no chill. Bv that Want to burn her husband house. Whats will you gain ? Why not sell thé house n kp thé cash
ReplyDeleteThose that called her defender will still be the ones disturbing her for favours.
DeleteDont mind blog visitors. Anywhere belle go, they face.
sharon Aminu please mind the kind of advice you give to people. Why would you advice that anonymous to burn her husbands house??? Even after Stella defended you, you still came out and repeated what you said.....o ga ooo
ReplyDeleteGoodmorning everyone hope we all slept well.
ReplyDeleteRegarding yesterday's Chronicle hmm it seems I sent in that chronicle, cos I'm in similar situation.
The guy doesn't have a JOB, he stays in their family house, his siblings still feeds him down to sending him money for his upkeep mind you, he is not the last child. I got to know about his joblessness when I went to spend some time with him cos we live in different state. He lied he's into partnership buzz with his friend then i snooped and from my findings i realised my man has being lying to me, no partnership business, no job, just nothing. He seats at home Monday to Monday doing nothing reading gossips not even a teaching job that hustling guys does to keep body and soul together. He lack this hustling spirit. When I try to talk to him he says I'm nagging.
He's in his 40's while I'm in my 30's. I have a job, I stay in my apartment alone, I take care myself, I have my business running all glory to God. In our early dating, his people were so concerned about what I do for a living if I have a Job or something that their brother wont marry someone who will be a liability to 'them' until I had to disclose to then what I do for a living and they kept quite immediately.
Sometimes I use my money to buy food in the house and I'm wondering this is just courtship how will be when we finally marry? Who will be footing the bill? I saw my mum did similar thing and I told myself I won't follow her path. A man should beva man that's why they ate the headbof the family. Last night I was on the blog till late hour of the night pondering on that post, I know I'm not in my 30's, sometimes he act childishly without his people there is no life.
I have learnt my lesson not to keep all my eggs in one basket, i did a big mistake cos guys were coming for marriage I foolishly chased them telling them I have a fiancé, I'm engaged bla bla bla right now my relationship is open if any reasonable guy comes I will gladly dump him. I won't allow any lazy man knockoff my hustle.
Pls pardon my error
It's well
What ladies go through all becos the clock is ticking, there is no time on your hands.
God has time for everyone under the sun. Dont let anyone push you to do things you dont want to do.
DeleteStop saying you are too old, no one is too old to get married.
My dear stay o.
DeleteAccording to Mr Ayemii te mi up there and over sabinus from yesterday, you should be looking out for his ambitions and prospects. Just be encouraging him to discover himself as a nanny that you are.
Ignore all those people who even gave their own experiences in dating and marrying men with no future but plenty love and prospects.
Every lump of rock has a diamond within. Keep polishing the rock faithfully daily, the diamond will come through.
Una go see red light clear, una go call am shade of peach. Ki lo ko ni be
Please don't rush yourself,take a day at a time lady,if you don't love your Fiance enough or trust that he is trying to get himself a better future,take a walk,DONOT jump into marriage because you THINK u are getting old,its not how FAR but how WELL!!
DeleteWell said,@Anon 09:45 follow your mind.
DeleteHmmmmmm. The worst is a jobless man that is very comfy with his joblessness.
DeleteGood morning Stella
ReplyDeleteGudmorn bvns
Tanks for vouching for me yesterday ,honestly I was also ashamed of myself saying that,since I don't her psychological state of mind, I shouldn't just opened my mouth and said whatever comes to my mind...I'm so sorry....i really hope she didn't mean what she said and it's was all a joke,i hold u both an apology, I didn't mean what I said please madam, sorry for calling u a liar ...tanks
Madam, pls try and know the difference between past and present tense. It's very important. There's no difference btw you, Tjay or whatever his name is and cutest pat.
Delete@anon.... OK, tanks
DeleteGood morning all. Like Stella said ☝ vouch for your self only. Wonderful day..ahead.
ReplyDeleteAm grateful Lord for a beautiful day like this
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